Hi Zelda! How Are You Doing ?

Hi there, I've seen your answer concerning the 12th house and the chart ruler but what if someone's chart ruler falls into your 8th house? xx

in astrology usually when wanting to indicate a karmic relationships we would look at the 8th and 12th (3rd) house. so whatever placements fall into those of their houses it’s probably a karmic relationship in some way but i’ll still explain my interpretation of their chart ruler in the other person’s 8th house.

chart ruler in 8H synastry: instant attraction. usually the cr person will approach the house person first because they instantly felt so attracted/attached to them for some ‘unknown’ reason. house person may not fully express their feelings towards the cr person fast but they will make them cherish the time they spend together by using their “unique” love language. both always keep going back to one another because it can literally feel impossible to forget and stay away from each other. depending on the whole birth chart this relationship may or may not last but in most cases it doesn’t because this overlay brings major toxicity into the connection and purpose in each other’s lives.

y’all this is so relatable!!!!

credit to them!

POWER INDICATORS

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Pluto in 10th/ Scorpio in 10th- These people radiate a lot of magnetism to the public eye. Everyone wants to get to know them, because they're so secretive. Wether they know it or not they hold a lot of power over people. People tend to follow their advice & orders. Trusting them on every plan. Very cult like.

Prominent Aphrodite- These people are seen by beautiful and sexually appealing from others. People usually respect them and are intimidated of them. Their charm and sexual appeal is what makes them have power. (#1388)

Prominent Aries & Mars / Mars in 1st- In Greek mythology, Aries is represented by Ares the god of war. If this is prominent most people look up and are intimidated by the way the individual is so passionate and radiates sexual & aggressive energy.. They have power because people are scared of their bad side. They don't have to do much.

Prominent Sirene & touching Mars- Person has the ability to draw people in because they seem trustful and understanding. Individual has a lot of power because they radiate very welcoming energy. If it's touching mars especially, the individual radiates a lot of sexual energy which people are drawn to because of Sirene's nature. That's when they have power, when they lure you in and they have every capability of doing so. (#1009). (check out here for Sirene information)

Pluto / Scorpio dominants/ Pluto in 1st- It's simple, these people have the power to transform people for the best. Their words are addicting to others. They can put others on a "spell". These people get shit DONE, and that's very inspiring and motivating to other people. A lot of people may even try to be like them. They should be careful though, with all this power they have they can easily use it for bad and can at times accidentally turn the weapon to themselves and they can easily be despised. Double edged sword.

Saturn/ Capricorn dominants/ Saturn in 1st- This one may shock a lot of people, but of course let me explain. Saturn rules over the Greek's god name Chorus which deals with karma, meaning do not fucking mess with them unless you wanna deal with a bunch of bad karma. These people posses the natural ability to get justice even if it's in a few months or etc. They are understanding and practical individuals, they are not the type to get "revenge" because they know they can trust on karma to help. Always be honest and truthful to them with GOOD intentions.

Prominent Lilith/ Lilith in 8th/ Lilith in 1st- These people express their rawest and truest side and that's what pulls people in. These people get very sexualized, however they can learn to use that to their advantage. They can get favors and stuff out of people that the native wouldn't usually do or even think of. That's how they get power, they don't give a fuck about anything and do whatever the fuck they want. Usually, these people intimidate others & could even be talked bad about, but they have power over them that way because they're thinking of a prominent Lilith even if it's in a bad way.

Uranus/ Aquarius Dominants/ Uranus in 1st- These people are unique and they know it and they love that about themselves. The energy they have attracts a lot of people who will copy them. They subconsciously have a lot of power over people. A lot of people are attracted to their quirkiness and everything about them. Everyone tries to be them & but they can't be fullied copied as they're always changing. Everyone wonders what they're up to next, because you can never pin them down. Don't try to even.

Sun / Leo Dominants/ Sun in 1st- Person has really strong ego and will to do things. They have a creativity that is unmatched and they tend to leave a creative spark on other people. People tend to love these people because of their talents and overall charisma they possess. These people could literally say the weirdest shit and everyone would still love it because they have their own little shine and spark to things, which is remarkable.

Moon Dominants/ Cancer Dominants/ Moon in 1st/ Moon in 10th- These people are seen by the lunar qualities. They possess sensitive and feminine nature, that's what draws people to them. They have power over people because they simply use emotions to guide them and a lot of people sympathize with them for that. They are also seen as very psychic or intuitive by others. A lot of people trust their words on everything. They have power over people's emotional foundation which they can destroy anytime.

