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dating a capricorn venus  💭

note: this is heightened if mars is also in capricorn because mars correlates heavily to HOW your affection/romance is expressed. capricorn moons & dominants will likely also relate to this! 🌱

helps you get your life together

tweaks your resume for you / helps you with your homework (this is a love language ok)

constantly trying to give you their things (hoodies/food/etc)

constantly trying to BUY you things

probably tries to pay your bills even tho they can’t afford their own damn bills

gives you your space and respects/encourages independence but also secretly wants to be around you all the time and cling to you (depending on moon)

usually struggles with expressing affection verbally (often not good with things like using cheesy nicknames, overt romantic gestures, etc) but you’ll never doubt that you’re loved

will do literally anything and everything for you

the type to bring you homemade soup at 4am because you texted saying you were sick/sad/etc

probably “parents” you a lot (”have you ate yet?” “did you get home safe?” “how was your day? what happened?”)

very protective of you and gets very defensive/upset when others talk/think badly about you or you talk/think badly about yourself

not the type to just listen to your problems, they want to give actual advice and help you solve them in whatever way they can

that being said; they are great listeners (again depending, especially on mercury/sun) and enjoy listening to their significant other talk 24/7, they really want to know anything and everything about you

you’ll know a cap venus likes you when they encourage you to ramble about everything, because normally they aren’t one for “useless” talks (this will apply more heavily to those with cap mercury rather than cap venus but wanted to include it since many cap venuses have cap mercury as well)

very encouraging about your career & goals, again wants to help you achieve them and plan them out (brings realism and structure into your life as a way of showing love, they just want the best for u!)

very big on physical affection, cap venuses are HUGE cuddlers

clingy soft babies on the inside but they really struggle to admit and express this, so you have to give them time to open up

they need a lot of encouragement and validation in a relationship because they overthink/overanalyze everything, but they won’t ever admit this [they’re really big on words of affirmation despite not being good at giving these themselves]

they always want to be best friends with their significant other; which is why breakups are always so painful for them because it’s also always losing a best friend too

sends you pics of two cats together and says “that’s us” and says it counts as saying i love you (it does!!!! let us live)

1st house overlays/synastry

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please do not copy or repeat my work anywhere sun in the 1st house overlay: as we know, the sun illuminates anything it touches. naturally, in synastry, the sun will light up & shine onto the house's personality, appearance, and approach to life. this is a great placement to have for both romantic and platonic endeavors because you feel a mutual understanding; like you're on the same page in the book of life. the house will feel an abundance of validation and recognition from the sun. something about the sun just makes the house feel good, like the world still has something to offer. the sun is very fond of the way the house deals with situations thrown at them. "i love the way you handled that". there's a natural sense of comfort found in one other, it feels like you just get each other. the house may find a lot of peace and serenity within themselves when they find their way back to the sun. gives me the energy of the house thinking "i wish they were here" when they're at a shitty party. the house's general character and disposition is highly aligned with how the sun sees themselves, giving a sense of familiarity and closeness. complimenting each other back to back energy. this person would be a great partner to go out with, because they will always give you the acknowledgement and confidence you're seeking. "should i get this tattoo?" "you would look amazing with that tattoo".

moon in the 1st house overlay: there is no room for concealing emotions in this connection. both parties intuitively sense how the other is feeling, and can see their true motivations with ease. the house may feel almost unveiled by the moon, surprised by how quickly they are able to keep up with their emotions. this is the type of person you miss having as a friend when breaking it off with them, even if you were romantically involved. similar to the sun, the moon overlay shares a natural compatibility with one another. this synastry provokes emotional harmony and deep understanding. the feeling of telling them something you wouldn't ever open up about with anyone else. in this connection, the moon can serve as a tender reflection to show the house how to heal and nurture themselves. this overlay will make both not only physically attracted to each other, but also intensely emotionally. the moon finds the house's mind, body and soul irresistible, while the house desires the moon physically as a means of emotionally connecting. you are able to read each other exceptionally well, the energy of knowing how they feel just by the look on their face. the house will be openly receptive to the moon's way of reassurance. the house saying "i never thought about it that way" when the moon offers them consolation. both parties feel immense relief and comfort within each other. the person you look for in a crowd, to find they were looking for you too.

mercury in the 1st house overlay: this overlay is a like-minded and stimulating bond. having this synastry makes connecting on basic levels practically intrinsic. it feels like you get along right away, and often share similar outlooks on topics and values. the way mercury speaks and allocates knowledge is admirable to the house, like mercury is able to lay out information in a way that resonates with them. the house feels listened to by mercury, like they don't understate the house's intelligence. mercury can easily enthrall the house person. it's like mercury has an innate ability to make any conversation exciting and intriguing for the house. both may steal slang and phrases from each other, because they like the way they sound coming from the other person. initially, the house may struggle to keep up with mercury's fast-paced nature, or find them hard to fully grasp. mercury may feel like they're much more charismatic and magnetic when they're in the presence of the house. it's like a switch flipping for mercury, being able to reel the house in with their words. both parties banter and make fun of each other all the time. the two of them may be very attracted to each other's hands and arms, like you can't stop staring at their fingers when they're doing random tasks. mercury will be inclined to mentally pursue the house, they want to win them over with the charm they exude. no matter what, mercury feels an unquenchable curiosity for how the house operates and perceives information.

venus in the 1st house overlay: this is a connection that will cause intense physical attraction no matter what. in my personal experience, this has been an infatuation placement. the intangible pull these two feel for one another is powerful and consuming. venus finds the house very physically appealing, and the house basks in the planet's admiration. everything about the house, how they move, walk, and talk, venus can't get enough of. on a less superficial level, both parties will find the other very gratifying and enjoyable to be around. this connection will be fun under any circumstances, they can have a good time together even if they're on a sinking boat. venus will feel proud and confident in public with the house. "can you believe i pulled them?" energy. however, this placement can be bittersweet, in the sense of the house feeling like venus doesn't see their personality, only their looks. this can be difficult to overcome if there aren't substantial placements or aspects to show genuine admiration rather than shallow attraction. at its worst, this synastry can have the energy of shane & rachel from the white lotus. in this bond, both venus and the house share a similar taste for clothing, art and culture. the type of relationship where they like to dress each other up and pick out their clothes. the house will feel increasingly attractive and charming when in the vicinity of venus, and venus easily finds inspiration through the house. this is the person you have a hallway crush on at school.

mars in the 1st house overlay: mars falling in the 1st house is an enticing, aggressively playful, and physically erotic linkage. this synastry gives me the energy of not being able to contain your smile, even though you're arguing. these two grind each other's gears, in a way that you want to strangle them, then make out. mars is instantly on a pursuit for the house, like they see them as something to conquer. the house thrives on the ego boost from mars' chase, and may deprive mars of their presence to maintain control. initially, the mars is definitely somewhat at a whim of the house. however, the house is physically captivated by mars. mars appears as a rugged, lustful meal of sex appeal for the house. "i could eat that girl for lunch". it's like mars gives the house a taste for life and adrenaline. eye-fucking each other across the room vibes. this overlay may feel like a game at times, like a nonchalant war to see who breaks the tension first. the house's behavior riles mars up, intentionally or not. the energy of mars making fun of the house constantly, while the house is telling them to shut up. the first impressions of this person are very strong and memorable, you definitely won't forget them after originally meeting. this connection is inspiring for the house, as if mars pulls motivation out of them. very lively and dynamic relationship. laughing, tickle torture, and angry sex.

