đœHarsh Aspects And Signs As Iâve Experienced Them In Othersđœ
đœHarsh aspects and signs as Iâve Experienced them in Othersđœ
đąđąđąđąThis posts is being made as a counter measure to so many of the grim and bleak posts on harsh aspects in a natal chart especially romantic. Always remember your aspects do not define you, theyâre merely a map thatâs inviting you to look inside yourself and be the very best version of yourself you can be.
âŒïžVenus opposite Saturn: extremely patient, they have a very cute shyness about them and can be very modest. They have a black and white view on hardships and tend to go on about how nothing in life is a âgivenâ but they tend to do this out of being protective rather then being assholes. They tend to turn into parents unknowingly when they really care about you and theyâre immensely loyal. Being with them isnât as horrible as itâs made out to be and as heavy as they can be they have a very loving and protective heart. Being with them means pulling them out of their shell from time to time and being a little goofy! Be dramatic! Be a kid! Help them forget about grouchy old Saturn for a sec. they just need to know that itâs okay to love, they just need to feel like there is a refuge just over the horizon. So be patient with them just as they are with you! And I think theyâre very wonderful and very cozy men and women here :) and theyâre sooo beautiful beyond what they even allow themselves to except.
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đ Venus square Neptune: aha Iâm men in can make them a mystery! They can be quiet and a bit perplexing. They can vanish from time to time but this isnât a bad sign! Just means they like yah :) they need a lot of time to process things and Iâve noticed in a mans chart it makes him incredibly sensitive and he might feel ashamed of that part of him and may try to be 1000x more macho then he needs to be. But just try and be understanding theyâre emotions blow over very quickly and they regret things the second they do it. They daydream quite a bit and women here can be very vixen like and have mesmerizing movements and personalities. Both men and women Iâve noticed with this aspect are very emotionally courageous! They just donât know where to direct it. Being with them is so fun! Men here are big ol babies and they just want a hug! They donât mind clingy partners and adore quiet moments but they can be very untrusting and can unfairly retaliate if they feel vulnerable. Once more just try and be calm-they feel things strongly-just make sure to be responsive and hold their hands when they get confused- the square here makes them fish out of water and the world around them easily confuses them but that being said there vulnerability is something out of this world. Women Iâve noticed with this aspect are goofy!! Super independent but longing in a way. They have this idea you know? Of something better-be it a person a place a situation? They just always have their mind on the next thing and being with her means serving as that foundation for her desires and helping her construct them into the physical world. They remind me of will Ferrell in a way sentimental and all over the place in a cute way.
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đŽMars square Pluto: they are very dominate, and the house Pluto is in says more about the âwhereâ this dominance plays out at. But if you ask me they donât really come across that way. Theyâre touch cookies and can have a mean way about showing that theyâre into you aha like really harsh, but trust me them being mean is a good sign. They are very calm outwardly and donât usually resort to power plays or bullying there partner into submission like this aspect is made out to do-I think as they grow older they just kind of ice you out and through you some attitude when theyâre mad but other than that theyâre so sweet not in a direct way but In an âactionsâ sort of way. Itâll take them awhile to vocalize there feelings for you and they may be better at showing you during the early stages but donât worry! Saying it is hard for them! Itâs laying there soul out on the table and that takes a lot out of them and it can feel like a life changing experience for them and just because they take longer than most to say it doesnât mean they donât feel it! Just give em Time. They speak through there actions for the most part and yes they do like sex but when theyâre in love they hold off until itâs the right moment and because they genuinely want you to feel safe. Getting involved with them isnât signing up for abuse-but it is intense and transformative and you will certainly come out of it or stay in it a more confident and blunt person. But none the less dating them is exciting and itâs very romantic and sort of dramatic you know aha.
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đVenus square Uranus: now despite the hot and cold title theyâve been given Iâd have to say from experience? Theyâre sooo fascinating. They have a very aloof yet deeply intense aura. Itâs something youâd have to experience for yourself being with them but the push and pull isnât so much as emotional as it is physical in a way? The too come hand in hand. On one hand they are immensely engaged and sometimes overwhelmingly so-there emotions come at you hard and fast yet after these big showings they retreat and often can stay gone unless they are reassured they didnât spook you with their display. Obviously Iâve seen it with many different signs being involved be it water and air or earth and fire and so on but if thereâs one constant it would be the depth and magnitude of their love. They donât love in a usual way and can be quite nervous when they start feeling genuine feelings for you, they usually and always are thinking and practicing, planning and running through constant scenarios on how to be better and do better when it comes to âyouâ a lot of the time their disappearances are nothing more than them being embarrassed. Theyâre not lovers in the traditional sense and theyâre very aware of that and it makes them feel odd being in love or having feelings for someone because they love the feeling but they also donât understand it. They want more of it but simultaneously donât know how to go about doing that. The thing about them is theyâll always disappear, theyâll always need moments of space and moments to collect and plan and Re engage! Be it life that pulls them away from you for a little while or be it them themselves(although not for long) they always will need to process and this is ok! Itâs not a deal breaker and no the breakups arenât incoming nor are they planned and a lot of the time it has nothing to do with you. They pull away out of uncertainty and not knowing how to convey their need to âcollectâ so if you like them or love them for that matter make sure you understand that itâs okay to be lovey and emotional with them! Itâs okay to keep on their tail and itâs okay to let your guard down. Wether you plan or not they are always gonna be a little random and the key to having less disappearances from them is just making them feel understood and loved. Donât try to change them and just communicate with them a lot! They learn so much from you without being told but still be supportive of them and encourage them to have friends and outside stuff from you! And no they donât think youâre boring aha they just need to keep themselves properly dispensed but I promise they are very sensitive and remarkably compassionate and receptive lovers and people and their just a little kooky sometimes :)
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âŠïžVenus in Scorpio: aha THEYRE SO CUTE! They have a tendency to come on strongly like in an emotional way rather than physical and can seem very standoffish romantically in the early stages because theyâre âtestingâ so yes during this time which many donât like and usually end up scrapping them for, they end up being stiff during this period. The thing is this is just a defense mechanism and no Scorpio Venus is inherently a monster who gets off on your suffering-they just want authenticity and someone whoâs real and in their:to some seems over the top methods they weed out those who arenât looking for something serious with them. They are honestly huge softies and have HUGE HEARTS. Many are very sacrificing and easily emotionally aroused when theyâre in love. Being with a Scorpio Venus isnât necessarily an easy task as a lot of them do have their own insecurities and walls in place to insure theyâre own safety which can make them seem self invested and heartless in a way but you must remember this is just a mechanism and nothing more. Iâve learned that being with a Venus in Scorpio or any scorpio placement for that matter is just about being yourself. It isnât about changing your ways or âbeing hard to getâ it isnât about mind games or being the one with the powerâand itâs not at all about âproving your worthâ aha being with them isnât a job or a chore and I really wish they werenât described this way :( but honestly just be yourself! If your loud and obnoxious and they pursue you? Obviously they like that in you so donât change that! If your sensitive and over emotional like me? Aha be that. Scorpios are intense and want to see you laid bare so if you read to deeply into those Scorpio posts and that whole âhow to pass the Scorpio testâ mess you wonât really ever meet them on a real level plain field. Being with them is just being honest and being sure itâs what you wanna do.
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âŁïžVenus in Capricorn: they are actually soooo laid back! They arenât like super serious or angry like everyone makes them out to be and Iâve seen them date young and old partners! I guess itâs more about being an old soul then it is about being old in looks. They are super easy going and have an immensely comfortable atmosphere! They are so earthy and remind me of the end of summer near fall. They do want something serious and can be very mature and heavy in their relationships but also in a paradoxical way they do better in relationships with people who are a little more lax and bubbly then they are! Not saying they canât date someone equally as serious about intimacy but Iâve met so many of them who come out of there shell around people a little more out of their personality type. They make excellent friends and dating them or flirting with them for that matter is also fun In itself. Me being a Venus in Gemini I LOVE how awkwardly straightforward they are about romance and how many silent giggles and ignored sighs Iâve gotten from them. The low grins disguised as frowns and the red faces. They are so adorable and honestly have such warm and sensuous personalities. Being with them similarly to venus Iâm scorpio is about having a sense of humor and not taking them or life to seriously. Yes they can be pragmatic and mature but often times it alludes the carefree spirit in them.
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đïžVenus in Gemini: ah my placement. Venus in Gemini get torn up on this site and off this site. Itâs a recurring statement that we are absolutely incapable more so then any sign of monogamy and consistent feelings in a relationship. Single life am I right? Wrong. Venus in Gemini and many of the ones Iâve met are not as promiscuous as we are made out to be and I think people misunderstand the planet mercury and thatâs ever so prevalent with the interpretations of Venus in Gemini. Often times Venus in Gemini are fairly celibate and for a long while-sure some enjoy the concept of a relationship but due to our highly mentally based love nature we are also aware of how demanding and emotionally elevated one must be to be with another. We look at romance from all angles and handle it cautiously. I may find someone attractive but I donât see them as someone I intend to date for the sake of it and I certainty wouldnât persist on sexual involvement especially considering how easily emotions and actions correlate. Venus in Gemini are if anything extremely mature in regards to emotions as scattered and turbulent as they are. Love isnât just as easy as saying 4 letters and itâs not as easy as holding hands. Love demands a meeting of minds and a meeting of bodies. Itâs a commitment to someone and itâs something that you must bare all too and Gemini venus know this is the gamble with love and many avoid relationships all together and even self sabotage but not out of a need for âvarietyâ nor out of a need to âexperimentâ we are insecure-we are afraid because the child in us fears the idea of investing in someone just to have those feelings fade-to have our lovers lose interest or suddenly decide itâs not for them. For that reason Gemini venus inherently maintain a special distance especially when in love in the early stages as to make sure the love is heartfelt and genuine. To some we just donât know what we want, but really we know all to well and mercury keeps us aware that things an change-people can change and the one thing that doesnât change for a Gemini venus is âloveâ weâre picky and donât open up easily and often times the charming and talkative demeanor is an act. Being with a Gemini venus is exciting! Itâs vivacious and full of color-itâs childlike and absolutely endearing but we are complex and there are many walls that need to be pulled down before you see the child behind it all. Venus in Gemini are usually known by their trademark to always feel âiffyâ about there relationships and tend to need reassurance that often they provide themselves but itâs nice to give it to them once and awhile! And despite contrary belief they do crave intimacy and love being in an emotionally expressive relationship.
