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solar return: i'm 24 1/2, here are my observations so far

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1h ruler in the 6h: 100% i have become more aware of my health / well-being. my daily routines have dramatically shifted. i set a goal to do 30mins of movement 5 days a week and that has changed my life! i did recently have a mini health problem that landed me at a gastroenterologist... and the answer was i don't get enough fiber and i am severely dehydrated. which oddly enough my eye doctor told me i have very few tear ducts which is causing eye strain and making my vision worse which is another hydration problem. the answer hasn't been eyedrops... i have tried 3 medicated drops - the answer is in the fire rising. WARM EYE COMPRESSES.

2h pluto: unexpected gains or losses... guys that stock market crash - omg i lost 100s i was miffed. power struggles over money... mind you this is my 11h ruler. my friendships and those involved with my friends... i am acting a bit stupid with my money... i have definitely taken charge of many financial situations so far this year. someone pray for me...

2h ruler square venus: my financial situation is clashing with my social life. there is tension in my relationships due to money-related issues, which are issues of differing financial values and struggles over shared resources. i am on this path of save save save for the future considering the future and careers in it feel more and more uncertain while my friends are like who cares spend and see what happens. i don't think i'm unable to meet material standards - i'm simply unwilling to when i see that the price doesn't match my values, needs, or wants and especially when i notice something comparable that will bring joy at a lesser price.

3h neptune rx: this is honestly the worst part of this year so far - conversations are not as straightforward as i'd like.... the vagueness in communication... garbage! just tell me what you mean lol i'm so tired of having to guess then present to people what they asked me to do then they are like "no, i wanted this instead"... i need to work on clarifying my intentions and expectations to avoid misunderstandings for the rest of the year. i think i am being clear in my communication but then no one responds until its a huge mess (i have so many examples of this...).

5h ruler in the 12h: working on creative projects in private... lowkey was this my social media hiatus?? like i fell off and i got so much done. but another possibility - my friend moved up her wedding and i happen to be working on a top secret art project for the couple. i have maybe another month or two of progress i need to make to finish this project/gift.

5h ruler sextile mc: showcase showcase showcase when it's done it will no doubt draw a lot of attention - no to toot my own horn but it's beautiful. and i plan to get it professionally framed...

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🌸!Astro notes!🌸

- Uranus can signify how resistant or open we are to change and diversity.

- Gemini Moons tend to be more closed off about expressing their emotions, they're usually not the type to cry in front of others. They do, however, see the great value and importance of emotions. They tend to retreat when they experience an overwhelming emotion, and will tackle this phenomon with a more logical approach. If they don't have time to retreat, they'll take a more logical approach to their words and can come across as manipulative. Gemini Moons tend to take their decisions based on their gut, yet guided by their rational mind. They don't act out of blind anger, unless they have suppressed that emotion for quite some time. They tend to feel misunderstood, especially in conversations and early childhood. If wrongly coerced, they can act as though they're unemotional and take cold decisions. They make steadfast leaders with a generous heart. While Gemini can take the lead, they prefer not to be oppressive and may see a leader function as too limited or too much responsibility over others. They prefer to let everyone form their own opinion.

- air signs (including those with air moons) tend to know a lot of random little facts.

- Leos ultimately wish to make their own decision and they will make their own decision. They tend to use their own head and decide for themselves.

- Aries can be very protective over those they love.

- Cancers tend to put up a front and are reluctant to cry, which makes them seem defensive. They tend to have trust issues.

- Water ascendants tend to come across as exceptionally innocent and cute, especially Pisces and Cancer Ascendants.

- Virgo, in any placement, tends to make one overanalyze that part of their life to the point of having to make lists and plans for everything. They're usually overly anxious about that part of their life.

- a fire ascendant can overpower one's water sun. The native will most likely see themselves as introverts, though.

- Nessus, while it can show an abuser, I tend to see it more accurately expressed as a general theme of abuse where oppositions tend to suppress the planet, squares tend to draw out the darker sides of the planets, conjugations/sextiles tend to enhance the planets influence on the abuse and trines may signify indirect enhancement (like parents abusing one another but not the native). All in all it shows a theme of abuse and the aspects show how it manifests.

- Harsh Chiron aspects may indicate self harm.

- A well aspected chiron may indicate a naturally gifted healer, like in spiritual techniques such as reiki.

- Aquarius positions tend to bring a lot of confusion about the subject of the planet or house along with them. Ex. Aquarius sun signs tend to struggle with their identity and finding themselves, but once they do they're vastly unique and sure of themselves. They may feel like they have a lack of self or various different sides to themselves that don't all fit into one personality.

- Leos can have a sense of self-righteousness to the point of making others feel insecure about expressing their opinions.

- Cancer, Pisces and Libra can be overly defensive of their opinions because they feel like their opinions get misunderstood or overruled, or like they're always wrong.

- People with Libra in an empty 11th house may struggle to maintain relationships or friendships, usually this causes frustration in the native.

- Sagittarius positions show where we need to or will grow and expand in our life.

💘 The 7th House Ruler Through the Houses

7th House Ruler in the 1st House

You learned love by becoming what others needed. Somewhere across lifetimes, you absorbed the belief that belonging is earned through disappearance. So now, your identity folds itself around the shape of the other. You call it empathy. You call it connection. But sometimes it’s amnesia. This placement is not about codependency, it’s about forgetting your edges. You don’t fall in love, you merge. And then wonder where you went. The self becomes a suggestion, flickering in someone else’s reflection. You are not the echo of anyone’s desire. You are the original pulse. The face beneath the mask. The soul before it contorted itself into something lovable.

7th House Ruler in the 2nd House

You want to be worth the keeping. Not for what you give, or how you hold, or who you become to stay. Just… worth it. But there is a part of you that doesn't quite believe it. A flicker behind your eyes that still asks: Will I be chosen when I’m not proving anything? You've carried that question for lifetimes, sometimes in silence, sometimes in gold, sometimes in staying too long with someone who never really saw you. You learned to equate closeness with compensation, as if love must be earned through self-erasure. But you're not here to barter with your being. You are not a currency. You are not an apology. You are not something to be deserved. Let love come when you're still. Let it echo back, not because you've become more but because you were always enough.

7th House Ruler in the 3rd House

You know how to mimic connection with words. You’ve spent lifetimes translating emotion into language, writing your longings into poems, answering questions no one asked just to feel close. Conversation became survival. Cleverness became camouflage. And so, you speak beautifully sometimes instead of being known. You are fluent in the dialect of detachment. You can make someone feel seen without ever letting them feel you. Because in some far-off memory, expression led to exposure. Truth led to exile. But your voice wasn’t meant to hide you. It was meant to carry your soul into the open. Let someone hear the words you don’t polish. The ones that tremble. The ones that undo you.

7th House Ruler in the 4th House

You carry the blueprint of love in your nervous system. Not from this life, from the ones where affection was quiet, survival-based, coded into ritual instead of spoken. You remember the sound of withheld tenderness. You remember reading the emotional weather of a room like scripture. Now, connection doesn’t feel safe unless it feels familiar and sometimes, familiarity means walking on eggshells. You don’t trust warmth that comes too easily. You wait for the moment it turns cold. But love is not a reenactment. Home is not supposed to feel like a test. Let yourself be held in a space that doesn’t ask you to monitor your every breath. Let your heart stop bracing. You don’t have to keep building intimacy out of ruins.

7th House Ruler in the 5th House

Your love is laced with longing for something unnamed. Not joy, not romance, something stranger. Something that lived in your chest before you ever touched desire. It’s not about expression. It’s not about passion. It’s about remembering how to feel without bracing. You’ve worn so many versions of beauty you forgot which one was yours. In other lives, you might have been adored for the wrong reasons, or watched as something precious to you was misunderstood, objectified, mythologized. Now, you carry a quiet distance from your own delight, unsure if you can trust it. You don’t want to be consumed. You want to be seen without being taken. There is a deep ache here, not to shine, but to exist in your full texture without being cast into anyone else’s story. Let love arrive as a presence that says: I don’t need you to impress me. I want to know what your heart sounds like when no one is listening.

7th House Ruler in the 6th House

You’ve made love a ritual of endurance. It’s not that you expect to suffer, it’s that you’ve confused suffering with devotion. You offer your time, your labor, your capacity to hold someone else’s chaos. You call it loyalty. But sometimes, it’s penance. In other lives, love was responsibility. Service. A sacred kind of self-abandonment. Now, you measure your worth by how useful you are. You treat your tenderness like a transaction: If I care enough, they’ll stay. If I carry enough, they’ll choose me. But love is not earned through exhaustion. You are not here to be someone's stability while starving for your own. Let someone meet you in your softness, not your sacrifice. Let them stay when you have nothing left to offer.

7th House Ruler in the 7th House

You are made for reflection, but not for erasure. Partnership is stitched into the fabric of your path. You don't just crave connection, you become whole through it. But there is danger in this mirror, too. If you’re not careful, you vanish into the reflection. You’ve spent lifetimes defining yourself through the eyes of another. Becoming their projection. Their dream. Their container. So now, you recognize love as alignment but sometimes forget that alignment requires two whole selves. This is not about attracting love. It's about remembering who you are outside of it. You don’t need to contort yourself to stay in view. You are not a placeholder. You are not a backdrop. You are a world of your own. Let love orbit you, not eclipse you.

7th House Ruler in the 8th House

Love has always been a place of unraveling. You don’t “date.” You initiate. You merge. You descend. Partnership isn’t a bond, it’s a reckoning. A portal. A ritual of shedding skin. You seek out the ones who undress your psyche, who break open the vault, who offer you transformation disguised as intimacy. But be honest, are you letting yourself be met, or are you testing to see who survives you? Somewhere in your past-lives, closeness meant betrayal, or loss, or possession. And now, even when love is safe, you brace. This is a lifetime of rewriting that contract. Of letting someone hold you without having to earn it through blood. Let love be deep without being destructive. Let someone see you without tearing you apart.

7th House Ruler in the 9th House

You remember love as a pilgrimage. In other lives, it began with distance, foreign lands, spiritual longing, shared purpose, far horizons. You didn’t just want a partner. You wanted someone to walk the edge of the world with. Someone whose love cracked you open to the eternal. Now, you still crave expansion. You want love that stretches your beliefs, your borders, your body’s memory of what’s possible. But be careful, you might keep running toward the infinite to avoid being touched in the present. Not every soul encounter comes with a lightning strike. Not every truth needs a telescope. Let love meet you in the now. In the closeness. In the simplicity of being seen on an ordinary afternoon. You’re not here to find heaven through someone else. You’re here to remember it was never separate.

7th House Ruler in the 10th House

You wear your relationships like architecture. You build love into your legacy, shape your partnerships like cathedrals, sacred, structured, high-stakes. In other lives, intimacy was status, strategy, survival. You learned to tie your worth to what was witnessed. To what the world could admire. Now, you still measure the success of love by what it looks like from the outside. You perform stability. You pose in intimacy. You know how to play the role. But love does not require a performance review. You don’t need to be impressive to be chosen. The most meaningful devotion may never make it into the biography. Let yourself be loved in the quiet. In the unposted. In the places where the scaffolding falls away and only the truth remains.

7th House Ruler in the 11th House

You are fluent in potential. You don’t fall for people, you fall for what could be. The version of them you see in their quietest moment, the glimpse they haven’t stepped into yet. You build futures before foundations. You speak to the part of someone they don’t know how to hold and then wonder why you’re left holding it alone. In other lifetimes, your vision was medicine. Now, it’s also a mask. You hide behind ideas. You chase resonance over reality. You long for something collective, but ache in the quiet of what’s personal. It’s not that your love is too big, it’s that it wants to touch the sky before it’s touched the skin. Let someone meet you where your hands are. Let intimacy be the dream you don’t have to explain.

7th House Ruler in the 12th House

You’ve loved in silence. Across lifetimes, you’ve poured yourself into connections no one else could see. Soul bonds that never took shape. Longings that lingered like perfume in an empty room. Now, you still feel people before you know them. You remember them before they arrive. But this sensitivity is both a gift and a ghost. You fall for potential, for psychic proximity, for the ache of what almost was. You grieve what never became, and sometimes, you hide behind the fog so you don’t have to risk being touched. But love is not safer in secrecy. You are not safer in silence. Let yourself be known in the flesh, not just the dream. Let love find you where you are, not only where you’ve been.

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astro observations ☿⌁ // neural downloads

1. mercury in gemini 🧠⚡

these ppl are working with 8 mental browser tabs at once and still hit you with the funniest line you’ve ever heard. humor is their weapon & it’s laced with data. don’t try to lie to them, they saw the glitch in your sentence before you finished it.

2. ♄ saturn in the 8th 🕳

emotionally mature but deeply suspicious. won’t let you in unless you pass 17 internal audits. their trust is sacred code. once you’re in you’re encrypted into their soul forever. betrayal? system wipe.

3. ♀︎ venus in pisces ☁︎

in love with the ghost of someone who might not even exist. writes poetry to memories that haven’t happened. you don’t date them, you step into a dream where boundaries dissolve and nothing is as it seems.

4. ☽ moon in aquarius 🧊📡

they feel like wi-fi signals; subtle, everywhere, kind of cold but you need them. emotions processed like code: “analyzing… uploading… archived.” they care, just not the way you’re used to. love feels like space.

5. mars in libra ⚖︎🗡

fighting you with charm and calm logic. conflict is art to them. they’ll seduce you mid-argument, serve justice with a velvet glove, and have you apologizing for starting it. beautiful, terrifying, diplomatic assassins.

6. neptune in the 1st 🫧👁

you look at them and forget what you were saying. people project fantasies onto them like screensavers. they shapeshift in real time, and sometimes even they forget who they are underneath the projections.

7. chiron in the 5th 🎭🕯

childhood wounds covered in glitter. pain woven into performance. they turn trauma into theatre and applause into medicine. healing comes through creation, when they laugh, cry, dance… they’re rewiring the past.

8. uranus in the 11th ⚙️👽

never part of the group, always above the group. an update to whatever room they enter. brings revolution in casual conversation. weird? yes. necessary? absolutely. the alien.

9. sun square pluto 🔥☠️

that constant internal death & rebirth cycle. .yeah, it’s personal. ego forged in disorder. always on the edge of either total destruction or pure transformation. you never meet the same version of them twice.

10. 6th house stellium 🧼📋

hyper aware. skin always smells like eucalyptus. thrives on routine but hides an existential crisis under their to-do list. self-worth tied to how much they can fix, even if it means breaking themselves first.

11. mercury retrograde natally 🔁📉

think in spirals. their voice bends time, memory, and meaning. misunderstood as kids, prophetic as adults. when they speak, listen again - it’s layered.

12. jupiter in cancer 🫀🌊

empathy is their mother tongue. nourishment as a worldview. they want everyone to be full - emotionally, spiritually, and physically. loves like soup simmering all day, comforting, warm, made from scratch.

Part of fortune in the degrees

Part of Fortune in the degrees is like the hidden spice mix in your astrological fortune. The degree can flavor your Part of Fortune with deeper nuance, karmic energy, and even timing.

0° – The Origin Point

Fresh start energy! Your joy comes from pioneering something totally new. You’re here to plant seeds that grow into empires. This is “first on the scene” vibes—trailblazer status.

1° – The Initiator

Action = alignment. You’re someone who taps into fortune when you just begin. Taking the first step (even if you’re not ready) opens the door for magic.

2° – The Sensual Stabilizer

Joy comes from grounded pleasures. Your fortune is tied to patience, beauty, and appreciating the realness of life. Think soft power and quiet luxury.

3° – The Curious Connector

Success shows up when you’re thinking, talking, moving, or exchanging ideas. Your mind is a magnet, and your network = gold.

4° – The Soul Rooter

Your fortune is buried deep—in emotions, memories, ancestry, or the past. When you feel safe and emotionally full, life blesses you.

5° – The Performer

You’re meant to shine. Creative self-expression, fun, or dramatic flair are your keys to joy. When you’re playing or performing, everything clicks.

6° – The Healer Hustler

Service brings success. Whether you’re organizing chaos, helping others, or mastering routines, this degree thrives in the little details that build big blessings.

7° – The Lover

Love, aesthetics, and harmony bring fortune. This is a “soft life” degree—where grace, diplomacy, and connection unlock golden paths.

8° – The Alchemist

Deep transformations = fortune. You’re here to transmute pain into power. This is intense but magnetic—your glow-up is probably legendary.

9° – The Seeker

Adventure calls! Joy comes from travel, study, or expanding your worldview. If you’re bored, you’re blocking blessings. Keep moving.

10° – The Architect

Success comes from structure. You build it, brick by brick. You’re playing the long game—and winning. This degree is all about legacy.

11° – The Visionary

You’re ahead of your time. Your ideas are wild in the best way, and when you trust your weird, you win. Your fortune lies in the future you’re helping build.

12° – The Dreamer

Mystical, intuitive, and creatively charged—this degree feels its way to fortune. If it feels right in your soul, the universe will handle the rest.

13° – The Rebel

Unpredictable magic. You don’t follow the rules—you invent them. Fortune strikes when you embrace chaos and follow your electric instincts.

14° – The Messenger

You’re the cosmic translator. Whether it’s through writing, speaking, or vibes, your voice brings value. Say the thing that needs to be said.

15° – The Magnetic Middle

This is peak attraction energy. You draw in fortune by simply being. Balance, charm, and centered confidence = unstoppable glow.

16° – The Analyst

Your mind is your superpower. You thrive on patterns, logic, and discernment. Fortune favors your sharp eye and strategic brain.

17° – The Soul Climber

You’re here to rise—and you will. This degree blends ambition with intuition. When you align your path with your purpose, blessings rain in.

18° – The Intense Transformer

Like 8°, but with more fire. This degree is intense, karmic, and power-packed. Your fortune may come through radical change—or rising from the ashes.

19° – The Channel

You’re tuned in. This degree has psychic undertones and creative genius. Dreams, visions, or gut instincts often lead you to your blessings.

20° – The Master Builder

You’re here to create something real. This degree carries serious manifestation power. With time, effort, and vision—you will make it happen.

21° – The Muse

Creative, charming, and maybe a little flirty—this degree lives for inspiration and play. Fortune shows up when you’re vibing, not forcing.

22° – The Wise One

This is a “master number” degree—loaded with karmic depth. You’ve been here before, and your fortune often comes from helping or guiding others.

23° – The Charmer

You have it. This degree brings social grace, storytelling power, and a magnetic vibe. You’re luckiest when you’re being authentically YOU.

24° – The Grounded Mystic

Spiritual + practical = unstoppable. You’re in tune with both realms, and your fortune comes when you integrate them. This is “divine timing” energy.

25° – The Phoenix

Massive transformation potential. This degree can feel intense at times, but it leads to deep healing and empowerment. You’re the comeback king/queen.

26° – The Dream Doer

You can manifest the ethereal. Ideas, visions, or creative bursts? You make them real. The dream becomes the empire with this degree.

27° – The Revolutionary

Break the mold. Your fortune lies in doing things your way—even if no one gets it at first. Trailblazer energy with a bold twist.

28° – The Old Soul

You’ve done the work in lifetimes past, and now you’re here to refine and complete. Success comes when you trust your deep wisdom and wrap up cycles with grace.

29° – The Anointed One (Anaretic Degree)

You’re here to master this energy—and fast. High highs, intense tests, but major rewards. This is “last level of the game” energy—go big or go cosmic.

Can you do a turn ons for the mars in the houses and what they’ll need to climax?!

Mars in the 1st house: Could need their hair pulled or tenderly played with during sex, facial area focused kisses, aggressive and or passionate strokes, they tend to cum quickly so anything that gets to the point, ear kisses, and riding positions I’d also say that the more bold may like more submissive v submissie positions.

To make them climax: the hair and cranium is your best friend-the scalp or anything that stimulates the hair/ears/ temples and lips.

Mars in the 2nd house: Could need the neck, love handles and collar bones tenderly touched or played with during sex, neck kisses and slow-delayed strokes, they take some time to cum and need multiple sources of stimuli on their body and to be incorporated in their surroundings so candles, tv being on in the background and so on. Men and women here similarly to the 8th may need for fallatio or cunnilingus incorporated in the sexual encounter in order to climax.

To make them climax: head is a good way, but so is tantra and foreplay! Involving the senses with food or aromas is another great way, sensual and touching them all across their body during sex in slow lingering ways is like gold for them.

Mars in the 3rd house: Could like their hands, upper arms and shoulders tenderly touched or played with during sex! May be the types to hold your hands in certain positions or pin you down, eye contact and plenty of verbal talk stimulates them and allows their mind to race towards the goal(sorts like a Marco Polo thing) they can like fingering, and may need oral stimulus similar to the 3rd house but they prefer to give it rather than receive it and this goes for men and women with this! They may like to eat you out or eat your ass(I’m not kidding) as it actually makes them get turned on. Fast strokes that can seem to lack direction.

To make them climax: Letting them serve you or do oral is great, be VERY vocal and let them know how and where you like it(they like being led around your body) being a bit hard to get and changing your movements a lot keeps them on edge and can cause them to climax, once more playing with their hands is a biggie.