Let me know if you guys want part two;))

RANDOM ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS PT.12

THESE NOTES ARE ONLY A STUDY OF MINE AND HAS/HAS NOT BEEN PROVEN YET, SO IF IT DOES NOT RESONATE WITH YOU, FORGIVE ME AS IT WAS ONLY A STUDY/OBSERVATION OF MINE.

I DO NOT PLAGIARIZE, COPY OR REWORD ANY OF MY FELLOW ASTROLOGY OBSERVERS' POSTS AND I DEMAND THE SAME IN RETURN.

THIS POST HAS 18+ OBSERVATIONS AS WELL, so please be cautious if you choose to read further.

Mars in the 2nd house natives are very very competitive in nature. Anything and everything is a competition to them. 🙉😵‍💫

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Venus in the 3rd house natives are very good at flirting. My friend has this and he really says things that make me blush...and makes me wanna crush his face lol. 🥴😩

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Mercury in the 2nd house natives usually make promises a lot but quite often don't fulfill them or forget about them later on. They are more Talk, less Walk. 😮‍💨👍

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Sun in the 12th house natives are curious about sex and 18+ stuff at a very very young age. By that, I don't always mean losing your virginity at a young age. I mean learning about all this and being curious about it at a very young age, like at the age you are not supposed to be thinking about all this. 🙇‍♀️😶

EXAMPLE: I have this placement too and yes, I was at least 5 years old when I wondered whether people had intercourse (even though I didn't know it was called that, at that time)...yeah, when I found out they actually did, I was like EW and then I was like "DAMN. EW but WOAH" and was even more curious and learnt a lot about everything before I turned 10 years old. I did feel ashamed that I had such curiosities at such a raw age, but I am trying to accepted it through Shadow Work 🤧. NO. I never had "it", don't jump to conclusions people. ✋🙂

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Fire sign Venus natives crave reciprocation in relationships, otherwise they don't want the relationship at all. If they remember the small things about you, they want you to remember the small things about them as well.

If you send them a song, they will send you a song back as a message. You'll know a fire Venus native actually likes you or even Loves you for that matter, if they reciprocate your actions. 🔥🫂

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An Earth Mars woman likes a man who can stand up for her. Not a coward or a man who runs the minute she has problems. An Earth Mars woman craves a man who would protect her when she can't, mainly Capricorn Mars ladies. 💁‍♀️🤺

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In any kind of synastry, be it with a friend, a family member, a lover, an acquaintance, etc, 8th house SATURN overlay will always either:

Cause the Saturn person to intentionally or unintentionally hurt the house person, making their insecurities and fears worser. The house person will love and hold the Saturn person in high regards despite being hurt several times. 😕🤧

The Saturn person and the house person will be the ones calming each others insecurities and fears, being the ones proving them wrong. They will the first person in eachother's lives who prove those insecurities wrong and will prove to eachother that people like both of them exist. 🫂✨

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Saturn in the 5th house natives don't just wanna have flings, random hook-ups and one night stands with anyone. They want down bad serious relationships where they will only have sex with their committed partner. Sure, they will find some chapter attractive, but they won't give it all for just anyone. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🤌

Usually these individuals are afraid of not pleasing their partner in bed and not being fun for their partner. These natives are afraid that their partners will get bored of them one day. They also are sort of afraid of physical intimacy because they don't think they look good enough naked and their partner will judge their body. 🥲😮‍💨

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Mercury in 2nd house or Taurus natives are more logical thinking and have a more realistic approach towards life while Mercury in 12th house or Pisces natives are more dreamy and kinda delulu with their approach towards life and also have more emotional thinking.

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I know damn well I have 8th house synastry with someone either when:

I instantly find them hard to look away from and when we catch eye contact, we just keep looking at each other. It's like no name is required, just two strangers talking to each other through their eyes. [BENEFIC OVERLAYS]

When I am annoyed by their presence for no damn reason, like I just hate looking at their face and hearing them talk, and they clearly hate me too from their body language and behavior around me. [MALEFIC OVERLAYS]

Personally, I also know damn well I'm always the house person *emotional damage* 🥲👍.

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In composite chart and synastry chart, I feel like Moon plays a very important role in showing the emotional connection, understanding and reliability between both the individuals. When Moon sits in reciprocation houses (2nd,4rth,6th,8th, or 12th) both the individuals take each other seriously when it comes to emotions.

If the Composite chart has Cancer rising, then the connection revolves around emotional dependency and emotional depth but the connection will be very unsteady and unpredictable.

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6th house synastry (BENEFIC PLACEMENTS) is actually so so fun and beautiful, both the individuals love spending time with each other. The planet person brings a lot of new things to the life of the house person, especially if Uranus is there.