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Thereâs so many others I will talk about in the future but hereâs some for starters.
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Venus-North Node Synastry
~Using Jamie and Landon from "A Walk To Remember"~
Song that corresponds- Teach Me by Musiq Soulchild
Venus-North Node synastry is without a doubt one of my most favorite synastry placements. Especially when itâs sextile! Jamie and Landon show how this synastry plays out very well. Jamie is Venus while Landon is North Node. As we can see they come from two different worlds, have 2 different mindsets, morals etc. Jamie is still in his South node when he meets Jamie so he exhibits those traits. In the beginning of this synastry the venus person is unknowingly helping the north node person get closer to where they need to be simply by saying/doing things that they normally do. At first, the NN person is pulling back a lot. Like him not wanting to be seen with her, calling her interests stupid, and hanging with the popular crowd etc. But that soon changes the more her venus influences his NN. Venus unconsciously inspires the NN person to want to be a better them and often pick up a lot of hobbies/interests that Venus is interested in. Venus exposes them to new things that they never knew of thatâs a part of Venus's daily life. North Node becomes more artistic and peaceful, less stubborn, improving oneself and realizing that they have someone they can be vulnerable with. Venus has the natural ability to put NN at ease, theyâre like the breath of fresh air that nn so desperately needed. Theyâre like the missing component to life that nn didnât even know they were missing. As a result of Venusâs presence, NN person now has more self-confidence and believes in themselves and what they can do. A creative bug theyâve never had suddenly wonât stop biting them. Usually picking up the exact same or similar hobby that venus has and loves. Their life that once had no direction becomes very clear now and Venus is usually in the center of it. Thereâs mutual support, great communication, shared values (that were once very different), personal growth and great conflict resolution. Here the North Node person and The Venus person evolve together! The Node Node is usually more drastic and apparent to others. However, Venusâs perspective on love and relationships changes a lot here and they feel very fulfilled by the person the NN has changed into. This is a love that stands the test of time more often than not. Iâd say their Venus & NN was in earth signs being that they both brought each other a sense of comfy stability and helped each other complete their life's goals.Â
Quotes from the Movie that are true to this synastryâŠÂ
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âLandon, look, I thought i saw something in you, something good, but i was very wrongâ -Jamie This is usually how the Venus person feels when the NN person isnât accepting but instead afraid of the change they feel venus invoking. Causing them to act out in many ways then hurting the venus person.Â
âYou donât know what you wantâ -Jamie In the beginning the NN person actually is clueless as to what they want in life and the direction they're going to take.Â
âShe makes me want to be different, betterâ -Landon Venus, without trying, inspires the NN person in many ways to want to be better and improve themselves. They may also look up to the Venus person in some way or want to know that they are proud of them and who theyâve become.Â
âMaybe you inspire meâ -LandonÂ
âSheâs the best person Iâve ever knownâ - Landon More often than not and depending on other aspects, the north node person feels this way.Â
âJamie saved my life. She taught me everything. About life, hope and the long journey ahead.â- Landon
âI hadn't done any of the things that I normally did with girls, yet somehow I'd fallen in love.â-Landon This is very common in this synastry. Even down to venus not being NNâs type. Yet somehow the north node feels things for this person theyâve never felt with anyone before.Â
âListen, Iâm sorry I havenât treated Jamie the way I shouldâve. She deserves more than that. Iâm just asking you for the same thing that you teach us every day in church. And thatâs faith.â -Landon The response I wrote for the first quote applies here. As well as NN realizing their mistakes and wrong doings from embodying their SN and doing the best they can to do right by the Venus person.Â
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Synastry observations III
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đ€đđ©đŠđŻ đ”đ©đŠđłđŠ đąđłđŠ đ”đŠđŻđŽđŠ đąđŽđ±đŠđ€đ”đŽ đŁđŠđ”đžđŠđŠđŻ đđąđłđŽ - đđ°đ°đŻ, đȘđ” đ€đąđŻ đ”đŠđđ đ¶đŽ đąđŁđ°đ¶đ” đą đ€đ°đźđ±đđŠđč, đȘđŻđ”đŠđŻđŽđŠ đłđŠđđąđ”đȘđ°đŻđŽđ©đȘđ± đ§đ¶đđ đ°đ§ đŽđŠđčđ¶đąđ đąđ”đ”đłđąđ€đ”đȘđ°đŻ. đđ°đźđŠđ”đ©đȘđŻđš đ”đ©đąđ” đźđąđŹđŠđŽ đ”đ©đŠđŽđŠ đąđŽđ±đŠđ€đ”đŽ đŽđ”đąđŻđ„ đ°đ¶đ” đȘđŽ đ”đ©đąđ” đ”đ©đŠ đđąđłđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đȘđŽ đ„đŠđŠđ±đđș đ§đąđŽđ€đȘđŻđąđ”đŠđ„ đŁđș đ”đ©đŠ đŻđąđ”đ¶đłđŠ đ°đ§ đ”đ©đŠ đđ°đ°đŻ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ, đąđŻđ„ đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠđ€đ°đźđŠ đŠđčđ”đłđŠđźđŠđđș đ±đłđ°đ”đŠđ€đ”đȘđ·đŠ đąđŻđ„ đ€đ°đŻđŽđ”đąđŻđ”đđș đ”đłđș đ”đ° đŁđŠ đąđžđąđłđŠ đ°đ§ đžđ©đąđ” đ©đŠ đȘđŽ đ„đ°đȘđŻđš. đđ©đȘđđŠ đ”đ©đŠ đđ°đ°đŻ đđŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ§đŠđŠđđŽ đą đđ°đ” đ°đ§ đąđ”đ”đłđąđ€đ”đȘđ°đŻ đŁđąđ€đŹ, đŁđ¶đ” đȘđŽ đ”đŠđźđ±đ”đŠđ„ đ”đ° đ±đđąđș đąđłđ°đ¶đŻđ„ đžđȘđ”đ© đ”đ©đŠ đđąđłđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ. đđȘđ”đ©đ°đ¶đ” đą đ„đ°đ¶đŁđ”, đȘđ” đąđ¶đšđ¶đłđŽ đą đ€đ°đźđ±đđŠđč đ€đ°đ¶đ±đđŠ, đŁđ¶đ” đȘđ§ đ”đ©đŠđłđŠ đȘđŽ đźđąđ”đ¶đłđȘđ”đș đȘđŻđ·đ°đđ·đŠđ„, đȘđ” đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠ đŽđ°đźđŠđ”đ©đȘđŻđš đ·đŠđłđș đ§đ¶đŻ đ”đ° đŽđŠđŠ đ°đł đŠđčđ±đŠđłđȘđŠđŻđ€đŠ.
đ€đđ©đŠđŻ đđŠđŽđ”đą đȘđŽ đ€đ°đŻđ«đ¶đŻđ€đ” đ°đ”đ©đŠđł'đŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đđ¶đŻ, đđ°đ°đŻ, đđŠđŻđ¶đŽ đ°đł đđŽđ€đŠđŻđ„đąđŻđ”, đ”đ©đŠ đđŠđŽđ”đą đđŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ§đŠđŠđđŽ đąđŻ đȘđŻđŽđ”đąđŻđ” đđ°đșđąđđ”đș đ”đ° đ”đ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ. đđ©đŠđș đąđłđŠ đ„đŠđŠđ±đđș đ±đąđŽđŽđȘđ°đŻđąđ”đŠ đąđŁđ°đ¶đ” đ”đ©đŠ đ°đ”đ©đŠđł đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đąđŻđ„ đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đłđŠđđąđ”đȘđ°đŻđŽđ©đȘđ± đžđȘđ”đ© đ”đ©đŠđź đźđąđș đŁđŠ đŽđ°đźđŠđ”đ©đȘđŻđš đșđ°đ¶ đ€đ°đŻđŽđ”đąđŻđ”đđș đŽđŠđŠđŹ đ”đ° đȘđźđ±đłđ°đ·đŠ, đ±đ¶đłđŽđ¶đŠ đąđŻđ„ đźđąđȘđŻđ”đąđȘđŻ. đđ©đŠđȘđł đ„đŠđ·đ°đ”đȘđ°đŻ đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠ đ·đŠđłđș đ±đ¶đłđŠ, đąđŻđ„ đ”đ©đȘđŽ đȘđŽ đŁđŠđ€đąđ¶đŽđŠ đ”đ©đŠđș đšđŠđŻđ¶đȘđŻđŠđđș đ§đŠđŠđ đȘđŻ đąđžđŠ đ°đ§ đ”đ©đŠ đđđąđŻđŠđ” đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ. đđ©đȘđŽ đąđ±đ±đđȘđŠđŽ đ”đ° đ”đłđȘđŻđŠđŽ đąđŻđ„ đŽđŠđčđ”đȘđđŠđŽ đąđŽ đžđŠđđ, đŁđ¶đ” đȘđ” đȘđŻđ”đŠđŻđŽđȘđ§đȘđŠđŽ đžđȘđ”đ© đ”đ©đŠ đ€đ°đŻđ«đ¶đŻđ€đ”đȘđ°đŻ.
đ€đđ©đŠđŻ đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ'đŽ đđąđłđŽ đąđŽđ±đŠđ€đ”đŽ đșđ°đ¶đł đđąđ”đ¶đłđŻ đȘđ” đȘđŽ đ·đŠđłđș đđȘđŹđŠđđș đ”đ©đąđ” đ”đ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đžđȘđđ đźđ°đ”đȘđ·đąđ”đŠ đșđ°đ¶ đ°đł đŁđłđŠđąđŹ đșđ°đ¶ đ°đ¶đ” đ°đ§ đą đłđ¶đ”, đŠđ·đŠđŻ đ€đąđ¶đŽđŠ đșđ°đ¶ đ”đ° đŁđłđŠđąđŹ đ”đ©đŠ đłđ¶đđŠđŽ đ°đł đ”đ©đąđ” đŽđŠđłđȘđ°đ¶đŽ đŽđ©đŠđđ, đžđ©đȘđ€đ© đȘđ” đȘđŽ đŻđ°đ” đŻđŠđ€đŠđŽđŽđąđłđȘđđș đŁđąđ„. đđ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ€đąđŻ đŁđłđȘđŻđš đą đđ°đ” đ°đ§ đŠđčđ€đȘđ”đŠđźđŠđŻđ” đąđŻđ„ đąđ„đ·đŠđŻđ”đ¶đłđŠ đȘđŻđ”đ° đșđ°đ¶đł đđȘđ§đŠ, đąđŻđ„ đŠđ·đŠđŻ đȘđ§ đșđ°đ¶ đ©đąđ·đŠ đ”đ©đȘđŽ đČđ¶đąđđȘđ”đș đ°đ§ đšđ°đȘđŻđš đąđšđąđȘđŻđŽđ” đ”đ©đŠ đđąđž, đ”đ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ€đąđŻ đźđ°đ”đȘđ·đąđ”đŠ đșđ°đ¶ đ”đ° đ„đ° đą đŁđŠđ”đ”đŠđł đ«đ°đŁ đąđŻđ„ đšđ° đąđ§đ”đŠđł đžđ©đąđ” đșđ°đ¶ đžđąđŻđ” đžđȘđ”đ©đ°đ¶đ” đšđȘđ·đȘđŻđš đȘđ” đ”đ°đ° đźđ¶đ€đ© đ”đ©đ°đ¶đšđ©đ”.