jupiter in the 1st house overlay: both the house and jupiter light up when they're around each other. jupiter, the planet of "so much abundance it's spilling off the plate," entering the 1st house is a great placement for self-esteem and confidence. both parties exhilarate and inspire each other plenty. jupiter is able to expand the worldview of the house, encouraging them to take risks and learn about life simply by having fun. jupiter's praise massively inflates the houses ego and self-worth. the house feels emotionally enriched by jupiter, like they can't help but feel fulfilled by them. the house may find that being around jupiter brings luck & opportunities for them, like things just fall into place. it makes me think of jupiter as a celebrity, and the house as their friend who gains recognition through jupiter's influence. jupiter feels very admired by the house in this connection. the house can learn a lot from this bond; it feels like jupiter is an infinite well of knowledge for the house to dive into. this synastry can almost be pedestal-like for jupiter, as if the house thinks they can do no wrong. be wary of rose-colored glasses and too much glorification. if the house is younger or less mature, jupiter can find their timidity annoying at times; offended that the house doesn't always trust jupiter's wisdom and direction. however, the mutual respect this connection brings is healing for the soul of both jupiter and the house. this synastry is groupie love, painting portraits of each other, and endless flattery.

saturn in the 1st house overlay: this synastry will force you to grow outside of yourself. if saturn does one thing in this connection, its holding the house accountable for their bullshit. both party's insecurities and weaknesses are obvious to each other, like they're sprawled out on the table. saturn often tries to clean out the house's faults to help them grow. this can be suffocating for the house at times, especially if they aren't looking for or open to change. the house can subconsciously try to look good and doll up if they know saturn is going to be there. the house craves saturn's validation, and can succumb to imbalanced power dynamics if not careful. if saturn is afflicted or unevolved, this connection can be critical and envious in nature. the house easily expresses themselves, which can inspire jealousy in saturn for something that doesn't come as instinctually to them. saturn can really pick at the house's insecurities if they want to, and vice versa. these two need to be mindful of their jabs, and careful of being too mean and berating. if this connection is stabilized and healthy, these two can be the ultimate power couple that comes off as sultry and mature to others. saturn builds the house's confidence from the ground up, like they're a project for saturn to work on and improve. saturn returns are a great time for these connections, because of the structure and discipline the saturn person offers in the chaos.

uranus in the 1st house overlay: in this connection, uranus loves to stir things up within the house and help them break free from the mundane comforts of life. initially, the house can find uranus to be totally weird, "out there," and sporadic. it's like the house is puzzled by how uranus acts. "i've never met anyone in my life like you before". uranus grows on the house very fast, and inevitably, they start thinking uranus is unique and ahead of their time. the house needs to be cautious of being too stubborn and apprehensive in order to keep uranus' flighty nature from kicking in. this connection can feel like you grow into the best and most authentic version of yourself through each other. uranus helps catapult the house into being who they truly are, leaving no room for self-doubt and embarrassment. the house may be fascinated with how uranus conducts and presents themselves. it gives me the energy of the house pulling a lot of fashion inspiration from uranus, because of how innovative and original the planet comes off to the house. the type of people you save to your pinterest board. this bond is electric and unpredictable, they love to keep each other on their toes. however, both may be resistant in relation to commitment because of the intense need for freedom uranian energy activates. these people provoke rebellion in yourself you've never felt before, like you want to see how far you can go before getting caught. uranus sees a plethora of untapped energy in the house, and thrives off inspiring them.

neptune in the 1st house overlay: the converging of this overlay is dreamy and illusive. the energy lingering around this connection is an intoxicating, love-at-first-sight experience. neptune is bewitched by the house's beauty. this synastry is rose-colored glasses on steroids. underneath the blissful admiration and mesmerized gazes, neptune's blurry nature makes what you think you know about your partner and what is actually real an uncomfortable awakening. the house can feel a frustrating pressure to live up to neptune's unrealistic fantasy that they have projected onto them. on one hand, the house wants to indulge and relish in neptune's perception in order to maintain a beautiful and magnetic aura. on the other hand, the house wants to be loved for their true, genuine self. both need to tread carefully in this connection, as the neptunian influence can replace typical bonding and becoming acquainted with predetermined conjectures and assumptions. the feeling of cutting them off, then realizing you didn't know anything about them. however, this synastry is a great opportunity for combined spiritual expansion and growth. sex is an unearthly union between them. deep understanding is mutual and almost psychic. "you make me feel like a person". they slip into your dreams, and know what you are going to say before you speak.

pluto in the 1st house overlay: pluto's presence in the 1st house can be an intensely metamorphic bond. this relationship goes beyond physical, into the deep intertwining of each other. the house portrays a fascinating allure towards pluto. pluto feels very tempted and inexplicably drawn towards the house, almost like the house is testing to see when pluto gives in. the house feels like pluto dominates their mind, which can quickly lead to them becoming smitten. pluto's persona intimidates and simultaneously attracts the house. in this connection, pluto will inevitably hold a lot of power, and can become jealous and overbearing regarding the house. this bond requires pluto to be mindful of arising insecurities revolving the house's outward charm to others. the house feels like pluto peers into their soul, seeing their vulnerabilities and weak spots. the house almost can't turn away, because of the intimacy they discover through this connection. this is the type of couple that turns heads when they walk in. if pluto is afflicted, this synastry is susceptible for forced change and control. pluto needs to be cautious of trying to mold the house into what they want, rather than what the house wants. by supporting the house, pluto can propel the house's spiritual and psychological broadening, and act as an important guide for the house to fulfill the immense potential that pluto sees in them.

lilith in the 1st house overlay: in this overlay, lilith finds the house to be the living embodiment of their raw and primal "dark" side. everything lilith hides away and rejects in themselves, they see in the house- physically and internally. in this relationship, identity is extremely affected on both sides. the house's friends & family may find them unrecognizable in the presence of lilith, because of the shadow they naturally evoke in the house. these two mirror each other's most repressed desires & taboos, easily exhilarating each other in the process. your heartbeat increasing uncontrollably when in their presence vibes. upon meeting, both parties feel irrevocably lustful and attracted to each other. there is a very intense bodily chemistry between the two, the type of energy that other's can feel because of the potency. in this connection, there is innate mutual respect, but heavily lilith for the house. lilith honors and admires the house's unapologetic nature regarding themselves; and the house thrives on lilith's passion and sexuality. in public, the house may feel like their impulses are drawn out- simply by lilith's company. although, however transforming this experience may be for both parties, this overlay can cause lilith to be obsessed with the house superficially- if the powerful lilith energy is not handled correctly. something about this couple could be scandalous or "unacceptable" to normal society, like age gaps, background differences, or social statuses. however, they are not concerned with backlash from others, and love uplifting each other to their deeper emotions and true colors.