The house person usually shows their affection through Acts of Service, like opening the door for you, letting you take a seat first, helping you carry your bags, helping you learn something, making you cookies, etc.

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Saturn in sexual houses (5th,8th, or 12th), Inner planets in Capricorn or Aquarius, or Saturn's connection with those house lords definitely is an indicator that chains, being tied up, tying up their partner, being put on their knees or putting their partner on their knees, their sexual discipline being tested by their partner or them testing their partners sexual discipline, etc are all part of the natives kinks and desires in bed.

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Moon in Capricorn or Aquarius or 10th/11th house can also have, being tied up, chained and having their discipline tested by their partner be a huge turn on and desire for them, in bed. When I say discipline, I mean them obeying their partner when their partner tells them not to cum to test if they would listen to them, stuff like that.

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Is it me or are all Aquarius Sun or Moon very very slow in responding to texts most of the time? Like personally, I am so tired of answering texts and I spend so much time doing nothing instead of answering them lmao.

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Is anyone else not just a particular zodiac sign by birth but also has both their inner planets, Sun and Moon in their birth Zodiac? Comment down if you do, cuz I am an AQUARIUS Sun and Moon and I am born and AQUARIAN. If you checked my blood with a microscope, you'd find Aquarius written all over hahahaha 😂🙌.

If yes, then you purely behave like that zodiac sign, even if you have a Day chart or Night chart.

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The driest texters possible on planet Earth are Aquarius Saturn or 11th house Saturn. They are the natives who text short or take a long time to text back. Most of the time they read messages but don't respond back. These natives, most of the time, prefer offline conversation over online texting.

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You can't deny this, Moon in 11th house or Aquarius individuals are amazing at sexting. It's in their blood to naturally turn their partner on with just a few flirty texts. These natives like sexting too because they like making their their partner imagine what they would do with them and not do it with them for real lol. Perfect illusion 🤫😂.

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Taurus placements or 2nd house placements (esp. Stellium) love Desert's and chocolate. They love waffles and donuts and stuff like that. These placements love eating food in general and if you judge them for it, they'll eat you too😂🤫 jkjk.

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I've observed that a person with Exalted Mars or developed Mars has a good spice tolerance while Debilitated Mars or underdeveloped Mars has quite a weak spice tolerance. Other Mars placements and signs have an average spice tolerance.

My sister has Mars in Taurus in the 3rd house and she LOVES spicy food, like she wants the level of spice that would make her tounge fall off lol 🔥😭. While one of my friend has underdeveloped Scorpio Mars in 2nd house and he cannot tolerate spice AT ALL.

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Uranus in the 12th house will most definitely cause sleeping issues. Why? Most people say, it's because it's underdeveloped in this house but I think Uranus is a very active planet, a planet that only keeps moving and jumping here and there.

In my head, I see Uranus as this young kindergarten boy who's hyperactive and can't decide what he wants for sure. So when you Uranus sits in the 12th house, a house of mental and subconscious work, a house where planets are deserted and left in the fog, a house where there's more subconscious work than physical, Uranus get's frustrated and suppressed here.

It's like expecting the child to relax and observe instead of jumping so much. Well, Uranus is also a rebel so he will try his level best to go against this house which will affect the native. How? The native will have a very wavering subconscious, always thinking and thinking, about something or the other. Even in the native's sleep, the native is made to see his/her future events, further making the subconscious work even more than it should.

Uranus will disrupt the mental peace and subconscious of the native, making the native constantly analyze every detail of events and dreams in their life. These natives find it hard to rest in their sleep because their astral body is very active and roams everywhere during their sleep causing the native to wake up tired.

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Thankyou for reading through this today, I hope you have a wonderful day ahead. I am forever grateful for all your love and support.

HOW TO SEE HOW YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WILL END IN ASTROLOGY~

This is a way to see the energies surrounding breakups. How patterns subconsciously play out. It doesn’t have to be a breakup. Could be a seperation.

Just endings in general. First of all, head to astro.com head to extended chart selection . 

Click on “Chart Type” >>

 “Composite Chart, Midpoint- method (2)”

Look at what sign the 12th house is in. This will tell you the energy sounding the ending. You can use this to your advantage as well.

Can I find out with no birth-time? Don’t think so. I think if one party had their birth time it might be possible. You can experiment. 

Here are some basic info for the signs in the 12th house: 

Composite 12th in Aries= Karmic issues with anger. Doing stuff without thinking clearly. Ego issues in relationship.

Composite 12th house in Taurus= Issues with Stubborness. Difficult to ground your energy. Don’t focus on the superficial parts of the relationship too much.

Composite 12th house in Gemini= Hard time understanding each other at times. Not good mental understanding of each other.