đ€đđ©đŠđŻ đșđ°đ¶đł đđ¶đŻ đ°đł đđŠđłđ€đ¶đłđș đ§đąđđđŽ đȘđŻ đ”đ©đŠ 5đ”đ© đ°đł 10đ”đ© đ©đ°đ¶đŽđŠ đ°đ§ đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ, đ”đ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đźđ°đŽđ” đđȘđŹđŠđđș đ”đąđđŹđŽ đąđŁđ°đ¶đ” đșđ°đ¶ đąđŻđ„ đŁđłđąđšđŽ đąđŁđ°đ¶đ” đșđ°đ¶ đ”đ° đ°đ”đ©đŠđł đ±đŠđ°đ±đđŠ. đ đ°đ¶ đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠ đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ đ·đŠđłđș đąđ„đźđȘđłđąđŁđđŠ đ§đ°đł đ”đ©đŠđź, đąđŻđ„ đ±đŠđ°đ±đđŠ đąđłđŠ đ”đ©đŠ đ§đȘđłđŽđ” đ”đ° đ§đȘđŻđ„ đ°đ¶đ” đ°đŻ đ”đ©đŠ đ±đŠđ„đŠđŽđ”đąđ đ”đ©đąđ” đ”đ©đŠđș đ©đąđ·đŠ đșđ°đ¶, đŠđ·đŠđŻ đđ°đŻđš đŁđŠđ§đ°đłđŠ đșđ°đ¶. đđ©đŠđș đ”đŠđŻđ„ đ”đ° đ±đ¶đ” đą đđ°đ” đ°đ§ đŠđčđ±đŠđ€đ”đąđ”đȘđ°đŻđŽ đ°đŻ đșđ°đ¶ đąđŻđ„ đ±đąđȘđŻđ” đșđ°đ¶ đąđŽ đą đ·đŠđłđș đ€đąđ±đąđŁđđŠ đąđŻđ„ đŽđŹđȘđđđŠđ„ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ”đ° đ„đŠđąđ đžđȘđ”đ© đđȘđ§đŠ, đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ đ”đąđđŠđŻđ”đŠđ„ đžđ©đ° đŹđŻđ°đžđŽ đ©đ°đž đ”đ° đšđŠđ” đąđ©đŠđąđ„.
đ€đđŠđŻđ¶đŽ đ€đ°đŻđ«đ¶đŻđ€đ” đđ đȘđŽ đąđŻ đŠđčđ”đłđŠđźđŠđđș đŁđŠđąđ¶đ”đȘđ§đ¶đ đąđŽđ±đŠđ€đ”, đąđŻđ„ đȘđ” đȘđŽ đ”đ©đąđ” đ”đ©đŠ đđŠđŻđ¶đŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đȘđŽ đ§đąđŽđ€đȘđŻđąđ”đŠđ„ đŁđș đ”đ©đŠ đ„đŠđ„đȘđ€đąđ”đȘđ°đŻ, đźđ°đłđąđđȘđ”đș đąđŻđ„ đ±đłđȘđŻđ€đȘđ±đđŠđŽ đ°đ§ đ”đ©đŠ đđ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ. đđ©đŠ đđŠđŻđ¶đŽ đđŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đźđąđș đ©đąđ·đŠ đŁđŠđŠđŻ đ€đ©đąđłđźđŠđ„ đŁđș đ”đ©đŠđź đąđ” đ§đȘđłđŽđ” đŽđȘđšđ©đ”, đđȘđŹđȘđŻđš đ”đ©đŠđź đąđŻđ„ đ”đ©đŠ đžđąđș đ”đ©đŠđș đ±đłđŠđŽđŠđŻđ”đŠđ„ đ”đ©đŠđźđŽđŠđđ·đŠđŽ đ”đ° đ°đ”đ©đŠđł đ±đŠđ°đ±đđŠ. đđ©đŠ đđ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đđ°đ°đŹđŽ đ„đŠđđȘđšđ©đ”đŠđ„ đžđȘđ”đ© đ”đ©đŠ đŁđŠđąđ¶đ”đș, đŠđđŠđšđąđŻđ€đŠ đąđŻđ„ đąđŠđŽđ”đ©đŠđ”đȘđ€đŽ đ°đ§ đ”đ©đŠ đ°đ”đ©đŠđł đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ. đđŠđȘđŻđš đąđŁđđŠ đ”đ° đŽđŠđŠ đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đŁđŠđąđ¶đ”đș đąđŽ đŽđ°đźđŠđ”đ©đȘđŻđš đ©đȘđšđ©đŠđł đ°đł đŽđ°đźđŠđ”đ©đȘđŻđš đ”đ©đŠđș đ©đąđ„ đŻđŠđ·đŠđł đŽđŠđŠđŻ đŁđŠđ§đ°đłđŠ.
đ€đđ¶đŻđ° đ€đ°đŻđ«đ¶đŻđ€đ” đđ°đ°đŻ đȘđŻđ„đȘđ€đąđ”đŠđŽ đą đŻđŠđŠđ„ đ§đ°đł đŁđ°đ”đ© đ±đŠđ°đ±đđŠ đ”đ° đŁđŠ đ”đ°đšđŠđ”đ©đŠđł. đđ©đŠ đđ¶đŻđ° đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ€đąđŻ đŽđŠđŠ đȘđŻ đđ°đ°đŻ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ đłđŠđđȘđąđŁđđŠ, đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ đžđȘđ”đ© đžđ©đ°đź đ”đ©đŠđș đ€đ°đ¶đđ„ đ©đąđ·đŠ đą đđ°đŻđš-đ”đŠđłđź đ€đ°đźđźđȘđ”đźđŠđŻđ”, đ±đđ¶đŽ đžđ©đŠđŻ đ”đ©đŠ đđ°đ°đŻ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đȘđŽ đŠđźđ°đ”đȘđ°đŻđąđ đąđŻđ„ đŽđŠđŻđŽđȘđ”đȘđ·đŠ đžđȘđ”đ© đ”đ©đŠđź, đ”đ©đŠđș đ€đąđŻ đšđłđ°đž đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đȘđ„đŠđąđŽ đąđŁđ°đ¶đ” đ”đąđŹđȘđŻđš đ”đ©đŠ đłđŠđđąđ”đȘđ°đŻđŽđ©đȘđ± đ”đ° đąđŻđ°đ”đ©đŠđł đđŠđ·đŠđ. đđ°đ°đŻ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đŽđŠđŠđŽ đ”đ©đŠđź đąđŽ đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ đ€đ°đźđźđȘđ”đ”đŠđ„ đžđ©đ° đ”đąđŹđŠđŽ đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đŠđźđ°đ”đȘđ°đŻđŽ đ·đŠđłđș đŽđŠđłđȘđ°đ¶đŽđđș, đŽđ°đźđŠđ°đŻđŠ đ”đ©đŠđș đ€đąđŻ đ±đ¶đ” đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đ”đłđ¶đŽđ” đȘđŻ.
đ€đđ©đŠđŻ đșđ°đ¶đł đđ°đ°đŻ đ§đąđđđŽ đȘđŻ đąđŻđ°đ”đ©đŠđł'đŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ 8đ”đ© đ©đ°đ¶đŽđŠ đ”đ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ”đłđȘđŠđŽ đ”đ° đŽđ”đąđș đ€đđ°đŽđŠ đ”đ° đșđ°đ¶, đșđ°đ¶đł đŠđźđ°đ”đȘđ°đŻđŽ đȘđŻđ§đđ¶đŠđŻđ€đŠ đ”đ©đŠđź đȘđŻđ„đȘđłđŠđ€đ”đđș đąđŻđ„ đ”đ©đŠđș đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠ đČđ¶đȘđ”đŠ đąđ”đ”đŠđŻđ”đȘđ·đŠ đ”đ° đșđ°đ¶đł đŻđŠđŠđ„đŽ, đ©đ°đžđŠđ·đŠđł đȘđ” đźđąđș đŻđ°đ” đŁđŠ đ·đŠđłđș đ°đŁđ·đȘđ°đ¶đŽ đ”đ° đșđ°đ¶. đđ©đȘđŽ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠ đ·đŠđłđș đ€đ°đŻđ€đŠđłđŻđŠđ„ đ”đ©đąđ” đșđ°đ¶ đąđłđŠ đžđŠđđ đąđŻđ„ đ©đąđ·đŠ đžđ©đąđ” đșđ°đ¶ đŻđŠđŠđ„. đđ” đźđąđș đȘđŻđ„đȘđ€đąđ”đŠ đŽđ°đźđŠ đ±đ°đŽđŽđŠđŽđŽđȘđ·đŠđŻđŠđŽđŽ đ§đłđ°đź đ”đ©đŠđź đ”đ°đžđąđłđ„đŽ đșđ°đ¶. đ đ°đ¶ đšđȘđ·đŠ đ”đ©đŠđź đą đđ°đ” đ°đ§ đ€đ°đźđ§đ°đłđ”, đŠđ·đŠđŻ đȘđ§ đȘđ” đȘđŽ đŁđș đ”đŠđđđȘđŻđš đșđ°đ¶ đąđŁđ°đ¶đ” đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đźđ°đŽđ” đ±đłđȘđ·đąđ”đŠ đŠđčđ±đŠđłđȘđŠđŻđ€đŠđŽ, đąđŻđ„ đ±đłđŠđ€đȘđŽđŠđđș đŁđŠđ€đąđ¶đŽđŠ đ°đ§ đ”đ©đŠ đȘđźđźđŠđŻđŽđŠ đđŠđ·đŠđ đ°đ§ đ”đłđ¶đŽđ”, đ”đ©đŠđș đ·đąđđ¶đŠ đ”đ©đȘđŽ đ€đ°đŻđŻđŠđ€đ”đȘđ°đŻ đŽđ° đźđ¶đ€đ©.
