Hi💖 I Was Wondering If You Can Please Describe How A Chiron In The 1st House In The Composite Chart

my experience with the moon signs ✨

aries moon - a little heartless. very spontaneous. prone to smoking weed a liiiittle too much. either very chill or extremely tense. all their moods last for 0.420 seconds. 

taurus moon ( oh hey thats me ) - sweet. understanding. loves & appreciates nature. can be xtremely stubborn for no reason. usually calm until they snap. in need of romantic love. gets upset mostly when they’re not comfortable w their senses. really bothered by bad aesthetic. 

gemini moon - a weird as fuck placement. intellectualizes their emotions. can be really shady. could even be a slytherin. thats all i can say, sorry gemini moons.

cancer moon - honestly what the fuck. has that “you dont understand!!1!” kind of attitude with pretty much everything. deeply hurt by everyone & everything. probably loves to draw. really influenced by the moon. 

leo moon - prideeee. confidenceee. but is it really? hmm. in all seriousness though, they are charmers of all people and manage to get their way with no effort whatsoever. can turn into a 5 yo with a snap of a finger. looove and probably neeed compliments and verification. could easily turn into the life of the party or the class clown.

virgo moon - their temper is wEIRD. they can get annoyed pretty quickly. sarcastic & cynical. could have an insulting sense of humor. could make fun of EVERYONE. very critical in a humourous way. obsesses over strange stuff for strange reasons. would be the ohmygodtheywereroommates guy.

libra moon - probably thinks about marriage before sleep. love being in a relationship. actually need it. obsesses over their crush. very sweet and friendly. KNO WS how to handle social situations and how to make people feel wanted. the sweetest of all people actually. common to be paired with a fire sign in my experience? actually all libra moons i know are aries’s, leos and saggitarius’s.

scorpio moon - i know no one with this placement, and it makes me wonder if its the reason everything’s so peaceful round here. also i guess that means they’re very rare people?? good luck if you know one/ are one. ( could this post BE more helpful???)

sagittarius moon - giggly. makes fun of everything and everyone. wishes to be the class clown but the seat’s taken by leo moons sorry guys. optimisticm with a fun approach to life. can be irresponsible. free spirited. has the heart ( and the brain ) ( i mean whaat who said that ) of a kid. 

capricorn moon - not one to open up. unless they have a cancer sun in which case grab some popcorn and take a seat. seem snob or cold or unapproachable. mostly serious in front of people, with a mature sense of humor. hiiiigh standards.

aquarius moon - needs social interaction to remain sane. has the craziest dreams at night. brooadd imagination. good at picking social cues. gets sad mostly when feeling left out.

pisces moon - what the actual fuck. i mean you’d think that they’d be really emotional and stuff but actually they all carry the emotional intensity of a carrot.ohh you know what, they could be really emotional but because of that, trying to hide their emotions ( and succeeding ). so either unemotional or extremely emotional, chose your fighter. 

Astro observations! 💗

(part 2!)

- Fire rising’s tend to put their hands on their hips/waist when standing

- When Aquarius Venus’s cut you off they ignore you completely, you get the cold shoulder

- People who have Taurus in the 6th house like taking care of themselves but can be (sometimes) lazy to actually do it

- Water moons, earth Venus’s, and a mix of Aries & Pisces placements tend to play victim a lot

- Virgo Mercury’s can be picky with food & other things

- Scorpio anything are very disarming

- the 11th and 28th degree’s are of wealth & success!

- People who have a fire Mars can be unreliable, they don’t do anything they don’t want to

- When you confront Pisces placements about something they act confused, its actually so funny to me..

- Water suns with an Air Venus can be toxic sometimes

- Aries, Capricorn, and Sagittarius rising’s have the best side profiles, no one can change my mind

- people who have water signs in the 12th house have nice feet

- Pisces Venus’s will always love their ex’s

- Water Mars’s are so scary

- Gemini Mercury’s are very good at lying

- Fire rising’s make a lot of facial expressions, especially when they’re talking to somebody they don't like

- Taurus Venus/Mars are really touchy and seductive

- Venus in 12th house people will literally imagine relationships with people that don't even know them

- Capricorn midheavens admire people who are grounded & independent

- Earth placements seem so put together

- Virgo rising’s have very sharp lifted faces

- Earth mercury’s have good memory

the signs when they're crushing

MOON IN THE 1st HOUSE: Observations

Those who have this placement are ever changing and fluid. These individuals are highly sensitive and attuned to every shift felt within their environment. They are perceptive and watch others from afar in silence. Although their presence is not always recognized, it is felt by everyone. There are periods of time in which those who have the Moon in the first house must hide away. Recharging is very important to these individuals. They have a special connection with water, it soothes their soul. A simple shower can do wonders, this everyday habit cleanses away all the excess energy they pick up from others. They also have a special connection with music, a song playing overhead in a supermarket can change their mood without them even realizing it. On the flip side, there are also times in which a person with this placement wants to show themselves off to the world! They really are quite fun, they get into the type of mischief that reminds me of little kids playing in the dark. They are all giggles and jokes when surrounded by kindred spirits. There is also a naughty side to them that others wouldn't pick up on because they look so innocent. In fact, there are many hidden aspects to those with this placement that will never see the light of day. In ways, these individuals treasure the most private aspects of themselves, but they also carry a lot of shame. From the time they were born, those with Moon in the first house were assigned the role of a caregiver. They have been expected to put others first all throughout their lives. So, in the few instances in which they do something purely for themselves, they often feel conflicted with guilt afterwards. It is easy for others to take advantage of them because of their overly generous nature. Learning how to set healthy boundaries is a hard lesson for those with displacement. They either overly cater to others, or they keep them at a cold distance. They also find it difficult to open up to others, despite the fact that other people open up to them rather easily. However, even with their difficulties in navigating the social sphere, these natives go on to create many deep and meaningful connections throughout their lives. The love and care they give others is life changing and much needed. On an intuitive level, these individuals know what people need. Their delicate nature is soothing and they bring so much comfort into the lives of others. They have huge watery eyes with long eyelashes. Their physical body is defined by many soft features that are pleasing to the eye. They move gracefully and aren’t really prone to pick up on fidgety mannerism. Under periods of stress or discomfort, it is more like their body shuts down into a slump rather than a nervous strain. It is easy to pick up on what they are feeling because they express every emotion readily on their face. They have an inner radiance that reflects their peaceful nature.