Astro Observations from the Deep Sea #2

~Aries houses edition

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♂⟶ Sometimes communication with relatives and neighbors can be challenging to 3rd house Aries, and it's important to keep everyone in the loop, especially if their interests are involved.

♂⟶ 8th house Aries have a strong and resilient spirit that has helped they overcome difficult times, they are determined to succeed and have a deep drive to win.

♂⟶ 9th house Aries hold their philosophical and religious beliefs with conviction, but they are open to hearing different perspectives and engaging in discussions with those who have opposing views.

♂⟶ The 8th house is a house that speaks of difficulties we go through, 8th house Aries difficulties can involve been bullied and mistreated by others and these traumatic events have left them feeling powerless and overwhelmed, causing them to act out in destructive ways.

♂⟶ Aries Rising may tend to view things subjectively from a self-centered perspective, they also maintain objectivity in their perception of things and give factual weight to them.

♂⟶ 6th house Aries generally very healthy and resilient, having a lot of energy and a strong body but they realize that they are sick when their body is already screaming, it's important to listen to your body's needs and avoid pushing yourself too hard since sometimes you are more focused in a mental schedule for your health them your body needs.

♂⟶ Aries Rising don’t wait for opportunities to come to them, acting a lot like “you already have the no” in other words, if you don’t try it's obvious that what you want won't work, but if you try, maybe you will.

♂⟶ Many individuals will be drawn to 5th house Aries because of their strong physical appearance and powerful physical appeal.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries believe in the power of new ideas to challenge and improve the world, but they also understand the potential for resistance and conflict, so they’re the first to see revolutionary acts, because there is always rebellion and dissatisfaction beforehand.

♂⟶ 9th house Aries have a natural curiosity and prefer to learn through hands-on experiences rather than traditional academic settings.

♂⟶ 7th house Aries are drawn to partners with a bold, go-getter attitude, finding attractive when your partner can pursue their desires with ease - especially when it comes to pursuing them.

♂⟶ 2nd house Aries, with the right mindset and a bit of careful planning, can achieve their goals while maintaining a healthy relationship with money like a truck.

♂⟶ 3rd house Aries are not always focused on execution, but rather on the big picture and the possibilities.

♂⟶ 8th house Aries have a strong will and inner strength, with them they have the potential to achieve great things and create a fulfilling life for themself and others.

♂⟶ Aries Rising has a great desire for fame in their lifes and maybe even being one of the best Risings to deal with it because reality is one, fame is lonely, a loneliness that this placement can handle.

♂⟶ 5th house Aries creativity is a major strength, allowing them to live in the present moment.

♂⟶ Aries Rising vitality and character allow them to succeed through their own efforts.

♂⟶ Sometimes when things don't go as planned, it can be frustrating and stressful for 6th house Aries. Just remember to take a deep breath and approach challenges with a positive attitude.

♂⟶ It's important to 2nd house Aries strike a balance between their desire for financial security and their impulsive tendencies.

♂⟶ 3rd house Aries passion for building and design may lead them to pursue degrees in engineering or architecture.

♂⟶ Independence and freedom are extremely important to 2nd house Aries and their see these characteristcs as valuable in their friendships, relationships and work (to be honest, in their life as a whole).

♂⟶ 6th house Aries natural drive and determination will help them succeed in whatever they put theit mind to.

♂⟶ 5th house Aries enjoy discovering new games and taking on innovative tasks, often take the initiative to try them out on their own and something feeling lonely when the subjects are their hobbies.

♂⟶ While 2nd house Aries may make impulsive purchases, you also have a strong drive to reach financial security and are quite aggressive in your pursuit of it.

♂⟶ Some of the reasons that Aries Risings can be famous are for their ambition, courage, initiative, creativitu, audacity, drive… characteristics that if you think of someone you have as an inspiration in life, that person has.

♂⟶ 7th house Aries values their own independence and appreciate a partner who's self-reliant and active so both can do their own activies without being jealous.

♂⟶ 3rd house Aries don't like to rely on others to do their thinking for t,hem and they’re always eager to learn something new. However, they may find it difficult to commit to something long enough to truly master it.

♂⟶ As someone who is attuned to the dynamics of groups, 11th house Aries are quick to notice and address any negative behavior, such as dishonesty or insincerity.

♂⟶ 2nd house Aries might find that their thrive in fields related to construction, mechanical design, or architecture, as these industries can help you build a strong financial foundation. But professions such as police work, military service, firefighting, manufacturing,knit and crochet can be especially lucrative for you, as you have a strong desire to make money and are confident in your ability to do so.

♂⟶ As 4th house Aries get older, they might even start to feel more youthful, active, and playful.

♂⟶ While disagreements among younger family members may be common, 4th house Aries are often the one who coordinates family activities and assigns tasks as needed.

♂⟶ 10th house Aries drive and passion make you well-suited for careers in fields such as law enforcement, military, medicine, construction, and design.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries has difficulty to be open to compromise and listening to their family's needs and desires, thinking they know what's best for their family without consulting them and being authoritative in the family environment. It's important to remember to keep an open mind and be respectful of their opinions.

♂⟶ 6th house Aries brings a lot of enthusiasm and dedication to their daily routine, being able to infect others with this energy, as well as irritating those who are not very keen.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries have a lot of energy and stamina to manage their family and household responsibilities, making likely to take on a leadership role in family matters.

♂⟶ 7th house Aries can get pretty hostile if they feel like they’re being trapped or held back.

♂⟶ 9th house Aries adventurous spirit drives you to seek out unique and exciting experiences, especially in new and foreign cultures. Traveling is a passion of them, and they eagerly embrace new opportunities to explore.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries home is a hub of activity for their family, making they like indoor activies and and being very domestic people (principally combined with Capricorn Rising)

♂⟶ Aries Rising has a natural tendency to use themself as a reference point for integrating other aspects of their mind and personality. They also uses a lot of first person vision to talk about their stories and life, trying to connect with others talking about similar life experiences.

♂⟶ 8th house Aries understand the importance to be positive,kind, undertanding and constructive with themself and others so the harming cycle can end.

♂⟶ 6th house Aries are determined and hardworking person, but they don't want to risk fatigue or injury by overdoing it that’s why they take a lot of care in their health.

♂⟶ 6th house Aries are always pushing themself to get things done, which can make it hard to relax and take a break, making they even more prone to burn out.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries prefer to keep your plans private until they're ready to be shared with others.

♂⟶ When it comes to sharing their opinions and ideas, 3rd house Aries are confident and comfortable expressing themself.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries value their individuality and prefer to maintain a sense of self, even in emotionally charged situations.

♂⟶ In a relationship, 7th house Aries tend to dive in headfirst, with a passion and intensity that can be exciting, even if it sometimes leads to frequent arguments.

♂⟶ 3rd house Aries are also people who enjoys traveling, especially by car, and exploring new places or revisiting old favorites.