đ€đđ©đŠđŻ đșđ°đ¶đł đđ°đ°đŻ đ§đąđđđŽ'đŽ đȘđŻ đ”đ©đŠ đ°đ”đ©đŠđł đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ'đŽ 7đ”đ© đ©đ°đ¶đŽđŠ đ°đł đȘđŽ đ€đ°đŻđ«đ¶đŻđ€đ” đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đ„đŠđŽđ€đŠđŻđ„đąđŻđ” đȘđ” đȘđŽ đ·đŠđłđș đđȘđŹđŠđđș đ”đ©đąđ” đ”đ©đŠ đȘđŻđ”đŠđŻđŽđȘđ”đș đ°đ§ đșđ°đ¶đł đŠđźđ°đ”đȘđ°đŻđŽ đąđŻđ„ đșđ°đ¶đł đŠđźđ°đ”đȘđ°đŻđąđ/đ·đ¶đđŻđŠđłđąđŁđđŠ đŽđȘđ„đŠ đžđȘđđ đąđ”đ”đłđąđ€đ” đ”đ©đŠđȘđł đąđ”đ”đŠđŻđ”đȘđ°đŻ đźđąđ„đđș. đđ°đ”đ© đ±đŠđ°đ±đđŠ đ€đ°đŻđŻđŠđ€đ” đŠđąđŽđȘđđș đąđŻđ„ đ©đąđ·đŠ đą đ·đŠđłđș đ„đŠđđȘđ€đąđ”đŠ đžđąđș đ°đ§ đ”đłđŠđąđ”đȘđŻđš đŠđąđ€đ© đ°đ”đ©đŠđł, đŽđ° đđȘđ·đȘđŻđš đ”đ°đšđŠđ”đ©đŠđł đ€đąđŻ đŁđŠ đŽđ°đźđŠđ”đ©đȘđŻđš đłđŠđąđđđș đŁđŠđąđ¶đ”đȘđ§đ¶đ. đđ©đŠ đđ°đ°đŻ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ€đąđŻ đźđąđŹđŠ đ”đ©đŠ đđđ đ±đŠđłđŽđ°đŻ đ§đŠđŠđ đźđ°đłđŠ đ€đ°đźđ§đ°đłđ”đąđŁđđŠ đžđȘđ”đ© đ”đ©đ°đŽđŠ đŽđȘđ„đŠđŽ đ°đ§ đ”đ©đŠđźđŽđŠđđ·đŠđŽ đ”đ©đąđ” đ”đ©đŠđș đ„đ°đŻ'đ” đŽđŠđŠ đ°đł đąđ€đ€đŠđ±đ”.
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1h ruler in the 6h: 100% i have become more aware of my health / well-being. my daily routines have dramatically shifted. i set a goal to do 30mins of movement 5 days a week and that has changed my life! i did recently have a mini health problem that landed me at a gastroenterologist... and the answer was i don't get enough fiber and i am severely dehydrated. which oddly enough my eye doctor told me i have very few tear ducts which is causing eye strain and making my vision worse which is another hydration problem. the answer hasn't been eyedrops... i have tried 3 medicated drops - the answer is in the fire rising. WARM EYE COMPRESSES.
2h pluto: unexpected gains or losses... guys that stock market crash - omg i lost 100s i was miffed. power struggles over money... mind you this is my 11h ruler. my friendships and those involved with my friends... i am acting a bit stupid with my money... i have definitely taken charge of many financial situations so far this year. someone pray for me...
2h ruler square venus: my financial situation is clashing with my social life. there is tension in my relationships due to money-related issues, which are issues of differing financial values and struggles over shared resources. i am on this path of save save save for the future considering the future and careers in it feel more and more uncertain while my friends are like who cares spend and see what happens. i don't think i'm unable to meet material standards - i'm simply unwilling to when i see that the price doesn't match my values, needs, or wants and especially when i notice something comparable that will bring joy at a lesser price.
3h neptune rx: this is honestly the worst part of this year so far - conversations are not as straightforward as i'd like.... the vagueness in communication... garbage! just tell me what you mean lol i'm so tired of having to guess then present to people what they asked me to do then they are like "no, i wanted this instead"... i need to work on clarifying my intentions and expectations to avoid misunderstandings for the rest of the year. i think i am being clear in my communication but then no one responds until its a huge mess (i have so many examples of this...).
5h ruler in the 12h: working on creative projects in private... lowkey was this my social media hiatus?? like i fell off and i got so much done. but another possibility - my friend moved up her wedding and i happen to be working on a top secret art project for the couple. i have maybe another month or two of progress i need to make to finish this project/gift.
5h ruler sextile mc: showcase showcase showcase when it's done it will no doubt draw a lot of attention - no to toot my own horn but it's beautiful. and i plan to get it professionally framed...
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VENUS IN THE 8TH HOUSE
âThere was a whole magnificent soul burning brightly behind her shyness.â
RELATIONSHIPS
âąThe first experience with love, sex and friendships was most likely painful or just extremely weird. They were definitely hurt early on. This can be something that happened so early that they barely remember it.
âąThere is some kind of betrayal that happens early in life that made them paranoid and sometimes even obsessive and controlling. This makes them hold on to people to never feel that kind of loss ever again. Most times the first betrayal was from a parent.
âąThey feel like there is this wall between them and others because they are so deep and so aware of themselves in a way most people arent. Especially when young. They love to dig deep into themselves which most people avoid. This makes them feel very lonely.
âąThey feel so intensely for their friends and lovers and when young they have a hard time understanding that not everyone feels like them. People might tell them âYou still havent gotten over him?!?â And they be like âUh no it was only 10 years agoâ
âąPeople were afraid of the sexual energy oozing from them and avoiding them to not be reminded of their own shameful lust. So the blame was put on them. âYou are vulgarâ âYou disgust meâ âDont stand so close to meâ. Anything to ignore this lust that the Venus 8th house person made them feel.
âąThey attract people who can become very obsessive over them and they are obsessive themselves. They want to know the person they love to the core. They cant stand secrets or disloyalty.
âąSince the 8th house rules secrets these people have at some point in their lives been somebodys secret. It could have been a partner or a friend who for some reason couldnt go public with them or wasnt allowed to see them. This added to their bad self esteem by making them feel worthless.
âąFrom an early age they knew that something about them made others react strongly. Adults looking at them in a weird way. Being told to not dance like that while they were just dancing like the other kids. Peoples deepest darkest sexual fantasies projected onto them. âDont dance like that you are just a kidâ but did she dance sexy or was it just the old mans fantasies making him oversexualize her?Doesnt matter they were blamed anyways.
âąTo not gain these strong uncomfortable reactions from others they often become people pleasers. Hyper aware of their surroundings and how they come across, trying not to do something to awake a strong reaction from anyone.
âąIn their teenage years something strange happens, same sex friends they grew up with starts acting weird. Puberty. Somewhere along the lines the other girls/boys started noticing the reactions the Venus 8th house person gets from the boys/girls at school. Envy. This changes their relationship to the same sex forever.
TRANSFORMATION
âąThese people have the gift of transformation. They transform all the time. Their style, persona, body language, face. They change so much that people might not even recognize them after a few years.
âąThey transform their selfworth since they were taught from a young age that something is wrong with them. When they reach a certain age they start to understand and notice how it wasnt them who was at fault.
âąIf you tell them something they did or said a few years ago they might get shocked. âThat does not sound like me?â
âąThe biggest transformations usually come after a breakup or end of a friendship.
âąSometimes they become very sad before a transformation is about to happen. Their bodies need to purge all that enery from the person thats now out of their lives. They could even become sick. There is always a glow up after this.
APPEARANCE
âąThese people have very mysterious appearances. There is a mystery to them that reminds you of a creature from a scary movie but at the same time an innocence that reminds you of an angel.
âąThe eyes, lips, nostrils and even ears are extremely beautiful because the 8th house rules endings and the holes on the body but mostly the genitalia. 8th house rules purging and we purge from our holes. Basically their holes are beautiful.
âąWhen young they care A LOT about their appearance and probably have bad self esteem because people overfixated on their looks. They know people are gonna stare so its best to look perfect. Thats why they could experience an obsession with clothes and makeup that later dies completely bc they dont want to be looked at.
âąThey become better and better with age and their style changes completely. Their style is extremely elegant but at the same time sexy. But not in a revealing way because these people love to hide.
âąThese people knew they were sexy before they knew what sexy was. They grasped early that something about them made people feel a weird feeling in their presence. This made them feel dirty and wrong so a lot of them hide behind baggy clothes.
âąWhen they reach their 40s they are incredibly captivating. When they have gone through all that transformation and finally found themselves. If you ever met an 8th houser in their 40s you know what i mean. They ooze a confidence and passion that makes the neighbourhood teenage boys drool over their milfy/dilfy neighbour.
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âĄâ± VENUS IN THE 8TH HOUSE OBSERVATIONS
*those with venus-pluto aspects, scorpio venus, and venus ruled 8th house as well (libra/ taurus) could also relate to these observations*
đ„With this placement, your relationships THRIVE with privacy. Any type of emotional intimacy, self care, connection will be much more intense and impactful, but will bloom and be very fertile. Itâll thrive in its secrecy. If you have this placement, have you ever gushed to your friends ALL the details about your relationship with your lover or your interest in your crush, only to receive an overwhelming amount of (negative) feedback or for the relationship to start having problems soon after? yeah, thats because you should keep important details to yourself. people will make you feel like they are entitled to all of it. next time you are interested someone, take it slow and keep some things to yourself (a little mystery never hurt anyone) and watch how less stressful and exciting the relationship feels!
đ„ With this placement, it is possible that others, particularly those of the opposite gender, may resent offering you praises out of jealously or animosity. On days when you feel and look very beautiful, you may get few compliments (but on the bright side that's how you know the people that do compliment you are not hating). Also, the Venus in 8th house person might even feel more attractive knowing people are envious or hating on them. Those passive aggressive or backhanded comments donât tend to really hurt them so deeply, more like annoy or frustrate them.