Composite 12th house in Cancer= Tells feelings only during bad moments. Hard to open up. Emotionally this will suffer.

Composite 12th house in Leo= Ego with not wanting to come off as too “clingy”. Issues with giving and getting affection.

Composite 12th house in Virgo= Parties are both very critical of each other. Difficult to handle basic things in relationship. Insecurity.

Composite 12th house in Libra= Not much respect or/and commitment issues plays out here. Hard to be fully peaceful. Not decisive relationship. Doesn’t know what to do.

Composite 12th house in Scorpio=  Issues with violence and abuse. Hard to find some passion. Jealousy issues play out.

Composite 12th house in Sagittarius= Hard to take care of one another. Issues with Independence.  Not taking things seriously. 

Composite 12th house in Aquarius= Kind of similar to Sagittarius. Hard to make changes in relationships. Independence issues. Weird energy surrounding relationship. Others might react weirdly to your struggles.

Composite 12th house in Pisces= Hard to tap into intution with this relationship. Issues with victimizing yourself. Issues of the relationship with cycles and just constant energy of nothing ever going right. 

Composite 12th house in Capricorn= Issues with a third party like an authority & can’t plan well. Ambitious but nothing seems to progress sometimes.

Planets in Composite 12th house

Also this can also have positive aspects! But here I’m talking about the negative parts.

Sun in 12th= Hiding parts of yourself from this person. Being quite delusional when it comes to the relationship itself. The relationship is a secret to others. Difficult to express.

Moon in 12th=  Difficulty opening up emotionally to the party. More give from one of the parties. You need to find security in this relationship.

Mercury in 12th= May feel like you can not open up to each other. One can be more reserved and the other one tries to help and be understanding. Not on the same page.

Venus in 12th= Hard time showing love and affection. Old soul type of relationship.

Mars in 12th= Not much driven & less focused. May feel like this relationship stimulates like a job.

Jupiter in 12th= This doesn’t bring much issues. This is good. Can see things very clearly. 

Saturn in 12th= You don’t like dealing with issues in the relationship you like to bury it. Hard time moving on from the past issues.

Uranus in 12th= Honestly this is a weird placement to have. Weird endings. This is the type of placement from a couple that breaks-up for very strange reason. The past and random stuff that comes up. Secrets revealed out of nowhere. Sudden endings. And I can confirm that as well. 

Neptune in 12th= Can’t move on from what has happened. But this is good for Neptune to be in.

Pluto in 12th= Someone in the party wants to have all the control. Battle for control. One partner does everything and one doesn’t. Secrets and lies play a role. Make sure you guys are doing everything equally.

🙂 Give feedback in the comments! Have a great day!

💘 The 7th House Ruler Through the Houses

7th House Ruler in the 1st House

You learned love by becoming what others needed. Somewhere across lifetimes, you absorbed the belief that belonging is earned through disappearance. So now, your identity folds itself around the shape of the other. You call it empathy. You call it connection. But sometimes it’s amnesia. This placement is not about codependency, it’s about forgetting your edges. You don’t fall in love, you merge. And then wonder where you went. The self becomes a suggestion, flickering in someone else’s reflection. You are not the echo of anyone’s desire. You are the original pulse. The face beneath the mask. The soul before it contorted itself into something lovable.

7th House Ruler in the 2nd House

You want to be worth the keeping. Not for what you give, or how you hold, or who you become to stay. Just… worth it. But there is a part of you that doesn't quite believe it. A flicker behind your eyes that still asks: Will I be chosen when I’m not proving anything? You've carried that question for lifetimes, sometimes in silence, sometimes in gold, sometimes in staying too long with someone who never really saw you. You learned to equate closeness with compensation, as if love must be earned through self-erasure. But you're not here to barter with your being. You are not a currency. You are not an apology. You are not something to be deserved. Let love come when you're still. Let it echo back, not because you've become more but because you were always enough.

7th House Ruler in the 3rd House

You know how to mimic connection with words. You’ve spent lifetimes translating emotion into language, writing your longings into poems, answering questions no one asked just to feel close. Conversation became survival. Cleverness became camouflage. And so, you speak beautifully sometimes instead of being known. You are fluent in the dialect of detachment. You can make someone feel seen without ever letting them feel you. Because in some far-off memory, expression led to exposure. Truth led to exile. But your voice wasn’t meant to hide you. It was meant to carry your soul into the open. Let someone hear the words you don’t polish. The ones that tremble. The ones that undo you.