♂⟶ Unhapilly Aries Rising self-referencing can lead them to a belief that the universe revolves around them. However, as their notion of self evolves, the integration of their mind at its primary focal point (the self) can lead to a robust and self-aware consciousness.

♂⟶ 10th house Aries is the type of person who surprises everyone with their professional choices, especially if the native also has Cancer Rising, as everyone think that the native will choose safer careers and actually no, they choose their greatest desires and dreams for their life path.

♂⟶ When a relationship ends, 7th house Aries may struggle to come to terms with it, but it's important to focus on the positive aspects of the experience and the growth that comes from it.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries values their independence and enjoys taking initiative in their life, trying thinks that others family members never did.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries were encouraged by a strong and determined mother or primary caregiver to pursue their dreams, and this has given you a bold and outspoken personality.

♂⟶ In everyday correspondence, 3rd house Aries may be somewhat unpredictable, but they’re always ready to respond to emergencies quickly.

♂⟶ 11th house Aries courage, resourcefulness, and determination are key strengths that can help they achieve their goals and fulfill their dreams and they will fight until their last breath to reach and protect their deepest dreams.

♂⟶ While their outgoing nature can sometimes create confusion about the nature of their relationships, 11th house Aries are always willing to lend a helping hand to those they care about and value their trust and loyalty in return.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries may have ancestors who worked in military, navy, or air force.

♂⟶ In groups that are based on hierarchy, 11th house Aries can have a strong position of power and authority.

♂⟶ While this can sometimes be challenging, 11th house Aries have the drive and stamina to effect positive change and revitalize the collective spirit of their social circles.

♂⟶ 3rd house Aries need to be patient to see their visions become reality since their mind is always conjuring up new projects.

♂⟶ To achieve their goals, it's important for 7th house Aries to embrace and assume their assertive and driven personality. They’re more passionate and impulsive they might realize, which is why they’re drawn to people who exhibit unyielding and fierce traits.

♂⟶ 5th house Aries encourage their children to make the most of life and seize every opportunity, instilling them with bravery, strength, and competitiveness since this native children are highly influenced by Mars or Aries.

♂⟶ 10th house Aries possess a natural assertiveness and a pioneering spirit, qualities that can be an asset in their pursuit of t their goals. However, it is important to remain mindful of their impulsiveness and the potential impact it can have on their reputation and relationships, that’s why it is important to take the time to plan, seek out guidance from mentors and experts, and pursue goals that are meaningful and aligned with their values.

♂⟶ In their childhood, 4th house Aries may have felt stifled or embarrassed by a particular authority figure in your household, especially masculine ones.

♂⟶ 9th house Aries value diverse perspectives and are always seeking to expand their understanding of the world.

♂⟶ Building strong and lasting friendships may be difficult to 11th house Aries native, but it can also provide support and encouragement on their journey, even if this native really wants to, their journey is not to be walked alone.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries probably love playing games that require skill and bravery.

♂⟶ 11th house Aries can be more difficult if the native is a woman than a man, since aries nature is something negative for society when it is bound in a woman, their leadership, freedom and expression will be greatly pruned.

♂⟶ As a child, 5th house Aries were highly active and athletic and that passion for movement and challenge continues into adulthood.

♂⟶ People may be hesitant to offer Aries Rising help because they appear capable of handling things on their own and even sometimes refuses the help because they can do it faster and better.

♂⟶ Aries Risings are the type of people who seeks out their life’s purpose and act like what they do in life has a bigger meaner, a bigger mission that no one else can see.

♂⟶ 3rd house Aries loves to brainstorm as this type of communication manages to keep up with their taste for new ideas and fast thinking.

♂⟶ While 10th house Aries are ambitious and confident in their abilities, it is important to remain humble and open-minded, recognizing that there is always room for growth and learning since when this native put their mind in something they’re unlikely to hear anyone, that's great when it comes to criticism but terrible when it's words of help.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries appear reserved in group settings, but in one-on-one situations, they can be surprisingly assertive and confident

♂⟶ Aries Rising personality are characterized by zeal, self-assurance, and initiative, which makes them a true go-getter!

♂⟶ 11th house Aries have a natural ability to connect with others and form meaningful friendships, and they enjoy spending time with people who share your interests and passion for physical activities, they’re the of people who will always have someone to talk whenever they go.

♂⟶ 5th house Aries impulsiveness occasionally results in less-than-ideal outcomes, causing them to get into many embarrassing situations that must be dealt with by their creativity.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries might have also had a few accidents or mishaps around their home, so it's always good to take precautions to ensure everyone's safety.

♂⟶ As 8th house Aries continue to heal and grow, they are discovering the power of channeling their passion and assertiveness in positive ways, building deeper and more meaningful connections in their relationships.

♂⟶ Sometimes 6th house Aries to-do list can weigh heavily on your mind, making it impossible for them to relax and do something else that hasn't already crossed everything off their list.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries need to be careful not to become too controlling or domineering in their household.

♂⟶ While 10th house Aries have a desire for recognition and success, they are mindful that patience and hard work are critical to achieving long-term success.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries leads to a busy and active life, making they neglect their needs for rest and self-care too easily, it's as if the need to achieve their dreams for a better future makes them forget about the needs of the present.

♂⟶ 7th house Aries partner and close friends are a big source of inspiration for them, and they enjoy helping others find their courage and determination.

♂⟶ When it comes to romance, 5th house Aries tend to be confident and forward,often taking the lead in flirting and the pursuit of someone they are interested in can be thrilling, but they may find that once the challenge is over, the attraction fades.

♂⟶ When 2nd house Aries are invested in a project, they have a strong work ethic and are willing to put in the effort to get the job done quickly and efficiently.

♂⟶ 2nd house Aries deal with their stress by buying things.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries prefer to focus on building positive relationships with others than getting into discussions and debates, leaving their sincere opinion aside for the group wellbeing. They prioritize non-violent means of advocating for change and seek to avoid causing harm or pain to others.

♂⟶ Combining travel with business is particularly appealing to 3rd house Aries.

♂⟶ 5th house Aries have a busy social life and a strong desire to enjoy life's finer things. They also may have a competitive streak when it comes to spending time with family and friends, engaging in playful games and roughhousing.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries recognize that competitiveness can sometimes lead to tension and animosity, and they strive to avoid coming across as arrogant or pretentious.

♂⟶ 12th house Aries are highly empathetic, and while this can be an asset, it can also be overwhelming. Taking time to recharge and find inner balance is important to them.

♂⟶ Aries rising may pass as egotistical in their worst, and a strong sense of their self and their desires at their best.

♂⟶ Theirs positive outlook and determination make 9th house Aries believe that they can achieve anything they set your mind to.

♂⟶ 9th house Aries are independent and self-sufficient, which has given them a strong sense of direction and the drive to pursue their goals, they approach challenges with a warrior mentality, ready to overcome any obstacle in their path.

♂⟶ 8th house Aries actively works on healing and finding healthier ways to express their emotions.