libra risings /1H for sureee 🥰🥰🥰

Hey luv,

Since a lot of people has been asking for this and I realized I have not yet to post an air rising post yet, let's start off with one of my personal favourite rising signs, Libra Rising🌸

Libra Rising/ Venus in the first house

my full rising series can be found here

Venusians are stunners, let's be honest here it's not even something new to people. They can honestly have the most unconventional (air) beauty ever but generally, they're still so sooo attractive for some reason🥰

they look approachable. they simply do omg. lemme elaborate on this!! venus is already a very sociable planet and is loved universally. hence people can immediately like them upon the first meeting. if they don't have harsh aspects or other placements that cancel this out, they generally look extremely chill and laidback.

^ even the men with this placement can look so soooo easy going or they might know literally everyone. like trust me on this i'm surrounded by libra rising guys🥲

their partners are usually kinda um... lowkey aggressive? or their relationship/love life can be a bit chaotic than others🤣 they like this tho. they love it when people bring out their wilder sides (aries 7H)

omg i have to talk abt this!!! the straight men with libra rising(esp if they have aqua/leo placements) are SUPER PRIDEFUL!!!!! the type to like being on top in the bedroom to assert "dominance"💀💀 but if well aspected would be down to switch though.

the type to be sippin the tea HOT. but wouldn't necessarily get into drama because they're so "over it" because when they were younger, they may have been a bit dramatic and had so many beef with people LOLLL

family oriented people if well aspected (capricorn 4H) HOWEVER, if there are harsh aspects to their 4H ruler, very much likely to have grown up in a strict home, or home that are too hard on them and expect them to thrive "academically". when they were little they were taught social cues and manners pretty early on, were very much aware of why security and stability matter😌 they want to raise their children this way too, are actually pretty realistic people!

^ one or both parents/parental figure was very very VERYY conservative and may have tried to make them conform to these values. the type that tend to grow up faster in terms of social skills. libra risings hesitate to show their real emotions a lot!!!!!!! could be closer to one parent than the others, see this parents as their "ally".

i've noticed that libra risings women are highkey daddy's girls🥺 their mom may have tried to spoil them wayyyy too much but/and was also strict to them?? they hesitate to show a lot of emotions as they truly hate how their parents would use emotions to guilt trip them.

libra men can also be closer to their dad!! usually come to their dad/father figure for advices🖤

despite all of this, a part of them will always have their family back. the more water houses they have, the higher chance they're closer to their family.

yes. they are naturally charming. can you blame them tho? these individuals make connects like no others, would literally start talking to their uber for fun. they like harmony and learning more about people! they like discussing about deeper aspects of life too🤣 you wouldn't expect this from them though as sometimes venus energy can be seen as superficial HAHAH, but that sag 3H means they are so happy discussing philosophy, adventures, life experiences or even one's belief. libra risings make great conversationalist when they put in the effort!!!!

will sound like they don't really care sometimes though, give off the "unbothered" vibes but trust me. they do. they seem so careless with their words but they will almost never slip up. smarter than people think.

they're actually so criticizing sometimes. and they know this omg my libra rising friends learn to shut her mouth now because her dumbass slipped up once and told someone to "mop your floor" because she can "see dusts all over it and some muddy shoes prints"💀💀 like please shut up.

EXTRA JUDGMENTAL WHEN THEYRE DRUNK. will never tell you what they rly think unless they're close to you🤣(virgo 12H) their need to be liked is insane. softer aspects physically can't take it knowing someone hates them for no reason.

they don't notice how they actually love being of service to people they care. it's actually scary. i blame their virgo 12H this, literally don't realize how sacrificial they're being with their loved ones sometimes.

lowkey believe that "jealous is very flattering👍🏼😌"said this as a denial and coping mechanism HAHAHAHA

their relationship with their siblings are complicated LOL, but generally fairly giving and dedicated yet can be hella competitive at times??

suffers between their head and their heart all.the.time.💀 a part of them are sooo excited walking into the unknown but the other part hates this, control issues deep down (virgo 12H) so prone to let others use them tbh. please don't do yourself like that.

^ realistic & a dreamer. they dream BIG, but also are so scared of what the future have for them.

not aware of how they are actually people pleaser🦋 strong need to be liked. if you're benefiting them in some way they'd never forget it and would try to reciprocate you!! know how to get people to assist them.

ability to make people feel special, loved and important LMAO my boyfriend used to pull one if his classics on me while we were talking "i've never met someone like you before" "you're so different" LOLLLLL he thinks i'm that basic and stupid huh😃

warning: libra risings men + water/air influence= hoes. my bf also says i can say this so there you goes ladies. its out there.

women are honestly so hot they can play however they want:/ if they decided to have fun with you be appreciative😌 they're pretty picky dear and if you know you're not even all that, take a good look and see if you're benefiting them in some way HAHAHAHAHAHA

ok i'm sorry for wronging a lot of libra risings here. but what's with yall and obsessing over your physical health? libra risings = self care. they just clean themselves so well?? does that sound weird? mentally sick when they arent physicslly healthy too!! the type to have 14 skin care steps or intense beauty routine🤣

value youth and beauty. love loveeeee intense arts and arts that are complex than usual! ( scorpio 2H ) artistically gifted in some way! may inherited a lot of money fron their family if harmonious. other wise its simply extreme.