7th House Ruler in the 4th House

You carry the blueprint of love in your nervous system. Not from this life, from the ones where affection was quiet, survival-based, coded into ritual instead of spoken. You remember the sound of withheld tenderness. You remember reading the emotional weather of a room like scripture. Now, connection doesn’t feel safe unless it feels familiar and sometimes, familiarity means walking on eggshells. You don’t trust warmth that comes too easily. You wait for the moment it turns cold. But love is not a reenactment. Home is not supposed to feel like a test. Let yourself be held in a space that doesn’t ask you to monitor your every breath. Let your heart stop bracing. You don’t have to keep building intimacy out of ruins.

7th House Ruler in the 5th House

Your love is laced with longing for something unnamed. Not joy, not romance, something stranger. Something that lived in your chest before you ever touched desire. It’s not about expression. It’s not about passion. It’s about remembering how to feel without bracing. You’ve worn so many versions of beauty you forgot which one was yours. In other lives, you might have been adored for the wrong reasons, or watched as something precious to you was misunderstood, objectified, mythologized. Now, you carry a quiet distance from your own delight, unsure if you can trust it. You don’t want to be consumed. You want to be seen without being taken. There is a deep ache here, not to shine, but to exist in your full texture without being cast into anyone else’s story. Let love arrive as a presence that says: I don’t need you to impress me. I want to know what your heart sounds like when no one is listening.

7th House Ruler in the 6th House

You’ve made love a ritual of endurance. It’s not that you expect to suffer, it’s that you’ve confused suffering with devotion. You offer your time, your labor, your capacity to hold someone else’s chaos. You call it loyalty. But sometimes, it’s penance. In other lives, love was responsibility. Service. A sacred kind of self-abandonment. Now, you measure your worth by how useful you are. You treat your tenderness like a transaction: If I care enough, they’ll stay. If I carry enough, they’ll choose me. But love is not earned through exhaustion. You are not here to be someone's stability while starving for your own. Let someone meet you in your softness, not your sacrifice. Let them stay when you have nothing left to offer.

7th House Ruler in the 7th House

You are made for reflection, but not for erasure. Partnership is stitched into the fabric of your path. You don't just crave connection, you become whole through it. But there is danger in this mirror, too. If you’re not careful, you vanish into the reflection. You’ve spent lifetimes defining yourself through the eyes of another. Becoming their projection. Their dream. Their container. So now, you recognize love as alignment but sometimes forget that alignment requires two whole selves. This is not about attracting love. It's about remembering who you are outside of it. You don’t need to contort yourself to stay in view. You are not a placeholder. You are not a backdrop. You are a world of your own. Let love orbit you, not eclipse you.

7th House Ruler in the 8th House

Love has always been a place of unraveling. You don’t “date.” You initiate. You merge. You descend. Partnership isn’t a bond, it’s a reckoning. A portal. A ritual of shedding skin. You seek out the ones who undress your psyche, who break open the vault, who offer you transformation disguised as intimacy. But be honest, are you letting yourself be met, or are you testing to see who survives you? Somewhere in your past-lives, closeness meant betrayal, or loss, or possession. And now, even when love is safe, you brace. This is a lifetime of rewriting that contract. Of letting someone hold you without having to earn it through blood. Let love be deep without being destructive. Let someone see you without tearing you apart.

7th House Ruler in the 9th House

You remember love as a pilgrimage. In other lives, it began with distance, foreign lands, spiritual longing, shared purpose, far horizons. You didn’t just want a partner. You wanted someone to walk the edge of the world with. Someone whose love cracked you open to the eternal. Now, you still crave expansion. You want love that stretches your beliefs, your borders, your body’s memory of what’s possible. But be careful, you might keep running toward the infinite to avoid being touched in the present. Not every soul encounter comes with a lightning strike. Not every truth needs a telescope. Let love meet you in the now. In the closeness. In the simplicity of being seen on an ordinary afternoon. You’re not here to find heaven through someone else. You’re here to remember it was never separate.

7th House Ruler in the 10th House

You wear your relationships like architecture. You build love into your legacy, shape your partnerships like cathedrals, sacred, structured, high-stakes. In other lives, intimacy was status, strategy, survival. You learned to tie your worth to what was witnessed. To what the world could admire. Now, you still measure the success of love by what it looks like from the outside. You perform stability. You pose in intimacy. You know how to play the role. But love does not require a performance review. You don’t need to be impressive to be chosen. The most meaningful devotion may never make it into the biography. Let yourself be loved in the quiet. In the unposted. In the places where the scaffolding falls away and only the truth remains.