đ„ its true that those with venus in the 8th house are transformed (8th house) by their relationships (venus). BUT, we can often forget just how triggered other people become by their presence. ïżŒ I have a friend who is Pluto dominant and also has venus in the 8h ïżŒand she will come across ppl who have the most unhinged or inappropriate reactions to her presence. ïżŒ Especially men in relationships, she has found that they treat her badly or are rude to her. almost like they are mad at her for being attractive (secretly mad at themselves for finding her attractive).
đ„we also know that the 8th house also shows us whats taboo, hidden, disturbing and shameful. so those with venus in the 8th house could encounter people that hide their attraction to them with disgust. with comments like âtheyre so ugly to meâ or pointing out something really specific about their body, usually critque in a very sexual and objectified way.
đ„my sister has an 8h venus and sometimes she goes into work looking very pretty, hair done and makeup. and this lady at her job looks at her in DISGUST when she sees her đ its soo fucking bizarre. and she confessed she use to think it was all in her head but one time she took me to a staff party and i was like why is that lady literally snarling at you and she was like wtf so you see it too LMFAOOOO (but AGAIN thats the shit with this energy, people having EXTREME reactions).
đ„**tw*** I have had multiple friends with 8h venus and scorpio venus even find family members to make creepy comments or say things that make them uncomfortable about their bodies :( comments like, âif only you werenât myâŠâ i am OBVIOUSLY not stating that is a guaranteed experience for these people but 8th is the TABOO. that part of it can be horrible.
đ„ ^ my advice to that is to NEVER ïżŒ normalize blatant, disrespect, even if itâs displayed as âjust jokes.â Respectfully put them in their place. My friend will really tell people âI have no idea why you feel comfortable speaking to me like thisâ when she gets comments (and usually they will be ones insinuating she is promiscuous). ïżŒ I can easily escalate from there because your presence, your values, beauty, pleasure all become very triggering to other people (yes, even people youâre not even dating/ interested in or in a relationship with).
đ„ Certain clothing, makeup, or other forms of expression may be deemed overly exposing, provocative, or "sexy" on you, but if someone without the 8th house/scorpio energy wore them, the response would be far less intense and dramatic. I've also noticed that women with this placement got policed A LOT with their clothing and bodies growing up, being sexualized as young children as well.
đ„also that can create a sense of distortion/ trauma in your relationship with your body. so some days those venus in the 8th house could dress up or do what they usually do in their routine (unique to them) that makes them feel beautiful, but they still might not be able to see that beauty or feel it. Kind of like âyeah, youre telling me im pretty but idk i guess.â BUUUUUTTT when they step into their full power omg unstoppable *chefs kiss.* they know that even on their âworstâ days their beauty is mesmerizing. but that self-loves comes after working hard to unpack trauma and their relationships with other people and how it all merged together. you have to figure out that some pain/ insecurities do not actually belong to you.
đ„ those with venus in the eighth houseïżŒ also tend to attract individuals that are already in committed relationships or individuals where the relationship would be kind of inappropriate (ïżŒ it being a boss or a friends ex or something like that). Itâs like the other person sees the venus in the eighth house person as the ultimate temptation. BUT, the Venus in the 8th house person could indulge in this as well if they have no restraint.
đ„ those with venus in the eighth ïżŒhouse may also have felt insecure of their features growing up. they mightâve dreamed about getting cosmetic surgery. ïżŒbut could also be simultaneously afraid of it ïżŒor afraid they will regret changing their unique features. đ„ș
đ„ their beauty can feel contradicting, however, for the venus in 8th house person. ïżŒ This is partially because even if they were sexualized or policed a lot growing up, they could have also felt insecure about their looks simultaneously. ïżŒ It couldâve been like either people could have been ârepulsedâ by them or attracted (or a mix of both).
đ„i only say that bc scorpio venus, 8th house venus, venus-pluto ppl have such a striking beauty but i donât think its in the conventionally attractive way (like not having perfectly straight teeth or maybe a slightly crooked nose, ya know). so if anything that could throw others off & b like hmm youâre someone I wouldnât usually think is pretty yet somehow youâre beautiful. i only say that bc plutonian energy is disruptive. like IF ANYTHING, these ppl are the ones that think about getting cosmetic surgery (but u shouldnt, those very features are what make u so mesmerizing).
đ„however, do NOT be afraid to treat yourself. For example, one of my friends has venus in the 8th house and she has wanted to get laser for her body hair for the longest. She also loves great quality skincare products too. Her family/friends were complaining that she âwastes too much money on stuff like thatâ and to not get the laser. she ended being able to EASILY save for it, didnât tell anyone and got it. Now these same people are telling her âomg ur skin looks so good! etc etc.â thatâs because as an eighth house Venus a lot of people might not understand your routines. ïżŒThey might even feel jealous about the things you have for them (like your perfumes, skin care, accessories, clothes, hair products etc).
ïżŒđ„^ BUT as an 8th house venus, the better you feel about yourself, the more your relationships prosper. And sometimes the same people complaining about the money you âwasteâ would NOT complain if you were giving them gifts the same price. sometimes people resent you for looking a certain way or having things ïżŒthat they secretly wanted as well. but the only difference is that the 8th house Venus person took the risk and interest in investing in it.
đ„so donât be afraid to make your nail or hair appointments, get that massage, get that facial etc and keep it cute and lowkey. Donât let people get into a habit of asking you the prices of things you do/ buy only to then shame you for it. it can become a vicious cycle, especially with the people close to you.
đ„ A yearning for relationships that are powerful, passionate, and transformative. If it's less than that, the Venus 8th house individual will not engage, since there is a tremendous urge to merge and discover each other's deepest and most unexplored sides. These are the people that appreciate it when love makes them feel a little crazy haha (within certain limitations, of course; I obviously am not referring to abusive relationships). They loveeee the intense eye contact, for the connection to feel exclusive and as if no one else could possibly comprehend the emotion. Thatâs also why it comes to expressing how they feel about love or relationships they might not even try because there could be no exact words for what it is that theyâre looking for.
đ„ Being desired can also give them a great feeling of power since they love and feel so intensely. Even when (or especially when) it's individuals that they don't even like back or crush on, they can still feel a secret kind of satisfaction from knowing that they make people nervous or excited haha. It serves as a reminder of their magnetism and could also give them a little ego boost hehe. They might take pleasure in that feeling of control and look for it in their interpersonal interactions as well.
đ„ Individuals with Venus in the 8th house significantly alter the people they spend time with (whether it be platonic or romantic). However, they demand loyalty as they are going to be loyal to you as well. When they feel deceived or disappointed, the connection will never be the same. These are the people that, YEARS later, old friends may still think about or discuss them, and may even attempt to reach out to them, but the person with Venus in the 8th house is nowhere to be found. Similar to romantic partnerships, an ex-partner of a person with Venus in the eighth house would lament their loss and may even argue that they will never find another person like them and that they should have treated them better.
đ„ following up on that point, individuals with Venus in the eighth house can attract people that purely lust after them and their bodies or people in general that want to take advantage of them. They must be extremely choosy about who they invite into their lives. As I've stated previously, there is a common misunderstanding among those with 8th house placements or Plutonian people that they are better able to endure suffering than others. They can be familiar to intense situations but that does not mean they are somehow immune from pain or suffering. In a sense, they are just pushed to endure adversity in silence or given no grace in the public light. Therefore, when Venus in the 8th house ultimately departs from a relationship, the individual may realize that 1) not only is their life improving, but 2) the other person mourns the loss of that connection and access. They realize how fortunate they were to have the Venus in the eighth house by their side. Unfortunately, they were only able to truly appreciate the relationship they had with the 8th house venus person until it was dead and gone.Â
đ„ so its very important that those with venus in the eighth house ïżŒmake sure theyâre being treated right from the beginning. ïżŒ Of course, in a general sense all relationships should be like this.. ïżŒ but Venus in the eighth house needs to watch out for red flags and note down green flags as well. if you notice that in the relationship, youâre spending more money than is being spent on you, ïżŒ complain that your standards are too high, or that theïżŒ compliments from your partner only revolve around your physical body or sexuality then reconsider some things đ ïżŒ with this placement you could run into people that would be willing to happily give you the WORLD. ïżŒ Or you could run into people that want to suck out/ take advantage of your energy. dont be afraid to be picky. đ
đ„ But on a more positive side, Venus in the eighth house individuals who establish their boundaries early on in a relationship have the ability to attract partners who adore lavishing them with luxuries. They can attract partners who validate and affirm them, making them feel valuable, cared for, and beautiful. They might easily attract a loyal and trustworthy individual . However, it may take a great deal of trial and error in relationships before these individuals learn to evaluate their standards and refuse to compromise them for the sake of the connection. When life is going really well for them its beneficial to keep certain things private as well.
đ„ 8th house placements must accept that change in their lives is never without some form of upheaval, and the more they fight, the more difficult it will be for them to perceive the benefits of the changes since they will be too busy clinging to what is familiar. The topics of your values, wealth, beauty, and relationships will be in a state of flux and transition when Venus is in this position. Loss will always be accompanied with a reward if you learn to accept it and draw lessons from it. In such a short period of time, they have actually mastered the ability to level up tremendously. This 2h-8h axis comes into play when a person's self-worth and confidence increase (2h), as will their HEALTHY methods of sharing and constructing relationships with others (8h).
đ„and you do have that right to have people prove themselves to you (2h) before fully comitting money, time, sex (8h). you will know the scales are unbalanced when you find yourself feeling taken advantage of, losing money, and not feeling well mentally. thats a sign as an 8h venus that you got to cut off that connection. people have to NOURISH you. they have to make you feel safe, protected and secure. If not, you could easily find yourself giving and giving until you feel resentful. and that means that you havent stepped into your full power. Before people ask about $, your advice, going on dates etc give yourself time to think, is this truly a connection I want to keep alive?
đ„as an 8th house venus, you KNOW for sure someone is bad for you if you start losing so much money when theyâre in your life/ precense. My sister has an 8h Venus in sidereal and OMGGGG, when sheâs with people that clearly care about her, her finances and savings stack up. recently, she befriended some people that she wasnât sure they had her best interest in mind & she kept giving them the benefit of the doubt. She ended up losing like 2000 dollars because of some trouble she got with them :( Her relationships (venus) have a direct relationship with her finances (8h).
đ„to add on to that, 8th housers in general tend to have a powerful intuition (that they have to be careful to balance and not let it succumb to paranoia). she kept having gut feelings that maybe these people didnât like her as much as it seemed. The 8th house rules EXTREME reactions. One day they treated her well and the next they made aggressive comments. very hot and cold reaction. Its important to stick to a âruleâ of sorts or maybe even a motto when it comes to feeling people out. Itâs important to start slow (and ik with 8th house energy there is this exciting urge to merge but PLS pace yourselves).