Mars in the 4th house: Could like their breast or chest being played with! They can be the types to have sex in positions that make a baby so missionary, traditional/vanilla styles of deep penetration positions are their fave, they might be emotional during the act and because of this they need tender responses and for their to be an emotionally sensitive/receptive air to feel their most sexually invited, foreplay and telling them/confessing feelings you have for them or even just whispering them affections comes a long way for them sexually. Sensitive strokes/starting and stopping a lot to ensure you’re comfortable.

To make them climax: Depends on how close y’all are but(baby talk or telling them you want them to cum in you will send them to the mountains for the men) and women may prefer raw or without a condum which is why both men and women here prefer sex with someone they know and trust. Emotional intensity and wanting them can send them into climax.

Mars in the 5th house: Worshiping them, and admiration/body worship, being very vocal about you pleasure and dramatic theatrics, they are the types to be high energy so beating them to the punch in intensity or desire is a hugely erotic thing for them, being submissive depending on the mars in the 5th house native is super sexy to them whilst others prefer someone with a matching fire, having an insatiable desire for them and treating them as if they’re the best sexual experience, touching the upper back and running your fingers down their spine! Running your hands through their hair and anal positions like doggy style and so on. Flamboyant strokes as if they’re preforming.

To make them climax: PRAISE THE SUN 😂 no seriously compliments/moaning/begging and pleading them can really turn them on and cause them to climax.

Mars in the 6th house: Cleanliness(I know everyone says it but seriously) a reserved nature towards the act, innocence and being a bit initially slow burn, being eager to please them/serve them, being submissive and or not so forceful with them and letting them take the ropes! Unlike mars in Virgo they’re dominant in nature and prefer the leading role. Foreplay and tenderly touching their belly and lower groin area(just above the privates) dressing up or fantasy play, they prefer vocal lovers since it lets them know they’re doing something right but as I said they can be a bit shy themselves so by vocal I mean in a turned on way not theatrical like the 5th. Systematic strokes with a sort of critical flavor to them as if they’re trying to hit it at the perfect spot

To make them climax: ORAL ORAL ORAL. They climax better in anal positions as the 6th house is…as they say anal retentive lmao. But yes any position in which they’re able to do it in the back they love and cum the quickest with men and women. They might need a bit of coaxing as they can suffer from self doubt so ensure that they know you’re enjoying the experience otherwise you’ll have to start from scratch.

Mars in the 7th house: Stimulation of the ass region and also the lower to mid thighs during sex, sensual/aggressive passion sexually maybe a mixture of harsh but soft touches, riding positions like the reverse cowgirl or anything that has you bouncing on them, they really love butts and this is the house of partnership so if this is a long term thing they really love you’re booty and will probably grab it a whole lot and spank during sex or want to be spanked and grabed, they could need a lot of stimulation in these areas so sex may really involve penetration and sensual touches, they tend to like intimacy and eyes contact so they’ll likely want positions where that is possible to some extent. Ardent and loving strokes you’ll feel the love.

To make them climax: They tend to link up to your own desire since mars becomes Kinda psychic here so they could climax the moment you do, they’ll likely be pretty good at making you climax though, I can’t stress enough for men and women here touch their booties they will most likely climax from that itself if done the right way and consistently through the act.

Mars in the 8th house: Like previously mentioned fallatio and cunnilingas are your best friends, they actually prefer to receive head rather than give it out in some cases but it’s not a selfish thing it’s just the 8th house rules the genitalia and mars being here really emphasizes on these natives sensitivity here, intense but slow strokes! Seduction and teasing throughout the sexual experience are big, like Aries foreplay isn’t a biggie here but the women may like to entice, deep penetration and paying attention to the crotch region and even the neck to some extent can be big areas of turn ons

To make them climax: Oral helps but really they’re unpredictable I won’t lie, sometimes it can be penetration in some angles or speeds whilst other times it’s just whenever they’re finally ready to stop I do know eye contact maintained can really quicken how quickly they cum.

Mars in the 9th house: Playing with their lower thighs and to some extent fingering as a means of warming them up, doing it out side or somewhere you shouldn’t be, being sexually aggressive or forward(with their consent of course) they’re not the types for foreplay but being experimental or incorporating new ways of doing things whilst in the moment can be a turn on, stroking in fun but romantic ways is their thing but most like intense strokes.

To make them climax: Men and women here can either be well endowed or just have a desire to be deeply penetrated so enough of this should usually do it!

Mars in the 10th house: The knees, the area nearest the diaphragm and pelvis tend to be key areas to focus on, they may enjoy a certain level of gentleness or submission from their partners, being allowed to go Wild is a huge turn on-they’re the types to feel you out sexually and see what you can handle before showing their more controlling and dominant side sexually, may need to be in a place of comfort or in a public place as a means to rebel, can enjoy teasing and sexual build up as it makes them climax harder, they tend to prefer traditional positions but that being said their strokes are often heavy and can take the wind out of you literally.

To make them climax: Work hard! They take a really really long time to climax and in some cases they end up having to masterbate in order to finish, but in the case you did want to take on the journey a good way to aid the process is building up your own stamina as they tend to be able to go hours on end before climaxing.

Mars in the 11th house: They’re around pretty quick but it depends on what the sign mars is in for how and what causes the fast arousal, quick strokes with an erratic moment, rubbing along their ankles with your feet or toes can be a turn on, semi detached positions or constant position switching can be a biggie, sex Toys and seeming out of reach in a way sexually turns them on as well, being open and ardent but not overly grounded helps, there is a big desire for them not to understand their sexual partner.

To make them climax: Be hard to read, they like intensity without the actual presence so blending a ON/OFF sort of sexual energy during the act will likely make them insatiable and climax.

Mars in the 12th house: This is the last house so all of the above tend to stimulate them! They prefer receptivity and tenderness though and can easily get turned off by overly aggressive or overly detached sexual energies so if they feel like you’re not really paying attention to their feelings or being receptive to the energy they’re sending out during sex they’ll likely stop or leave(I’m not kidding and if they don’t leave they’ll just check out emotionally) usually the type to enjoy softness and aggression(although not to much) from the other person. Touch foreplay and lots of body touching, emotional warmth and sincerity as well as having a emotional connection, slow rhythmic strokes as if music is playing in the background and in most cases it will be.

To make them climax: Treat them tenderly and cautiously the more they know you’re matching their energy and vibe with each stroke and touch the more they’ll be able to include their actual body into the act leading up to them climaxing.

Hope this helps love. ♥️

Astrology: The 7th house and the relationship partner

Our ascendant sign indicates how we distinguish ourselves as an individual. It depicts the characteristics we project into the outer world and how we proclaim our “I am”.

In regards to this, our descendent then indicates who we declare as “They are”. The sign here indicates the type of people we attract or are attracted to as they provide contrast to who we define ourselves as - Ever heard “opposites attract”?

The 7th house is often associated with romantic relationships, however this is commonly the simplified modern interpretation of this house.

Essentially what the 7th house represents is any situation where you are in ‘contract’ with another person in a one-on-one circumstance. You come to agreements here, and this is why this house is associated with the marriage partner (and also business relationships and deals, as well as law and close friendships).

The sign here indicates the characteristics attractive in another person, and also indicates who is drawn to you. It is often 9 times out of 10 that we have our longest and most successful relationships with people who have the sign on out descendent on one of their personal planets or their rising sign.

Many other factors can alter this such as:

The ruler of the sign on our DC (sign/house and aspects play a vital role in interpretation)

Venus house, sign and aspects

Juno house, sign and aspects

Looking at the ruler of the 7th house and its condition is very important if you 7th house is empty!

No…this does not mean you’ll live alone with 9 cats and a parakeet called Charlie…your 7th house ruler will give you more information as to the nature of your potential future relationship partner.

In fact, if your 7th house is empty, the bond you can create when someones planet falls into this house can strengthen your connection with them as their presence seems to ‘complete’ you in a way you find magnetic and romantic.

Check the sign on your descendent + the sign the ruler is in (regardless if you have planets in the 7th or not) as this will highly indicate the most likely people you’ll form relationships with.

Note* This will also indicate how you will act in relationships with other people! (This will greatly depend on if you subconsciously project these characteristics onto another person/if they have planets in this sign)

Also take note of any planets in the 7th house

* The house of the 7th ruler (+ aspects) will also have an influence - for advanced readers

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Aries 7th (Look for Mars Sign)

An independent relationship partner

A hot headed and temperamental partner

A masculine and driven partner

Someone who is sporty and always on the go

Having a partner who takes the lead in relationships  

Being competitive with the relationship partner

The partner is fiery, passionate and highly sexual

Play fighting with the partner

Having a tomboy partner

Someone who is defensive and aggressive

Someone who goes head first into things without much forethought

A partner who can be selfish

A partner who is a fighter and daring

Having a partner who’s are pioneer and aims to reach the top

Having a partner who’s into weapons, fighting, sports and/or competing

A partner who’s into violent movies and/or video games

A partner who can put themselves first

The relationship partner is daring, courageous and has little to no fear of anything or anyone

A partner with a “Try me” attitude

A partner who doesn’t take “no” for an answer

Having a partner who prefers to do their own thing

Having a partner who makes it hard to pin down because they want to be independent and solo

A hot headed and boisterous partner

A partner who is physically fit, athletic and sporty

A partner whines always looking for something new to do

A masculine partner

The relationship partner tends to start things but not finish them

Taurus (Look for Venus Sign)

A slow moving and steady partner

A very attractive and aesthetic partner

Having a partner who’s artistic and enjoys making things

A relationship partner who enjoys makeup, hair, beauty, perfumes, jewellery clothes

A partner who has a love of money and material possessions

A Possessive partner

Having a partner who can be stubborn and/or lazy

Partners favourite date is Netflix and chill…

Having a partner who spoils you (buys you things, takes you out for dinner)

A hard working and determined partner

The relationship partner makes the most money

The relationship partner enjoys living on the land, nature and animals

Partner is simplistic and repetitive

The partner doesn’t like change

A partner who enjoys buying and spending

The partner can be a bit of a hoarder

Having a partner that only wants the best and finest things in life

A partner who love giving and getting physical affection

A sensual and hedonistic partner

Partner can’t keep their hands off you

The relationship partner loves food, soft blankets and has ‘their’ seat/spot/side of the bed ect…

A partner who can be stingy and holds onto money

A partner who provides you a sense of security in the relationship

The relationship partner grounds you in the here and now

Gemini (Look for Mercury Sign)

A chatty, funny and quick witted partner

A partner who does all the talking

The relationship partner is glued to their phone or other technology

A partner who love to socialise and go out in the town a lot

The partner constantly texts, snapchats, calls, even face time you

A partner who loves to read and/or write

The relationship partner constantly changes their mind and opinion on things

An intelligent and bright partner

The relationship partner asks a lot of questions about…everything

Having many conversations with the partner

Can talk to the partner about anything

The partner is curious and is always wanting to learn and know about ‘what’s new’

An inquisitive partner who will always find out the information they are looking for

The partnership feels more brotherly or sisterly

Having a partner who’s constantly ‘In the know’

A partner who seems to mimic what you do

The partner takes on the same trends as you do

A youthful (or younger) partner

The relationship partner sometimes doesn’t listen because their mind is somewhere else

Having a relationship partner with someone you grew up with

A partner who’s light hearted and tends to avoid things that are deep and emotional in nature

Having a partner who constantly changes their ideas, thoughts and opinions on things

A partner who enjoys exploring the neighbourhood

A partner who has a strong association with their siblings (or cousins)

Cancer (Look for Moon Sign)

A sweet, gentle and caring partner

A partner who greatly enjoys physical affection - especially hugs

The relationship partner has a soft, feminine nature about them

The partner is a bit of a homebody

The partner enjoys cooking/home made meals over going out

A partner who is family focused/wants to create their own family

The relationship partner is strongly associated with the mother figure (for better or for worse)

The partner can be moody and irritable

The relationship partner can be overly emotional about things

A partner who prefers to have their own privacy

The partner wants to be cared for and coddled like their mother would

The partner likes family tradition

An intuitive and receptive partner who seems to know what you’re feeling all the time

The partner likes to stay at home while you go out and do work

The partner has a soft bodied figure

The partners sensitive and their emotions can be unpredictable at times

The partner can be needy and clingy at times

A partner who acts like a baby when they don’t get their way - “But _____, I waaaant iiiit!”

The relationship partner is sentimental about things in the relationship - “Remember when we ___?”

The partner is protective and defensive (For you and/or themselves)

A partner who loves their home and being comfortable as much as possible

Leo (Look for the Sun)

A happy, cheerful and bright eyed partner

The partner is dramatic, fun and playful

The relationship partner is a bit of a show off (will do/say things to impress you or make you laugh)

A flamboyant and eye catching partner

Your partner can steal your spotlight

The relationship partner is bossy

A partner that treats you like a king/queen (and expects the same)

A generous and gold hearted partner

The partner is fiercely loyal and defensive

The partner can have a lot of pride in their relationship with you (and/or you to them)

The relationship partner shows you off (e.g. selfies on Facebook, snapchat and instagram with every #love tag they can think of)

The partner enjoys romantic dates such as going out to movies and to dinner

A partner who makes you feel special

The partner can be quite jealous

The partner can put themselves first at times

The partner will act like a clown just to make you laugh (being a bit of a show off at the same time)

The partner will do things to receive your love and praise

The partner can blow things out of proportion

A partner who can pout and give the silent treatment when mad - or flip a table or two

The relationship partner wants to be seen by others with you (look at how cute we are everyone)

The relationship partner is creative (either artistically or in the way they think/go about doing things) eg. Cook a recipe in their own creative way

A partner who can be extravagant (and depending on your other placements, you may or may not enjoy it!) e.g. Buys you a massive teddy bear on Valentine’s kind of extravagant

The partner can be vain at times (e.g. its date night, and they’re in the mirror checking their hair or outfit when its time to go - “Hang on babe, I don’t look amazing just yet”)

An attractive, passionate, charismatic and magnetic partner

Virgo (Look for Mercury/Ceres)

A modest and quiet partner

The partner is perfectionistic and does things in a particular way (because its the right way)

The partner is critical and fault finding about practically EVERYTHING

A partner who is very helpful and loves to use their skills to assist you in anyway they can

The partner acts like a bit of a servant for you at times

The partner enjoys cleanliness and organisation

A partner who gets mad when you move or rearrange their stuff

The partner is a workaholic and can at times be too focused on doing their job

The partner is a skilled labourer and craftsman (can be one of the top people in their field)

A partner who is efficient in the things they do

The partner is very picky and choosy about particular things - “You want to go to X for dinner?…what’s on the menu?…where else can we go instead?”

The partner likes keeping journals, records and sticky notes

A partner who can be quite particular about their appearance

A partner who is very health conscious (Fitness powders and supplements galore)

The partner enjoys healthy/clean eating and exercise

The partner loves pets and small animals

A partner who has a particular morning and/or night routine

The partner can be critical of the way you do things (usually its because its not the way THEY would do it)

A partner who does things exactly by the book

The partner prefers to do the chores (To be helpful…and because they want it done a particular way)

The partner doesn’t like to get dirty and dislikes anything they define as ‘gross’ (bugs/toilets/feet)

Libra (Look for Venus/Juno)

A partner who is fair and desires equality in the relationship

The relationship partner is considerate of your ideas, what you want and your opinions

The partner’s favourite phrases with you are “If you want/What do you want to do/If you’re happy, I’m happy”

A pleasing and charming partner

The partner can’t seem to make decisions for themselves

A relationship partner who loves beauty, fashion, makeup and is quite attractive

The partner is a diplomatic and tactful towards you

The relationship is very sociable and enjoys making conversation

The partner can be very agreeable (sometimes too agreeable)

A partner who will defend you and take your side or try to make you come to their side of the argument

A partner who can avoid issues in the relationship just to keep it happy and harmonious

The partner dislikes coarseness and rude behaviour

The partner can avoid problems and issues

A musical, artistic and/or aesthetically inclined partner

A partner who tends to not defend themselves

The partner can talk their way into getting you to see things from their perspective

The partner can give up things they like and take on things you like

The partner mirrors you

A partner who avoids confrontation and disagreements at all costs

The partner is passive aggressive

The partner says they’ll do something, then decide not to (inconsistent)

The partner is a traditional romantic

A relationship partner who would rather avoid diving deep into emotional issues just to keep the peace

A partner who is a champion at arguing and making a point

Scorpio (Look for Pluto)

A deeply sexual and magnetic partner

The partner is greatly aware of everything you try to hide from them

The partner sees through you like glass

You feel completely merged and at one with your partner

Your relationship partner is deeply raw and authentic

A relationship partner who is attracted to the darker the darker, more taboo aspects of life

A relationship partner who feels, thinks and does things in an intense or an extreme way (eg. Workouts for a solid 2 hours)

Having a love/hate and extreme highs and lows with the relationship partner

The partner is obsessive and possessive of you (and/or you to them)

The partner is easily jealous

The partner can be intimidating

A relationship partner that provokes emotional extremes in you

A partner who has great healing and transformative abilities

The partner takes an all or nothing approach to the relationship

Feeling possessed by the partner

The partner is into the occult, shamanism, reiki, tarot and mediumship

The partner can be a bit controlling

A partner who can make you feel secure but can take it away just as easily

Being completely energetically connected to the partner

Sharing everything you have with the partner

The relationship feels like a birth, death and re-birth cycle

The partner heals you

You change who you were/are during and after being with the relationship partner

The partner is secretive and may not reveal much about themselves

Sagittarius (Look for Jupiter)

An optimistic, happy-go-lucky, and humorous partner

A religious or spiritual relationship partner

A partner who loves travel/is from overseas

The relationship partner is philosophical and open-minded

The partner is jovial, light hearted and playful

A relationship partner who likes to live on the wild side

A partner who enjoys freedom of doing what they want, when they want

The relationship partner doesn’t want to be tied down

A partner who is hard to pin down

The relationship partner enjoys big conversations about life and the universe

The partner is sport and athletic

You become a nomad with your partner

Travelling a lot with your partner/Travelling to meet the partner/meeting the partner through travel

A partner who has a hard time committing due to wanting to be free and go and come when they please

The relationship partner loves the great out doors

A partner who loves big animals (horses for example)

Doing wild and adventurous things with your partner (e.g skinny dipping under a full moon)

Camping and living a gyspy life with your partner

The partner is a bit of a hippy

The partner can be self-righteous and opinionated

A partner who avoids deeper emotional issues in the relationship

A partner who has a hard time being deeply emotionally intimate

Expanding your life experience with your partner

The partner helps you explore different cultures and has adventures experiences with you (e.g. bungee jumping in New Zealand)

A partner who acts as a teacher or guru

Capricorn (Look for Saturn)  

A responsible and mature relationship partner

The relationship partner may be older than you

A partner who tends to claim the authority in the relationship

An ambitious, driven and a career forced partner

A partner who desires to achieve their goals

The partner is practical and grounded in ‘reality’

The partner is hardworking and can be a workaholic

The partner pushes you towards your own ambitions and becomes the driving force to help you achieve your goals

The relationship partner brings structure to your life in the relationship

A partner who doesn’t stop working and has a hard time relaxing

The relationship partner doesn’t quit until they achieve the

The partner has a sense of seriousness about them

A relationship partner who is conservative and traditional

A partner who can be a bit stingy with money

The relationship partner affects your public status (for better or for worse)

The partner is dutiful and loyal

A partner who can be controlling and a bit demanding

A partner who has a hard time showing their emotional side

The partner sees the relationship as ‘business’

The partner doesn’t deal well with emotional turmoil

The partner has a strong connection to their father figure (for better or for worse)

A partner who can push you to the top

The partner likes to be dominant in relationships (or you)

Meeting the partner through career, family meeting or a business meeting

Aquarius (look for Uranus)

An eccentric, out of the box and unusual partner

“They’re weird but I like them that way”

A partner who’s into all things ‘space’ (Astrology, astronomy, aliens 👽)

A partner who is a humanitarian and has dreams to re-invent the world (or at least in government or politics)

A partner who is helpful and caring towards their friends and strangers

A partner who does charitable services to help others

The relationship partner has a odd quirk about them

The relationship partner is highly intelligent to the point of genius

A partner who has a weird and unique way of thinking and seeing the world around them

Experimentation in the relationship

The relationship isn’t a ‘traditional’ relationship (eg. Only seeing each other so often to something like polygamy)

A partner who can be more focused on their friends then the relationship

The partner has a fear of intimacy/doesn’t want to be held down

The partner is into nerd culture (GOT/Walking Dead/Star Trek/StarWars. Ect…)

A partner doesn’t see themselves as being ‘special’ but ‘just like everyone else’

Having an open relationship

There is a distinct need for ones own personal freedom in the relationship

Going through ups and downs/ on again, off again relationships

The partner can be emotionally distant and aloof

The partner rebells if you impose rules on them in the relationship

Same sex relationships

A relationship partner thats more like a best friend than a romantic partner

Breaking all the rules when it comes to relationships

Pisces ( Look for Neptune)

A sensitive, gentle and compassionate relationship partner

The partner is dreamy and somewhat ethereal in their nature

The relationship partner is spiritual and ‘new age’ inclined

A partner who cares about all life

The partner is psychic, empathic and a mystic

The partner acts as your knight in shinning armour (saviour)

The partner can act like a victim or martyr (most likely because of their own demise)…and you have to be their saviour

A partner who needs taking care of

The partner is unconditionally loving and caring

The relationship wants to merge themselves with you, body, mind and spirit

The partner is attached to your hip

The partner is overly romantic (though may not always act on their relationship fantasies)

A partner who has addictive tendencies (not just drugs and alcohol, but to anything in general - food, movies, video games, psychic readings ect)

The partner can have a bad habit of isolating themselves

The partner is artistic and imaginative

A relationship partner that can lie to get themselves out of trouble (and they’re often convincing)

A partner who can be overly sensitive and emotional

A partner who has a lot of dreams but doesn’t seem to act them out (without your assistance at taking care of the details)

The partner isn’t overly interested in sex and finds satisfaction in just being near you

A partner who can be clumsy because their head is always in the clouds (and you ground them)

A partner who loves fantasy

Non binary sexual relationships

A partner who loves film and photography

The partner can be impractical and somewhat gullible

The partner is sympathetic and forgiving  

A partner who has no sexual preference (and/or you)

“If Only The Sky Would Disappear” by Cameron Gray

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Astrology: The 7th house and the relationship partner

Our ascendant sign indicates how we distinguish ourselves as an individual. It depicts the characteristics we project into the outer world and how we proclaim our “I am”.