♂⟶ When 12th house Aries are comfortable, they’re able to handle difficult situations with ease.

♂⟶ Aries Rising are quite willing to compromise in their relationships and care deeply for those they are close to.

♂⟶ 11th house Aries thrive in group settings and enjoy socializing with others, though they may find that some friendships lack depth and don't last long.

♂⟶ It's no surprise that Aries Rising likely had the role of the 'independent' child early on in their childhood, which has carried over into their adult life.

♂⟶ 7th house Aries interactions can sometimes be characterized by disagreements or competitions, but ultimately, these dynamics are meant to bring out their inner warrior.

♂⟶ 10th house Aries possess a strong drive and a go-getter attitude that has propelled them towards great accomplishments, they enjoy exploring new opportunities and experiences, seeking challenges that will push them out of their comfort zone.

♂⟶ 2nd house Aries financial situation is tied to their self-esteem, and achieving financial success can make they feel even better about themself.

♂⟶ 4th house Aries may find rest anywhere that's not their house.

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Part of fortune in the degrees

Part of Fortune in the degrees is like the hidden spice mix in your astrological fortune. The degree can flavor your Part of Fortune with deeper nuance, karmic energy, and even timing.

0° – The Origin Point

Fresh start energy! Your joy comes from pioneering something totally new. You’re here to plant seeds that grow into empires. This is “first on the scene” vibes—trailblazer status.

1° – The Initiator

Action = alignment. You’re someone who taps into fortune when you just begin. Taking the first step (even if you’re not ready) opens the door for magic.

2° – The Sensual Stabilizer

Joy comes from grounded pleasures. Your fortune is tied to patience, beauty, and appreciating the realness of life. Think soft power and quiet luxury.

3° – The Curious Connector

Success shows up when you’re thinking, talking, moving, or exchanging ideas. Your mind is a magnet, and your network = gold.

4° – The Soul Rooter

Your fortune is buried deep—in emotions, memories, ancestry, or the past. When you feel safe and emotionally full, life blesses you.

5° – The Performer

You’re meant to shine. Creative self-expression, fun, or dramatic flair are your keys to joy. When you’re playing or performing, everything clicks.

6° – The Healer Hustler

Service brings success. Whether you’re organizing chaos, helping others, or mastering routines, this degree thrives in the little details that build big blessings.

7° – The Lover

Love, aesthetics, and harmony bring fortune. This is a “soft life” degree—where grace, diplomacy, and connection unlock golden paths.

8° – The Alchemist

Deep transformations = fortune. You’re here to transmute pain into power. This is intense but magnetic—your glow-up is probably legendary.

9° – The Seeker

Adventure calls! Joy comes from travel, study, or expanding your worldview. If you’re bored, you’re blocking blessings. Keep moving.

10° – The Architect

Success comes from structure. You build it, brick by brick. You’re playing the long game—and winning. This degree is all about legacy.

11° – The Visionary

You’re ahead of your time. Your ideas are wild in the best way, and when you trust your weird, you win. Your fortune lies in the future you’re helping build.

12° – The Dreamer

Mystical, intuitive, and creatively charged—this degree feels its way to fortune. If it feels right in your soul, the universe will handle the rest.

13° – The Rebel

Unpredictable magic. You don’t follow the rules—you invent them. Fortune strikes when you embrace chaos and follow your electric instincts.

14° – The Messenger

You’re the cosmic translator. Whether it’s through writing, speaking, or vibes, your voice brings value. Say the thing that needs to be said.

15° – The Magnetic Middle

This is peak attraction energy. You draw in fortune by simply being. Balance, charm, and centered confidence = unstoppable glow.

16° – The Analyst

Your mind is your superpower. You thrive on patterns, logic, and discernment. Fortune favors your sharp eye and strategic brain.

17° – The Soul Climber

You’re here to rise—and you will. This degree blends ambition with intuition. When you align your path with your purpose, blessings rain in.

18° – The Intense Transformer

Like 8°, but with more fire. This degree is intense, karmic, and power-packed. Your fortune may come through radical change—or rising from the ashes.

19° – The Channel

You’re tuned in. This degree has psychic undertones and creative genius. Dreams, visions, or gut instincts often lead you to your blessings.

20° – The Master Builder

You’re here to create something real. This degree carries serious manifestation power. With time, effort, and vision—you will make it happen.

21° – The Muse

Creative, charming, and maybe a little flirty—this degree lives for inspiration and play. Fortune shows up when you’re vibing, not forcing.

22° – The Wise One

This is a “master number” degree—loaded with karmic depth. You’ve been here before, and your fortune often comes from helping or guiding others.

23° – The Charmer

You have it. This degree brings social grace, storytelling power, and a magnetic vibe. You’re luckiest when you’re being authentically YOU.

24° – The Grounded Mystic

Spiritual + practical = unstoppable. You’re in tune with both realms, and your fortune comes when you integrate them. This is “divine timing” energy.

25° – The Phoenix

Massive transformation potential. This degree can feel intense at times, but it leads to deep healing and empowerment. You’re the comeback king/queen.

26° – The Dream Doer

You can manifest the ethereal. Ideas, visions, or creative bursts? You make them real. The dream becomes the empire with this degree.

27° – The Revolutionary

Break the mold. Your fortune lies in doing things your way—even if no one gets it at first. Trailblazer energy with a bold twist.

28° – The Old Soul

You’ve done the work in lifetimes past, and now you’re here to refine and complete. Success comes when you trust your deep wisdom and wrap up cycles with grace.

29° – The Anointed One (Anaretic Degree)

You’re here to master this energy—and fast. High highs, intense tests, but major rewards. This is “last level of the game” energy—go big or go cosmic.

HOW MARS SIGNS HAVE CRUSHES/SHOW INTEREST/APPROACH SOMEONE 💘

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Finally! The long awaited post! ✨

💓ARIES MARS💓

Will play cat and mouse game. One day acting more invested in you and the next they completely cold. To see how much they actually mean to you. Might put you through trust tests too. They will say things just to get reaction out of you, even if they actually don’t agree with it. They are suprisingly “mental” in inicial interactions and not physical at all.

💖TAURUS MARS💖

They are a mix of Virgo, Scorpio and Libra Mars. Veryyy slow-moving. First, “the evaluating stage”. They will pay attention to your micro reactions while asking you deliberate questions to get a reaction out of you. They will search for your inconsistencies. Remeber they value stability and being consistent in relationships the most. And when they actually start catching feelings for you? They would like to be in your constant physical proximity. They will always find a reason to get closer to you. Like move a chair. If you are even closer or if there is a chance, they would actually lean towards you or whisper something into you ear. But it depends on the situation and context. If the attraction is already pretty high, they might linger on your touch when they hand you something.

💛GEMINI MARS💛

They look for signs of you paying attention to them. They will analyse if you are really listening to them. Might even bring up a topic from a previous conversation. Theh will be more nervous around. Or like they are suddenly being more timid or quiet. They will carefully listen to every word you say in a group conversation.