scorpio 2H discuss wealth gained by prior generations. it can also talk abt debt. very tiring connections with finance or managed their finance very well!! they might be very lowkey with their financial situation though, feel like they shouldn't open up too much about their finances!

obsessed with sex. sex = basic needs. (taurus 8H) thrives on sex too!! intense, soul deep sex can get them so so turned on.

otherwise may actually have the potential of making money off sex. can become hella wealthy off sex if they have more beneficial! (think people making 7k a week on onlyfans🥰)

goofy. sense of humour that feels so personal and will roast you pretty well once y'all are close!

they LOVE their friends omg. like they literally take pride in their friends. if you're dating a libra rising they'd make sure that you are good with their friends. if not they'd be lowkey sad:( Honestly if placed with even more fixed placements in their 11H, watch them donate their kidneys to their friends omg💀🥰 sees the best in their friends and their friendships are usually pretty public! are so picky though so maybe very sociable but have a tight cirlce. (leo 11H)

may follow a career thats popular in their family of consult their family when it comes to career wise issues!! (cancer 10H)! come to the parent that they're closer to for professional matters. a need to be rich so they can be a provider for their family🥺🥺🥺

these natives can be soooo interested in astrology though!!! may start off as a curiosity but if they have more 9H in their charts they would literally LOVE to learn more about spirituality!!! (gemini 9H) also, lowkey are hella superstitious😌 my bff is a virgo sun libra rising and she would go on and on on how she's an atheist and astrology doesn't make sense but would always write down everything i tell her in her notepads during mercury retrograde or some significant astrological events💀💀 so much for hating on us huh

so many interests! they can have a lot of hidden talents! know a lil bit of everything and could have been super active in school! they were those charming kids in debate clubs while juggling between student council or a sport team🤣 they love learning so much and once given freedom, they would honestly thrive✨

the type that would want to give their children EVERYTHING. they would want their children to be able to interact with the world on a deeper level. may teach their children the importance of free will, self discovery and individuality! will want their children to be socially active and charitable🖤( aquarius 5H )

"lets fuck and put no labels on it" this is what they'd most likely to say to their s/o but watch them end up dating a person for yearssssss if they met the right one😌 most likely to grow feelings for a friend w benefits, will either ghost them because they're terrified of deeper connection but the other part of them CRAVE commitment and would wanna eventually settle down! (unless they have bad aspects to 5H and 7H rulers)

fun fact: have you met a couple with double libra risings? well i have and trust me, libra risings just gravitate towards one another its scary. they vibe so well around people who think like them and despite saying "yeah im open to anyone and anything" they're not. i'd know this💀💀

don't want to hurt your feelings if they think you're pleasant so will lie to protect you. i'm serious. you have to look at their eyes to tell if they're lying. notice their tone too HAHAH it's so obvious. my libra rising friends and s/o lying to calm my butthurt leo rising like "😃👍🏼 yes babe that looks fAbUlOuS on you" like shut upppp💀 yall think i'm blind huhhhh

okay but for real, if they want to, they could have get away with anything simply by manipulating. people oftentimes don't think they're capable of lying for some reason??? probably the venus energy covering their asses🥲

for a long term partner, they need a psycho that matches their level. they know their worth honey. but also need someone who understand their indecisive and FORGIVING nature. once they love you they put so much efforts into it. they want to enjoy the ride while it lasts! (aries 7H)

can't make a decision immediately. and they also shouldn't. give them time to process stuff. dont push for an answer they'll look physically uncomfortable 😀

not the type to start talking shits about people to others that they don't know well. like yeah they're wayyyy more opinionated than you know(and they like it that way) but they're not gonna sabotage their life&the harmony by telling you what they "truly think"💀 they don't trust you if they agree with everything you say, there i said it.

it's so funny but they're literally freaking geniuses when they're high(on weed) like come on💀 their productivity increase insanely when they're on something. watch them do a 10 pages of work in under an hour LOL

^ i think people don't discuss this enough. they get detached from ppl because they know they get addicted pretty fast, especially if you become a part of their lives. and they're pretty selective, so they don't allow themselves.

can detach like this ✨ literally a blink of an eye and you're gone💗 (only if they never cared deeply for you, if not, they'll always reach out randomly)

ohhh also, i know way too much libra risings who are stoners LMFAOOOO esp with pisces/cancer moon/taurus moon get help yall😐💀💀

libra rising+fixed venus are so fucking possesive lowkey. over their friends AND their lovers. my libra rising besties hated one another before they had the chance to meet because they were lowkey possesive over me🤩 just kidding but not really. my leo dom ass feel appreciated okay🌸

spectacular style. the women are so soooo charming they could pull off any aesthetic!! the men dress so well or always look very stylist. like it when you compliment their styles (take notes ladies) my s/o get such an ego boost when i compliment on his styles rather than his looks😐 trust me their cocky asses know they're hot. dont feed into their ego dear.

(surprisingly) emotional. yeah i know, its always the cold ones that feel the most. their flighty ass will be there for you and try to make jokes to cheer you up tho.

(surprisingly) low self esteem. especially when it comes to their partners or close circle. they feel as if they're not "physically good enough"? i know a lot of libra risings that tend to be very lost until they find their own styles.

have wayyyyyyyyy too much haters for their own sakes. when they were younger they could have been so much more aggressive and as they grow older they just got more relaxed. people may sometimes make random comments on their appearance and business? they're either loved or hated immediately by people.

"i dont care lol" they do. trust me. they do. if they didn't they would have blocked you wouldnt they? but they're still talking.

rational about others issues. impulsive with their own.

say HORRIBLE stuff when they're angry but never rly means it, they know how to damage your egos like no others.

good vibes only mentality✨🌸💗 they don't need any bad energy in their life!!