In regards to this, our descendent then indicates who we declare as “They are”. The sign here indicates the type of people we attract or are attracted to as they provide contrast to who we define ourselves as - Ever heard “opposites attract”?

The 7th house is often associated with romantic relationships, however this is commonly the simplified modern interpretation of this house.

Essentially what the 7th house represents is any situation where you are in ‘contract’ with another person in a one-on-one circumstance. You come to agreements here, and this is why this house is associated with the marriage partner (and also business relationships and deals, as well as law and close friendships).

The sign here indicates the characteristics attractive in another person, and also indicates who is drawn to you. It is often 9 times out of 10 that we have our longest and most successful relationships with people who have the sign on out descendent on one of their personal planets or their rising sign.

Many other factors can alter this such as:

The ruler of the sign on our DC (sign/house and aspects play a vital role in interpretation)

Venus house, sign and aspects

Juno house, sign and aspects

Looking at the ruler of the 7th house and its condition is very important if you 7th house is empty!

No…this does not mean you’ll live alone with 9 cats and a parakeet called Charlie…your 7th house ruler will give you more information as to the nature of your potential future relationship partner.

In fact, if your 7th house is empty, the bond you can create when someones planet falls into this house can strengthen your connection with them as their presence seems to ‘complete’ you in a way you find magnetic and romantic.

Check the sign on your descendent + the sign the ruler is in (regardless if you have planets in the 7th or not) as this will highly indicate the most likely people you’ll form relationships with.

Note* This will also indicate how you will act in relationships with other people! (This will greatly depend on if you subconsciously project these characteristics onto another person/if they have planets in this sign)

Also take note of any planets in the 7th house

* The house of the 7th ruler (+ aspects) will also have an influence - for advanced readers

…

Aries 7th (Look for Mars Sign)

An independent relationship partner

A hot headed and temperamental partner

A masculine and driven partner

Someone who is sporty and always on the go

Having a partner who takes the lead in relationships  

Being competitive with the relationship partner

The partner is fiery, passionate and highly sexual

Play fighting with the partner

Having a tomboy partner

Someone who is defensive and aggressive

Someone who goes head first into things without much forethought

A partner who can be selfish

A partner who is a fighter and daring

Having a partner who’s are pioneer and aims to reach the top

Having a partner who’s into weapons, fighting, sports and/or competing

A partner who’s into violent movies and/or video games

A partner who can put themselves first

The relationship partner is daring, courageous and has little to no fear of anything or anyone

A partner with a “Try me” attitude

A partner who doesn’t take “no” for an answer

Having a partner who prefers to do their own thing

Having a partner who makes it hard to pin down because they want to be independent and solo

A hot headed and boisterous partner

A partner who is physically fit, athletic and sporty

A partner whines always looking for something new to do

A masculine partner

The relationship partner tends to start things but not finish them

Taurus (Look for Venus Sign)

A slow moving and steady partner

A very attractive and aesthetic partner

Having a partner who’s artistic and enjoys making things

A relationship partner who enjoys makeup, hair, beauty, perfumes, jewellery clothes

A partner who has a love of money and material possessions

A Possessive partner

Having a partner who can be stubborn and/or lazy

Partners favourite date is Netflix and chill…

Having a partner who spoils you (buys you things, takes you out for dinner)

A hard working and determined partner

The relationship partner makes the most money

The relationship partner enjoys living on the land, nature and animals

Partner is simplistic and repetitive

The partner doesn’t like change

A partner who enjoys buying and spending

The partner can be a bit of a hoarder

Having a partner that only wants the best and finest things in life

A partner who love giving and getting physical affection

A sensual and hedonistic partner

Partner can’t keep their hands off you

The relationship partner loves food, soft blankets and has ‘their’ seat/spot/side of the bed ect…

A partner who can be stingy and holds onto money

A partner who provides you a sense of security in the relationship

The relationship partner grounds you in the here and now

Gemini (Look for Mercury Sign)

A chatty, funny and quick witted partner

A partner who does all the talking

The relationship partner is glued to their phone or other technology

A partner who love to socialise and go out in the town a lot

The partner constantly texts, snapchats, calls, even face time you

A partner who loves to read and/or write

The relationship partner constantly changes their mind and opinion on things

An intelligent and bright partner

The relationship partner asks a lot of questions about…everything

Having many conversations with the partner

Can talk to the partner about anything

The partner is curious and is always wanting to learn and know about ‘what’s new’

An inquisitive partner who will always find out the information they are looking for

The partnership feels more brotherly or sisterly

Having a partner who’s constantly ‘In the know’

A partner who seems to mimic what you do

The partner takes on the same trends as you do

A youthful (or younger) partner

The relationship partner sometimes doesn’t listen because their mind is somewhere else

Having a relationship partner with someone you grew up with

A partner who’s light hearted and tends to avoid things that are deep and emotional in nature

Having a partner who constantly changes their ideas, thoughts and opinions on things

A partner who enjoys exploring the neighbourhood

A partner who has a strong association with their siblings (or cousins)

Cancer (Look for Moon Sign)

A sweet, gentle and caring partner

A partner who greatly enjoys physical affection - especially hugs

The relationship partner has a soft, feminine nature about them

The partner is a bit of a homebody

The partner enjoys cooking/home made meals over going out

A partner who is family focused/wants to create their own family

The relationship partner is strongly associated with the mother figure (for better or for worse)

The partner can be moody and irritable

The relationship partner can be overly emotional about things

A partner who prefers to have their own privacy

The partner wants to be cared for and coddled like their mother would

The partner likes family tradition

An intuitive and receptive partner who seems to know what you’re feeling all the time

The partner likes to stay at home while you go out and do work

The partner has a soft bodied figure

The partners sensitive and their emotions can be unpredictable at times

The partner can be needy and clingy at times

A partner who acts like a baby when they don’t get their way - “But _____, I waaaant iiiit!”

The relationship partner is sentimental about things in the relationship - “Remember when we ___?”

The partner is protective and defensive (For you and/or themselves)

A partner who loves their home and being comfortable as much as possible

Leo (Look for the Sun)

A happy, cheerful and bright eyed partner

The partner is dramatic, fun and playful

The relationship partner is a bit of a show off (will do/say things to impress you or make you laugh)

A flamboyant and eye catching partner

Your partner can steal your spotlight

The relationship partner is bossy

A partner that treats you like a king/queen (and expects the same)

A generous and gold hearted partner

The partner is fiercely loyal and defensive

The partner can have a lot of pride in their relationship with you (and/or you to them)

The relationship partner shows you off (e.g. selfies on Facebook, snapchat and instagram with every #love tag they can think of)

The partner enjoys romantic dates such as going out to movies and to dinner

A partner who makes you feel special

The partner can be quite jealous

The partner can put themselves first at times

The partner will act like a clown just to make you laugh (being a bit of a show off at the same time)

The partner will do things to receive your love and praise

The partner can blow things out of proportion

A partner who can pout and give the silent treatment when mad - or flip a table or two

The relationship partner wants to be seen by others with you (look at how cute we are everyone)

The relationship partner is creative (either artistically or in the way they think/go about doing things) eg. Cook a recipe in their own creative way

A partner who can be extravagant (and depending on your other placements, you may or may not enjoy it!) e.g. Buys you a massive teddy bear on Valentine’s kind of extravagant

The partner can be vain at times (e.g. its date night, and they’re in the mirror checking their hair or outfit when its time to go - “Hang on babe, I don’t look amazing just yet”)

An attractive, passionate, charismatic and magnetic partner

Virgo (Look for Mercury/Ceres)

A modest and quiet partner

The partner is perfectionistic and does things in a particular way (because its the right way)

The partner is critical and fault finding about practically EVERYTHING

A partner who is very helpful and loves to use their skills to assist you in anyway they can

The partner acts like a bit of a servant for you at times

The partner enjoys cleanliness and organisation

A partner who gets mad when you move or rearrange their stuff

The partner is a workaholic and can at times be too focused on doing their job

The partner is a skilled labourer and craftsman (can be one of the top people in their field)

A partner who is efficient in the things they do

The partner is very picky and choosy about particular things - “You want to go to X for dinner?…what’s on the menu?…where else can we go instead?”

The partner likes keeping journals, records and sticky notes

A partner who can be quite particular about their appearance

A partner who is very health conscious (Fitness powders and supplements galore)

The partner enjoys healthy/clean eating and exercise

The partner loves pets and small animals

A partner who has a particular morning and/or night routine

The partner can be critical of the way you do things (usually its because its not the way THEY would do it)

A partner who does things exactly by the book

The partner prefers to do the chores (To be helpful…and because they want it done a particular way)

The partner doesn’t like to get dirty and dislikes anything they define as ‘gross’ (bugs/toilets/feet)

Libra (Look for Venus/Juno)

A partner who is fair and desires equality in the relationship

The relationship partner is considerate of your ideas, what you want and your opinions

The partner’s favourite phrases with you are “If you want/What do you want to do/If you’re happy, I’m happy”

A pleasing and charming partner

The partner can’t seem to make decisions for themselves

A relationship partner who loves beauty, fashion, makeup and is quite attractive

The partner is a diplomatic and tactful towards you

The relationship is very sociable and enjoys making conversation

The partner can be very agreeable (sometimes too agreeable)

A partner who will defend you and take your side or try to make you come to their side of the argument

A partner who can avoid issues in the relationship just to keep it happy and harmonious

The partner dislikes coarseness and rude behaviour

The partner can avoid problems and issues

A musical, artistic and/or aesthetically inclined partner

A partner who tends to not defend themselves

The partner can talk their way into getting you to see things from their perspective

The partner can give up things they like and take on things you like

The partner mirrors you

A partner who avoids confrontation and disagreements at all costs

The partner is passive aggressive

The partner says they’ll do something, then decide not to (inconsistent)

The partner is a traditional romantic

A relationship partner who would rather avoid diving deep into emotional issues just to keep the peace

A partner who is a champion at arguing and making a point

Scorpio (Look for Pluto)

A deeply sexual and magnetic partner

The partner is greatly aware of everything you try to hide from them

The partner sees through you like glass

You feel completely merged and at one with your partner

Your relationship partner is deeply raw and authentic

A relationship partner who is attracted to the darker the darker, more taboo aspects of life

A relationship partner who feels, thinks and does things in an intense or an extreme way (eg. Workouts for a solid 2 hours)

Having a love/hate and extreme highs and lows with the relationship partner

The partner is obsessive and possessive of you (and/or you to them)

The partner is easily jealous

The partner can be intimidating

A relationship partner that provokes emotional extremes in you

A partner who has great healing and transformative abilities

The partner takes an all or nothing approach to the relationship

Feeling possessed by the partner

The partner is into the occult, shamanism, reiki, tarot and mediumship

The partner can be a bit controlling

A partner who can make you feel secure but can take it away just as easily

Being completely energetically connected to the partner

Sharing everything you have with the partner

The relationship feels like a birth, death and re-birth cycle

The partner heals you

You change who you were/are during and after being with the relationship partner

The partner is secretive and may not reveal much about themselves

Sagittarius (Look for Jupiter)

An optimistic, happy-go-lucky, and humorous partner

A religious or spiritual relationship partner

A partner who loves travel/is from overseas

The relationship partner is philosophical and open-minded

The partner is jovial, light hearted and playful

A relationship partner who likes to live on the wild side

A partner who enjoys freedom of doing what they want, when they want

The relationship partner doesn’t want to be tied down

A partner who is hard to pin down

The relationship partner enjoys big conversations about life and the universe

The partner is sport and athletic

You become a nomad with your partner

Travelling a lot with your partner/Travelling to meet the partner/meeting the partner through travel

A partner who has a hard time committing due to wanting to be free and go and come when they please

The relationship partner loves the great out doors

A partner who loves big animals (horses for example)

Doing wild and adventurous things with your partner (e.g skinny dipping under a full moon)

Camping and living a gyspy life with your partner

The partner is a bit of a hippy

The partner can be self-righteous and opinionated

A partner who avoids deeper emotional issues in the relationship

A partner who has a hard time being deeply emotionally intimate

Expanding your life experience with your partner

The partner helps you explore different cultures and has adventures experiences with you (e.g. bungee jumping in New Zealand)

A partner who acts as a teacher or guru

Capricorn (Look for Saturn)  

A responsible and mature relationship partner

The relationship partner may be older than you

A partner who tends to claim the authority in the relationship

An ambitious, driven and a career forced partner

A partner who desires to achieve their goals

The partner is practical and grounded in ‘reality’

The partner is hardworking and can be a workaholic

The partner pushes you towards your own ambitions and becomes the driving force to help you achieve your goals

The relationship partner brings structure to your life in the relationship

A partner who doesn’t stop working and has a hard time relaxing

The relationship partner doesn’t quit until they achieve the

The partner has a sense of seriousness about them

A relationship partner who is conservative and traditional

A partner who can be a bit stingy with money

The relationship partner affects your public status (for better or for worse)

The partner is dutiful and loyal

A partner who can be controlling and a bit demanding

A partner who has a hard time showing their emotional side

The partner sees the relationship as ‘business’

The partner doesn’t deal well with emotional turmoil

The partner has a strong connection to their father figure (for better or for worse)

A partner who can push you to the top

The partner likes to be dominant in relationships (or you)

Meeting the partner through career, family meeting or a business meeting

Aquarius (look for Uranus)

An eccentric, out of the box and unusual partner

“They’re weird but I like them that way”

A partner who’s into all things ‘space’ (Astrology, astronomy, aliens 👽)

A partner who is a humanitarian and has dreams to re-invent the world (or at least in government or politics)

A partner who is helpful and caring towards their friends and strangers

A partner who does charitable services to help others

The relationship partner has a odd quirk about them

The relationship partner is highly intelligent to the point of genius

A partner who has a weird and unique way of thinking and seeing the world around them

Experimentation in the relationship

The relationship isn’t a ‘traditional’ relationship (eg. Only seeing each other so often to something like polygamy)

A partner who can be more focused on their friends then the relationship

The partner has a fear of intimacy/doesn’t want to be held down

The partner is into nerd culture (GOT/Walking Dead/Star Trek/StarWars. Ect…)

A partner doesn’t see themselves as being ‘special’ but ‘just like everyone else’

Having an open relationship

There is a distinct need for ones own personal freedom in the relationship

Going through ups and downs/ on again, off again relationships

The partner can be emotionally distant and aloof

The partner rebells if you impose rules on them in the relationship

Same sex relationships

A relationship partner thats more like a best friend than a romantic partner

Breaking all the rules when it comes to relationships

Pisces ( Look for Neptune)

A sensitive, gentle and compassionate relationship partner

The partner is dreamy and somewhat ethereal in their nature

The relationship partner is spiritual and ‘new age’ inclined

A partner who cares about all life

The partner is psychic, empathic and a mystic

The partner acts as your knight in shinning armour (saviour)

The partner can act like a victim or martyr (most likely because of their own demise)…and you have to be their saviour

A partner who needs taking care of

The partner is unconditionally loving and caring

The relationship wants to merge themselves with you, body, mind and spirit

The partner is attached to your hip

The partner is overly romantic (though may not always act on their relationship fantasies)

A partner who has addictive tendencies (not just drugs and alcohol, but to anything in general - food, movies, video games, psychic readings ect)

The partner can have a bad habit of isolating themselves

The partner is artistic and imaginative

A relationship partner that can lie to get themselves out of trouble (and they’re often convincing)

A partner who can be overly sensitive and emotional

A partner who has a lot of dreams but doesn’t seem to act them out (without your assistance at taking care of the details)

The partner isn’t overly interested in sex and finds satisfaction in just being near you

A partner who can be clumsy because their head is always in the clouds (and you ground them)

A partner who loves fantasy

Non binary sexual relationships

A partner who loves film and photography

The partner can be impractical and somewhat gullible

The partner is sympathetic and forgiving  

A partner who has no sexual preference (and/or you)

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Aries Ascendant ♈︎

Hello to all my Aries Ascendants! I hope you all are doing well and staying safe. Y’all already know the drill…. These notes may or may not resonate with every Aries Ascendant out there. And Thank you all so much for taking the time to read my Ascendant Notes! it means so much to me, truly. ♡

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♈︎ Aries Ascendants are natural born leaders at the core, they are the ones who can and will stand on their own even with no one by their side. Aries Risings tend to have faces that you cannot forget whether it’s their eyes, nose, lips, etc. They seem to embody an energy that you can’t shake off.

♈︎ With Libra in the 7th house, they could have been the kid in school who bounced from friend group to friend group. They may not have had a solid friend group for all of their school grade years, but they most certainly knew everyone. They could have had one specific best friend they did EVERYTHING with. This may not apply for everyone, of course because it depends on the rest of your chart placements.

♈︎ Okay but nobody ever talks about how intuitive Aries Risings are, but rather water signs usually get the credit for that. With Pisces ruling the 12th house, they are the physical embodiment with the spirit of Pisces. These are individuals will often find their heaviest of times by themselves because they are truly the strongest out of all of the zodiacs. I like to think of them as the protector and the one who wouldn’t let anyone face something terrible alone. With Libra in the 7th house, they will often learn to understand themselves and how to be patient within romantic connections. They may have this inner need to be with someone and to avoid being alone. They are be very giving and generous within romantic relationships.

♈︎ Aries Ascendants tend to have prominent features to their physical appearance such as having beautifully thick hair, noticeable chin features, teeth, and may have siren like eyes. They may have more masculine features to their body even if they are female, the chest may be a prominent area. Their eyes tend to lean more towards darker colors and same goes for their hair, but sometimes that’s not always the case. It’s from what I’ve observed the most.

♈︎ With Leo ruling the 5th house, Aries Ascendants May have a talent for makeup and from what I’ve observed, they can do their own makeup very well and maybe the best if anything. Every Aries rising I’ve met has some sort of artistic talent especially with Taurus in the 2nd house, whether it’s music, art, crafting, dancing, etc. They may also love physical activity but I know this won’t be the case for everyone. Occasionally you’ll meet an Aries Rising that has a love for running, I’ve only seen that with mostly Aries 🙆‍♀️ They value home and comfortability. Making them a wonderful homemade meal would make their Taurus in the 2nd scream with joy and love lmao. 🥺💗💗

♈︎ Either way, these individuals had a motherly figure with them throughout their life with Cancer ruling the 4th house. They could have been brought up in a fairly stable environment unless there are other planets such as Mars, Pluto, Saturn or Chiron or harsh aspects between these planets. Most Aries Ascendants get deemed as people who don’t necessarily have emotions but the fuck they do! They might be the most sensitive in my opinion, but only with people they are comfortable with and who bring them true peace.

♈︎ This is just an observation, but since Aries rules over the head, I feel as though a lot of Aries Ascendants tend to have a prominent face shapes such as having heart shaped jawlines or square shaped. They tend to lean more towards being short, but I’m sure there’s tall Aries risings out there so don’t come for me in the comments🙅‍♀️ and also random, but they should be careful when it comes to Cars, knives, fire or anything that could be sharp really, I’m just saying that they tend to get hurt sometimes. Some of y’all are clumsy but it’s okay🥺💓

♈︎ Another thing to add with Pisces in the 12th house as well as Scorpio in the 8th house, these individuals NEED to be cautious when it comes to addictive substances especially if you have prominent placements in the 8th or 12th house. If reality is perhaps too painful or unbearable, they will drift away into their own fantasies created within the mind. Don’t underestimate them just because they’re a fire sign, they are quite intuitive themselves.