🦀CANCER MARS🦀

One of those placements, that might go for their already existing friends. Or someone they’ve known for some time and/or been friends with. They are the real Taurus Mars of the signs. They are much into what is already known to them. Because with that they are comfortable and secure. They are already almost at home with you. Might offer you little things or food. Or share it with you.

🦁LEO MARS🦁

They will be more on the straight-forward side. However, they will look for signs of interest from you first. They already know you are their specific person. So now they are just evaluating, analysing and searching for signs from you if this feeling could be mutual. They dislike potential rejection, because their pride would get hurt. They will get extra moody if someone else shows interest in you or approaches you. Because in their head, you are already “theirs”.

💛VIRGO MARS💛

Similar to Libra Mars, they first start in a polite manner. Always kind, respectful towards you. And then they want to suddenly be around you more. Not necessarly directly in your company, like Taurus Mars would be, but indirectly. In group setting, in circle of friends, mutual people you both know etc. They might not talk to you directly at all. With all others yes, but not to you. But they will be paying close attention to your mannerisms, look towards you to get your reaction about a shared joke. They will be paying attention to your reactions. The next stage is analysing and remembering your facial expressions, gestures, mannerisms. Your lips, your forehead vein, your earlobes, your Cupid’s bow over your top lip. Your upper lip being bigger than the lower. Then your habits. Do you style your hair differently every day? Do you chew gum? Why are you keep wearing that blue sweater, is it your favourite sweater?

💗LIBRA MARS💗

Those are sly people. Before not knowing you much, they will be politely smile, always say thank you and please to you, greet you warmly. They will be charming and you would feel this natural warmth in them. But when they are getting to know you, they pull back. They are now in the stage of “readjusting” to you. They are trying to figure out what makes you tick, differentiate between your fake laugh and genuine laugh, how you act to others in comparison to them etc. Now, they will pick their “personality” in according to your personality, that they estimated, would suit well to yours based on characteristics, habits and goals. When they start catching feelings, then “the doubting stage” occurs. They try to weigh in all the options, try to figure out if there is anyone better on the market out there for them, or if their best possible outcome is really settling with you. They act a bit more cold, reserved and non-chalant in this stage.

❤️SCORPIO MARS❤️

It’s all in the eyes and the gaze. They already must have quite magnetic, seductive, alluring eye contact. But it intensifies. Never openly, directly or even subtle flirt with them. This is a no no with them, especially when in a group setting or at a party. If they find you interesting, they CHOOSE you. They allow YOU to approach them. It’s all about trusting, comforting safety with these people.

🧡SAGITTARIUS MARS🧡

They are surprisingly quiet at first. You would not expect it, because of them being a Fire sign. First, “the getting to know you stage”. They are trying to get the bigger picture of who you are. So they might ask a lot for your thoughts. What are your thoughts on this? How do you feel about that? They are trying to gather as much information about you as possible from your answers. But how they start showing interest? By voicing their own interests, hobbies, opinions on things, views, perspectives on culture (music, films, travels, countries etc.)

💙CAPRICORN MARS💙

Actually quite similar to Scorpio, Virgo, Taurus and Libra Mars. A lot of analysing before even taking you into account. After that “growing colder towards you stage”. Then “the thinking stage”. Next, “I woke up one day and decided today is the day, I’m gonna tell my crush I like them stage”. And by tell, I don’t actually mean express their feelings verbally. They will show you through action.

💚AQUARIUS MARS💚

They will want to know what are your interests, hobbies first. What makes you tick. Which things you are into. Based on shared interests they will decide, if they want to develop a friendly bond with you. No matter if Aquarius is on their 5th, 7th or 8th house, they would actually prefer having irregular, from time to time hangouts with you. They most certainly will disappear for a while. BUT they would like to pick up things where they were with you, when they talk to you again or see you. They would like for things to remain the same. And if you can provide them with this type of support, they will start “considering” you. But they will always want to have a sense of their own personal freedom in at least one aspect of the relationship. They would like to have a long distance relationship more than a Sagittarius Mars would.

💜PISCES MARS💜

Might actually act more giving and selfless towards you, especially when you’re in need of something. The last cookie? You can take it. You need a pen, because you lost one? They would GIVE you stuff to show off their caring and giving nature to those in need. You’ll notice they will try to help you in many possible ways.

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HOW TO SEE HOW YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WILL END IN ASTROLOGY~

This is a way to see the energies surrounding breakups. How patterns subconsciously play out. It doesn’t have to be a breakup. Could be a seperation.

Just endings in general. First of all, head to astro.com head to extended chart selection . 

Click on “Chart Type” >>

 “Composite Chart, Midpoint- method (2)”

Look at what sign the 12th house is in. This will tell you the energy sounding the ending. You can use this to your advantage as well.

Can I find out with no birth-time? Don’t think so. I think if one party had their birth time it might be possible. You can experiment. 

Here are some basic info for the signs in the 12th house: 

Composite 12th in Aries= Karmic issues with anger. Doing stuff without thinking clearly. Ego issues in relationship.

Composite 12th house in Taurus= Issues with Stubborness. Difficult to ground your energy. Don’t focus on the superficial parts of the relationship too much.

Composite 12th house in Gemini= Hard time understanding each other at times. Not good mental understanding of each other.

Composite 12th house in Cancer= Tells feelings only during bad moments. Hard to open up. Emotionally this will suffer.

Composite 12th house in Leo= Ego with not wanting to come off as too “clingy”. Issues with giving and getting affection.

Composite 12th house in Virgo= Parties are both very critical of each other. Difficult to handle basic things in relationship. Insecurity.

Composite 12th house in Libra= Not much respect or/and commitment issues plays out here. Hard to be fully peaceful. Not decisive relationship. Doesn’t know what to do.

Composite 12th house in Scorpio=  Issues with violence and abuse. Hard to find some passion. Jealousy issues play out.

Composite 12th house in Sagittarius= Hard to take care of one another. Issues with Independence.  Not taking things seriously. 

Composite 12th house in Aquarius= Kind of similar to Sagittarius. Hard to make changes in relationships. Independence issues. Weird energy surrounding relationship. Others might react weirdly to your struggles.

Composite 12th house in Pisces= Hard to tap into intution with this relationship. Issues with victimizing yourself. Issues of the relationship with cycles and just constant energy of nothing ever going right. 

Composite 12th house in Capricorn= Issues with a third party like an authority & can’t plan well. Ambitious but nothing seems to progress sometimes.

Planets in Composite 12th house

Also this can also have positive aspects! But here I’m talking about the negative parts.

Sun in 12th= Hiding parts of yourself from this person. Being quite delusional when it comes to the relationship itself. The relationship is a secret to others. Difficult to express.

Moon in 12th=  Difficulty opening up emotionally to the party. More give from one of the parties. You need to find security in this relationship.

Mercury in 12th= May feel like you can not open up to each other. One can be more reserved and the other one tries to help and be understanding. Not on the same page.

Venus in 12th= Hard time showing love and affection. Old soul type of relationship.

Mars in 12th= Not much driven & less focused. May feel like this relationship stimulates like a job.