Soooo here are some very biased( and honest) as well as some details I've noticed from Libra rising natives hehehe. My Leo rising keeps attracting so much of them it's annoying at this point HAHAHA. just kidding but i love taurus/libra energy and my friend asked me not to expose them further so this post barely scratched the surface tbh🤭 I'm just saying, if you're trusted and confided in by a Libra rising, you're different.

love,

saint jenx🦋

hi♥️ i was wondering if you can please describe mars in the 1st house

Hello love! Of course I can! ♥️

Mars in the 1st house

These natives emanate a lot of strength and power, sometimes they can intimidate people because of the way they approach others, the seriousness on their face or the way they project themselves so that no one dares to mess with them or those who they want. They are people with a lot of energy and a lot of internal passion, it is evident when they like or dislike something and it is particularly difficult for them to cover up their dislike for something or someone. They give bossy and indomitable vibes and many people love this, along with their chaotic personality, strong temperament and the mentality of not backing down to any problem that may arise.

They usually have an intense appeal, they attract attention because of how sexy they can be for other people, their body is usually quite attractive and strong. The look is intense and it is likely that they have some type of mark on the face, scars or moles in areas that are considered sexy [above the lip or on either of the two cheeks] are common. They may become sexualized at some point in their life. Another thing they stand out for is how self-confident they seem, plus that go-getter attitude of "I know where I'm going and I'm always on top." They are people with incredible potential to be leaders, this due to critical experiences that they had to live from an early age that prompted them to care for others, decide for themselves, become independent and make quick decisions.

Taking one of the previous points, it is very likely that in their early environment they had constant arguments, or simply lived in a tense and complicated place, which made them develop this defensive attitude, alert and easily triggered to violence, even if it doesn't happen to them directly. They may have felt that others did not defend them and that they simply could not count on them, so they do not like to be vulnerable or give others reasons to treat them as inferior, hence they know perfectly well that those who will always defend them will be themselves. They may find it difficult to work in a team and prefer to work on their own. They are quite competitive when something catches their attention or they are passionate about.

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Astrology: The 7th house and the relationship partner

Our ascendant sign indicates how we distinguish ourselves as an individual. It depicts the characteristics we project into the outer world and how we proclaim our “I am”.

In regards to this, our descendent then indicates who we declare as “They are”. The sign here indicates the type of people we attract or are attracted to as they provide contrast to who we define ourselves as - Ever heard “opposites attract”?

The 7th house is often associated with romantic relationships, however this is commonly the simplified modern interpretation of this house.

Essentially what the 7th house represents is any situation where you are in ‘contract’ with another person in a one-on-one circumstance. You come to agreements here, and this is why this house is associated with the marriage partner (and also business relationships and deals, as well as law and close friendships).

The sign here indicates the characteristics attractive in another person, and also indicates who is drawn to you. It is often 9 times out of 10 that we have our longest and most successful relationships with people who have the sign on out descendent on one of their personal planets or their rising sign.

Many other factors can alter this such as:

The ruler of the sign on our DC (sign/house and aspects play a vital role in interpretation)

Venus house, sign and aspects

Juno house, sign and aspects

Looking at the ruler of the 7th house and its condition is very important if you 7th house is empty!

No…this does not mean you’ll live alone with 9 cats and a parakeet called Charlie…your 7th house ruler will give you more information as to the nature of your potential future relationship partner.

In fact, if your 7th house is empty, the bond you can create when someones planet falls into this house can strengthen your connection with them as their presence seems to ‘complete’ you in a way you find magnetic and romantic.

Check the sign on your descendent + the sign the ruler is in (regardless if you have planets in the 7th or not) as this will highly indicate the most likely people you’ll form relationships with.

Note* This will also indicate how you will act in relationships with other people! (This will greatly depend on if you subconsciously project these characteristics onto another person/if they have planets in this sign)

Also take note of any planets in the 7th house

* The house of the 7th ruler (+ aspects) will also have an influence - for advanced readers

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Aries 7th (Look for Mars Sign)

An independent relationship partner

A hot headed and temperamental partner

A masculine and driven partner

Someone who is sporty and always on the go

Having a partner who takes the lead in relationships  

Being competitive with the relationship partner

The partner is fiery, passionate and highly sexual

Play fighting with the partner

Having a tomboy partner

Someone who is defensive and aggressive

Someone who goes head first into things without much forethought

A partner who can be selfish

A partner who is a fighter and daring

Having a partner who’s are pioneer and aims to reach the top

Having a partner who’s into weapons, fighting, sports and/or competing

A partner who’s into violent movies and/or video games

A partner who can put themselves first

The relationship partner is daring, courageous and has little to no fear of anything or anyone

A partner with a “Try me” attitude

A partner who doesn’t take “no” for an answer

Having a partner who prefers to do their own thing

Having a partner who makes it hard to pin down because they want to be independent and solo

A hot headed and boisterous partner

A partner who is physically fit, athletic and sporty

A partner whines always looking for something new to do

A masculine partner

The relationship partner tends to start things but not finish them

Taurus (Look for Venus Sign)

A slow moving and steady partner

A very attractive and aesthetic partner

Having a partner who’s artistic and enjoys making things

A relationship partner who enjoys makeup, hair, beauty, perfumes, jewellery clothes

A partner who has a love of money and material possessions

A Possessive partner

Having a partner who can be stubborn and/or lazy

Partners favourite date is Netflix and chill…

Having a partner who spoils you (buys you things, takes you out for dinner)