♈︎ When it comes to love and affection for an Aries Ascendants, please do them and favor and give them all the back and head massages possible. Aries LOVE head massages or perhaps even brushing their hair can put them out like a light. Swimming can also be quite relaxing for them and can even put them in a euphoric state of mind. They connect most with Fire and possibly water, but everyone has their own preferences.💆‍♀️

♈︎ I truly feel as though these Individuals have a funny and or a dark sense of humor. They may be their most authentic selves with Sagittarius natives especially since Sagittarius rules over the 9th house. They will learn more about themselves while a Sagittarius is present in their life. They are quick with their comebacks and tend to be smart asses at such random times😭 some of y’all will make a joke at the worst time👀

♈︎ An Aries Rising will tell you like it is and won’t sugar coat it for the sake of your feelings getting crushed. They could be trying to explain their feelings while the other person takes it as them arguing, but that’s not the case! they just get more angry trying to explain that they’re not angry and it’s just frustrating. 🧍‍♀️ And I know I’ve mentioned this before, but movie commentary or reality TV shows are highly favored and loved by Aries. They take the cake for it, I said what I said!!🧁

Written with so much love! I love you all and thank you for taking the time to read this once again.❤️‍🔥

- Em

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RANDOM ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS PT.12

THESE NOTES ARE ONLY A STUDY OF MINE AND HAS/HAS NOT BEEN PROVEN YET, SO IF IT DOES NOT RESONATE WITH YOU, FORGIVE ME AS IT WAS ONLY A STUDY/OBSERVATION OF MINE.

I DO NOT PLAGIARIZE, COPY OR REWORD ANY OF MY FELLOW ASTROLOGY OBSERVERS' POSTS AND I DEMAND THE SAME IN RETURN.

THIS POST HAS 18+ OBSERVATIONS AS WELL, so please be cautious if you choose to read further.

Mars in the 2nd house natives are very very competitive in nature. Anything and everything is a competition to them. 🙉😵‍💫

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Venus in the 3rd house natives are very good at flirting. My friend has this and he really says things that make me blush...and makes me wanna crush his face lol. 🥴😩

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Mercury in the 2nd house natives usually make promises a lot but quite often don't fulfill them or forget about them later on. They are more Talk, less Walk. 😮‍💨👍

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Sun in the 12th house natives are curious about sex and 18+ stuff at a very very young age. By that, I don't always mean losing your virginity at a young age. I mean learning about all this and being curious about it at a very young age, like at the age you are not supposed to be thinking about all this. 🙇‍♀️😶

EXAMPLE: I have this placement too and yes, I was at least 5 years old when I wondered whether people had intercourse (even though I didn't know it was called that, at that time)...yeah, when I found out they actually did, I was like EW and then I was like "DAMN. EW but WOAH" and was even more curious and learnt a lot about everything before I turned 10 years old. I did feel ashamed that I had such curiosities at such a raw age, but I am trying to accepted it through Shadow Work 🤧. NO. I never had "it", don't jump to conclusions people. ✋🙂

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Fire sign Venus natives crave reciprocation in relationships, otherwise they don't want the relationship at all. If they remember the small things about you, they want you to remember the small things about them as well.

If you send them a song, they will send you a song back as a message. You'll know a fire Venus native actually likes you or even Loves you for that matter, if they reciprocate your actions. 🔥🫂

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An Earth Mars woman likes a man who can stand up for her. Not a coward or a man who runs the minute she has problems. An Earth Mars woman craves a man who would protect her when she can't, mainly Capricorn Mars ladies. 💁‍♀️🤺

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In any kind of synastry, be it with a friend, a family member, a lover, an acquaintance, etc, 8th house SATURN overlay will always either:

Cause the Saturn person to intentionally or unintentionally hurt the house person, making their insecurities and fears worser. The house person will love and hold the Saturn person in high regards despite being hurt several times. 😕🤧

The Saturn person and the house person will be the ones calming each others insecurities and fears, being the ones proving them wrong. They will the first person in eachother's lives who prove those insecurities wrong and will prove to eachother that people like both of them exist. 🫂✨

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Saturn in the 5th house natives don't just wanna have flings, random hook-ups and one night stands with anyone. They want down bad serious relationships where they will only have sex with their committed partner. Sure, they will find some chapter attractive, but they won't give it all for just anyone. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🤌

Usually these individuals are afraid of not pleasing their partner in bed and not being fun for their partner. These natives are afraid that their partners will get bored of them one day. They also are sort of afraid of physical intimacy because they don't think they look good enough naked and their partner will judge their body. 🥲😮‍💨

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Mercury in 2nd house or Taurus natives are more logical thinking and have a more realistic approach towards life while Mercury in 12th house or Pisces natives are more dreamy and kinda delulu with their approach towards life and also have more emotional thinking.

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I know damn well I have 8th house synastry with someone either when:

I instantly find them hard to look away from and when we catch eye contact, we just keep looking at each other. It's like no name is required, just two strangers talking to each other through their eyes. [BENEFIC OVERLAYS]

When I am annoyed by their presence for no damn reason, like I just hate looking at their face and hearing them talk, and they clearly hate me too from their body language and behavior around me. [MALEFIC OVERLAYS]

Personally, I also know damn well I'm always the house person *emotional damage* 🥲👍.

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In composite chart and synastry chart, I feel like Moon plays a very important role in showing the emotional connection, understanding and reliability between both the individuals. When Moon sits in reciprocation houses (2nd,4rth,6th,8th, or 12th) both the individuals take each other seriously when it comes to emotions.

If the Composite chart has Cancer rising, then the connection revolves around emotional dependency and emotional depth but the connection will be very unsteady and unpredictable.

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6th house synastry (BENEFIC PLACEMENTS) is actually so so fun and beautiful, both the individuals love spending time with each other. The planet person brings a lot of new things to the life of the house person, especially if Uranus is there.

The house person usually shows their affection through Acts of Service, like opening the door for you, letting you take a seat first, helping you carry your bags, helping you learn something, making you cookies, etc.

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Saturn in sexual houses (5th,8th, or 12th), Inner planets in Capricorn or Aquarius, or Saturn's connection with those house lords definitely is an indicator that chains, being tied up, tying up their partner, being put on their knees or putting their partner on their knees, their sexual discipline being tested by their partner or them testing their partners sexual discipline, etc are all part of the natives kinks and desires in bed.

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Moon in Capricorn or Aquarius or 10th/11th house can also have, being tied up, chained and having their discipline tested by their partner be a huge turn on and desire for them, in bed. When I say discipline, I mean them obeying their partner when their partner tells them not to cum to test if they would listen to them, stuff like that.

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Is it me or are all Aquarius Sun or Moon very very slow in responding to texts most of the time? Like personally, I am so tired of answering texts and I spend so much time doing nothing instead of answering them lmao.

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Is anyone else not just a particular zodiac sign by birth but also has both their inner planets, Sun and Moon in their birth Zodiac? Comment down if you do, cuz I am an AQUARIUS Sun and Moon and I am born and AQUARIAN. If you checked my blood with a microscope, you'd find Aquarius written all over hahahaha 😂🙌.

If yes, then you purely behave like that zodiac sign, even if you have a Day chart or Night chart.

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The driest texters possible on planet Earth are Aquarius Saturn or 11th house Saturn. They are the natives who text short or take a long time to text back. Most of the time they read messages but don't respond back. These natives, most of the time, prefer offline conversation over online texting.

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You can't deny this, Moon in 11th house or Aquarius individuals are amazing at sexting. It's in their blood to naturally turn their partner on with just a few flirty texts. These natives like sexting too because they like making their their partner imagine what they would do with them and not do it with them for real lol. Perfect illusion 🤫😂.

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Taurus placements or 2nd house placements (esp. Stellium) love Desert's and chocolate. They love waffles and donuts and stuff like that. These placements love eating food in general and if you judge them for it, they'll eat you too😂🤫 jkjk.

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I've observed that a person with Exalted Mars or developed Mars has a good spice tolerance while Debilitated Mars or underdeveloped Mars has quite a weak spice tolerance. Other Mars placements and signs have an average spice tolerance.

My sister has Mars in Taurus in the 3rd house and she LOVES spicy food, like she wants the level of spice that would make her tounge fall off lol 🔥😭. While one of my friend has underdeveloped Scorpio Mars in 2nd house and he cannot tolerate spice AT ALL.

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Uranus in the 12th house will most definitely cause sleeping issues. Why? Most people say, it's because it's underdeveloped in this house but I think Uranus is a very active planet, a planet that only keeps moving and jumping here and there.

In my head, I see Uranus as this young kindergarten boy who's hyperactive and can't decide what he wants for sure. So when you Uranus sits in the 12th house, a house of mental and subconscious work, a house where planets are deserted and left in the fog, a house where there's more subconscious work than physical, Uranus get's frustrated and suppressed here.

It's like expecting the child to relax and observe instead of jumping so much. Well, Uranus is also a rebel so he will try his level best to go against this house which will affect the native. How? The native will have a very wavering subconscious, always thinking and thinking, about something or the other. Even in the native's sleep, the native is made to see his/her future events, further making the subconscious work even more than it should.

Uranus will disrupt the mental peace and subconscious of the native, making the native constantly analyze every detail of events and dreams in their life. These natives find it hard to rest in their sleep because their astral body is very active and roams everywhere during their sleep causing the native to wake up tired.

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Thankyou for reading through this today, I hope you have a wonderful day ahead. I am forever grateful for all your love and support.

Jupiter in the Houses

Jupiter in the 1st House: Promising for external confidence. Think in terms of expansion towards the self. This could be looked at has being highly self-oriented and introspective to vigorous self-analyzation. Jupiter in the 1st needs to be careful of over-confidence, being misled by optimism, taking on more than they can chew, and being blinded by their own desires or perspective.

Jupiter in the 2nd House: If we look at themes of expansion we might of think of someone who is indulgent in the physical and material world. Here we can also see someone who expands their self worth based on the physical realm somehow. Maybe this means the more stuff or physical status they have increases their self worth OR self worth is highly based on their comfort in the world. Also many life lessons will likely revolve around finances and possessions.

Jupiter in the 3rd House: Expansion of the mind and communication, but a lot of growth is tied to expression and direct community. Restlessness easily emerges here. Jupiter wants more and the 3rd House is full of mental energy. Learning and collecting information is a feeding.

Jupiter in the 4th House: Indulgent and expansive towards the home. While some could guess this indicates some sort of freedom from the home, on the contrary it tends to mean a desire for more in the home. Emotional expansion happens here too. They might indulge in every new emotion, only to be bored with it later on. Life lessons surrounding the home stick to them like thorns. This position also tends to attract family members that may take care of them throughout life and warmly.

Jupiter in the 5th House: These individuals likely find a lot of joy in life. Expansion and indulgence to pleasure. I almost wonder if this person would be a true sensualist, even more so than 2nd House placements. Watch out for a lot going on in their love life. There can be recklessness with other’s hearts, in concentration towards constructive or profitable hobbies, and optimism and confidence at times can trick them.

Jupiter in the 6th House: Workaholic or work truly gives them a thrill, or both? They are after satisfaction and gratification in the material world, usually through service, health, work, and tangible living. Proof is in the pudding and they can’t get enough of it. Many times these can be the people who truly are fulfilled by helping others, expansion towards how they can be of use to the world. Other times they can run themselves into the ground with a work addiction.

Jupiter in the 7th House: Do you believe in life after love? This person does, but only because they know love will always find them. There are many possibilities in their relationships throughout life. Their network is always expanding. This might not necessarily mean expansion in quantity, it can very well mean quality too. This person is likely blessed in relationships and may find they have a lot of close ones throughout life. They naturally know how to be part of a team and wants to be.

Jupiter in the 8th House: This placement is known to be favorable for sex and inheritances, but let’s look further into this. This is a black hole that is forever expanding towards emotional and intuitive powers. They are true explorers of their dark side. From a young age they can feel that their emotional universe is always in a state of expansion. They overcome wounds with courage and learns to help others somehow. There are blessings towards transformations and intimacy.

Jupiter in the 9th House: This person can’t get enough of learning and living!! This person is really likely to have some sort of connection with traveling. Jupiter in the 9th House isn’t just about expanding their knowledge, they are also constantly on the look out for developing their character. There is also a spiritual power to this placement. They have a spiritual expansion that isn’t always talked about. This spirit can be very raw and hungry for experiences to touch it.

Jupiter in the 10th House: Expansion through career and status! I don’t know if we really need to describe this individual’s ambition, it is - hungry. This person can be highly expansive in the practical realm. This can mean they are constantly the logical problem solver or a recluse who doesn’t want others to mess with their system. Materialism can happen here too.

Jupiter in the 11th House: Are you popular? Or… do you secretly wish to be? Here we see a lot of luck towards friendship, groups, and organizations. These people thrive in the group setting. Expansion is through fellowship, maybe this person will discover the true meaning of friendship for us all.

Jupiter in the 12th House: This person is intuitive. While the 12th House has its struggles, there is natural faith given to the hidden and subconscious. There are a lot of spiritual themes with this placement. Know expansion is concentrated on intuition and the unseen. Is this person a healer? Maybe. A rock star? Are they a hermit, also possibly. Eventually their expansion will have them living on a different plane.

Hi there, I've seen your answer concerning the 12th house and the chart ruler but what if someone's chart ruler falls into your 8th house? xx

in astrology usually when wanting to indicate a karmic relationships we would look at the 8th and 12th (3rd) house. so whatever placements fall into those of their houses it’s probably a karmic relationship in some way but i’ll still explain my interpretation of their chart ruler in the other person’s 8th house.

chart ruler in 8H synastry: instant attraction. usually the cr person will approach the house person first because they instantly felt so attracted/attached to them for some ‘unknown’ reason. house person may not fully express their feelings towards the cr person fast but they will make them cherish the time they spend together by using their “unique” love language. both always keep going back to one another because it can literally feel impossible to forget and stay away from each other. depending on the whole birth chart this relationship may or may not last but in most cases it doesn’t because this overlay brings major toxicity into the connection and purpose in each other’s lives.

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🌙 MOON IN 1ST HOUSE:

- Your future spouse will be deeply attuned to their emotions and those of others.They may have a charming and approachable demeanor, making it easy for others to connect with them on an emotional level. This sensitivity also lends them a strong intuition, allowing them to navigate complex interpersonal dynamics with ease.Creativity and imagination are likely to be prominent in their personality. They might express themselves artistically or through innovative thinking, bringing a unique perspective to any situation.they may gravitate towards careers where they can use their emotional intelligence and creativity. They might excel in fields such as counseling, psychology, art, design, or any profession that involves working closely with people's emotions and needs. Their nurturing nature could also lead them to professions where they can care for others, such as healthcare or social work.On the flip side, their deep emotional sensitivity can sometimes make them prone to mood swings or emotional fluctuations. They may need time and space to process their feelings, which can occasionally lead to misunderstandings if their emotional needs aren't met or understood by their partner.Their strong attachment to their independence and individuality might occasionally create a need for personal space and freedom within the relationship. They enjoy sharing their thoughts and feelings openly and value a partner who reciprocates this emotional depth. They may appreciate romantic gestures and expressions of affection that resonate on an emotional level rather than just superficial displays.They might enjoy activities that allow them to connect with nature or explore different cultures and philosophies.They can have moon in 1st house/ moon in Aries / moon in fire sign / moon in fire house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 2ND HOUSE:

-Your future spouse is likely to have a strong sense of emotional security and stability.This can manifest in their ability to provide emotional support and practical care in relationships, making them reliable and dependable partners.Their emotional connection to material possessions and financial stability may motivate them to excel in career paths related to finance, banking, real estate, or any field where they can use their practical skills to build security and stability.They may find satisfaction in activities that involve tangible results or artistic expression through craftsmanship, such as gardening, cooking, pottery, or home decorating. They appreciate beauty and comfort in their surroundings, often creating spaces that reflect their emotional warmth and aesthetic sensibilities.At times, their strong attachment to stability and material security can lead to possessiveness or overemphasis on financial matters. They may prioritize practical concerns over emotional needs in relationships, which could require open communication and understanding to maintain a balanced partnership.They enjoy activities that allow them to indulge in sensory pleasures and appreciate the finer things in life, such as gourmet dining, travel to beautiful destinations, or leisurely hobbies that bring comfort and relaxation.Their emotional fulfillment often comes from a stable and harmonious home life, where they can feel grounded and supported. They may seek a partner who shares their values and is willing to invest in building a secure and comfortable future together. They can have moon in 2nd house/ moon in Taurus/ moon in Earth house / Earth house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 3RD HOUSE:

-your fs is likely to be highly communicative and articulate, with a keen interest in intellectual pursuits and learning. This placement often indicates someone who is curious, adaptable, and enjoys engaging in conversations and exchanging ideas. They may have a knack for languages or writing, and their profession could involve communication, such as teaching, writing, journalism, or public relations.your future spouse is likely to be emotionally responsive and expressive, although they may also be somewhat changeable in their moods or emotional states. They value mental stimulation and may seek a partner who can intellectually challenge them and engage in meaningful discussions.This placement suggests a spouse who is supportive of your endeavors and who values open communication in the relationship. They may be nurturing and caring, particularly in how they express their emotions. However, on the negative side, they could be prone to overthinking or moodiness at times, especially if they feel emotionally unsettled or unbalanced.Their interests are likely to include reading, writing, socializing with friends, and possibly engaging in activities that involve short trips or frequent movement. They may enjoy hobbies that stimulate their mind or involve communication skills, such as debate, storytelling, or blogging.They are likely to enjoy deep conversations and may appreciate a partner who can challenge them intellectually. They can have moon in 3rd house/ moon in gemini/ moon in air sign / in air house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 4TH HOUSE:

- your future spouse is likely to be deeply connected to their family and roots. They may have a strong emotional bond with their upbringing, homeland, or ancestral heritage. Family values and traditions could play a significant role in their life and in the way they approach relationships.they are sensitive and nurturing. They may have a natural inclination towards caring for others, especially those they consider family or close loved ones.They may seek professions that allow them to work in environments where they feel emotionally secure and connected. Careers related to real estate, interior design, hospitality, caregiving, or working with children and families could be appealing to them. your future spouse is likely to be loving, protective, and deeply committed. They may be intuitive and empathetic, able to understand and respond to your emotional needs with sensitivity. on the negative side, they may sometimes struggle with moodiness or emotional insecurities, especially if they feel their emotional needs are not being met or if they experience disruptions in their home or family life. They may also be nostalgic or attached to the past, which can influence their decision-making and emotional reactions in the present. They may enjoy cooking, decorating their home, gardening, or spending quality time with loved ones. They may also have a strong interest in history, genealogy, or exploring their cultural heritage. They can have moon in 4th house/ moon in cancer / moon in water sign/ moon in water house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 5TH HOUSE:

- your future spouse is likely to be deeply in touch with their creative side. They may have artistic talents or a strong appreciation for the arts, such as music, theater, painting, or other forms of creative expression. This placement suggests that they find emotional fulfillment through creative endeavors and activities that allow them to express themselves freely.your future spouse is likely to be affectionate, romantic, and playful. They enjoy the excitement of romance and may have a natural charm that draws others to them. they may be drawn to careers in the arts, entertainment, fashion, or any field that allows them to express their creativity and passion. They may also enjoy working with children or in roles that involve mentoring and inspiring others.they are sensitive and intuitive. They may be attuned to their own feelings as well as the emotions of those around them. They seek emotional fulfillment through joyous experiences, romantic connections, and activities that bring them pleasure and satisfaction.they may sometimes struggle with emotional drama or fluctuations in their moods, especially if they feel their creative expression or need for fun is stifled. They may also be prone to seeking validation or attention through their creative pursuits or romantic relationships.Their interests and hobbies often revolve around creative outlets and leisure activities. They may enjoy hobbies such as dancing, playing musical instruments, participating in theater or performance arts, or engaging in sports and recreational activities that bring them joy and excitement. They can have moon in 5th house/ moon in leo / moon in fire sign/ moon in fire house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 6TH HOUSE:

- your future spouse with the Moon in the 6th house is likely to be very focused on their day-to-day responsibilities and obligations. They have a strong need for structure and organization in their life, and they may excel in roles that involve caregiving, service-oriented professions, or roles that require attention to detail.they may be drawn to careers in healthcare, nursing, nutrition, counseling, teaching, or any field where they can help others and contribute to their well-being. They may also have a strong work ethic and take pride in their ability to handle responsibilities effectively. your future spouse is nurturing and caring, especially towards those they work with or care for on a daily basis. They derive emotional satisfaction from being of service to others and may find fulfillment in roles where they can make a positive impact in practical ways. They value stability and may seek a partner who shares their practical approach to life and who appreciates their dedication to their work and responsibilities.on the negative side, they may sometimes struggle with perfectionism or becoming overly critical of themselves or others in their pursuit of efficiency and productivity. They may also experience emotional fluctuations related to their daily routines or work environment, especially if they feel overwhelmed by their responsibilities.They may enjoy hobbies such as cooking nutritious meals, gardening, yoga or exercise routines, volunteering, or engaging in activities that contribute to their personal growth and well-being. They can have moon in 6th house/ moon in Virgo / moon in Earth sign/ moon in Earth house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 7TH HOUSE :

- your future spouse with the Moon in the 7th house in GPC places a strong emphasis on their relationships and partnerships. They may have a deep longing for emotional connection and seek a harmonious and balanced partnership where they feel emotionally supported and understood.They value emotional intimacy and may seek a partner who can provide them with a sense of security and emotional fulfillment. They may also be inclined towards compromise and cooperation in relationships, striving to maintain harmony and balance.they may excel in careers that involve working closely with others, such as counseling, mediation, law, diplomacy, or any field that requires negotiation and interpersonal skills. They may also have a knack for understanding others' emotional needs and perspectives, making them effective in roles that involve managing relationships or partnerships. They can also have a knack for beauty industry.They may seek a partner who complements their emotional nature and who values mutual respect and cooperation in their relationship dynamics.they may sometimes struggle with indecisiveness or fluctuating emotions in relationships, especially if they feel uncertain about their partner's feelings or intentions. They may also be prone to seeking validation or reassurance from their partner, which can affect the stability of the relationship if not managed consciously.Their interests and hobbies often revolve around activities that foster connection and understanding with others. They may enjoy socializing, hosting gatherings, or participating in activities that allow them to bond with their partner or close friends. They may also have an interest in psychology, relationship dynamics, or exploring ways to enhance communication and emotional connection. They can have moon in 7th house/ moon in Libra / moon in air sign/ moon in air house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 8TH HOUSE:

-your future spouse with the Moon in the 8th house of GPC experiences emotions in a profound and intense manner. They are likely to have a strong need for emotional depth and intimacy in their relationships, seeking connections that go beyond the surface level.they are deeply intuitive and may have psychic abilities or a strong interest in metaphysical topics. They are drawn to understanding the deeper truths of life and may engage in spiritual practices or seek transformative experiences that allow them to evolve emotionally and spiritually.they may be inclined towards careers that involve psychology, counseling, healing, research, or any field that requires delving into the depths of human emotions and motivations. They may also excel in roles that involve managing shared resources or handling complex financial matters.