đ„our mother would tell us all the time to be careful and to not trust people growing up đ she is very suspicious of people lmfaoo but i think thats why we try to trust people if they havenât given a reason not to trust them & give them that benefit of the doubt. But it should be more than that. sometimes we have to let people show us who they are. we have to master when its time to harden our boundaries and also soften them. and for 8th house placements itâll take a lot of trial and error.
đ„ however, on the bright side, ïżŒeven though the eighth house can show our traumas. Itâs also compensation. ïżŒ itâs two sides of the same coin. ïżŒ So, after traumatic or trouble some relationships, there are very important and GOLDEN lessons ïżŒ learned that said the foundation for how you want to be treated, both romantically and ïżŒplatonically ïżŒ in the future.
đ„ ïżŒ this placement really is the true definition of âWhatever has been lost will be returned to you in new forms. You will always be full and never empty.â for example, my sister now has exchanged that energy. from that loss and devastation in chaos, she has found some non-negotiable boundaries for the way she is going to interact with people in the future. ïżŒ And thatâs gonna make it easier for her to avoid situations in which there is danger and potential loss of money/ resources/ time.
đ„as an 8h venus you have to accept that loss will be a part of your life (some on your terms and some âagaints ur willâ) BUT your reaction will ALWAYS be on your own terms. When there is something that you desire badly, whether it be a goal or a relationship or moving up in ur career etc, there is something you will have to let go. it can be physical. it can be as simple as cutting your hair! but it can also be emotional and external like letting go of that friendship that is holding you back. you will know what it is.
đ„ when youâre going through these periods of transformation, ïżŒ itâll be obvious to other people because youll pop up with a new hair cut/ color, tattoos, entirely different wardrobe, or even be in a secret relationship or with someone who other people would never expect. I love when plutonians do this though because im like damn đđ you look GOOD! And ik you probably just went through hell đ SO I HOPE YOU FEEL GOOD!
đžđ· *do not plagiarize my writing or repost on other forms of social media under any circumstances. These are merely my personal observations and other aspects/signs should also be taken into account. đžđ·
Astrology: The 7th house and the relationship partner
Our ascendant sign indicates how we distinguish ourselves as an individual. It depicts the characteristics we project into the outer world and how we proclaim our âI amâ.
In regards to this, our descendent then indicates who we declare as âThey areâ. The sign here indicates the type of people we attract or are attracted to as they provide contrast to who we define ourselves as - Ever heard âopposites attractâ?
The 7th house is often associated with romantic relationships, however this is commonly the simplified modern interpretation of this house.
Essentially what the 7th house represents is any situation where you are in âcontractâ with another person in a one-on-one circumstance. You come to agreements here, and this is why this house is associated with the marriage partner (and also business relationships and deals, as well as law and close friendships).
The sign here indicates the characteristics attractive in another person, and also indicates who is drawn to you. It is often 9 times out of 10 that we have our longest and most successful relationships with people who have the sign on out descendent on one of their personal planets or their rising sign.
Many other factors can alter this such as:
The ruler of the sign on our DC (sign/house and aspects play a vital role in interpretation)
Venus house, sign and aspects
Juno house, sign and aspects
Looking at the ruler of the 7th house and its condition is very important if you 7th house is empty!
NoâŠthis does not mean youâll live alone with 9 cats and a parakeet called CharlieâŠyour 7th house ruler will give you more information as to the nature of your potential future relationship partner.
In fact, if your 7th house is empty, the bond you can create when someones planet falls into this house can strengthen your connection with them as their presence seems to âcompleteâ you in a way you find magnetic and romantic.
Check the sign on your descendent + the sign the ruler is in (regardless if you have planets in the 7th or not) as this will highly indicate the most likely people youâll form relationships with.
Note* This will also indicate how you will act in relationships with other people! (This will greatly depend on if you subconsciously project these characteristics onto another person/if they have planets in this sign)
Also take note of any planets in the 7th house
* The house of the 7th ruler (+ aspects) will also have an influence - for advanced readers
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Aries 7th (Look for Mars Sign)
An independent relationship partner
A hot headed and temperamental partner
A masculine and driven partner
Someone who is sporty and always on the go
Having a partner who takes the lead in relationships Â
Being competitive with the relationship partner
The partner is fiery, passionate and highly sexual
Play fighting with the partner
Having a tomboy partner
Someone who is defensive and aggressive
Someone who goes head first into things without much forethought
A partner who can be selfish
A partner who is a fighter and daring
Having a partner whoâs are pioneer and aims to reach the top
Having a partner whoâs into weapons, fighting, sports and/or competing
A partner whoâs into violent movies and/or video games
A partner who can put themselves first
The relationship partner is daring, courageous and has little to no fear of anything or anyone
A partner with a âTry meâ attitude
A partner who doesnât take ânoâ for an answer
Having a partner who prefers to do their own thing
Having a partner who makes it hard to pin down because they want to be independent and solo
A hot headed and boisterous partner
A partner who is physically fit, athletic and sporty
A partner whines always looking for something new to do
A masculine partner
The relationship partner tends to start things but not finish them
Taurus (Look for Venus Sign)
A slow moving and steady partner
A very attractive and aesthetic partner
Having a partner whoâs artistic and enjoys making things
A relationship partner who enjoys makeup, hair, beauty, perfumes, jewellery clothes
A partner who has a love of money and material possessions
A Possessive partner
Having a partner who can be stubborn and/or lazy
Partners favourite date is Netflix and chillâŠ
Having a partner who spoils you (buys you things, takes you out for dinner)
A hard working and determined partner
The relationship partner makes the most money
The relationship partner enjoys living on the land, nature and animals
Partner is simplistic and repetitive
The partner doesnât like change
A partner who enjoys buying and spending
The partner can be a bit of a hoarder
Having a partner that only wants the best and finest things in life
A partner who love giving and getting physical affection
A sensual and hedonistic partner
Partner canât keep their hands off you
The relationship partner loves food, soft blankets and has âtheirâ seat/spot/side of the bed ectâŠ
A partner who can be stingy and holds onto money
A partner who provides you a sense of security in the relationship
The relationship partner grounds you in the here and now
Gemini (Look for Mercury Sign)
A chatty, funny and quick witted partner
A partner who does all the talking
The relationship partner is glued to their phone or other technology
A partner who love to socialise and go out in the town a lot
The partner constantly texts, snapchats, calls, even face time you
A partner who loves to read and/or write
The relationship partner constantly changes their mind and opinion on things
An intelligent and bright partner
The relationship partner asks a lot of questions aboutâŠeverything
Having many conversations with the partner
Can talk to the partner about anything
The partner is curious and is always wanting to learn and know about âwhatâs newâ
An inquisitive partner who will always find out the information they are looking for
The partnership feels more brotherly or sisterly
Having a partner whoâs constantly âIn the knowâ
A partner who seems to mimic what you do
The partner takes on the same trends as you do
A youthful (or younger) partner
The relationship partner sometimes doesnât listen because their mind is somewhere else
Having a relationship partner with someone you grew up with
A partner whoâs light hearted and tends to avoid things that are deep and emotional in nature
Having a partner who constantly changes their ideas, thoughts and opinions on things
A partner who enjoys exploring the neighbourhood
A partner who has a strong association with their siblings (or cousins)
Cancer (Look for Moon Sign)
A sweet, gentle and caring partner
A partner who greatly enjoys physical affection - especially hugs
The relationship partner has a soft, feminine nature about them
The partner is a bit of a homebody
The partner enjoys cooking/home made meals over going out
A partner who is family focused/wants to create their own family
The relationship partner is strongly associated with the mother figure (for better or for worse)
The partner can be moody and irritable
The relationship partner can be overly emotional about things
A partner who prefers to have their own privacy
The partner wants to be cared for and coddled like their mother would
The partner likes family tradition
An intuitive and receptive partner who seems to know what youâre feeling all the time
The partner likes to stay at home while you go out and do work
The partner has a soft bodied figure
The partners sensitive and their emotions can be unpredictable at times
The partner can be needy and clingy at times
A partner who acts like a baby when they donât get their way - âBut _____, I waaaant iiiit!â
The relationship partner is sentimental about things in the relationship - âRemember when we ___?â
The partner is protective and defensive (For you and/or themselves)
A partner who loves their home and being comfortable as much as possible
Leo (Look for the Sun)
A happy, cheerful and bright eyed partner
The partner is dramatic, fun and playful
The relationship partner is a bit of a show off (will do/say things to impress you or make you laugh)
A flamboyant and eye catching partner
Your partner can steal your spotlight
The relationship partner is bossy
A partner that treats you like a king/queen (and expects the same)
A generous and gold hearted partner
The partner is fiercely loyal and defensive
The partner can have a lot of pride in their relationship with you (and/or you to them)
The relationship partner shows you off (e.g. selfies on Facebook, snapchat and instagram with every #love tag they can think of)
The partner enjoys romantic dates such as going out to movies and to dinner
A partner who makes you feel special
The partner can be quite jealous
The partner can put themselves first at times
The partner will act like a clown just to make you laugh (being a bit of a show off at the same time)
The partner will do things to receive your love and praise
The partner can blow things out of proportion
A partner who can pout and give the silent treatment when mad - or flip a table or two
The relationship partner wants to be seen by others with you (look at how cute we are everyone)
The relationship partner is creative (either artistically or in the way they think/go about doing things) eg. Cook a recipe in their own creative way
A partner who can be extravagant (and depending on your other placements, you may or may not enjoy it!) e.g. Buys you a massive teddy bear on Valentineâs kind of extravagant
The partner can be vain at times (e.g. its date night, and theyâre in the mirror checking their hair or outfit when its time to go - âHang on babe, I donât look amazing just yetâ)
An attractive, passionate, charismatic and magnetic partner
Virgo (Look for Mercury/Ceres)
A modest and quiet partner
The partner is perfectionistic and does things in a particular way (because its the right way)
The partner is critical and fault finding about practically EVERYTHING
A partner who is very helpful and loves to use their skills to assist you in anyway they can
The partner acts like a bit of a servant for you at times
The partner enjoys cleanliness and organisation
A partner who gets mad when you move or rearrange their stuff
The partner is a workaholic and can at times be too focused on doing their job
The partner is a skilled labourer and craftsman (can be one of the top people in their field)
A partner who is efficient in the things they do
The partner is very picky and choosy about particular things - âYou want to go to X for dinner?âŠwhatâs on the menu?âŠwhere else can we go instead?â
The partner likes keeping journals, records and sticky notes
A partner who can be quite particular about their appearance
A partner who is very health conscious (Fitness powders and supplements galore)
The partner enjoys healthy/clean eating and exercise