A hard working and determined partner

The relationship partner makes the most money

The relationship partner enjoys living on the land, nature and animals

Partner is simplistic and repetitive

The partner doesn’t like change

A partner who enjoys buying and spending

The partner can be a bit of a hoarder

Having a partner that only wants the best and finest things in life

A partner who love giving and getting physical affection

A sensual and hedonistic partner

Partner can’t keep their hands off you

The relationship partner loves food, soft blankets and has ‘their’ seat/spot/side of the bed ect…

A partner who can be stingy and holds onto money

A partner who provides you a sense of security in the relationship

The relationship partner grounds you in the here and now

Gemini (Look for Mercury Sign)

A chatty, funny and quick witted partner

A partner who does all the talking

The relationship partner is glued to their phone or other technology

A partner who love to socialise and go out in the town a lot

The partner constantly texts, snapchats, calls, even face time you

A partner who loves to read and/or write

The relationship partner constantly changes their mind and opinion on things

An intelligent and bright partner

The relationship partner asks a lot of questions about…everything

Having many conversations with the partner

Can talk to the partner about anything

The partner is curious and is always wanting to learn and know about ‘what’s new’

An inquisitive partner who will always find out the information they are looking for

The partnership feels more brotherly or sisterly

Having a partner who’s constantly ‘In the know’

A partner who seems to mimic what you do

The partner takes on the same trends as you do

A youthful (or younger) partner

The relationship partner sometimes doesn’t listen because their mind is somewhere else

Having a relationship partner with someone you grew up with

A partner who’s light hearted and tends to avoid things that are deep and emotional in nature

Having a partner who constantly changes their ideas, thoughts and opinions on things

A partner who enjoys exploring the neighbourhood

A partner who has a strong association with their siblings (or cousins)

Cancer (Look for Moon Sign)

A sweet, gentle and caring partner

A partner who greatly enjoys physical affection - especially hugs

The relationship partner has a soft, feminine nature about them

The partner is a bit of a homebody

The partner enjoys cooking/home made meals over going out

A partner who is family focused/wants to create their own family

The relationship partner is strongly associated with the mother figure (for better or for worse)

The partner can be moody and irritable

The relationship partner can be overly emotional about things

A partner who prefers to have their own privacy

The partner wants to be cared for and coddled like their mother would

The partner likes family tradition

An intuitive and receptive partner who seems to know what you’re feeling all the time

The partner likes to stay at home while you go out and do work

The partner has a soft bodied figure

The partners sensitive and their emotions can be unpredictable at times

The partner can be needy and clingy at times

A partner who acts like a baby when they don’t get their way - “But _____, I waaaant iiiit!”

The relationship partner is sentimental about things in the relationship - “Remember when we ___?”

The partner is protective and defensive (For you and/or themselves)

A partner who loves their home and being comfortable as much as possible

Leo (Look for the Sun)

A happy, cheerful and bright eyed partner

The partner is dramatic, fun and playful

The relationship partner is a bit of a show off (will do/say things to impress you or make you laugh)

A flamboyant and eye catching partner

Your partner can steal your spotlight

The relationship partner is bossy

A partner that treats you like a king/queen (and expects the same)

A generous and gold hearted partner

The partner is fiercely loyal and defensive

The partner can have a lot of pride in their relationship with you (and/or you to them)

The relationship partner shows you off (e.g. selfies on Facebook, snapchat and instagram with every #love tag they can think of)

The partner enjoys romantic dates such as going out to movies and to dinner

A partner who makes you feel special

The partner can be quite jealous

The partner can put themselves first at times

The partner will act like a clown just to make you laugh (being a bit of a show off at the same time)

The partner will do things to receive your love and praise

The partner can blow things out of proportion

A partner who can pout and give the silent treatment when mad - or flip a table or two

The relationship partner wants to be seen by others with you (look at how cute we are everyone)

The relationship partner is creative (either artistically or in the way they think/go about doing things) eg. Cook a recipe in their own creative way

A partner who can be extravagant (and depending on your other placements, you may or may not enjoy it!) e.g. Buys you a massive teddy bear on Valentine’s kind of extravagant

The partner can be vain at times (e.g. its date night, and they’re in the mirror checking their hair or outfit when its time to go - “Hang on babe, I don’t look amazing just yet”)

An attractive, passionate, charismatic and magnetic partner

Virgo (Look for Mercury/Ceres)

A modest and quiet partner

The partner is perfectionistic and does things in a particular way (because its the right way)

The partner is critical and fault finding about practically EVERYTHING

A partner who is very helpful and loves to use their skills to assist you in anyway they can

The partner acts like a bit of a servant for you at times

The partner enjoys cleanliness and organisation

A partner who gets mad when you move or rearrange their stuff

The partner is a workaholic and can at times be too focused on doing their job

The partner is a skilled labourer and craftsman (can be one of the top people in their field)

A partner who is efficient in the things they do

The partner is very picky and choosy about particular things - “You want to go to X for dinner?…what’s on the menu?…where else can we go instead?”

The partner likes keeping journals, records and sticky notes

A partner who can be quite particular about their appearance

A partner who is very health conscious (Fitness powders and supplements galore)

The partner enjoys healthy/clean eating and exercise

The partner loves pets and small animals

A partner who has a particular morning and/or night routine

The partner can be critical of the way you do things (usually its because its not the way THEY would do it)

A partner who does things exactly by the book

The partner prefers to do the chores (To be helpful…and because they want it done a particular way)

The partner doesn’t like to get dirty and dislikes anything they define as ‘gross’ (bugs/toilets/feet)

Libra (Look for Venus/Juno)

A partner who is fair and desires equality in the relationship

The relationship partner is considerate of your ideas, what you want and your opinions

The partner’s favourite phrases with you are “If you want/What do you want to do/If you’re happy, I’m happy”

A pleasing and charming partner

The partner can’t seem to make decisions for themselves

A relationship partner who loves beauty, fashion, makeup and is quite attractive

The partner is a diplomatic and tactful towards you

The relationship is very sociable and enjoys making conversation

The partner can be very agreeable (sometimes too agreeable)