They value trust, loyalty, and authenticity in their relationships, and they may have a profound ability to connect with their partner on an emotional and spiritual level. They may be protective of their loved ones and possessive of their emotional bonds. they may sometimes struggle with jealousy, possessiveness, or emotional volatility in relationships, especially if they feel threatened or insecure. They may also be prone to experiencing emotional crises or undergoing periods of intense transformation that can impact their emotional stability.They may enjoy practices such as meditation, astrology, tarot reading, or other forms of divination that provide insights into the hidden aspects of existence. They can have moon in 8th house/ moon in scorpio/ moon in water sign/ moon in water house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 9TH HOUSE:

-The 9th house in astrology is associated with higher education, philosophy, spirituality, travel, and long-distance journeys. Therefore, your future spouse with the Moon in the 9th house has a deep emotional connection to these areas of life. They are likely to be intellectually curious, philosophical, and spiritually inclined.They have a strong desire for learning and expanding their horizons, both intellectually and spiritually. They may have a broad-minded approach to life, valuing freedom of thought and exploring diverse perspectives.they may be drawn to careers in higher education, academia, law, publishing, or fields related to philosophy, religion, or spirituality. They may also excel in roles that involve travel, multicultural interactions, or promoting cultural exchange and understanding.They value honesty, authenticity, and philosophical discussions in their relationships. They may also seek a partner who supports their personal growth and spiritual development.they may sometimes struggle with restlessness or a desire for constant change or adventure, which can affect their stability in relationships or career choices. They may also experience emotional conflicts related to their beliefs or values, especially if they encounter differences with their partner or societal norms.They may enjoy studying languages, participating in religious or spiritual practices, or pursuing activities that promote personal growth and self-discovery. They can have moon in 9th house/ moon in Sagittarius/ moon in fire sign/ moon in fire house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 10TH HOUSE:

-your future spouse is likely to have a strong emotional connection to their career and their public image. They may prioritize their professional success and strive for recognition and respect in their chosen field.They are likely to be ambitious, driven, and goal-oriented, aiming to excel in their career and make a significant impact in their chosen domain. They may also value stability and success in their professional life, seeking positions of authority or leadership. they may excel in careers that involve public visibility, such as politics, business management, corporate leadership, government roles, or any field where they can utilize their organizational skills and ambition to achieve their goals. They may also have a nurturing and supportive approach to leadership, caring deeply about the well-being and development of their team or organization. They value stability and may prioritize their professional responsibilities, sometimes at the expense of their personal life. They may appreciate a partner who can balance their need for emotional support with respect for their career commitments.they may sometimes struggle with work-life balance or emotional vulnerability in their public persona. They may experience pressure to maintain their professional image or status, which can affect their emotional well-being or relationships if not managed consciously. They may enjoy networking, attending industry events, honing their skills through continued education or certifications, or engaging in activities that enhance their leadership abilities. They can have moon in 10th house / moon in Capricorn/ moon in Earth house/ moon in Earth sign in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 11TH HOUSE:

-your future spouse places a strong emphasis on their friendships and social circles. They may have a wide and diverse group of friends who play a significant role in their life and who share common ideals and aspirations.they value their friendships and social connections deeply. They may find emotional fulfillment through their involvement in group activities, community efforts, or humanitarian causes. They are likely to be humanitarian-minded, caring about social justice issues and contributing to the well-being of others in their community or society at large.they may be drawn to careers that involve teamwork, collaboration, or working towards collective goals. They may excel in roles that require networking, social outreach, or organizing community events. They may also have a nurturing and supportive approach to leadership within their social or professional circles, fostering a sense of camaraderie and unity among their peers.They seek a partner who shares their ideals and aspirations, and who supports their involvement in social activities or community initiatives. They may appreciate a partner who can participate in their social life and who understands their need for independence within their friendships.On the negative side, they may sometimes struggle with maintaining boundaries in their friendships or with feeling emotionally detached in intimate relationships. They may prioritize their social connections or group dynamics over personal emotional intimacy, which can lead to challenges in their romantic relationships if not balanced effectively.They may enjoy networking events, community service projects, attending group meetings, or engaging in activities that promote social causes or collective growth. They can have moon in 11th house/ moon in Aquarius/ moon in air sign/ moon in air house in their natal chart.

🌙 MOON IN 12TH HOUSE:

- moon in 12th house of GPC suggests your fs is a person who experiences emotions deeply and profoundly, often in ways that are not immediately apparent to others. This placement indicates that your spouse may have a rich inner world where emotions, dreams, and subconscious thoughts play a significant role. they are highly sensitive and intuitive, often picking up on subtle energies and emotions around them. This sensitivity can make them compassionate and empathetic towards others' struggles, but it can also make them vulnerable to emotional overwhelm or feeling drained by the intensity of their own feelings. They may have a strong interest in spirituality, meditation, or practices that help them connect with their inner self and the spiritual realms. Their dreams and intuition may guide them towards understanding their purpose and finding inner peace. They may have a natural talent for music, art, writing, or other forms of creative expression that allow them to channel their deep emotions and subconscious thoughts. They value emotional intimacy and may prefer to build trust slowly, revealing their deeper emotions over time. They may also need a partner who respects their boundaries and supports their spiritual or creative pursuits.Challenges with this placement may include struggles with self-doubt, escapism, or difficulty confronting painful emotions that are buried deep within their subconscious. They may benefit from practices that promote emotional healing, such as therapy, meditation, or journaling. They can have moon in the 12th house / moon in Pisces/ moon in water house / moon in water sign.

Thanks for reading, hope you enjoyed.

-PIKO ✨

Venus in Sagittarius/the Ninth House

Beyond falling for a foreigner, falling for a teacher, falling in love while traveling. All of these stereotypes are boring and do not fully encapsulate this energy at all.

Think about why a venus in ninth or Sagittarius native may do these things, although none are extremely likely.

The ninth house is connected to Sagittarius. In many respects, Venus in ninth is similar to Sagittarius Venus.

They both:

• value their independence and can easily feel stifled in relationships

• can fall victim to the “the grass is always greener” issue, finding it difficult to feel content especially in their relationships and perhaps also in their aesthetics

• want to feel revitalized in love. They seek adventure and excitement always. A partner who cannot provide this could easily feel their disappointment

• make their loved ones lives more interesting, light hearted, and free feeling. They truly love to make people feel carefree and excited about the little things (and big things)

• can be quite childish at times when angry or feeling discontent. Prone to insensitivity mockery debating and snappiness or pulling away

• great with their words. We give Venus in third/gemini a lot of credit for this, but what about its opposite sign and house? Not only are Venus in 9th/sag natives natural learners, they are natural story tellers! They could do very well in journalism/publishing but other forms of communication as well (more true for Venus in ninth than sag venus)

• they can be very sexual. Sagittarius is tied to Jupiter. Think expansive, vast sex life. Seeking sexual freedom. They want to try new things and perhaps even new partners pretty regularly (this is more true for sag venus than venus in ninth)

• they can be natural dancers !!

If you think of anything else, add it!!

POWER INDICATORS

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Pluto in 10th/ Scorpio in 10th- These people radiate a lot of magnetism to the public eye. Everyone wants to get to know them, because they're so secretive. Wether they know it or not they hold a lot of power over people. People tend to follow their advice & orders. Trusting them on every plan. Very cult like.

Prominent Aphrodite- These people are seen by beautiful and sexually appealing from others. People usually respect them and are intimidated of them. Their charm and sexual appeal is what makes them have power. (#1388)

Prominent Aries & Mars / Mars in 1st- In Greek mythology, Aries is represented by Ares the god of war. If this is prominent most people look up and are intimidated by the way the individual is so passionate and radiates sexual & aggressive energy.. They have power because people are scared of their bad side. They don't have to do much.

Prominent Sirene & touching Mars- Person has the ability to draw people in because they seem trustful and understanding. Individual has a lot of power because they radiate very welcoming energy. If it's touching mars especially, the individual radiates a lot of sexual energy which people are drawn to because of Sirene's nature. That's when they have power, when they lure you in and they have every capability of doing so. (#1009). (check out here for Sirene information)

Pluto / Scorpio dominants/ Pluto in 1st- It's simple, these people have the power to transform people for the best. Their words are addicting to others. They can put others on a "spell". These people get shit DONE, and that's very inspiring and motivating to other people. A lot of people may even try to be like them. They should be careful though, with all this power they have they can easily use it for bad and can at times accidentally turn the weapon to themselves and they can easily be despised. Double edged sword.

Saturn/ Capricorn dominants/ Saturn in 1st- This one may shock a lot of people, but of course let me explain. Saturn rules over the Greek's god name Chorus which deals with karma, meaning do not fucking mess with them unless you wanna deal with a bunch of bad karma. These people posses the natural ability to get justice even if it's in a few months or etc. They are understanding and practical individuals, they are not the type to get "revenge" because they know they can trust on karma to help. Always be honest and truthful to them with GOOD intentions.

Prominent Lilith/ Lilith in 8th/ Lilith in 1st- These people express their rawest and truest side and that's what pulls people in. These people get very sexualized, however they can learn to use that to their advantage. They can get favors and stuff out of people that the native wouldn't usually do or even think of. That's how they get power, they don't give a fuck about anything and do whatever the fuck they want. Usually, these people intimidate others & could even be talked bad about, but they have power over them that way because they're thinking of a prominent Lilith even if it's in a bad way.

Uranus/ Aquarius Dominants/ Uranus in 1st- These people are unique and they know it and they love that about themselves. The energy they have attracts a lot of people who will copy them. They subconsciously have a lot of power over people. A lot of people are attracted to their quirkiness and everything about them. Everyone tries to be them & but they can't be fullied copied as they're always changing. Everyone wonders what they're up to next, because you can never pin them down. Don't try to even.

Sun / Leo Dominants/ Sun in 1st- Person has really strong ego and will to do things. They have a creativity that is unmatched and they tend to leave a creative spark on other people. People tend to love these people because of their talents and overall charisma they possess. These people could literally say the weirdest shit and everyone would still love it because they have their own little shine and spark to things, which is remarkable.

Moon Dominants/ Cancer Dominants/ Moon in 1st/ Moon in 10th- These people are seen by the lunar qualities. They possess sensitive and feminine nature, that's what draws people to them. They have power over people because they simply use emotions to guide them and a lot of people sympathize with them for that. They are also seen as very psychic or intuitive by others. A lot of people trust their words on everything. They have power over people's emotional foundation which they can destroy anytime.

Let me know if you guys want part two;))

Astro placements that remind me of the 'archetypes' in Robert Greene's Art of Seduction

The gist of the book is that there are 9 types of people who attract our fancy, and if you look back upon your past relationships in which you had the hardest time getting over people, you'll find at least one of these archetypes had you in a chokehold. I've noticed certain placements embody these archetypes quite well. So let's get into it!

🧜‍♀️The Siren

Intense, all-consuming, irresistible. This is the kind of person who pulls you in just by existing. Their energy is sensual, they play with desire, and there's no hiding the fire behind their gaze.

Venus in Scorpio or Mars in Scorpio: These folks ooze mystery and magnetism. Venus or Mars here practically commands intense eye contact, a stare that feels like it's looking straight into your soul (and maybe reading all your secrets 👀).

Pluto in the 1st House: They have that come hither aura without even trying. Their presence is just heavy, dark, and intriguing.

Lilith aspects to Venus or Mars: Lilith knows how to channel that raw, primal energy that people can’t look away from.

🕶️The Rake

A flirt and unapologetically so. The Rake is playful, passionate, and knows how to make someone feel like they're the only person in the room. They thrive on thrilling their “prey.”

Mars in Aries: Direct, passionate, no games. Mars in Aries dives right in and doesn’t hold back, which makes people feel desired AF.

Venus in Gemini: Flirty, playful, always has the right words at the right time. They’ve got charm in every text, every look, every smirk.

Eros in the 3rd House: Eros here gets off on mental stimulation, knowing that once they can engage your mind, they can get you anywhere else too.😏

💐The Ideal Lover

Romantic, tender, understanding. They know just what you want and give it to you. There’s an aura of "I was made for you" about them that feels very movie-like.

Venus in Libra: Literally the ultimate lover. They’re charming, attentive, and all about creating harmony in love.

Neptune in the 7th House: They radiate dreamy, fairy-tale love vibes. It's a magnetic quality, and people project all kinds of fantasies onto them.

Psyche in the 1st House or conjunct Venus: Psyche brings an intuitive understanding of what people need emotionally, making them feel deeply seen.

🎭The Dandy

Unpredictable, a little bit of both masculine and feminine energy, and oh-so-daring. The Dandy doesn’t fit into any one box and totally thrives on that.

Uranus in the 1st House: Think uniqueness and uncontainable vibes. They attract attention without even trying and aren’t afraid to stand out.

Venus in Aquarius: Experimental in love, unconventional, and so full of quirks. They might dress edgy, embrace their quirks, and draw people in through pure originality.

Mars in Libra: Balances both masculine and feminine energy perfectly. Their way of pursuing people is soft yet firm, and they’re never boring.

🌱The Natural

Effortlessly cute, innocent, and unassuming. They have this way of making everyone around them feel at ease and seen. They’re playful without trying too hard, which gives a refreshing sense of authenticity.

Moon in Cancer or Venus in Cancer: They radiate warmth and gentleness. People feel safe around them and are easily drawn to their nurturing vibe.

Venus in the 5th House: This Venus placement is playful and creative, attracting people through sheer joyfulness and a love for fun.

Ceres in the 1st or 7th House: Ceres has that caring, supportive energy that makes people feel genuinely seen and loved.

🕸️The Coquette

They play hard to get, with a bit of push-pull energy. They leave people wanting more and keep others on their toes. Coquettes are experts in creating mystery.

Venus in Virgo: They might come off reserved at first, but their attention to detail and small gestures make people feel special.

Moon in Scorpio: They keep their emotions under wraps, drawing others in by only showing glimpses of their deeper self.

Juno in the 12th House: They’re commitment-focused but mysterious about it, leaving people to wonder if they’ll ever fully understand them.

💃The Charmer

Smooth, sociable, a lover of people. Charmers win over others with their adaptability and attentiveness, making everyone feel like they’re the most fascinating person in the room.

Sun in Libra: Naturally sociable and harmonious, they know just how to appeal to people’s desires and make everyone feel at ease.

Mercury in the 7th House: Skilled at reading people and adapting to them. They know how to say the right thing at the right time.

Aphrodite in the 1st or 10th House: Aphrodite brings allure and grace to their public presence. When they walk into a room, people notice; they just want to look, like they’re drawn to a work of art.

🌟The Charismatic and The Star

Radiates confidence and star quality. They draw people in with the sheer force of their presence and charisma. This type doesn't even need to try—they just shine.

Sun in Leo: Confident, warm, and charismatic. Leo Suns love to be adored and know just how to work a crowd.

Jupiter in the 1st House: Jupiter expands their presence, making them seem larger-than-life and totally magnetic.

Pallas in the 5th House: With Pallas here, they’re strategic about how they present themselves, drawing people in with skillful, playful interactions.

✰ That's it folks! I hope you all can find your placements somewhere in there and feel empowered and confident in your charisma.

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Venus-North Node Synastry

~Using Jamie and Landon from "A Walk To Remember"~

Song that corresponds- Teach Me by Musiq Soulchild

Venus-North Node synastry is without a doubt one of my most favorite synastry placements. Especially when it’s sextile! Jamie and Landon show how this synastry plays out very well. Jamie is Venus while Landon is North Node. As we can see they come from two different worlds, have 2 different mindsets, morals etc. Jamie is still in his South node when he meets Jamie so he exhibits those traits. In the beginning of this synastry the venus person is unknowingly helping the north node person get closer to where they need to be simply by saying/doing things that they normally do. At first, the NN person is pulling back a lot. Like him not wanting to be seen with her, calling her interests stupid, and hanging with the popular crowd etc. But that soon changes the more her venus influences his NN. Venus unconsciously inspires the NN person to want to be a better them and often pick up a lot of hobbies/interests that Venus is interested in. Venus exposes them to new things that they never knew of that’s a part of Venus's daily life. North Node becomes more artistic and peaceful, less stubborn, improving oneself and realizing that they have someone they can be vulnerable with. Venus has the natural ability to put NN at ease, they’re like the breath of fresh air that nn so desperately needed. They’re like the missing component to life that nn didn’t even know they were missing. As a result of Venus’s presence, NN person now has more self-confidence and believes in themselves and what they can do. A creative bug they’ve never had suddenly won’t stop biting them. Usually picking up the exact same or similar hobby that venus has and loves. Their life that once had no direction becomes very clear now and Venus is usually in the center of it. There’s mutual support, great communication, shared values (that were once very different), personal growth and great conflict resolution. Here the North Node person and The Venus person evolve together! The Node Node is usually more drastic and apparent to others. However, Venus’s perspective on love and relationships changes a lot here and they feel very fulfilled by the person the NN has changed into. This is a love that stands the test of time more often than not. I’d say their Venus & NN was in earth signs being that they both brought each other a sense of comfy stability and helped each other complete their life's goals. 

Quotes from the Movie that are true to this synastry… 

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“Landon, look, I thought i saw something in you, something good, but i was very wrong” -Jamie This is usually how the Venus person feels when the NN person isn’t accepting but instead afraid of the change they feel venus invoking. Causing them to act out in many ways then hurting the venus person. 

“You don’t know what you want” -Jamie In the beginning the NN person actually is clueless as to what they want in life and the direction they're going to take. 

“She makes me want to be different, better” -Landon Venus, without trying, inspires the NN person in many ways to want to be better and improve themselves. They may also look up to the Venus person in some way or want to know that they are proud of them and who they’ve become. 

“Maybe you inspire me” -Landon 

“She’s the best person I’ve ever known” - Landon More often than not and depending on other aspects, the north node person feels this way. 

“Jamie saved my life. She taught me everything. About life, hope and the long journey ahead.”- Landon

“I hadn't done any of the things that I normally did with girls, yet somehow I'd fallen in love.”-Landon This is very common in this synastry. Even down to venus not being NN’s type. Yet somehow the north node feels things for this person they’ve never felt with anyone before. 

“Listen, I’m sorry I haven’t treated Jamie the way I should’ve. She deserves more than that. I’m just asking you for the same thing that you teach us every day in church. And that’s faith.” -Landon The response I wrote for the first quote applies here. As well as NN realizing their mistakes and wrong doings from embodying their SN and doing the best they can to do right by the Venus person. 

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Amor Asteroid (1221) and soulmates

The Amor asteroid in Astrology is connected to platonic love and compassion - similarly to Ceres it can represent unconditional love, one that doesn't need to have a reason to exist, one that would exist regardless of the circumstances, but in a romantic way, unlike Ceres which is normally connected to a mother-child type of relationship.

Amor can show intimacy, closeness, a relationship that doesn't have to be sexual, but one that carries a strong connection between the two people. Amor also shows how we deal with romantic rejection - whether it's aspected in anger (natal aspect to Mars), in isolation and loneliness(natal aspectto Uranus and/or Saturn), in victimhood(natal aspect to Neptune), in putting more focus on ourselves (natal aspect to Sun or Venus) or accepting it as a lesson, despite our ego being hurt (natal aspect to Jupiter). Natal aspects between Amor and Pluto, or the Moon can be a big sign of holding onto relationships(Moon) or them being life-changing, having big impact on us and our future relationships (Pluto).

Amor can also show the love that feels ideal to us - our true romantic desires, how and what we require to experience the highest form of love, to feel truly loved.