Jupiter in 12th= This doesn’t bring much issues. This is good. Can see things very clearly. 

Saturn in 12th= You don’t like dealing with issues in the relationship you like to bury it. Hard time moving on from the past issues.

Uranus in 12th= Honestly this is a weird placement to have. Weird endings. This is the type of placement from a couple that breaks-up for very strange reason. The past and random stuff that comes up. Secrets revealed out of nowhere. Sudden endings. And I can confirm that as well. 

Neptune in 12th= Can’t move on from what has happened. But this is good for Neptune to be in.

Pluto in 12th= Someone in the party wants to have all the control. Battle for control. One partner does everything and one doesn’t. Secrets and lies play a role. Make sure you guys are doing everything equally.

🙂 Give feedback in the comments! Have a great day!

How would Lilith in 5th house :)??

Hey there:)

I'm trying my best to finish my Lilith series aw I'm so glad you guys reasonate with my posts🖤

Lilith 5fth house

The 5fth house is the house of sexuality, pleasure, creativity, and children.

Ruled by the luminous Sun. When Lilith entered this house, she simply thrives. In terms of sex, while 8H talks more about transformative sex, healing sex or "making love"; 5H is based of pleasure, of fulfilling one's primal needs.

Lilith here could have various strings of one night stands. 5H like to be pleased and Lilith likes to dominate. These natives are like dangerous lions in bed, they put the D in BDSM. They're serial daters, people see them as higly desirable and attractive. Almost similar to 7H Lilith here as they attract others using Lilith energy but they are way less mysterious and are instead more upfront, all it takes is their smile and others will want to bow down.

Fun. Fun. Fun. Adrenaline and serotonin is like a drug to them. Activities that allow them to lead, to be in control will get them excited. Life of the party. Others would want to have then at gatherings. They shine naturally and can turn the most innocent actions to something provocative.

As children (5H) they may have had issues with showing their more promiscuous side or even simply their darker side. They felt as if they're the only one who has these values about sex, about art and life in general. Creatively tortured.

These natives are horrified of emotions and something thats below the surface. This is perhaps why many of them chose to stay like this, their promiscuity is their mask. They HATE it when others try to guess their emotions

^ Either this or they're very keen about who they let into their circle, as they understand that the pleasure is truly what makes them stay. Would never stay with someone who doesn't give them the light and energy they crave. They NEED that fire. That feeling of eyes meeting in a crowded bar. They love a good challenge.

Complex relationship with children(5H). Can put up with them but get scared by the thought of having children (esp HARSH aspects to personal aspects). Lilith is nor the Moon or Venus, she's not even as nearly as maternal like the two. In her world, it is her and the unknown. The idea of pregnancy scares these people.

Once they grow older and matured as time passes, this dynamic will likely change. They will be more open towards children.

Their traumatic childhood may contribute to why they don't want children, feel like children will take aways their "freedom" or personal power. Deeply scared of true intimacy. Lilith rebels from traditional values and the ideas of "settling down" freak these people out.

They have great luck in business as their charming nature are very contagious. People perceive them as calculating but determined.

Lilith's willpower makes her see things for what they really are. They understand that eventually the fun must stop. This ignites the fire in them, thinking about endings.

Lilith 5H individuals adore tortured artist, they're amazed at paintings where the artist can correctly captured the rawest and most primal side of human.

The type of people to look at a piece of art and immediately get the meaning behind it. They know it's their flaky nature that some might underestimate them and grow jealous of them, yet they see this as a compliment.

To these people, attention from enemies are a reward. They will never beg for anything. Prideful. These natives do not like to be vulnerable.

Creative in bed. Can honestly make great politicians if they wanted to. Art comes to them naturally.

Proud of their Lilith, they embrace Lilith trait and let her take over when needed, in fun settings. gathering with loved ones and close friends, the signs their lilith are in now shine and dominate over others.

Lucks when it comes to careers. Their personal lives may be messy, scandalous and inappropriate even. But they truly don't pay much attention. To them, jealousy is the biggest compliment others can give.

The ideal partner. Others crave their fun and relaxed nature, they hide great pain and past trauma so deep down that sometimes, they drown themselves in partis and pleasures, in sex and lust to forget.

People talk about them. They just do. But not in the way people talk about Lilith 7H. But others are more curious about their next conquest, who they're sleeping with.

Their long term partner should be similar to them. Someone who's detached, cold and rational but knows how to open them up. They need a strong partner who will have their back. Lilith is in a fixed house after all. To them, betrayal is a slap to their faces.

Hardworkers if well aspected. Know that in order to have fun they have to earn it. If have harsh placements to sun, saturn or MC, will then very likely to "sleep their way to the top"

Here are some of the basics I've noticed so far:) Lemme know your opinions!Let's discuss it together🖤

ranking the venus signs because i can<3

1. capricorn venus. need i say more?

2. aries venus<3 cuties, not fun to have a crush on but if they have a crush on you it is extremely fun

3. scorpio venus. LOVE ME PLEASE UNLESS YOU HAVE A VIRGO MERCURY🧘🏼‍♀️

4. leo venus. usually pretty quick to trust the wrong ppl ngl probably prone to heartbreak but adorable so you get a pass

5. sag venus. overhated, they need more love!!!! all they want is freedom sorry ur so fucking suffocating omg🤨

6. libra venus. this is my own venus i have nothing to say abt it and if i did thats not quite fair is it

7. cancer venus. love you but stop trying to be everybodys mother/father figure it makes us all uncomfy🤗

8. taurus venus. i have nothing bad to say, you dont particularly stick out to me, ive also met very few so sorry🤞

9. pisces venus, super cute but u ruin it with how ur always trying to fix everyone and then ur like “im over this shit😣 never loving anyone again” and then u love someone again???? what the frick

10. gemini venus. very overhated i wont lie, if you have this placement you’re funny as hell and very relatable, you move on so so quickly though and it hurts alot of peoples feelings and for that you get tenth👋

11. virgo venus. ur so cute you have sm loving potential except you ruin it with how fucking picky you are little bitch

12. aquarius venus. i swear to god i love everyone with this placement but you’re so so hard to get to LET PEOPLE LOVE YOU

The Venus Signs

Aries Venus: Fun-loving. They want a relationship in which they can be best friends and lovers. They want true happiness in their relationship. At the same time though, they may be daring (especially if they have other Aries placements) in their relationships. If they see an issue, they want to be open to their partner and discuss the issue. Constant stimulation in the relationship will help the Aries Venus put aside their independence and have them indulge themselves in the relationship. 

Taurus Venus: Many Taurus Venus natives may guard their heart with armor and a shield. So when they finally let go and immerse themselves in a relationship, they may need constant cuddling and reaffirmation. They can get possessive; they don’t want to lose someone special and get hurt- again. Give Taurus Venusians time to be comfortable with you, and they can be the most devoted lover.

Gemini Venus: The conversationalists. These people win your heart through their witty jokes and playful banter. They need someone they can talk to for hours on end who will laugh at their jokes and keep them engaged and happy. While they dislike being tied down, they still do love a lighthearted, no strings attached partner. A less attached, more talkative Venus in Aries could describe an Gemini Venusian. 