A partner who will defend you and take your side or try to make you come to their side of the argument

A partner who can avoid issues in the relationship just to keep it happy and harmonious

The partner dislikes coarseness and rude behaviour

The partner can avoid problems and issues

A musical, artistic and/or aesthetically inclined partner

A partner who tends to not defend themselves

The partner can talk their way into getting you to see things from their perspective

The partner can give up things they like and take on things you like

The partner mirrors you

A partner who avoids confrontation and disagreements at all costs

The partner is passive aggressive

The partner says they’ll do something, then decide not to (inconsistent)

The partner is a traditional romantic

A relationship partner who would rather avoid diving deep into emotional issues just to keep the peace

A partner who is a champion at arguing and making a point

Scorpio (Look for Pluto)

A deeply sexual and magnetic partner

The partner is greatly aware of everything you try to hide from them

The partner sees through you like glass

You feel completely merged and at one with your partner

Your relationship partner is deeply raw and authentic

A relationship partner who is attracted to the darker the darker, more taboo aspects of life

A relationship partner who feels, thinks and does things in an intense or an extreme way (eg. Workouts for a solid 2 hours)

Having a love/hate and extreme highs and lows with the relationship partner

The partner is obsessive and possessive of you (and/or you to them)

The partner is easily jealous

The partner can be intimidating

A relationship partner that provokes emotional extremes in you

A partner who has great healing and transformative abilities

The partner takes an all or nothing approach to the relationship

Feeling possessed by the partner

The partner is into the occult, shamanism, reiki, tarot and mediumship

The partner can be a bit controlling

A partner who can make you feel secure but can take it away just as easily

Being completely energetically connected to the partner

Sharing everything you have with the partner

The relationship feels like a birth, death and re-birth cycle

The partner heals you

You change who you were/are during and after being with the relationship partner

The partner is secretive and may not reveal much about themselves

Sagittarius (Look for Jupiter)

An optimistic, happy-go-lucky, and humorous partner

A religious or spiritual relationship partner

A partner who loves travel/is from overseas

The relationship partner is philosophical and open-minded

The partner is jovial, light hearted and playful

A relationship partner who likes to live on the wild side

A partner who enjoys freedom of doing what they want, when they want

The relationship partner doesn’t want to be tied down

A partner who is hard to pin down

The relationship partner enjoys big conversations about life and the universe

The partner is sport and athletic

You become a nomad with your partner

Travelling a lot with your partner/Travelling to meet the partner/meeting the partner through travel

A partner who has a hard time committing due to wanting to be free and go and come when they please

The relationship partner loves the great out doors

A partner who loves big animals (horses for example)

Doing wild and adventurous things with your partner (e.g skinny dipping under a full moon)

Camping and living a gyspy life with your partner

The partner is a bit of a hippy

The partner can be self-righteous and opinionated

A partner who avoids deeper emotional issues in the relationship

A partner who has a hard time being deeply emotionally intimate

Expanding your life experience with your partner

The partner helps you explore different cultures and has adventures experiences with you (e.g. bungee jumping in New Zealand)

A partner who acts as a teacher or guru

Capricorn (Look for Saturn)  

A responsible and mature relationship partner

The relationship partner may be older than you

A partner who tends to claim the authority in the relationship

An ambitious, driven and a career forced partner

A partner who desires to achieve their goals

The partner is practical and grounded in ‘reality’

The partner is hardworking and can be a workaholic

The partner pushes you towards your own ambitions and becomes the driving force to help you achieve your goals

The relationship partner brings structure to your life in the relationship

A partner who doesn’t stop working and has a hard time relaxing

The relationship partner doesn’t quit until they achieve the

The partner has a sense of seriousness about them

A relationship partner who is conservative and traditional

A partner who can be a bit stingy with money

The relationship partner affects your public status (for better or for worse)

The partner is dutiful and loyal

A partner who can be controlling and a bit demanding

A partner who has a hard time showing their emotional side

The partner sees the relationship as ‘business’

The partner doesn’t deal well with emotional turmoil

The partner has a strong connection to their father figure (for better or for worse)

A partner who can push you to the top

The partner likes to be dominant in relationships (or you)

Meeting the partner through career, family meeting or a business meeting

Aquarius (look for Uranus)

An eccentric, out of the box and unusual partner

“They’re weird but I like them that way”

A partner who’s into all things ‘space’ (Astrology, astronomy, aliens 👽)

A partner who is a humanitarian and has dreams to re-invent the world (or at least in government or politics)

A partner who is helpful and caring towards their friends and strangers

A partner who does charitable services to help others

The relationship partner has a odd quirk about them

The relationship partner is highly intelligent to the point of genius

A partner who has a weird and unique way of thinking and seeing the world around them

Experimentation in the relationship

The relationship isn’t a ‘traditional’ relationship (eg. Only seeing each other so often to something like polygamy)

A partner who can be more focused on their friends then the relationship

The partner has a fear of intimacy/doesn’t want to be held down

The partner is into nerd culture (GOT/Walking Dead/Star Trek/StarWars. Ect…)

A partner doesn’t see themselves as being ‘special’ but ‘just like everyone else’

Having an open relationship

There is a distinct need for ones own personal freedom in the relationship

Going through ups and downs/ on again, off again relationships

The partner can be emotionally distant and aloof

The partner rebells if you impose rules on them in the relationship

Same sex relationships

A relationship partner thats more like a best friend than a romantic partner

Breaking all the rules when it comes to relationships

Pisces ( Look for Neptune)

A sensitive, gentle and compassionate relationship partner

The partner is dreamy and somewhat ethereal in their nature

The relationship partner is spiritual and ‘new age’ inclined

A partner who cares about all life

The partner is psychic, empathic and a mystic

The partner acts as your knight in shinning armour (saviour)