7th House Ruler in the 11th House

You are fluent in potential. You don’t fall for people, you fall for what could be. The version of them you see in their quietest moment, the glimpse they haven’t stepped into yet. You build futures before foundations. You speak to the part of someone they don’t know how to hold and then wonder why you’re left holding it alone. In other lifetimes, your vision was medicine. Now, it’s also a mask. You hide behind ideas. You chase resonance over reality. You long for something collective, but ache in the quiet of what’s personal. It’s not that your love is too big, it’s that it wants to touch the sky before it’s touched the skin. Let someone meet you where your hands are. Let intimacy be the dream you don’t have to explain.

7th House Ruler in the 12th House

You’ve loved in silence. Across lifetimes, you’ve poured yourself into connections no one else could see. Soul bonds that never took shape. Longings that lingered like perfume in an empty room. Now, you still feel people before you know them. You remember them before they arrive. But this sensitivity is both a gift and a ghost. You fall for potential, for psychic proximity, for the ache of what almost was. You grieve what never became, and sometimes, you hide behind the fog so you don’t have to risk being touched. But love is not safer in secrecy. You are not safer in silence. Let yourself be known in the flesh, not just the dream. Let love find you where you are, not only where you’ve been.

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Hiiiii, Can you talk about mars in the 7th house synastry? but with more details please ;D

Hi,

this one hits home haha. I'm the Mars person in the 7th house Synastry currently!

I noticed it really varies based on the sign. So that that into account as well.

MARS IN THE 7TH HOUSE SYNASTRY

the Mars person could be more into the 7th house, or they just want things quicker, they could be very decisive already at the beginning

Mars person usually has another person talking into their ear, like a friend, a mother waiting for you to get married etc.

7th house acts even more decisive than usually, but they also give out mix signals, could flirt with Mars person a lot one day and then they brush it off like it's nothing and y'all just hanging

7th house often thinks Mars person moves too fast

Mars person could have manipulative tactics, they present themselves to 7th house like they have so much in common, but 7th house see through it and knows that those interests are not so genuine

both are incredibly strong and stubborn individuals

7th house might want things more slow burn or just slow moving, so that intimacy and real connection builds up

7th house could be non-committal, wanting to keep the options open

Mars person is really competitive and wants to win at all costs, Mars person wants to be the number one and one and only out of all 7th house's choices

Mars could also confess feelings first or propose a partnership

Mars person is also very time oriented, like "you will propose then, we will get married when I say so", it looks like Mars is the dominant in the partnership (to outsiders), when in reality both want a lot of equality, fairness and reciprocal energy

both love doing things for each other, a lot of small, thoughtful gifts, gestures, Mars person constantly tries to romance 7th house or flirt with them

some compliments would be really sweet, while other compliments could be a bit superfical at times (: Like you would think they are not genuine

both attached at each other' hip, always seen together

when one is missing, it's like "where is so and so?" people will always ask you about the other

you might become "one" when together, like one mind, one body, you will feel like you are having your minds glued together and thinking with one brain when in conversation with each other, I hope this makes sense

might be a bit of a runner and chaser dynamic

you are both non-confrontational most of the time, you try to avoid arguments and anything that would be deemed as "not perfect"

7th house might have been envious of Mars person or might have not liked them that much, there was something that irked them, even if they were just projecting, but they probably noticed that the person is really charming

they both dress in a similar manner, think, could have the same preferences for food, both have different argument style

7th house could be more experienced in partnerships than the Mars person, can be Mars person's first partnership

Was it detailed enough haha? I hope so :)

I hope you are doing well,

@astroismypassion

Lilith through the Degrees😫😫

0° – The Raw Rebel

Lilith’s energy is undiluted and intense here. This person is unapologetically rebellious and often triggers strong reactions from others without trying. They exude raw, untamed power.

1° – The Independent One

Lilith at this degree craves absolute independence. There’s a fearless, pioneering quality, but also a tendency to push others away due to a “me against the world” mindset.

2° – The Sensual Siren

A deeply magnetic energy—whether consciously or not, these people attract strong desires and obsessions from others. There’s a connection to pleasure, beauty, and indulgence.

3° – The Trickster

Lilith at this degree has a playful but chaotic nature. There’s an ability to manipulate situations, often without even realizing it. Words and wit are weapons here.

4° – The Silent Power

A deeply reserved yet unshakable presence. They don’t need to scream to be intimidating—just their energy alone makes people respect (or fear) them.

5° – The Free Spirit

Lilith here refuses to be boxed in by tradition or rules. There’s a strong urge to break societal norms, especially regarding gender roles, relationships, or creative expression.

6° – The Forbidden Healer

Lilith at this degree has a deep connection to pain, healing, and transformation. They may attract wounded souls or play the role of a guide, but their wisdom often comes from personal suffering.

7° – The Seductive Mind

A mix of mystery and intelligence—people with this placement can be dangerously charming. They know exactly what to say to pull others in (or push them away).