Here are the best Amor aspects to have in Synastry (in my opinion):

Amor conjunct the other person's Sun or Ascendant, Amor in the other person's 1st House

The Sun/Ascendant/1st House person has the qualities that the Amor person can idolize romantially, it can show direct attachment and romantic feelings that can evolve fast. The Amor person may fall in love with the Sun/AS person's presence, their being. They can romanticize them, view them through rose-colored glasses (at times it can be quite Neptunian). The Sun/AS person will feel truly confident, appreciated, worthy and valid. They can view each other as their ideal lover, as someone who directly represents the qualities in the person they have always wanted to love.

Amor conjunct the other person's Moon

This can give a feeling that it was "meant to be". It can be very selfless, quite sacrificial at times as if even hurting the other person the slightest causes great pain to yourself too. The Moon person will feel like their true self is finally loved by someone, as if someone worships the part of themselves that they can't seem to always love themselves.

Amor conjunct the other person's Venus

This is one of the straight-out-of-a-fairytale aspects. It can show a very romantic love, a love in which both people, the Amor person specifically, are willing to do whatever it takes to please the other person romantically. It can show a growing love, one that builds up both people, one that allows them to live out their romantic desires. It can feel that the relationship was meant to be - even if other aspects in the synastry chart are bad, they are likely to come back to this relationship.

Amor conjunct the other person's Descendant/opposite their Ascendant or Amor in the other person's 7th House

The relationship will feel very reflective - they are likely to act on it or develop feelings for each other at the same time. This can signify a very strong union, a union that carries love for each other that can't go away regardless of the circumstances. In many cases, it can be said that this is the type of relationship where both people are ready to take a bullet for each other. It can be selfless, the other person will be a priority, they will be an important part of your life you have to think about before making any decision. It is often seen in long-term relationships.

Amor conjunct the other person's Psyche

This can show a love that is very emotional - very profound. It is not physical, not just emotional - it seems to come from a very different place. In this aspect, you are in love with the other person's being, their soul. The relationship can feel romantically transformative, as if all journeys have finally led to this. The relationship will bring out both people's intuition, especially when it's connected to the other person - it can give a telepathic-like connection. The relationship may feel like the place in which the Psychic person finally allows themselves to be loved. They may learn more about themselves due to the relationship. It can also show that while the relationship can be their greatest strength, it can also feel like their greatest weakness, due to the dependency on the other person.

A square or an opposition can also be felt strongly, but it will have the ability to make the relationship a bit more complicated - there may be one-sided attachment, one person giving everything they can while the other may be more apathetic or passive, it can show a strong love that also brings out the Amor person's insecurities, makes them question their worth, it can make them neglect themselves due to the focus over the other person.

If you want to find out more about your romantic life or relationship, I do both transit synastry chart readings and composite chart readings. If interested, message me here or by email (yourastromami@gmail.com) xx

my experience with the moon signs ✨

aries moon - a little heartless. very spontaneous. prone to smoking weed a liiiittle too much. either very chill or extremely tense. all their moods last for 0.420 seconds. 

taurus moon ( oh hey thats me ) - sweet. understanding. loves & appreciates nature. can be xtremely stubborn for no reason. usually calm until they snap. in need of romantic love. gets upset mostly when they’re not comfortable w their senses. really bothered by bad aesthetic. 

gemini moon - a weird as fuck placement. intellectualizes their emotions. can be really shady. could even be a slytherin. thats all i can say, sorry gemini moons.

cancer moon - honestly what the fuck. has that “you dont understand!!1!” kind of attitude with pretty much everything. deeply hurt by everyone & everything. probably loves to draw. really influenced by the moon. 

leo moon - prideeee. confidenceee. but is it really? hmm. in all seriousness though, they are charmers of all people and manage to get their way with no effort whatsoever. can turn into a 5 yo with a snap of a finger. looove and probably neeed compliments and verification. could easily turn into the life of the party or the class clown.

virgo moon - their temper is wEIRD. they can get annoyed pretty quickly. sarcastic & cynical. could have an insulting sense of humor. could make fun of EVERYONE. very critical in a humourous way. obsesses over strange stuff for strange reasons. would be the ohmygodtheywereroommates guy.

libra moon - probably thinks about marriage before sleep. love being in a relationship. actually need it. obsesses over their crush. very sweet and friendly. KNO WS how to handle social situations and how to make people feel wanted. the sweetest of all people actually. common to be paired with a fire sign in my experience? actually all libra moons i know are aries’s, leos and saggitarius’s.

scorpio moon - i know no one with this placement, and it makes me wonder if its the reason everything’s so peaceful round here. also i guess that means they’re very rare people?? good luck if you know one/ are one. ( could this post BE more helpful???)

sagittarius moon - giggly. makes fun of everything and everyone. wishes to be the class clown but the seat’s taken by leo moons sorry guys. optimisticm with a fun approach to life. can be irresponsible. free spirited. has the heart ( and the brain ) ( i mean whaat who said that ) of a kid. 

capricorn moon - not one to open up. unless they have a cancer sun in which case grab some popcorn and take a seat. seem snob or cold or unapproachable. mostly serious in front of people, with a mature sense of humor. hiiiigh standards.

aquarius moon - needs social interaction to remain sane. has the craziest dreams at night. brooadd imagination. good at picking social cues. gets sad mostly when feeling left out.

pisces moon - what the actual fuck. i mean you’d think that they’d be really emotional and stuff but actually they all carry the emotional intensity of a carrot.ohh you know what, they could be really emotional but because of that, trying to hide their emotions ( and succeeding ). so either unemotional or extremely emotional, chose your fighter. 

The Venus Signs

Aries Venus: Fun-loving. They want a relationship in which they can be best friends and lovers. They want true happiness in their relationship. At the same time though, they may be daring (especially if they have other Aries placements) in their relationships. If they see an issue, they want to be open to their partner and discuss the issue. Constant stimulation in the relationship will help the Aries Venus put aside their independence and have them indulge themselves in the relationship. 

Taurus Venus: Many Taurus Venus natives may guard their heart with armor and a shield. So when they finally let go and immerse themselves in a relationship, they may need constant cuddling and reaffirmation. They can get possessive; they don’t want to lose someone special and get hurt- again. Give Taurus Venusians time to be comfortable with you, and they can be the most devoted lover.

Gemini Venus: The conversationalists. These people win your heart through their witty jokes and playful banter. They need someone they can talk to for hours on end who will laugh at their jokes and keep them engaged and happy. While they dislike being tied down, they still do love a lighthearted, no strings attached partner. A less attached, more talkative Venus in Aries could describe an Gemini Venusian. 

Cancer Venus: In exchange for your commitment and love, a Cancer Venusian will provide you with security and constant love. In relationships, they can give almost ‘motherly’ love. They will care for you and you will never be left wondering of their feelings for you; but if you do something to betray their trust, it’ll be .5 seconds until they go cold. They like predictability, and guard their heart so much that they will instantly retreat if they get hurt.

Leo Venus: They love the ‘spark’ in the relationship and are big-hearted, especially towards their special someone. They are a grand lover, and love to let people know of their wonderful relationship. They’re fun and love doing activities with their partner. They crave physical affection and are in a constant state of wanting to cuddle, or depending on the person, may have a high need for sex. 

Virgo Venus: These people are so unflirtatious that it can easily be mistaken as uninterested; but they will devote their full self to you. They are reliable and love more privately. They appreciate you and the little things about you- it’s adorable. They desire a genuine lover and someone who understands that they love them but still need their space.

Libra Venus: These people are willing and kind, even polite in love. They are predictable and fair to their partner. They love constant communication in a relationship. They want someone who cares as much as they do, and want to listen to them talk. They are the epitome of the golden rule- they treat you tenderly and kindly- just as they’d like to be treated.

Scorpio Venus: Feelings run deep in a Scorpio Venusian. They aren’t interested in a relationship that’s short and “time-wasting.” They want every aspect of a perfect lover- someone who has no commitment issues and loves them completely and fully. They may keep secrets, but they don’t want you to. They throw themselves completely into a relationship.

Sagittarius Venus: They want their relationship to better themselves. They want to grow; they want their lover to be good for them and vice-versa. They are believers and have a big smile that lights up their partner’s life. They are easily intimidated and will run away from their lover at any red flags. They want to travel & fall in love with the world, as well as their lover.

Capricorn Venus: They try to express their responsibility and dependability to their lover. They aren’t completely immersed in love, but if a relationship opportunity is present and it appeals to them, it’s unlikely they would turn it down. Their love is secure, but only if they are truly in love will you be their number one priority. 

Aquarius Venus: They are similar to Aries Venus natives in the sense that they need to find a friend in their partner as well as a lover. They guard their hearts with 10 layers of steel, and it’s not easy to get in; but if you do, it will be a willing and open minded experience of sensuality. They are not super possessive- the just want to have a good time and feel loved. 

Pisces Venus: The idealistic dreamy and sensual lover. They’re suckers for romance and could think about it all day. They love their partner wholly and are intrigued by what could be. They will always love you and take care of your heart tenderly, so long as you do the same. They are so open that they may have commitment issues, but when they find someone they truly love, you will experience the magic of being loved by a Pisces Venusian. 

JUNO ✨🌹💫

In astrology, Juno is the asteroid associated with long term commitment, marriage, compromise, and generally working together as a couple. It can indicate what you seek in/what you need in a long term relationship, and the kind of person that will be best for you in the long run.

I WANT TO/SHOULD BE IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO IS…

ARIES: …Bold, strong willed, passionate, independent, confident, self assured, self motivated, ambitious, direct, able to stand up for themselves

TAURUS: …Financially secure, stable, sensual, indulgent, able to stick to what they have said, reliable, able to appreciate the pleasures in life

GEMINI: …Witty, flexible, intellectually stimulating, spontaneous, playful, able to not always stick to a strict routine, able to actively engage in conversation

CANCER: …Kind, sensitive, in touch with their emotions, nurturing, protective of their loved ones, able to put emphasis on the family, caring

LEO: …Charismatic, romantic, attentive, expressive, generous, able to spoil you, over the top when it comes to you, entertaining, bold

VIRGO: …Practical, sensible, selfless, able to be of service, able to work diligently, modest, organized, detail oriented, able to stick to a routine, efficient

LIBRA: …Balanced, fair, considerate of others, able to easily compromise, diplomatic, charming, fashionable, appreciative of the arts

SCORPIO: …Intense, deep in terms of their emotions, passionate, intimate, transformative, able to rejuvenate you, mysterious

SAGITTARIUS: …Open minded, not too clingy, philosophical, enjoys traveling, expansive, able to know when you need space, optimistic

CAPRICORN: …Reliable, committed, hardworking, secure, able to sustain both you and themselves, responsible, able to take things seriously

AQUARIUS: …Unique, goes against societal norms, progressive, innovative, able to create change in society, able to look forward and not backwards

PISCES: …Compassionate, deeply sensitive, dreamy, imaginative, spiritual, empathetic, able to feel what others are feeling, intuitive, soft at heart

MY LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP(S) MAY BE ENTERTWINED WITH…

JUNO IN THE FIRST HOUSE: …My indentity, my outer personality, who I am to others, my appearance, my general vibe

JUNO IN THE SECOND HOUSE: …My possessions, my values, my worth for myself and for others, my finances, my security

JUNO IN THE THIRD HOUSE: …The way I communicate, my conversations, my words, my ability to convey my thoughts

JUNO IN THE FOURTH HOUSE: …My home, my family, my past, my childhood, long kept memories, the private parts of who I am, nurturing

JUNO IN THE FIFTH HOUSE: …My creativity, my passions in life, entertainment, fun, the children in my life, how I enjoy myself

JUNO IN THE SIXTH HOUSE: …My devotion, my service to others, my workplace, my health, my methods of organization, my selflessness

JUNO IN THE SEVENTH HOUSE: …The parts of myself that I am unable to recognize, how I please others, how I am able to compromise, balance

JUNO IN THE EIGHTH HOUSE: …My personal transformations, my soul, my spiritual endeavors, my secrets, death, the parts of myself I don’t want people to see

JUNO IN THE NINTH HOUSE: …My beliefs, traveling, my view on life, philosophy, personal expansion, my personal freedoms

JUNO IN THE TENTH HOUSE: …Who I want to become and/or who I want to be seen as, my life goals, my career path, my success, recognition

JUNO IN THE ELEVENTH HOUSE: …Where I fit in in society, social groups, my friends and platonic relationships, my community, how I socialize

JUNO IN THE TWELFTH HOUSE: …The unconscious parts of me, my compassion and my empathy, my dreams, my intuition, the hidden parts of me

Pros and cons: Venus in the Houses

Venus in 1st House

Pros: Always make effort to look good, have a natural charm, good looks and style. Can be very likeable and pleasant to be around. 

Cons: Can be vain, obsessed or focused on appearance(not only their own), might be flirtacious and lead people on. 

Venus in 2nd House: 

Pros: They love buying presents, investing their money in beautiful things. Can have a natural way with money, be good or lucky with it. 

Cons: Can be materialistic, put too much importance in money and idealise wealth. Can be a gold-digger or use beauty to get wealth. 

Venus in 3rd House:

Pros: Their words and way of speaking are beautiful. Likely someone who doesn’t curse and makes other feel good with their words. Probably good at singing or writing.

Cons: Might not be the kind to feel good about telling the truth, because they don’t want to put others down. 

Venus in 4th House:

Pros: Good at decorating their home, making their home more beautiful/comfortable. Have strong family values and are usually the family type. Probably had a very loving home/family.  

Cons: Might be shy with love, be very sentimental and have a hard time letting go.

Venus in 5th House:

Pros: Very artistic, they love their hobbies, they love having fun and are usually fun to be around. Appreciate art and beauty. They love children and animals. 

Cons: Might focus too much on pleasure and having fun rather than work. Can have a lot of relationships before settling down or finding someone who brings enough fun.

Venus in 6th House:

Pros: Brings beauty into their everyday life, find beauty in the small things and are very appreciative by nature. Committed to what they love.

Cons: Can love their work more than the people around them. Likely to have a sweet tooth. 

Venus in 7th House:

Pros: Very good at business and making connections, keeping good relationships with people. Will probably have a good marriage.

Cons: Goes out of their way to be liked and accepted. They might use people in order to get what they want.

Venus in 8th House:

Pros: Private with their love life, they hide what they treasure. Very passionate, loyal, sexual. 

Cons: Can be too obsessive, possessive, controlling. Might like darker things, things that are forbidden, dangerous. Might like secret affairs or unattainable people. 

Venus in 9th House:

Pros: They love adventures, discovering new things, people that are different from them. The kind of person to learn from love, they have an easy time letting things go. 

Cons: Might not want to commit if their partner doesn’t accept them and what they love, they wouldn’t want a close-minded partner. They need freedom. 

Venus in 10th House:

Pros: Will be known for their grace, beauty, likely to have a good reputation and be well-liked. Might appeal to someone more powerful/successful than them. 

Cons: Might use their beauty and charisma to grow in their career, become famous or get to a position of power. 

Venus in 11th House:

Pros: Likely someone a lot of people have a crush on. Very kind, social and charismatic, they can make everyone in the room like them. Lovers of peace, equality, making everyone feel appreciated. 

Cons: Their friendly nature might be mistaken for flirting, they can often look like they’re leading people on even if it’s not their intention. Would rather be friends with someone first, then date them. Their friends might be more important to them than their partner. 

Venus in 12th House:

Pros: Put their partner on a pedestal, would probably do anything for them. Love is something very private, personal to them.They have a very kind nature, are very caring and  probably love animals, children, etc. 

Cons: They can often choose to keep their love/feelings to themselves, not reveal them. Can be confused whether they actually like someone or are just needing to like someone. 

dating a capricorn venus  💭

note: this is heightened if mars is also in capricorn because mars correlates heavily to HOW your affection/romance is expressed. capricorn moons & dominants will likely also relate to this! 🌱

helps you get your life together

tweaks your resume for you / helps you with your homework (this is a love language ok)

constantly trying to give you their things (hoodies/food/etc)

constantly trying to BUY you things

probably tries to pay your bills even tho they can’t afford their own damn bills

gives you your space and respects/encourages independence but also secretly wants to be around you all the time and cling to you (depending on moon)

usually struggles with expressing affection verbally (often not good with things like using cheesy nicknames, overt romantic gestures, etc) but you’ll never doubt that you’re loved

will do literally anything and everything for you

the type to bring you homemade soup at 4am because you texted saying you were sick/sad/etc

probably “parents” you a lot (”have you ate yet?” “did you get home safe?” “how was your day? what happened?”)

very protective of you and gets very defensive/upset when others talk/think badly about you or you talk/think badly about yourself

not the type to just listen to your problems, they want to give actual advice and help you solve them in whatever way they can

that being said; they are great listeners (again depending, especially on mercury/sun) and enjoy listening to their significant other talk 24/7, they really want to know anything and everything about you

you’ll know a cap venus likes you when they encourage you to ramble about everything, because normally they aren’t one for “useless” talks (this will apply more heavily to those with cap mercury rather than cap venus but wanted to include it since many cap venuses have cap mercury as well)

very encouraging about your career & goals, again wants to help you achieve them and plan them out (brings realism and structure into your life as a way of showing love, they just want the best for u!)

very big on physical affection, cap venuses are HUGE cuddlers

clingy soft babies on the inside but they really struggle to admit and express this, so you have to give them time to open up

they need a lot of encouragement and validation in a relationship because they overthink/overanalyze everything, but they won’t ever admit this [they’re really big on words of affirmation despite not being good at giving these themselves]

they always want to be best friends with their significant other; which is why breakups are always so painful for them because it’s also always losing a best friend too

sends you pics of two cats together and says “that’s us” and says it counts as saying i love you (it does!!!! let us live)

The 4th Wall 📰

Aries in the 4th house cusp:

Boxing ring

Everything on an instinctual level is felt with much force. There is a level of heat and passion boiling in the inner cauldron of your heart and no matter how watery your chart or how reserved you present yourself, deep down you are a force to be reckoned with and struggle with avoiding some sort of confrontation or even instigating it in some fashion especially with loved ones or when in a place you perceive as “home.” You can be demanding but also Independent. You want your love unions to be passionate and authentic but can lack a level of diplomacy and co-tactics when it comes down to actually working with your partner. Sex and some sort of drive are deep emotional needs for you and at your core you’re very much so confident and self aware of who you are.

Taurus in the 4th house cusp:

Camp fire

Often quiet and obstinate you carry yourself with a inner level of stability and calm. You hate loud and obnoxious energy no matter how much of a fun and outgoing soul you may be. To you reliability and security are FIRST and FOREMOST in life, anything lacking isn’t worth your true emotional involvement. Often you adore the mundane and more sensual aspects of life, be it waking up in the early morning to the smell of breakfast or the soft touches of your dogs wet nose on your cheeks. Intimacy as well as depth matter a great deal to you and no matter how detached of a chart you may have a part of you( a very big part of you) will always crave some sort of authentic and genuine level of closeness and touch. More than most touch starvation can be hard for you and you often need intimate contact both platonic and romantic in some way. Romantically you’re extremely patient and loyal to whom you choose to stay with. Often you value solitude with your lover and can grow very possessive over them once you let your guard down. Deep down you’re tremendously stable and mature.

Gemini in the 4th house cusp:

See-Saw

There’s always this scattered nature to you, as if your mind is nine places at once only stopping to jump to a 10th sphere of fascination. Deep down life is a come and go experience for you and you likely grew up in a communicative upbringing for better or worse, wether it was communicating with your probation officer, wether it was with your parents who valued more detached intimacy, whether it might’ve been learning to survive on your own through means of “communication” you often learned to talk as a means to cope and express. You need a level of mental connectivity in your life and often anything lacking that can push you away greatly. For you it’s about the spark, the ease of communicating with someone on and on without feeling or questioning in your mind wether or not you should laugh or not. At a deep level your anxious and ungrounded and can feel a bit intimidated by the more committed aspects of life. To you a lack of restraint or responsibility even if your mercury sits in the 10th can make you feel at ease. You tend to be very active when at home and for a lover they may feel a bit overwhelmed by your vast mental energy. You often need a best friend in a lover before you let them in emotionally and usually you get very attached to someone who you feel as though you can speak with easily without much strain.

Cancer in the 4th house cusp:

The dinner Table

In some ways you are private, in others you’re warm and welcoming depending on the way the wind blows. You like a level of mystery when it comes to your personal life but can also struggle with being to smothering to others due to your deep need to protect and care for others. At your core you’re a mother. Man or female the divine feminine energy runs deeply within you. Your mom has a great impact on your life and you often take after her in the looks department and in the tendencies department. Your mothers chart has a lot of you in it as well. You can be very moody and often try to hide this part of yourself as you yourself don’t always know how to handle these emotions. Family and sympathy a strong values for you and you’re often attracted to people who are strong but gentle hearted. Romantically you’re so sweet and put everything on the line for the lover albeit you hide them like no bodies business due to your intensely private nature. Deep down you’re as emotional as any crab but also with a level of compassion that many can only admire.