The partner loves pets and small animals
A partner who has a particular morning and/or night routine
The partner can be critical of the way you do things (usually its because its not the way THEY would do it)
A partner who does things exactly by the book
The partner prefers to do the chores (To be helpfulâŠand because they want it done a particular way)
The partner doesnât like to get dirty and dislikes anything they define as âgrossâ (bugs/toilets/feet)
Libra (Look for Venus/Juno)
A partner who is fair and desires equality in the relationship
The relationship partner is considerate of your ideas, what you want and your opinions
The partnerâs favourite phrases with you are âIf you want/What do you want to do/If youâre happy, Iâm happyâ
A pleasing and charming partner
The partner canât seem to make decisions for themselves
A relationship partner who loves beauty, fashion, makeup and is quite attractive
The partner is a diplomatic and tactful towards you
The relationship is very sociable and enjoys making conversation
The partner can be very agreeable (sometimes too agreeable)
A partner who will defend you and take your side or try to make you come to their side of the argument
A partner who can avoid issues in the relationship just to keep it happy and harmonious
The partner dislikes coarseness and rude behaviour
The partner can avoid problems and issues
A musical, artistic and/or aesthetically inclined partner
A partner who tends to not defend themselves
The partner can talk their way into getting you to see things from their perspective
The partner can give up things they like and take on things you like
The partner mirrors you
A partner who avoids confrontation and disagreements at all costs
The partner is passive aggressive
The partner says theyâll do something, then decide not to (inconsistent)
The partner is a traditional romantic
A relationship partner who would rather avoid diving deep into emotional issues just to keep the peace
A partner who is a champion at arguing and making a point
Scorpio (Look for Pluto)
A deeply sexual and magnetic partner
The partner is greatly aware of everything you try to hide from them
The partner sees through you like glass
You feel completely merged and at one with your partner
Your relationship partner is deeply raw and authentic
A relationship partner who is attracted to the darker the darker, more taboo aspects of life
A relationship partner who feels, thinks and does things in an intense or an extreme way (eg. Workouts for a solid 2 hours)
Having a love/hate and extreme highs and lows with the relationship partner
The partner is obsessive and possessive of you (and/or you to them)
The partner is easily jealous
The partner can be intimidating
A relationship partner that provokes emotional extremes in you
A partner who has great healing and transformative abilities
The partner takes an all or nothing approach to the relationship
Feeling possessed by the partner
The partner is into the occult, shamanism, reiki, tarot and mediumship
The partner can be a bit controlling
A partner who can make you feel secure but can take it away just as easily
Being completely energetically connected to the partner
Sharing everything you have with the partner
The relationship feels like a birth, death and re-birth cycle
The partner heals you
You change who you were/are during and after being with the relationship partner
The partner is secretive and may not reveal much about themselves
Sagittarius (Look for Jupiter)
An optimistic, happy-go-lucky, and humorous partner
A religious or spiritual relationship partner
A partner who loves travel/is from overseas
The relationship partner is philosophical and open-minded
The partner is jovial, light hearted and playful
A relationship partner who likes to live on the wild side
A partner who enjoys freedom of doing what they want, when they want
The relationship partner doesnât want to be tied down
A partner who is hard to pin down
The relationship partner enjoys big conversations about life and the universe
The partner is sport and athletic
You become a nomad with your partner
Travelling a lot with your partner/Travelling to meet the partner/meeting the partner through travel
A partner who has a hard time committing due to wanting to be free and go and come when they please
The relationship partner loves the great out doors
A partner who loves big animals (horses for example)
Doing wild and adventurous things with your partner (e.g skinny dipping under a full moon)
Camping and living a gyspy life with your partner
The partner is a bit of a hippy
The partner can be self-righteous and opinionated
A partner who avoids deeper emotional issues in the relationship
A partner who has a hard time being deeply emotionally intimate
Expanding your life experience with your partner
The partner helps you explore different cultures and has adventures experiences with you (e.g. bungee jumping in New Zealand)
A partner who acts as a teacher or guru
Capricorn (Look for Saturn) Â
A responsible and mature relationship partner
The relationship partner may be older than you
A partner who tends to claim the authority in the relationship
An ambitious, driven and a career forced partner
A partner who desires to achieve their goals
The partner is practical and grounded in ârealityâ
The partner is hardworking and can be a workaholic
The partner pushes you towards your own ambitions and becomes the driving force to help you achieve your goals
The relationship partner brings structure to your life in the relationship
A partner who doesnât stop working and has a hard time relaxing
The relationship partner doesnât quit until they achieve the
The partner has a sense of seriousness about them
A relationship partner who is conservative and traditional
A partner who can be a bit stingy with money
The relationship partner affects your public status (for better or for worse)
The partner is dutiful and loyal
A partner who can be controlling and a bit demanding
A partner who has a hard time showing their emotional side
The partner sees the relationship as âbusinessâ
The partner doesnât deal well with emotional turmoil
The partner has a strong connection to their father figure (for better or for worse)
A partner who can push you to the top
The partner likes to be dominant in relationships (or you)
Meeting the partner through career, family meeting or a business meeting
Aquarius (look for Uranus)
An eccentric, out of the box and unusual partner
âTheyâre weird but I like them that wayâ
A partner whoâs into all things âspaceâ (Astrology, astronomy, aliens đœ)
A partner who is a humanitarian and has dreams to re-invent the world (or at least in government or politics)
A partner who is helpful and caring towards their friends and strangers
A partner who does charitable services to help others
The relationship partner has a odd quirk about them
The relationship partner is highly intelligent to the point of genius
A partner who has a weird and unique way of thinking and seeing the world around them
Experimentation in the relationship
The relationship isnât a âtraditionalâ relationship (eg. Only seeing each other so often to something like polygamy)
A partner who can be more focused on their friends then the relationship
The partner has a fear of intimacy/doesnât want to be held down
The partner is into nerd culture (GOT/Walking Dead/Star Trek/StarWars. EctâŠ)
A partner doesnât see themselves as being âspecialâ but âjust like everyone elseâ
Having an open relationship
There is a distinct need for ones own personal freedom in the relationship
Going through ups and downs/ on again, off again relationships
The partner can be emotionally distant and aloof
The partner rebells if you impose rules on them in the relationship
Same sex relationships
A relationship partner thats more like a best friend than a romantic partner
Breaking all the rules when it comes to relationships
Pisces ( Look for Neptune)
A sensitive, gentle and compassionate relationship partner
The partner is dreamy and somewhat ethereal in their nature
The relationship partner is spiritual and ânew ageâ inclined
A partner who cares about all life
The partner is psychic, empathic and a mystic
The partner acts as your knight in shinning armour (saviour)
The partner can act like a victim or martyr (most likely because of their own demise)âŠand you have to be their saviour
A partner who needs taking care of
The partner is unconditionally loving and caring
The relationship wants to merge themselves with you, body, mind and spirit
The partner is attached to your hip
The partner is overly romantic (though may not always act on their relationship fantasies)
A partner who has addictive tendencies (not just drugs and alcohol, but to anything in general - food, movies, video games, psychic readings ect)
The partner can have a bad habit of isolating themselves
The partner is artistic and imaginative
A relationship partner that can lie to get themselves out of trouble (and theyâre often convincing)
A partner who can be overly sensitive and emotional
A partner who has a lot of dreams but doesnât seem to act them out (without your assistance at taking care of the details)
The partner isnât overly interested in sex and finds satisfaction in just being near you
A partner who can be clumsy because their head is always in the clouds (and you ground them)
A partner who loves fantasy
Non binary sexual relationships
A partner who loves film and photography
The partner can be impractical and somewhat gullible
The partner is sympathetic and forgiving Â
A partner who has no sexual preference (and/or you)
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Venus - Lilith aspects in a astrology natal chart
Venus conjunct lilith
Your sexual and romantic interests can be intense and you can be a passionate lover. You are compassionate and empathic yet your deeper desires for justice and power can rock the boat in your relationships. You will not be subservient or overlooked in any relationship. Though you can be instinctively nurturing and highly attractive to others, you won't compromise your values for any partner, lover or even in your career or business.
You can easily attract opportunities to thrive and create abundance but you are also sensitive to injustices in finance. You can be wreckless in your pursuit of pleasure and romance. You won't let anyone limit you and you insist on that others see your value and show you the respect you deserve. You have a strong sense of feminine power but may resist conforming to traditional gender roles. You can be outspoken about body image issues, your rage and deeper emotions can be a catalyst for you to help others fight back against issues of domestic violence, toxic relationships or relationship addiction, but in doing so you also need to try to balance and funnel your powerful urges to not lose yourself in relationships.
Venus sextile lilith
It's to translate your desires and sense of beauty even when doing so easy for you challenges the status quo. You know your true value and worth and because of this you'll rebel with outrage and intensity against anyone who tries to take advantage of you. Usually, you can resolve your problems diplomatically. However you won't hold back if others try to stifle your creativity or sense of beauty. You can be dramatic and independent in your approach to love, relationships and even finance and money. You follow your own instincts and it always works out for the best for you.
Venus square lilith
You are emboldened and inspired by friction between your desire for freedom to express your deeper sexual desires and your love of beauty and harmony. You can be motivated to confront repression if it means feeling liberated to express your true self and deeper desires. Your instinctive reaction may be to try to dominate others or avoid intimacy, but by facing friction through relationships you can come to establish your own power and deeper connections.
Venus trine lilith
You find it very easy to express your deep desires, sexuality and beauty. You may also receive praise and validation for your edginess, authenticity and unique style. While others may face a backlash for having similar attitudes, you are able to build bridges rather than being confrontational or shunned by society. This makes it easier for you to be true to yourself and pave the way for sexual and personal liberation for others. It's for you to be true to your authentic nature and even when you feel easy like you're going through your darkest moments, you have a way of showing your beauty and grace.
Venus opposite lilith
You may feel haunted by a sense of not fitting into the stereotypes in your relationships and partnerships. Your sense of beauty is radically different than others and may even come across as dark, edgy and wild. You may have had to reclaim your power, sexuality and connection to the divine feminine by fighting back against oppression, sexual suppression or abuse, or social stigma related to sexuality, beauty and self-worth. You may attract people who challenge you to claim your personal power. Tumultuous romantic relationships or friendships may force you to make your boundaries known. Those who try to control or act possessive in relationships will trigger your rage as you fight back against toxic relationships.