8° – The Power Player

Lilith at 8° is all about control, dominance, and influence. These individuals either own their power or find themselves caught in power struggles with others.

9° – The Untamed Dreamer

A deeply idealistic yet rebellious energy. This person may struggle with feeling trapped in reality, constantly seeking a life that is wilder, freer, and more meaningful.

10° – The Social Rule-Breaker

Lilith here challenges societal structures. They may be known for rejecting authority, questioning norms, or reshaping institutions in a way that benefits the “outsiders.”

11° – The Unpredictable One

This degree gives Lilith an erratic, electric energy. Others can’t predict them, and that makes them both intriguing and intimidating. There’s a genius-madness balance here.

12° – The Illusionist

Lilith at 12° is skilled at blending in while secretly staying untamed. They can play the role society expects, only to break free when least expected. A master of deception.

13° – The Boundary Destroyer

This placement rejects restrictions—whether it’s in relationships, spirituality, or lifestyle choices. They may also struggle with blurred personal boundaries, either craving total control or none at all.

14° – The Enigmatic Siren

A powerful mix of intellect and seduction. These people often have a quiet magnetism that makes others curious about them. They attract attention without even trying.

15° – The Shadow Walker

Lilith at 15° moves between light and darkness with ease. They may feel drawn to taboo topics, the occult, or hidden power structures. Their presence alone can feel haunting.

16° – The Unchained Heart

They crave absolute emotional and physical freedom. Relationships must be equal and liberating, or they’ll run. This degree can also make them immune to emotional manipulation.

17° – The Disruptor

Lilith here embodies chaos as a catalyst for change. They may struggle with constantly being “too much” for others, but their rebellious energy forces necessary growth.

18° – The Dark Visionary

A deep connection to hidden truths, psychic insights, and underground power. Lilith at this degree often challenges people’s comfort zones with their ideas, art, or energy.

19° – The Siren’s Curse

Magnetic but dangerous—Lilith at 19° attracts obsessive energy from others. They have an intense, hypnotic aura but must learn to protect their own energy from toxicity.

20° – The Unforgiving One

Lilith here holds grudges forever. If betrayed, they will burn bridges without hesitation. Others may see them as cold or detached, but they simply refuse to tolerate disrespect.

21° – The Wild Wanderer

They reject routine, comfort zones, and anything that feels too safe. Lilith at 21° is a cosmic drifter, always searching for a new thrill, experience, or untamed passion.

22° – The Ruthless Strategist

Lilith at this degree is calculating, patient, and in full control of their power. They don’t act impulsively—they move like a chess player, always ten steps ahead.

23° – The Hypnotic Rebel

A rebellious nature that draws people in rather than pushing them away. They challenge norms so effortlessly that others feel naturally compelled to follow them.

24° – The Forbidden Lover

A highly seductive yet elusive energy. This placement often involves themes of taboo love, forbidden attraction, or power struggles in relationships.

25° – The Untouchable One

They have an air of mystique and danger that makes others obsessed—but they remain emotionally distant. People want to figure them out, but they rarely let anyone in.

26° – The Unbreakable Force

Lilith at 26° is resilient and relentless. No matter how many times they’re knocked down, they come back stronger. Others may fear their ability to rise from the ashes.

27° – The Subtle Destroyer

They don’t look like a troublemaker, but their mere presence challenges the status quo. Their power lies in their quiet defiance—they dismantle systems from the inside.

28° – The Cosmic Witch

Lilith here is deeply spiritual, intuitive, and connected to the unseen. They often feel like an outsider in this world, drawn to magic, astrology, or esoteric knowledge.

29° – The Fated Femme Fatale

A karmic placement—Lilith at 29° feels destined for intense, transformative experiences. They may struggle with being either feared or desired, but never ignored.

How would Lilith in 5th house :)??

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Lilith 5fth house

The 5fth house is the house of sexuality, pleasure, creativity, and children.

Ruled by the luminous Sun. When Lilith entered this house, she simply thrives. In terms of sex, while 8H talks more about transformative sex, healing sex or "making love"; 5H is based of pleasure, of fulfilling one's primal needs.

Lilith here could have various strings of one night stands. 5H like to be pleased and Lilith likes to dominate. These natives are like dangerous lions in bed, they put the D in BDSM. They're serial daters, people see them as higly desirable and attractive. Almost similar to 7H Lilith here as they attract others using Lilith energy but they are way less mysterious and are instead more upfront, all it takes is their smile and others will want to bow down.

Fun. Fun. Fun. Adrenaline and serotonin is like a drug to them. Activities that allow them to lead, to be in control will get them excited. Life of the party. Others would want to have then at gatherings. They shine naturally and can turn the most innocent actions to something provocative.