Leo In the 4th house cusp:

The carnival

Often a level of playfulness and childishness characterizes who you really are. You love to enjoy yourself and often find a means of stimulation no matter what the circumstance. You think of yourself quite a bit(which isn’t a bad thing) but it makes it pretty hard to roommate with you of course 😂. You often have a very diva-like persona and a very high sense of your worth in this World. For you the most important thing is feeling as though your interactions and your life choices are always a reflection of your true desires and self. It’s honestly not in your nature to pretend and it can be hard to be around a superficial lot. You put your heart and soul into all you do, which at times can cause you to feel slighted when the same level of enthusiasm is not returned at least one trillion fold. No matter how earthy your chart you have a level of flamboyance and impulsivity that is engrained deep in your heart. You can lack the ability to see past your own pains and woes at times which makes it hard for you to sympathize with others but In that regard you have a huge heart and tend to do anything and everything for those you love! Even if you might complain about it at a later date! Romantically you’re a simple one to please! You just crave a high level of devotion and to be the center of your lovers world and anything lacking in that intensity is not for you.

Virgo in the 4th house cusp:

The Ironing board

You’re a bit more on the soft and passive side deep down. Most people may be a bit taken a back by your reserved nature especially if your have a more fiery chart or even surprised by your lack of emotional readability even if you have a watery chart. You tend to be brutally analytical of your emotions and can be a

Very intense crier because of how much of what you feel that is ignored or pushed away as being childish or unnecessary as deemed by your own mind. In truth you’re very sensitive and have a tremendous soft side for everyone in the world no matter how detached you may seem to those who get to know you better. You make light of tragedies in your life and tend to deal with your trauma by dry humor or even just laughing it off. You don’t like to linger on sadness and aren’t one to speak on your own woes in life so people who are constantly preaching about their angst tend to make you uncomfortable. In a way you view emotions as a weakness so you tend to withhold a great deal of your emotions. A level of depth and mystery surrounds you and your family and you may come from a family that shares a pattern of addiction or OCD in some way. Cleanliness and perfection are themes you live by and you might unfairly hold yourself to unrealistically high standards. Despite high standards you’ve programmed yourself to meet you’re often limitless in your potential and capability and have likely already reached these outrageously high standards you’ve set for yourself which is often why no matter how welcoming and sweet you may be there is always a level of intimidation and awe people feel when in your presence even without knowing you, people already know you’re someone to respect. Romantically you hold back really opening up for quite some time. You need to know they can handle your pain, your rage, your hurt and sadness before you truly open up to them otherwise it’s a waste to you. Animals tend to adore you albeit dogs especially, all animals look to you as if you’re their mother and may act infantile or clingy when in your presence, children as well.

Libra in the 4th house cusp:

The Salon

There’s a huge difference between your sociability and actually “knowing” you. Most people may struggle to have a actual bond with you because of how neatly and politely you keep them at a distance. The deep part of you loves to keep things surface level out of a deep seated fear of “needing” others. You prefer to be alone as opposed to approaching things with a “partner in crime” mentality. Libra here doesn’t incline you as a person who’s highly co-dependent. On the contrary this placement can make someone highly intent on maintaining a level of objectivity and a lack of bias in their dealings with others. At your core you believe in respect and at a deep level you adore and value the opinions of others and freedom is speech! You often have strong beliefs and values spiritually and politically even if in a sense you prefer to keep you mouth shut on more controversial issues. To outsiders you have the perfect family, the easy life, the perfect smile, the easiest of lovers to be with. The reality of these statements is that you suffer internally from being “seen” as what surrounds you rather than what you “are” romantically you prefer a down to earth lover who has a strong desire to build and nurture your bond with one another-always digging to decode who you are and vice versa, for you love is like a puzzle you earnestly seek to solve.

Scorpio on the 4th house cusp:

Crime scene

Deep down at your core you carry a heavy weight, one that shrouds the sun and tenses the seas. You have a highly attuned 7th sense and see the world for its good, bad and ugly. A level of real-ness exist for you when it comes to the world as a whole as you tend to dance with the darkest sides of humanity more than the most. Scorpio here sadly can manifest as very malefic and dark childhood experience for most especially if Pluto is afflicted but once more this is not a common theme. Their is a certain level of darkness to you and those who may meet you may be a bit unnerved or immersed by how poetic and profound you intimate nature really is. You love to play with fire and find that investigation, crime, psychology, layers all of these things excite you more so because it invites a level of authenticity to the human experience-a min-ute moment in time to truly connect and immerse into the emotional sanctum of others without the mask and farces many is wear everyday. You might have a mental block or complex surrounding sex that creates a level of intensity and restriction to the act for you. Romantically you want someone for all they are, their weaknesses, their faults, their ups and downs and want the same in return. It’s hard for you to let go of lovers and if they fall in your 8th house this is doubled. You usually struggle with opening up which causes you problems in the more lighthearted stages of romances but as you get deeper into it and with a more patient partner you’re well worth the wait.

Sagittarius on the 4th house cusp:

The airport

Something is inviting to you about the world, you envy the seemingly untethered nature of the world around you. You’re easily distracted by life itself, and have an inner gravitation to the many philosophies of the world religious or not. You can’t help but want to learn and study and see everything and anything you can. You hate stagnate situations and even more so people who are to heavily materialistic. Having this ic offsets a lot of even the most earthiest people as it creates an inner almost soulful need to be completely and soulful disconnected from everything that is tied down to the world of the physical. At your heart you’re so fill of life-endlessly and wholeheartedly! Your home life was often full of its fair share of ups and downs but you always managed to find the shining light above it all. Your family may have been big or just very protective and loving. Often one of the parents was absent minded but a very soulful person. Unlike a sag moon most with this position have a profound level of intimacy imbedded in them, they live for those close moments because Sagittarius expands their inner need for nurture. Romantically they’re babies and enjoy a good cuisine and good love.

Capricorn on the 4th house cusp:

Wallstreet journal

A stark coldness exist on the outset with you but it’s mainly because your home life was one raised with seriousness and intensity. One or both of the parents where very frugal and often made sure to instill a fear of mediocrity in the child. Because of this as a person you’re very mature, the world weighs heavily on your shoulders but as you’ve aged that burden as gotten much lighter. These natives hold a huge reserve of loyalty and tenacity in their heart as they’re often the ones to work tirelessly on a dead cause only to revive it beyond what it even was before it had given out. These natives are not firm believes in handouts earthly or spiritual in nature unless they have a highly attuned 9th house. Often these natives struggle with battling moments of depression or emotional exhaustion that many wouldn’t even be able to tell especially if they have a more optimistic personality on the surface. They take commitment and bonds very seriously, very scarcely extending out that hand for continued intimacy. They often have a cold but long lasting bond with their family albeit one that is lacking in its warmth(which is not always the case) romantically these natives want someone who is willing to live life in a way they cannot, with freedom. They strongly crave someone who understands the seriousness of this world but who still finds a way to look beyond the mechanism of society, to take them down highway 49 in the dead of night and blast chancla in the car singing along without a care in the world.

Aquarius on the 4th house cusp:

The space ship

You’re often someone who views the world in a wide lens, a glass always half filled. To you the world is meant to be questioned, never taken as is. You enjoy the more detached and mental aspects of your surroundings especially at home and can be a bit harder to read once you’re in a place you feel comfy. You aren’t the type heavily tied to your roots which shows in your rather impersonal dealings with family(not any less lacking in warmth mind you :)) you tend to adore a close knit buddy system when it comes to intimacy and family life but due to this lack a practical and grounded tug towards home. In many ways you’re a drifter or a nomad constantly shifting from scene to scene never truly feeling like home is any one place. Your mind moves like clock work and you’re genius can really show when you’re in a place of comfort. Mentally you’re unlike any other and have a bountiful love for humanity and those feelings created and fostered through such interactions. Unlike Aquarius moods you’re not the type to alienate you’re emotions rather you’re more apt to keep your emotional issues away from home and much rather handle you’re emotions albeit rationally, fairly head on. Romantically it’s the brains not the brawns that entice you. A lover who is a bit of a casual rider in life whilst keeping a genuine lust to explore and transverse the human psyche as you do is the one for you.

Pisces on the 4th house cusp:

The lake

The winds are constantly sweeping you across your feet. In some ways you’re soft hearted, constantly putting yourself in everyone’s shoes but on the other hand you maintain a good distance from letting anyone really see what’s going on. You tend to play with the dark here and there which gives you a more mysterious, uncharted type of energy. In many ways you’re irroestiable but also fragile and innocent. Your heart is vast and full of many strings all leading to different repressed and often glossed over childhood upbringing. In most cases these are people who hold on to figments and pieces of memories altering them in a way that shadows and past hurt in their lives. They adore nature and the more simplistic or rather subtle parts of the world. Most times they are reclusive and hidden always preferring to be the forgotten soul who just so happened to pass right by you without a sound. Men and women here tend to have a rather up/down relationship with their family or parents be it to obsessive, to unpredictable, to unstable, to manipulative, to ambiguous, to close, to detached and so on. Most cases the family is extremely tight knit and close but may lack a actually fundamental stability that holds most things together because of Neptune. Most natives with this tend to attract animals who were once humans in their past life or whom have a highly keen spiritual awareness making pets a more trying experience for these natives due to the strong personalities. You tend to have a deep set emotionally connected spiritual side and can pick up small and even minuscule changes in vibrations or feelings in the air. Energy is your 2nd language and you find it incredibly hard especially in the young years to follow your intuition. On a deep level you’re spiritually powerful and have an ability to understand and heal many of the burdens people carry heavy on their heart. Romantically you need someone who can dance with you in the spirit world. Most of these natives end up with rather powerful people mainly because they need someone who can match their inner level of emotional intensity.

Lilith through the Degrees😫😫

0° – The Raw Rebel

Lilith’s energy is undiluted and intense here. This person is unapologetically rebellious and often triggers strong reactions from others without trying. They exude raw, untamed power.

1° – The Independent One

Lilith at this degree craves absolute independence. There’s a fearless, pioneering quality, but also a tendency to push others away due to a “me against the world” mindset.

2° – The Sensual Siren

A deeply magnetic energy—whether consciously or not, these people attract strong desires and obsessions from others. There’s a connection to pleasure, beauty, and indulgence.

3° – The Trickster

Lilith at this degree has a playful but chaotic nature. There’s an ability to manipulate situations, often without even realizing it. Words and wit are weapons here.

4° – The Silent Power

A deeply reserved yet unshakable presence. They don’t need to scream to be intimidating—just their energy alone makes people respect (or fear) them.

5° – The Free Spirit

Lilith here refuses to be boxed in by tradition or rules. There’s a strong urge to break societal norms, especially regarding gender roles, relationships, or creative expression.

6° – The Forbidden Healer

Lilith at this degree has a deep connection to pain, healing, and transformation. They may attract wounded souls or play the role of a guide, but their wisdom often comes from personal suffering.

7° – The Seductive Mind

A mix of mystery and intelligence—people with this placement can be dangerously charming. They know exactly what to say to pull others in (or push them away).

8° – The Power Player

Lilith at 8° is all about control, dominance, and influence. These individuals either own their power or find themselves caught in power struggles with others.

9° – The Untamed Dreamer

A deeply idealistic yet rebellious energy. This person may struggle with feeling trapped in reality, constantly seeking a life that is wilder, freer, and more meaningful.

10° – The Social Rule-Breaker

Lilith here challenges societal structures. They may be known for rejecting authority, questioning norms, or reshaping institutions in a way that benefits the “outsiders.”

11° – The Unpredictable One

This degree gives Lilith an erratic, electric energy. Others can’t predict them, and that makes them both intriguing and intimidating. There’s a genius-madness balance here.

12° – The Illusionist

Lilith at 12° is skilled at blending in while secretly staying untamed. They can play the role society expects, only to break free when least expected. A master of deception.

13° – The Boundary Destroyer

This placement rejects restrictions—whether it’s in relationships, spirituality, or lifestyle choices. They may also struggle with blurred personal boundaries, either craving total control or none at all.

14° – The Enigmatic Siren

A powerful mix of intellect and seduction. These people often have a quiet magnetism that makes others curious about them. They attract attention without even trying.

15° – The Shadow Walker

Lilith at 15° moves between light and darkness with ease. They may feel drawn to taboo topics, the occult, or hidden power structures. Their presence alone can feel haunting.

16° – The Unchained Heart

They crave absolute emotional and physical freedom. Relationships must be equal and liberating, or they’ll run. This degree can also make them immune to emotional manipulation.

17° – The Disruptor

Lilith here embodies chaos as a catalyst for change. They may struggle with constantly being “too much” for others, but their rebellious energy forces necessary growth.

18° – The Dark Visionary

A deep connection to hidden truths, psychic insights, and underground power. Lilith at this degree often challenges people’s comfort zones with their ideas, art, or energy.

19° – The Siren’s Curse

Magnetic but dangerous—Lilith at 19° attracts obsessive energy from others. They have an intense, hypnotic aura but must learn to protect their own energy from toxicity.

20° – The Unforgiving One

Lilith here holds grudges forever. If betrayed, they will burn bridges without hesitation. Others may see them as cold or detached, but they simply refuse to tolerate disrespect.

21° – The Wild Wanderer

They reject routine, comfort zones, and anything that feels too safe. Lilith at 21° is a cosmic drifter, always searching for a new thrill, experience, or untamed passion.

22° – The Ruthless Strategist

Lilith at this degree is calculating, patient, and in full control of their power. They don’t act impulsively—they move like a chess player, always ten steps ahead.

23° – The Hypnotic Rebel

A rebellious nature that draws people in rather than pushing them away. They challenge norms so effortlessly that others feel naturally compelled to follow them.

24° – The Forbidden Lover

A highly seductive yet elusive energy. This placement often involves themes of taboo love, forbidden attraction, or power struggles in relationships.

25° – The Untouchable One

They have an air of mystique and danger that makes others obsessed—but they remain emotionally distant. People want to figure them out, but they rarely let anyone in.

26° – The Unbreakable Force

Lilith at 26° is resilient and relentless. No matter how many times they’re knocked down, they come back stronger. Others may fear their ability to rise from the ashes.

27° – The Subtle Destroyer

They don’t look like a troublemaker, but their mere presence challenges the status quo. Their power lies in their quiet defiance—they dismantle systems from the inside.

28° – The Cosmic Witch

Lilith here is deeply spiritual, intuitive, and connected to the unseen. They often feel like an outsider in this world, drawn to magic, astrology, or esoteric knowledge.

29° – The Fated Femme Fatale

A karmic placement—Lilith at 29° feels destined for intense, transformative experiences. They may struggle with being either feared or desired, but never ignored.

Juno persona chart

mars in the houses

what is a juno persona chart? looking into juno persona chart gives more detailed insight of how the relationship and marriage overall of you and your spouse will be like. it also describes them in a sense as well. The Greek Goddess Juno is described to rule over love and marriage and hence why the asteroid is looked into for that theme.

mars in the planet of passion, ones drive and desires. in the juno persona chart, mars determines the energy of the relationship, intimacy and possible conflicts that may occur.

reminder: this is my interpretation from observations and first hand experiences, so don't take this to heart.

**also this can also be used for signs as well, for example if mars in persona chart is in scorpio, read what applies to the 8th house as it may resonate as well.

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mars in 1st house: the couples energy in the relationship is full of passion like literally. this house is literally ruled by mars so the energy is intense. very full of energy, full of support from both parties when it comes to ones interests. intimacy is full of power and can be quite tough also, lots of verbality during it. lots of sweating, like A LOT. but it can last very quick also, so the duration of intimacy can be very quick. also during the process the pace can be very fast and rough. since this house is an adrenaline rush house, so performing the act in places that are risky or you know that you may get caught, that may cause a rush to both parties that make them feel alive. conflicts may occur due to being too dominant in the marriage maybe being too demanding or being too rough on their spouse, this may cause some serious arguments, it can even become physical so be careful with that. also being argumentative about ones self centred mindset, lots of vulgar words can be used during arguments.

spouse can have natal mars in aries, 1st house, fire sign or a fire house.

mars in 2nd house: the energy in this marriage is calming and chill. this reminds me of just getting each other and vibing from day one. but on a serious note, intimacy is very sensual and very slow paced. can be very graceful in a way?? also this couple may be into food related s*x so including food as a source of technique. intimacy may last quite along time and can be full of neck and collar bone kisses. conflicts may occur due to disagreements in financial areas and possessions. so for example one party may have an overly excessive tendency to over shop or get stuff that they don't need and so their spouse may get angry about it. also arguments may happen due to financial situations like having problems with the bank or contracts.

spouse can have natal mars in taurus, 2nd house, earth sign or an earth house.

mars in 3rd house: passion in this relationship is quick and versatile. can be lots of changes and adaptations to their passion. during intimate hours, it is very rushed. almost wanting for more after intimacy is finished. i feel like also this placement can change their mind a lot when it comes to being intimate, like saying one thing but doing the other because they changed their mind. also there can be lots of talking while being intimate so lots of grunts, screaming and talking in general, just anything to do with talking can possibly occur. conflicts may occur due to sibling drama or something that happens in the neighbourhood. arguments may start from this placement just constantly talking like in general maybe too much talking or just oversharing to other people and their spouse gets angry at the personal things that are being shared to their friends. also conflicts may happen due to friends, so maybe this placement may not like the friends that their partner hangs out with or they don't like how they act and stuff like that.

spouse can have natal mars in gemini, 3rd house, air sign or air house.

mars in 4th house: the overall passion of this marriage is taking care of each other and being there for each other emotionally. lots of reflection on each other so checking up on each other even if the other person is completely fine, this placement tends to never ignore their gut instinct. intimacy is very sentimental and slow, almost careful as not to hurt the other person or each other. there may be lots of chest techniques involved (i'll let that proceed with your imagination) possibly, intimacy is very full of praise and the person will never go too far for what their partner can handle, always checking up on them also during it and maybe lots of stroking on the head to signify that their partner is doing good. (okayy i think i just went overboard but you get the gist). in terms of conflict, arguments usually arrive from problems with their family members, for example maybe this placements mother and them got into an argument about something and their partner got angry that way and so forth. conflicts also occur when their is a lack of emotional awareness of each other and oneself, maybe this placement got too overwhelmed or stressed and just broke out in anger and start conflict that way.

spouse can have natal mars in cancer, 4th house, water sign or water house

mars in 5th house: the passion between the couple is very open, very playful but can also be that this placement thinks that the relationship evolves around them, that their the main character. of course being the main character is awesome but in this situation its more about only thinking about themselves and not thinking about others. this may cause conflict due to this placement possibly being too braggy or too self-centred and maybe thinking of only themselves. intimacy is full of noises and they make sure to show their partner that they are enjoying themselves. lots of hair pulling and hair stroking. also lots of gripping of the back. this placements just likes to make their partner own them. also arguments may start due to disagreements about children, maybe they don't want children but one does. or maybe they have different hobbies that they do and arguments about their hobbies and how they spend their free time.

spouse can have natal mars in leo, 5th house, fire sign or fire house.

mars in 6th house: the passion in this marriage is based on routine and daily life schedules. intimacy is quite structured and very based on how the individuals daily routine went like, so it depends if they have time to fit it in kind of way into their busy day. this placement tends to also acknowledge positions that feel good to both parties, nothing that goes out of their comfort zone. oh and the aftercare is very important for this placement, very concerned about how their partner felt during it and after it so they take their time to make sure they feel as special. conflict may occur due to health illnesses or sickness. maybe an illness is preventing this placement to do certain things and so their spouse may get angry about it. or arguments may start due to laziness or promises not being kept.

spouse can have natal mars in virgo, 6th house, earth sign or earth house.

mars in 7th house: this placement is very confusing. one minute the couple are fine and getting along and bonding but i kid you not it can be in a second span between them getting along to roaring each others throats out. you get the best of both worlds, what is bad without good? no but this house rules over balance and expect very very versatile energy in this relationship. but when the couple is thriving the connection between the two is very romantic and sweet, very flirtation, LOTS of flirting. also in bed its quite sensual and nothing too extreme or kinky, i would say that when it comes to being intimate both parties are in a good mood to do it, no anger s*x or anything like that unless other factors and aspects disagree. nothing too dirty either, maybe lots of flirting while doing it and dirty talking also. conflicts occur due to getting mad that the other person doesn't give back what they are given, for example when their spouse gets an 'i love you' and they don't say it back and that sort of thing. also arguments about government complications such as legal documents, the law and so forth.

spouse may have natal mars in libra, 7th house, air sign or air house.

mars in 8th house: passion between the two is intense and spiritual. lots of transformation happening when intimacy occurs. even when it comes to the first time when being intimate, it can be such a different and intense occurrence and very meaningful also. this is the house of s*x so intimacy is very sexual, very intense lots of trauma being released so it can be quite emotional. energy in the relationship can be quite secretive, perhaps the other does not trust one with specific things or would rather talk with someone else about it than their partner. on the other hand it can be very money based, the individual may rule over their partners money and even their card. their finances have big presence in their marriage, this individual may be driven by money and is always in control of it either if its their own money or their partners. overall energy in this marriage is transformative also.

spouse can have natal mars in scorpio, 8th house, water sign or water house.