The partner can act like a victim or martyr (most likely because of their own demise)…and you have to be their saviour

A partner who needs taking care of

The partner is unconditionally loving and caring

The relationship wants to merge themselves with you, body, mind and spirit

The partner is attached to your hip

The partner is overly romantic (though may not always act on their relationship fantasies)

A partner who has addictive tendencies (not just drugs and alcohol, but to anything in general - food, movies, video games, psychic readings ect)

The partner can have a bad habit of isolating themselves

The partner is artistic and imaginative

A relationship partner that can lie to get themselves out of trouble (and they’re often convincing)

A partner who can be overly sensitive and emotional

A partner who has a lot of dreams but doesn’t seem to act them out (without your assistance at taking care of the details)

The partner isn’t overly interested in sex and finds satisfaction in just being near you

A partner who can be clumsy because their head is always in the clouds (and you ground them)

A partner who loves fantasy

Non binary sexual relationships

A partner who loves film and photography

The partner can be impractical and somewhat gullible

The partner is sympathetic and forgiving  

A partner who has no sexual preference (and/or you)

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💘 The 7th House Ruler Through the Houses

7th House Ruler in the 1st House

You learned love by becoming what others needed. Somewhere across lifetimes, you absorbed the belief that belonging is earned through disappearance. So now, your identity folds itself around the shape of the other. You call it empathy. You call it connection. But sometimes it’s amnesia. This placement is not about codependency, it’s about forgetting your edges. You don’t fall in love, you merge. And then wonder where you went. The self becomes a suggestion, flickering in someone else’s reflection. You are not the echo of anyone’s desire. You are the original pulse. The face beneath the mask. The soul before it contorted itself into something lovable.

7th House Ruler in the 2nd House

You want to be worth the keeping. Not for what you give, or how you hold, or who you become to stay. Just… worth it. But there is a part of you that doesn't quite believe it. A flicker behind your eyes that still asks: Will I be chosen when I’m not proving anything? You've carried that question for lifetimes, sometimes in silence, sometimes in gold, sometimes in staying too long with someone who never really saw you. You learned to equate closeness with compensation, as if love must be earned through self-erasure. But you're not here to barter with your being. You are not a currency. You are not an apology. You are not something to be deserved. Let love come when you're still. Let it echo back, not because you've become more but because you were always enough.

7th House Ruler in the 3rd House

You know how to mimic connection with words. You’ve spent lifetimes translating emotion into language, writing your longings into poems, answering questions no one asked just to feel close. Conversation became survival. Cleverness became camouflage. And so, you speak beautifully sometimes instead of being known. You are fluent in the dialect of detachment. You can make someone feel seen without ever letting them feel you. Because in some far-off memory, expression led to exposure. Truth led to exile. But your voice wasn’t meant to hide you. It was meant to carry your soul into the open. Let someone hear the words you don’t polish. The ones that tremble. The ones that undo you.

7th House Ruler in the 4th House

You carry the blueprint of love in your nervous system. Not from this life, from the ones where affection was quiet, survival-based, coded into ritual instead of spoken. You remember the sound of withheld tenderness. You remember reading the emotional weather of a room like scripture. Now, connection doesn’t feel safe unless it feels familiar and sometimes, familiarity means walking on eggshells. You don’t trust warmth that comes too easily. You wait for the moment it turns cold. But love is not a reenactment. Home is not supposed to feel like a test. Let yourself be held in a space that doesn’t ask you to monitor your every breath. Let your heart stop bracing. You don’t have to keep building intimacy out of ruins.

7th House Ruler in the 5th House

Your love is laced with longing for something unnamed. Not joy, not romance, something stranger. Something that lived in your chest before you ever touched desire. It’s not about expression. It’s not about passion. It’s about remembering how to feel without bracing. You’ve worn so many versions of beauty you forgot which one was yours. In other lives, you might have been adored for the wrong reasons, or watched as something precious to you was misunderstood, objectified, mythologized. Now, you carry a quiet distance from your own delight, unsure if you can trust it. You don’t want to be consumed. You want to be seen without being taken. There is a deep ache here, not to shine, but to exist in your full texture without being cast into anyone else’s story. Let love arrive as a presence that says: I don’t need you to impress me. I want to know what your heart sounds like when no one is listening.

7th House Ruler in the 6th House

You’ve made love a ritual of endurance. It’s not that you expect to suffer, it’s that you’ve confused suffering with devotion. You offer your time, your labor, your capacity to hold someone else’s chaos. You call it loyalty. But sometimes, it’s penance. In other lives, love was responsibility. Service. A sacred kind of self-abandonment. Now, you measure your worth by how useful you are. You treat your tenderness like a transaction: If I care enough, they’ll stay. If I carry enough, they’ll choose me. But love is not earned through exhaustion. You are not here to be someone's stability while starving for your own. Let someone meet you in your softness, not your sacrifice. Let them stay when you have nothing left to offer.

7th House Ruler in the 7th House

You are made for reflection, but not for erasure. Partnership is stitched into the fabric of your path. You don't just crave connection, you become whole through it. But there is danger in this mirror, too. If you’re not careful, you vanish into the reflection. You’ve spent lifetimes defining yourself through the eyes of another. Becoming their projection. Their dream. Their container. So now, you recognize love as alignment but sometimes forget that alignment requires two whole selves. This is not about attracting love. It's about remembering who you are outside of it. You don’t need to contort yourself to stay in view. You are not a placeholder. You are not a backdrop. You are a world of your own. Let love orbit you, not eclipse you.