Venus quincunx lilith
You may have to work hard to embrace your authentic desire. You may also have to overcome dependence on approval and relationships early in life in order to fully embrace your own power later in life. Challenges to self-acceptance makes you value your deep inner nature even more once you've fully rejected conformity. While you are awakening to discover your deeper beauty and true value as an individual, you may seek recognition or praise from others. This usually backfires though and through practice you will learn how to set your own value and establish boundaries that respect your gifts.
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dating a capricorn venus đ
note: this is heightened if mars is also in capricorn because mars correlates heavily to HOW your affection/romance is expressed. capricorn moons & dominants will likely also relate to this! đ±
helps you get your life together
tweaks your resume for you / helps you with your homework (this is a love language ok)
constantly trying to give you their things (hoodies/food/etc)
constantly trying to BUY you things
probably tries to pay your bills even tho they canât afford their own damn bills
gives you your space and respects/encourages independence but also secretly wants to be around you all the time and cling to you (depending on moon)
usually struggles with expressing affection verbally (often not good with things like using cheesy nicknames, overt romantic gestures, etc) but youâll never doubt that youâre loved
will do literally anything and everything for you
the type to bring you homemade soup at 4am because you texted saying you were sick/sad/etc
probably âparentsâ you a lot (âhave you ate yet?â âdid you get home safe?â âhow was your day? what happened?â)
very protective of you and gets very defensive/upset when others talk/think badly about you or you talk/think badly about yourself
not the type to just listen to your problems, they want to give actual advice and help you solve them in whatever way they can
that being said; they are great listeners (again depending, especially on mercury/sun) and enjoy listening to their significant other talk 24/7, they really want to know anything and everything about you
youâll know a cap venus likes you when they encourage you to ramble about everything, because normally they arenât one for âuselessâ talks (this will apply more heavily to those with cap mercury rather than cap venus but wanted to include it since many cap venuses have cap mercury as well)
very encouraging about your career & goals, again wants to help you achieve them and plan them out (brings realism and structure into your life as a way of showing love, they just want the best for u!)
very big on physical affection, cap venuses are HUGE cuddlers
clingy soft babies on the inside but they really struggle to admit and express this, so you have to give them time to open up
they need a lot of encouragement and validation in a relationship because they overthink/overanalyze everything, but they wonât ever admit this [theyâre really big on words of affirmation despite not being good at giving these themselves]
they always want to be best friends with their significant other; which is why breakups are always so painful for them because itâs also always losing a best friend too
sends you pics of two cats together and says âthatâs usâ and says it counts as saying i love you (it does!!!! let us live)
RANDOM ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS PT.12
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Mars in the 2nd house natives are very very competitive in nature. Anything and everything is a competition to them. đđ”âđ«
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Venus in the 3rd house natives are very good at flirting. My friend has this and he really says things that make me blush...and makes me wanna crush his face lol. đ„Žđ©
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Mercury in the 2nd house natives usually make promises a lot but quite often don't fulfill them or forget about them later on. They are more Talk, less Walk. đźâđšđ
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Sun in the 12th house natives are curious about sex and 18+ stuff at a very very young age. By that, I don't always mean losing your virginity at a young age. I mean learning about all this and being curious about it at a very young age, like at the age you are not supposed to be thinking about all this. đââïžđ¶
EXAMPLE: I have this placement too and yes, I was at least 5 years old when I wondered whether people had intercourse (even though I didn't know it was called that, at that time)...yeah, when I found out they actually did, I was like EW and then I was like "DAMN. EW but WOAH" and was even more curious and learnt a lot about everything before I turned 10 years old. I did feel ashamed that I had such curiosities at such a raw age, but I am trying to accepted it through Shadow Work đ€§. NO. I never had "it", don't jump to conclusions people. âđ
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Fire sign Venus natives crave reciprocation in relationships, otherwise they don't want the relationship at all. If they remember the small things about you, they want you to remember the small things about them as well.
If you send them a song, they will send you a song back as a message. You'll know a fire Venus native actually likes you or even Loves you for that matter, if they reciprocate your actions. đ„đ«
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An Earth Mars woman likes a man who can stand up for her. Not a coward or a man who runs the minute she has problems. An Earth Mars woman craves a man who would protect her when she can't, mainly Capricorn Mars ladies. đââïžđ€ș
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In any kind of synastry, be it with a friend, a family member, a lover, an acquaintance, etc, 8th house SATURN overlay will always either:
Cause the Saturn person to intentionally or unintentionally hurt the house person, making their insecurities and fears worser. The house person will love and hold the Saturn person in high regards despite being hurt several times. đđ€§
The Saturn person and the house person will be the ones calming each others insecurities and fears, being the ones proving them wrong. They will the first person in eachother's lives who prove those insecurities wrong and will prove to eachother that people like both of them exist. đ«âš
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Saturn in the 5th house natives don't just wanna have flings, random hook-ups and one night stands with anyone. They want down bad serious relationships where they will only have sex with their committed partner. Sure, they will find some chapter attractive, but they won't give it all for just anyone. đ©ââ€ïžâđâđšđ€
Usually these individuals are afraid of not pleasing their partner in bed and not being fun for their partner. These natives are afraid that their partners will get bored of them one day. They also are sort of afraid of physical intimacy because they don't think they look good enough naked and their partner will judge their body. đ„Čđźâđš
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Mercury in 2nd house or Taurus natives are more logical thinking and have a more realistic approach towards life while Mercury in 12th house or Pisces natives are more dreamy and kinda delulu with their approach towards life and also have more emotional thinking.
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I know damn well I have 8th house synastry with someone either when:
I instantly find them hard to look away from and when we catch eye contact, we just keep looking at each other. It's like no name is required, just two strangers talking to each other through their eyes. [BENEFIC OVERLAYS]
When I am annoyed by their presence for no damn reason, like I just hate looking at their face and hearing them talk, and they clearly hate me too from their body language and behavior around me. [MALEFIC OVERLAYS]
Personally, I also know damn well I'm always the house person *emotional damage* đ„Čđ.
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In composite chart and synastry chart, I feel like Moon plays a very important role in showing the emotional connection, understanding and reliability between both the individuals. When Moon sits in reciprocation houses (2nd,4rth,6th,8th, or 12th) both the individuals take each other seriously when it comes to emotions.
If the Composite chart has Cancer rising, then the connection revolves around emotional dependency and emotional depth but the connection will be very unsteady and unpredictable.
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6th house synastry (BENEFIC PLACEMENTS) is actually so so fun and beautiful, both the individuals love spending time with each other. The planet person brings a lot of new things to the life of the house person, especially if Uranus is there.
The house person usually shows their affection through Acts of Service, like opening the door for you, letting you take a seat first, helping you carry your bags, helping you learn something, making you cookies, etc.
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Saturn in sexual houses (5th,8th, or 12th), Inner planets in Capricorn or Aquarius, or Saturn's connection with those house lords definitely is an indicator that chains, being tied up, tying up their partner, being put on their knees or putting their partner on their knees, their sexual discipline being tested by their partner or them testing their partners sexual discipline, etc are all part of the natives kinks and desires in bed.
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Moon in Capricorn or Aquarius or 10th/11th house can also have, being tied up, chained and having their discipline tested by their partner be a huge turn on and desire for them, in bed. When I say discipline, I mean them obeying their partner when their partner tells them not to cum to test if they would listen to them, stuff like that.
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Is it me or are all Aquarius Sun or Moon very very slow in responding to texts most of the time? Like personally, I am so tired of answering texts and I spend so much time doing nothing instead of answering them lmao.
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Is anyone else not just a particular zodiac sign by birth but also has both their inner planets, Sun and Moon in their birth Zodiac? Comment down if you do, cuz I am an AQUARIUS Sun and Moon and I am born and AQUARIAN. If you checked my blood with a microscope, you'd find Aquarius written all over hahahaha đđ.
If yes, then you purely behave like that zodiac sign, even if you have a Day chart or Night chart.
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The driest texters possible on planet Earth are Aquarius Saturn or 11th house Saturn. They are the natives who text short or take a long time to text back. Most of the time they read messages but don't respond back. These natives, most of the time, prefer offline conversation over online texting.
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You can't deny this, Moon in 11th house or Aquarius individuals are amazing at sexting. It's in their blood to naturally turn their partner on with just a few flirty texts. These natives like sexting too because they like making their their partner imagine what they would do with them and not do it with them for real lol. Perfect illusion đ€«đ.
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Taurus placements or 2nd house placements (esp. Stellium) love Desert's and chocolate. They love waffles and donuts and stuff like that. These placements love eating food in general and if you judge them for it, they'll eat you toođđ€« jkjk.
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I've observed that a person with Exalted Mars or developed Mars has a good spice tolerance while Debilitated Mars or underdeveloped Mars has quite a weak spice tolerance. Other Mars placements and signs have an average spice tolerance.
My sister has Mars in Taurus in the 3rd house and she LOVES spicy food, like she wants the level of spice that would make her tounge fall off lol đ„đ. While one of my friend has underdeveloped Scorpio Mars in 2nd house and he cannot tolerate spice AT ALL.
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Uranus in the 12th house will most definitely cause sleeping issues. Why? Most people say, it's because it's underdeveloped in this house but I think Uranus is a very active planet, a planet that only keeps moving and jumping here and there.
In my head, I see Uranus as this young kindergarten boy who's hyperactive and can't decide what he wants for sure. So when you Uranus sits in the 12th house, a house of mental and subconscious work, a house where planets are deserted and left in the fog, a house where there's more subconscious work than physical, Uranus get's frustrated and suppressed here.
It's like expecting the child to relax and observe instead of jumping so much. Well, Uranus is also a rebel so he will try his level best to go against this house which will affect the native. How? The native will have a very wavering subconscious, always thinking and thinking, about something or the other. Even in the native's sleep, the native is made to see his/her future events, further making the subconscious work even more than it should.
Uranus will disrupt the mental peace and subconscious of the native, making the native constantly analyze every detail of events and dreams in their life. These natives find it hard to rest in their sleep because their astral body is very active and roams everywhere during their sleep causing the native to wake up tired.
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Thankyou for reading through this today, I hope you have a wonderful day ahead. I am forever grateful for all your love and support.
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