mars in 9th house: passion between the couple is very versatile and very explorative, both parties are down for new positions, techniques and styles in terms of intimacy and are very open minded about them. intimacy can be very fun and exciting, maybe lots of giggles and teasing involved. also when performing intimacy, it may occur in different places, for example like the counter in the kitchen or literally while doing laundry and you just make out like?? literally any place you can imagine, this placement will probably be down for it. as for the energy of the relationship, it very travel and learning based, lots of learning learning learning. this house is ruled by jupiter so very abundant in lots of areas of life (check sign for greater detail). for example if 9th house is in capricorn (and so would mars) then career may thrive, getting respect from people after marriage, having luck in formal situations and finance documents, becoming more mature, receiving recognition for your talents and so forth. if in cancer then the individual may become more caring, be blessed with a family, have greater relations with females, have a greater perception of ones emotions and so on. conflicts may often occur due to indifferences in culture, beliefs and morals. not agreeing on the same location when going on a trip or over getting mad about factual stuff. arguments can start out as jokes and then develop into serious arguments as one can take it too far. so arguments about silly things that may not have significant meaning, (for example arguing over why the other party sneezed too loud??)

spouse may have natal mars in Sagittarius, 9th house, fire sign or fire house.

mars in 10th house: energy of this marriage is full of passion in their career. very successful career and career driven. ready to provide for their family and ready to provide their spouse with income. intimacy is very traditional, very modern and most likely this placement has a schedule of when they do it like on a specific day every week and so forth. also this placement rarely changes their style and technique when being intimate so its most likely the same every time. this placement also likes to baby their partner and be a 'parent' to them, taking care of them and giving them privileges. this also applies during intimacy. conflicts usually occur due to career difficulties, for example, maybe they didn't take up a new job opportunity or maybe they didn't get paid the extra for what they worked for and things like that. also conflicts may occur due to problems with their father, this placements father may bring something that angers their spouse or them.

spouse can have natal mars in capricorn, 10th house, earth sign or earth house.

mars in 11th house: energy of the relationship is unique to them. others may have different opinions about this relationship and lots of outside banter of this relationship. for example people just pin point details that they think is wrong with the relationship. intimacy is quite out of the blue can happen spontaneously which makes it very exciting. lots of different things could be taking place when intimacy occurs. like using some equipment or having like toys for it. conflicts may occur due to opinionated views about humanitarian stuff like not agreeing on not enough help is going on about in the world and the other one may disagree and so on. also arguments about their social groups, perhaps this placement is not pleased with how their partners social group act and they may tell them stuff that they don't like about them. also problems with social media status, arguments about what their partner posts on social media or how they interact with their social media platforms.

spouse can have natal mars in aquarius, 11th house, air sign or air house.

mars in 12th house: the energy of this relationship is full of dreaminess, due to this house being a delusion house, this placement can have the tendency to have unrealistic expectations of their partner, always thinking the opposite of what is real, for example if this placement spouse doesn't help out with laundry, they can get mad but later on they'll think that they will do it next time you know? also conflicts may occur due to addiction problems, perhaps this placement has a smoking or alcohol addition and their spouse may not like it and they argue about that. also arguments may occur due to illusion problems, sometimes this placement may say stuff that's not true (nearly like they just made it up) and make up a full story about something that their spouse or someone else did but in REALITY nothing like that happened, this type of behaviour may cause conflict between the couple. on the other hand, this placement also has a passion to live abroad and may thrive better overseas with their partner.

spouse may have natal mars in pisces, 12th house, water sign or water house.

thanks so much for reading, have a lovely day 🫶🏻

Love Composite Astrology 🩵💖 Sun ⵙ through the 12 Signs

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Composite Astrology is a form of astrology that is all about putting 2 birth charts together to seek out the connection of both as one. It Is closer than synastry, in my view, and offers to see everything in one package. Please check for the Sun ⵙ sign you have in your composite chart!

Sun ⵙ in Aries ♈︎ - the relationship is the life of the party, there is always focus on the brand new and the risky. the only downfall is to not love bomb, to not go fast paced, but this can be a strong temptation.

Sun ⵙ in Taurus ♉︎ - the connection is full of pleasure, patience, and at times silence. you both are okay with the sounds of the world around you, but also the sounds of your voices blending within together. money, drinks, and recipes are always discussed.

Sun ⵙ in Gemini ♊︎ - you are forever in a discussion of brand new ideas, introducing possible forms of inspiration and optimism to inspire each other. it is important to take note that this connection grows through how you two speak, and think of the world around you.

Sun ⵙ in Cancer ♋︎ - a desire to always care and express adoration is involved in the connection together. you may want to always lean on each other for guidance, comfort, and reassurance. you are known for many talents and skills, but you are most known for being a home for eachother.

Sun ⵙ in Leo ♌︎ - the life of the party flows through you, endless enjoyment and pride seeps into this connection endlessly. you may have always had to expose each others' pains and insecurities in order to keep the connection strong, and without doubt this is the constant challenge of the connection.

Sun ⵙ in Virgo ♍︎ - words and how both are treated are important in your relationship. both parties are constantly looking for realism and honestly, and at times it may be hurtful to hear the truth from each other. this, though, helps to see what page each of you are on, and how your perspectives in each other's thoughts affect the connection.

Sun ⵙ in Libra ♎︎ - there is always a desire and need for balance and welcoming in your connection. you may be known for having your own styles of flirtation, and may love to treat each other as everything is the first time all over again. to be spoken to with respect and elegancy is important, though both you may always speak in rose colored glasses.

Sun ⵙ in Scorpio ♏︎ - the connection is often seen as forbidden but felt so true and intimate as a strong romance from the both of you. endless promises and sacrifices ridden this connection, and its hard to ever leave eachother. it is well known to understand and connect with the most vulnerable sides of each other here.

Sun ⵙ in Sagittarius ♐︎ - your connection is full of strength, attitude, personal perspective and personality. you are both full of life reading to take on a new trip, a new experience in a new location, or a set goal to travel to a newfound place. you may have met and are seen in places of the spiritual, the religious, the hidden, or the educational field.

Sun ⵙ in Capricorn ♑︎ - your connection has been full of struggle but is always met with strength and understanding again. full of control and power, you are constantly in need of connecting with the deepest sides of the self, before ego can walk in. you must both always learn to parent and lean on each other.

Sun ⵙ in Aquarius ♒︎ - the relationship is unsteady, full of rapid changes, and difference in ideas. you may want to both place a label on the connection but at the same time enjoy the presence of each other. this may an open connection, but also a connection that based on understanding eachothers' lifestyles.

Sun ⵙ in Pisces ♓︎ - this love or connection is often seen in dreams, felt before dealt, and focused on the influences around each other. it is important to always focus on what is meant to be released before getting any closer or having any bonds. regardless, both of you go through ups and downs together.

Astro Notes 6🌚

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• whatever element your moon sign is in, you may have a “thing” for ppl with their sun in that element for example:i have a thing and attract many air sign men bc my moon is in gemini. my ex had a capricorn moon and he seems to have a thing for earth sign women.

•capricorn men are really arrogant and can be narcissists, eww

•saturn in 4th house may avoid going to their hometown/where they came from bc it brings up bad memories or they see ppl that gave them trauma. can also be indicated by lilith in 4th, and certain aspects to the 4th ruler

•fire signs in the 8th house may move on fast after a breakup, maybe even too fast😮‍💨

•while earth signs in the 8th house may take too long to move on

•water signs in the 8th house can become depressed, moody, and maybe obsessive when going through a breakup

•air signs in the 8th house may just chill when going through a break up, and accept things for the way they are. but may also try to find out and think abt what went wrong. all these 8th house breakup observations came from @moonianbbyg astro notes post, check it out :)

•saturn in 6th house ppl are usually skinny (saturn=restrict, 6th=rules stomach)

•cancer, and maybe moon in 9th house may have in laws that’ll want you to engage in family events/holidays, and may be warm but may also have an overbearing in law or just toxic & obsessive in laws in general

•sag & aqua in 10th house may not do well with authority/may rebel against authority figures

•mars in 9th may have thought of fucking a teacher/professor(hopefully y’all don’t act on this), and/or may like schoolgirl/teacher role plays, probably wants to do it AT school🧑🏿‍🦰.

•ruler of 11th house in 10th house may get a career through connections to ppl, or may start a business with a friend

•ruler of 2nd house in 8th may like to wear black, and eyeliner. may be attracted to the goth, grunge aesthetic and may be attracted to ppl that dress like that. i have this, although i don’t rlly dress like it that much, i do love when men paint their nails black, wear red/black clothes, and are introverted😩

•also 2nd house ruler in other houses definitely indicate your type based off of looks. for example:in 7th house may usually attract or be attracted to someone that’s conventionally attractive, dresses up to date, basic, and maybe even popular

•3rd house ruler in 1st have no problem speaking up and speaking their mind.

•all air risings are charming in their own ways and unintentionally flirty. sometimes we can be giggly and laugh at someones jokes then everyone thinks we’re attracted to them/flirting, maybe we just find you genuinely funny💀.

•ik it’s leo’s that are associated with this but capricorns should be too. sometimes we get mad when we don’t get our way lmaoo, we can be bratz.

•speaking of leo’s, i’ve noticed a lot of them have scorpio children/a scorpio child? y’all really be getting busy on valentine’s day, huh?😏 maybe that’s just me lol

•taurus mars hate getting tested for strep throat or anything that deals with the throat, since it’s our sensitive area

•virgo women are the fakest out of all the earth signs based on my personal experience

•sagittarius women love to watch netflix/streaming services and lay in bed. probably prefer it over hanging out with friends, at least some days

•november scorpios are more possessive, but october ones are just straight childish sometimes.

•leo men are the type of boys at schools to bully and annoy girls they like🤦🏾‍♀️

•gemini risings have the most misconceptions abt them, no matter if their mc is in aqua or pisces. ppl just assume stuff and/or rumors are spreaded, ppl should just talk to us instead of assuming😒

•cap mercury are some of if not, THE best song writers (taylor swift, shakira, and so many other celebs have this)

•the vibe between gemini and sag moons are ✨𝐼𝑀𝑀𝐴𝐶𝑈𝐿𝐴𝑇𝐸✨. one of them can be like “yo ik it’s 3am but wanna go drive to a mcdonald’s and chill in a parking lot” and the other one is always down no matter what

•also sag women usually absolutely want kids or absolutely DON’T. same goes for gemini women or they may just want 2 at most.

•moon in 9th house in synastry/composite indicates maturing the other person or each other. you expand each other’s POV, and get them to try new things. it’s an underrated placement imo. trying new foods from other cultures and traveling together, so cute🥰, and very interesting and sweet.

•cap risings, cap placements in general, and virgo rising in 2nd/cap decan definitely have some of the best hair

•all fire signs are definitely the friends to hype you up “gurl you’re so pretty” “yesss bitchhh” “okay i see you”🥰

•a lot of gemini personal placements have very nice and beautiful eyelashes. same can be said abt capricorn, regardless of gender lmao.

•mars in 12th house ppl hate doctors offices and hospitals/going to one. they’d rather get better at home.

•capricorns and scorpios usually have long, and deep convos together. very interesting relationship these two signs have, and yeah they are similar(i’ve seen many posts that say that and it’s truee)

•a lot of earth moons need to work on being less ignorant and closed minded. y’all don’t try new things then feel a way when y’all get called boring😴 “don’t knock it til you try it”

•a lot of scorpio guys are naturally funny and entertaining

•gem moons always try to think of the best thing to tell you when you’re in a bad mood, bc we can imagine what we would want to be told in your position. copes with humor/jokes around a lot, but it would be nice to be told words of encouragement every now and then :,). we low key love paragraphs lol.

•some sag placement girls be like “i can save/change him 🥺”. 😂, gurl if you don’t just walk away

•earth moons rarely use heart emojis

•taurus mercurys are usually closed minded and have to have the last word in an argument. if someone has a different opinion, they get all stubborn and stuff ESP if they are a cancer moon.

•cancer mars men can actually be abusive/hurt women and may even be misogynistic smh

•moon in 9th ppl like to party, and may even drink alcohol or do drugs to cope with pain. but this placement is also wise and observant. they know how to read ppl lol but they are NOT afraid to let their opinion be put out there. they can be no filtered fr😹

•mature virgo moon women always care abt others, helps those in need, AND can give actually really good advice on breakups, relationships, fake friends, and moving on, bc they can also be logical if that makes sense.

•a lot of pisces suns are firstborns, and so are a lot of virgo placements

•if your moon and asc are in the same sign, chances are your style really does reflect off of your personality. for ex:both of mine are in gemini, i’ve had so many different hair colors and that would show that im open minded, outgoing and adaptable, which is what i’ve been described as by peers :)

•aquariuses need to learn the difference between being confident and just plain arrogant😬 not all but a good amount💕

•i was on twitter and i seen a tweet from shawtyastrology (shoutout to them) abt how jupiter in houses can indicate your fave subjects in school or what classes you might take. so i wanna use some more examples:in 6th, health. in 8th, psychology/human behavior. in 9th, geography. in 10th, finances. in 11th, math or science or technology classes, in 5th art class, 4th culinary class/lunch(doesnt rlly count but lmao) etc.

•some venus in 5th house ppl might actually do long distance relationships. also sometimes y’all say “i love you” too soon, when in reality you’re just infatuated. also will be loving caregivers/parents.

•if your big 3 is in a scorpio degree(8, 20), you may attract obsessive ppl and a lot of ppl may be jealous of you.

•gemini/aqua in 2nd may be experimental with diets

•unless there’s a positive moon-mercury aspect to save it in synastry/composite, if your moon is negative to any of the personal planets you may not feel comfortable expressing yourself to them and may not rlly have an connection on an emotional level. if there’s no negative aspects at all from/to the moon, that’s also a good sign lol.

•if you and your besties have a positive mercury-mars aspect in composite or synastry, then y’all would be the ones that gossiped and walked in gym class lmaoo. conversations come easy in this relationship, and this is your friend that’s always straight up/real with you.

•mars-uranus/neptune aspects in the natal chart can indicate being a social drinker and/or experimenting with drugs at some point.

•venus in 9th and maybe 11th indicates having no type/having a wide dating range

•taurus in mars sends off a licentious vibe, due to just being sensual, romantic individuals

•just like their opposite moon sign, taurus moons be dishonest💀

𝙵𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚘𝚗𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚊𝚜𝚔𝚜, 𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚜𝚎 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚠𝚊𝚒𝚝, 𝚒 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚊 𝚕𝚘𝚝 𝚐𝚘𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚘𝚗. 𝙸 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚕𝚕🤍.

dating & dates (capricorn version)

capricorn: (capricorn venus/mars/5th house/7th house)

dating someone with capricorn venus, mars, 5th house, and 7th house placements means entering a relationship built on trust, stability, and long-term potential. they take love seriously and approach relationships with a sense of responsibility, always thinking about the future. while they may seem reserved or slow to open up, their love is deeply loyal, unwavering, and enduring. they prefer traditional courtship and value partners who show dedication, ambition, and emotional maturity. they don’t rush into love—they build it over time, like a strong foundation that can withstand anything. capricorn venus expresses love through actions rather than words. they may not be overly romantic, but they show devotion by being reliable, protective, and committed. they need a partner who respects their ambition and values long-term security over fleeting passion. capricorn mars approaches attraction with patience and control. they exude quiet confidence and prefer relationships where effort and persistence pay off. they don’t chase impulsively; they invest in people they see as worthy of their energy. capricorn 5th house enjoys refined, sophisticated forms of pleasure. they prefer classic dates, structured fun, and activities that align with their goals or personal development. they don’t waste time on meaningless distractions and prefer to engage in experiences that feel valuable or productive. capricorn 7th house takes partnerships very seriously, seeking someone who can match their level of commitment and maturity. they are drawn to dependable, hardworking partners and need a relationship that feels like a true partnership rather than just a romantic fling.

date night ideas

a weekend retreat at a cozy mountain cabin, hiking a scenic but challenging trail together, horseback riding through a scenic trail (capricorn venus, capricorn mars) visiting a historic landmark/museum, taking a cooking class with an expert chef, attending a classical music concert/opera, spending an evening at a private members-only club/speakeasy, exploring a prestigious art gallery/private collection, a private yacht/luxury boat ride, watching a film noir/classic black & white movie at a retro cinema (capricorn venus, capricorn 5th house) a fine-dining experience at a high-end restaurant, a wine-tasting tour at a vineyard, a quiet night at home with homemade dinner & deep conversation, taking a couples’ investment/financial planning class, an upscale rooftop dinner with a city skyline view (capricorn venus, capricorn 7th house) exploring an old, historic city & its architecture, going to a high-stakes poker/casino night, a whiskey/bourbon tasting experience (capricorn mars, capricorn 5th house) going to a networking event/business seminar together, attending a leadership/self-development conference together (capricorn 5th house, capricorn 7th house)

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capricorn: (capricorn mars/cupido/eros/lust/amor)

someone with capricorn mars, cupido, eros, lust, and amor has a controlled, dominant, and deeply disciplined approach to intimacy. they may seem reserved at first, but behind closed doors, they have a powerful, almost relentless energy that builds over time, creating an experience that is both intense and unforgettable. they prefer to be in control, setting the pace and ensuring that every moment is executed with precision and purpose. for them, sex is an achievement—something that should be mastered, refined, and deeply satisfying for both partners. they are patient, willing to take their time to perfect their partner’s pleasure, and they value endurance over fleeting passion. while they may not be overly expressive about their desires, their actions speak volumes, showing an unwavering commitment to deep, long-lasting satisfaction. capricorn mars is dominant, structured, and in full control. they prefer a slow build-up, making every movement deliberate and calculated, ensuring their partner is completely at their mercy before giving in. capricorn cupido enjoys the thrill of earning someone’s devotion through discipline and patience. they thrive on anticipation, restraint, and the power dynamic that comes with seduction. capricorn eros approaches passion with depth, treating sex as something sacred yet intensely physical. they crave a connection that is both emotionally fulfilling and powerfully raw. capricorn lust is drawn to control, endurance, and experiences that push physical and mental limits. they have incredible stamina and enjoy testing boundaries in ways that feel deeply satisfying. capricorn amor sees intimacy as a serious and binding act, using it as a way to solidify deep, unshakable devotion. they prefer long-term partners who match their intensity and commitment.

kinks you might have

dressed-up, refined, & elegant seduction (lingerie, tailored suits, high heels), luxury settings enhancing intimacy (silk sheets, high-end hotels, candlelit rooms) (capricorn venus, capricorn cupido, capricorn eros) slow, calculated teasing that builds tension for hours (capricorn mars, capricorn cupido, capricorn eros) power dynamics (dominance & control, authority-based play), exploring submission through structure & discipline, delayed pleasure through strict rules/obedience games, hard-earned rewards after long periods of restraint, taking their time to strip a partner’s composure layer by layer, being fully clothed while controlling their partner’s pleasure (capricorn mars, capricorn cupido, capricorn lust) intense eye contact & quiet, authoritative commands (capricorn mars, capricorn cupido, capricorn amor) restrained passion (controlling pleasure, delayed gratification), long sessions with controlled pacing & slow, deep movements, heightened sensations through temperature play (ice, warm wax, heated touch contrast), endurance challenges (seeing how long they/their partner can last), sensory deprivation (blindfolds, muffled sounds, limited movement) (capricorn mars, capricorn eros, capricorn lust) silent yet intense displays of passion (biting lips, controlled breathing, subtle gestures), sex as a form of deep emotional bonding & commitment, a slow, intense power shift where control subtly transfers over time (capricorn mars, capricorn eros, capricorn amor) consistent repetition of deeply satisfying movements (mastering a technique through control) (capricorn mars, capricorn lust) traditional power roles (one partner in complete control, the other surrendering to discipline) (capricorn mars, capricorn lust, capricorn amor)

all observations are done by me !!! @pearlprincess02

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ranking the venus signs because i can<3

1. capricorn venus. need i say more?

2. aries venus<3 cuties, not fun to have a crush on but if they have a crush on you it is extremely fun

3. scorpio venus. LOVE ME PLEASE UNLESS YOU HAVE A VIRGO MERCURY🧘🏼‍♀️

4. leo venus. usually pretty quick to trust the wrong ppl ngl probably prone to heartbreak but adorable so you get a pass

5. sag venus. overhated, they need more love!!!! all they want is freedom sorry ur so fucking suffocating omg🤨

6. libra venus. this is my own venus i have nothing to say abt it and if i did thats not quite fair is it

7. cancer venus. love you but stop trying to be everybodys mother/father figure it makes us all uncomfy🤗

8. taurus venus. i have nothing bad to say, you dont particularly stick out to me, ive also met very few so sorry🤞

9. pisces venus, super cute but u ruin it with how ur always trying to fix everyone and then ur like “im over this shit😣 never loving anyone again” and then u love someone again???? what the frick

10. gemini venus. very overhated i wont lie, if you have this placement you’re funny as hell and very relatable, you move on so so quickly though and it hurts alot of peoples feelings and for that you get tenth👋

11. virgo venus. ur so cute you have sm loving potential except you ruin it with how fucking picky you are little bitch

12. aquarius venus. i swear to god i love everyone with this placement but you’re so so hard to get to LET PEOPLE LOVE YOU