7th House Ruler in the 8th House

Love has always been a place of unraveling. You don’t “date.” You initiate. You merge. You descend. Partnership isn’t a bond, it’s a reckoning. A portal. A ritual of shedding skin. You seek out the ones who undress your psyche, who break open the vault, who offer you transformation disguised as intimacy. But be honest, are you letting yourself be met, or are you testing to see who survives you? Somewhere in your past-lives, closeness meant betrayal, or loss, or possession. And now, even when love is safe, you brace. This is a lifetime of rewriting that contract. Of letting someone hold you without having to earn it through blood. Let love be deep without being destructive. Let someone see you without tearing you apart.

7th House Ruler in the 9th House

You remember love as a pilgrimage. In other lives, it began with distance, foreign lands, spiritual longing, shared purpose, far horizons. You didn’t just want a partner. You wanted someone to walk the edge of the world with. Someone whose love cracked you open to the eternal. Now, you still crave expansion. You want love that stretches your beliefs, your borders, your body’s memory of what’s possible. But be careful, you might keep running toward the infinite to avoid being touched in the present. Not every soul encounter comes with a lightning strike. Not every truth needs a telescope. Let love meet you in the now. In the closeness. In the simplicity of being seen on an ordinary afternoon. You’re not here to find heaven through someone else. You’re here to remember it was never separate.

7th House Ruler in the 10th House

You wear your relationships like architecture. You build love into your legacy, shape your partnerships like cathedrals, sacred, structured, high-stakes. In other lives, intimacy was status, strategy, survival. You learned to tie your worth to what was witnessed. To what the world could admire. Now, you still measure the success of love by what it looks like from the outside. You perform stability. You pose in intimacy. You know how to play the role. But love does not require a performance review. You don’t need to be impressive to be chosen. The most meaningful devotion may never make it into the biography. Let yourself be loved in the quiet. In the unposted. In the places where the scaffolding falls away and only the truth remains.

7th House Ruler in the 11th House

You are fluent in potential. You don’t fall for people, you fall for what could be. The version of them you see in their quietest moment, the glimpse they haven’t stepped into yet. You build futures before foundations. You speak to the part of someone they don’t know how to hold and then wonder why you’re left holding it alone. In other lifetimes, your vision was medicine. Now, it’s also a mask. You hide behind ideas. You chase resonance over reality. You long for something collective, but ache in the quiet of what’s personal. It’s not that your love is too big, it’s that it wants to touch the sky before it’s touched the skin. Let someone meet you where your hands are. Let intimacy be the dream you don’t have to explain.

7th House Ruler in the 12th House

You’ve loved in silence. Across lifetimes, you’ve poured yourself into connections no one else could see. Soul bonds that never took shape. Longings that lingered like perfume in an empty room. Now, you still feel people before you know them. You remember them before they arrive. But this sensitivity is both a gift and a ghost. You fall for potential, for psychic proximity, for the ache of what almost was. You grieve what never became, and sometimes, you hide behind the fog so you don’t have to risk being touched. But love is not safer in secrecy. You are not safer in silence. Let yourself be known in the flesh, not just the dream. Let love find you where you are, not only where you’ve been.

My book The Sky Within helps you break down your entire birth chart to better understand yourself and your path:

venus 2H/8H/Taurus/Scorpio

venus in 2H/8H /Taurus/Scorpio venus - always ending up being the other woman/man, or entering a connection with someone who JUST got out of a meaningful relationship (rebound energy af) or with someone who is entertaining others. these really are the "chosen" placements, but that's usually7 because they entertain people who entertain others & their person has other options🤷‍♀️ But it is something with this placement's energy that makes their person's decision to "choose" them a no-brainer. While venus in 8H/2H/Scorpio/Taurus might intercept their person's other relationships, it is typically expected that their person drops everyone for them due to their natural alluring energy, mystique, love, romance, etc. People with these placements might find themselves feeling low, unwanted, unimportant, not chosen, etc -- when dealing with the wrong people. But with the right people , these individuals are practically worshipped in their relationships. This placement attracts a lot of jealousy too -- particularly jealous of you because they want your partner, your style, looks/body, money, etc.

I’ve noticed some of the friends I have 12th house synastry with seem to passive aggressively blame or villainize me for old fights/disputes we had in the past… like although the issue is resolved it feels like they never get over it/still sees it as my fault.

Like for example this girl (I have my moon/venus in her 12th) we had a falling out a year before due to a girl in the friend group dropping me (for literally no reason) and when the group decided to choose her side, this girl was the only one who kept in touch w me. Not gonna get into the whole lore but I quickly noticed that it wasn’t gonna work out with her because I realized she’d much rather play both sides then be honest w me.

So when it became too much I ghosted her although she was one of my only friends at the time, I prioritized cutting ties with that whole group to keep myself sane and it worked! I grew a lot that year and made more friends and healed. I figured that ghosting her would be fine since she had that whole devils spawn group to lean on.

A year later we reconciled and it actually felt really good! When we decided to talk about it all it turns out she went through a really rough time after I ghosted her and things went completely downhill for her. Of course I felt sorry and we made amends but she never actually apologized for how she treated me then.. I was more than fine though since I grew to be self assured and i accepted that it was just the past.

However thinking back to when we reconciled (as the moon person) She never really acknowledged my feelings or how truly awful life was for me back then when it all went down. Like it almost felt like she just dismissed it all??? But again I was self assured enough to not seek any reassurance from her cuz it just wasn’t something I needed.

NOWADAYSSSS THOUGH I’ve noticed she brings it up out of blue for a second and it’ll be a joke like her calling me bitchy back then or what not. but it never really FEELS like a joke… sometimes she gets really shady with it ☠️ and I know I hurt her by ghosting her (very planet person of me) but it’s not like I did it for no reason. Being friends with her was EATING me up inside and no amount of communication would’ve solved that except for none at all.

It’s pissy because I’d like to think we’re closer than ever now 😭 and I love this girl sm but this got me thinking that there’s unfinished business here. 😕