As children (5H) they may have had issues with showing their more promiscuous side or even simply their darker side. They felt as if they're the only one who has these values about sex, about art and life in general. Creatively tortured.

These natives are horrified of emotions and something thats below the surface. This is perhaps why many of them chose to stay like this, their promiscuity is their mask. They HATE it when others try to guess their emotions

^ Either this or they're very keen about who they let into their circle, as they understand that the pleasure is truly what makes them stay. Would never stay with someone who doesn't give them the light and energy they crave. They NEED that fire. That feeling of eyes meeting in a crowded bar. They love a good challenge.

Complex relationship with children(5H). Can put up with them but get scared by the thought of having children (esp HARSH aspects to personal aspects). Lilith is nor the Moon or Venus, she's not even as nearly as maternal like the two. In her world, it is her and the unknown. The idea of pregnancy scares these people.

Once they grow older and matured as time passes, this dynamic will likely change. They will be more open towards children.

Their traumatic childhood may contribute to why they don't want children, feel like children will take aways their "freedom" or personal power. Deeply scared of true intimacy. Lilith rebels from traditional values and the ideas of "settling down" freak these people out.

They have great luck in business as their charming nature are very contagious. People perceive them as calculating but determined.

Lilith's willpower makes her see things for what they really are. They understand that eventually the fun must stop. This ignites the fire in them, thinking about endings.

Lilith 5H individuals adore tortured artist, they're amazed at paintings where the artist can correctly captured the rawest and most primal side of human.

The type of people to look at a piece of art and immediately get the meaning behind it. They know it's their flaky nature that some might underestimate them and grow jealous of them, yet they see this as a compliment.

To these people, attention from enemies are a reward. They will never beg for anything. Prideful. These natives do not like to be vulnerable.

Creative in bed. Can honestly make great politicians if they wanted to. Art comes to them naturally.

Proud of their Lilith, they embrace Lilith trait and let her take over when needed, in fun settings. gathering with loved ones and close friends, the signs their lilith are in now shine and dominate over others.

Lucks when it comes to careers. Their personal lives may be messy, scandalous and inappropriate even. But they truly don't pay much attention. To them, jealousy is the biggest compliment others can give.

The ideal partner. Others crave their fun and relaxed nature, they hide great pain and past trauma so deep down that sometimes, they drown themselves in partis and pleasures, in sex and lust to forget.

People talk about them. They just do. But not in the way people talk about Lilith 7H. But others are more curious about their next conquest, who they're sleeping with.

Their long term partner should be similar to them. Someone who's detached, cold and rational but knows how to open them up. They need a strong partner who will have their back. Lilith is in a fixed house after all. To them, betrayal is a slap to their faces.

Hardworkers if well aspected. Know that in order to have fun they have to earn it. If have harsh placements to sun, saturn or MC, will then very likely to "sleep their way to the top"

Here are some of the basics I've noticed so far:) Lemme know your opinions!Let's discuss it together🖤

hi♥️ i was wondering if you can please describe mars in the 1st house

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Mars in the 1st house

These natives emanate a lot of strength and power, sometimes they can intimidate people because of the way they approach others, the seriousness on their face or the way they project themselves so that no one dares to mess with them or those who they want. They are people with a lot of energy and a lot of internal passion, it is evident when they like or dislike something and it is particularly difficult for them to cover up their dislike for something or someone. They give bossy and indomitable vibes and many people love this, along with their chaotic personality, strong temperament and the mentality of not backing down to any problem that may arise.

They usually have an intense appeal, they attract attention because of how sexy they can be for other people, their body is usually quite attractive and strong. The look is intense and it is likely that they have some type of mark on the face, scars or moles in areas that are considered sexy [above the lip or on either of the two cheeks] are common. They may become sexualized at some point in their life. Another thing they stand out for is how self-confident they seem, plus that go-getter attitude of "I know where I'm going and I'm always on top." They are people with incredible potential to be leaders, this due to critical experiences that they had to live from an early age that prompted them to care for others, decide for themselves, become independent and make quick decisions.

Taking one of the previous points, it is very likely that in their early environment they had constant arguments, or simply lived in a tense and complicated place, which made them develop this defensive attitude, alert and easily triggered to violence, even if it doesn't happen to them directly. They may have felt that others did not defend them and that they simply could not count on them, so they do not like to be vulnerable or give others reasons to treat them as inferior, hence they know perfectly well that those who will always defend them will be themselves. They may find it difficult to work in a team and prefer to work on their own. They are quite competitive when something catches their attention or they are passionate about.

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