Cancer Venus: In exchange for your commitment and love, a Cancer Venusian will provide you with security and constant love. In relationships, they can give almost ‘motherly’ love. They will care for you and you will never be left wondering of their feelings for you; but if you do something to betray their trust, it’ll be .5 seconds until they go cold. They like predictability, and guard their heart so much that they will instantly retreat if they get hurt.

Leo Venus: They love the ‘spark’ in the relationship and are big-hearted, especially towards their special someone. They are a grand lover, and love to let people know of their wonderful relationship. They’re fun and love doing activities with their partner. They crave physical affection and are in a constant state of wanting to cuddle, or depending on the person, may have a high need for sex. 

Virgo Venus: These people are so unflirtatious that it can easily be mistaken as uninterested; but they will devote their full self to you. They are reliable and love more privately. They appreciate you and the little things about you- it’s adorable. They desire a genuine lover and someone who understands that they love them but still need their space.

Libra Venus: These people are willing and kind, even polite in love. They are predictable and fair to their partner. They love constant communication in a relationship. They want someone who cares as much as they do, and want to listen to them talk. They are the epitome of the golden rule- they treat you tenderly and kindly- just as they’d like to be treated.

Scorpio Venus: Feelings run deep in a Scorpio Venusian. They aren’t interested in a relationship that’s short and “time-wasting.” They want every aspect of a perfect lover- someone who has no commitment issues and loves them completely and fully. They may keep secrets, but they don’t want you to. They throw themselves completely into a relationship.

Sagittarius Venus: They want their relationship to better themselves. They want to grow; they want their lover to be good for them and vice-versa. They are believers and have a big smile that lights up their partner’s life. They are easily intimidated and will run away from their lover at any red flags. They want to travel & fall in love with the world, as well as their lover.

Capricorn Venus: They try to express their responsibility and dependability to their lover. They aren’t completely immersed in love, but if a relationship opportunity is present and it appeals to them, it’s unlikely they would turn it down. Their love is secure, but only if they are truly in love will you be their number one priority. 

Aquarius Venus: They are similar to Aries Venus natives in the sense that they need to find a friend in their partner as well as a lover. They guard their hearts with 10 layers of steel, and it’s not easy to get in; but if you do, it will be a willing and open minded experience of sensuality. They are not super possessive- the just want to have a good time and feel loved. 

Pisces Venus: The idealistic dreamy and sensual lover. They’re suckers for romance and could think about it all day. They love their partner wholly and are intrigued by what could be. They will always love you and take care of your heart tenderly, so long as you do the same. They are so open that they may have commitment issues, but when they find someone they truly love, you will experience the magic of being loved by a Pisces Venusian. 

lilith aspects in synastry: i love seeing my dark side through you

I will be using black moon lilith. this applies mostly to major aspects, tighter the orb the better. check house placements as well!

part 1

sun conjunct/trine/sextile lilith :

lilith in this scenario is truly the 🌞 persons dark side personified. the sun is a hot arizona morning and lilith is the dry dark night. with the conjunct specifically, a lot of mutual attraction is shown, the sun person represents liliths good side, and lilith is the sun persons dark side. together in synastry the two may be able to strike a really nice balance of energy if both can meet in the middle. the sun person will activate all of liliths traits, which could be uncomfortable if they haven’t been exposed much to them. similar to the square/opposition something about being together feels a bit wrong but it’s more likely to be sexy then alarming. the flip side with the conjunct here is that it can go either way, if the chart is mostly positive it mostly an enhancer that adds depth, two different sides of the same coin. the connection will feel profound even if it’s mundane. with the trine and sextile, the lilith person will feel like the sun person really “shines” a light on their personality and can discover untapped talents. the sun person isn’t likely to hold back the lilith in terms of sexual expression and spirit, theyre likely to “get” what/why lilith is the way they are. sexual undertones will be present in most interactions as lilith is quite sexual by nature.

sun square/opposite lilith :

this signifies a growth relationship. these two will learn a lot about each other but likely part ways if the other aspects are not strongly supportive. a lot of attraction for each other comes from how wrong it feels. the sun person finds lilith intense and uncomfortable at times and has trouble relating to the issues and morals that drive the lilith persons individuality and rebellious spirit. think diane nguyen and mr peanut butter in bojack horsemen. lilith has been described as being the dark uranus and that’s accurate. the ☀️ person may find the lilith persons personality unpredictable, and with the opposition their can be a lot of back and forth energy of wanting to rebel or compete against one another, and a basic lack of understanding . there also could be a strong forbidden aspect, “opposites attract”energy that entices the two to each other, maybe they can’t be together for some reason, and keep trying to break the rules to be together only to realize the chase was why they wanted to be together the whole time. the sun person may soak up all the attention of a room, but then tell the lilith person they should have tried harder. lilith will feel challenged by the sun persons basic sun sign traits.

moon conjunct/sextile/trine lilith:

emotional bonding is likely to be strong in the relationship. the sensitive part of the 🌙 is comforting to the lilith person. lots of subconscious attraction here, they may be on each other’s minds a lot. strong feelings of being bewitched by one another. old baggage from both parties could be expelled and healed through this. lots of repressed energy finally breaking the surface between the two. the conjunct can go either way and typically is a mixture of both the best and the worst qualities of the trine and square. on one hand you feel an emotional depth that can borderline on obsession and turmoil all at once, on another, the intensity can feel rare and preordained.

moon square/opposite lilith:

this is not a good indicator if you’re wanting an emotionally fulfilling relationship. to be frank, the moon person is probably going to get their feelings hurt a lot. moon person may want a commitment that lilith is unable/refuses to provide, and the harder the moon tries to get consistency/commitments, the harder lilith will pull back. this is especially bad if the lilith person is a male as a man’s lilith typically shows the type of person he both craves and fears. if both parties are male, they may find they cycle through periods of craving and feeling repulsed by the other. lilith will trigger the moons old emotional wounds over and over in a much darker way than they’re accustomed to. on an extreme manifestation of this placement one of these people (most likely moon as the planet person is usually the one reacting to the lilith) may actually have a mental breakdown from this contact, the emotional exhaustion can be nauseating at times. depression is a common factor here. on a more external note, it could be that the lilith person doesn’t get along with the moon persons maternal figure.

venus conjunct/trine/sextile lilith:

intense, palpable attraction that hangs in the air like a suffocating fog in interactions. it will be very easy for this relationship to have obsessive tendencies even with the easy aspects. lilith will be the forbidden fruit to venus, and a cat and mouse game could begin. if the venus person bumps heads with the lilith persons natal venus in the chart, it will heighten the forbidden feeling, but beware of this aspect combined with hard mars aspects as the intensity could go volatile fast. the two will be very intensely sexually attracted to each other, and will feel unavoidable. lilith will incite deep, protruding, likely obsessive thoughts into the venus partner. this can be especially intense for people with a heavy influence of air/earth in the natal chart as the type of feelings that are generated between lilith and venus will feel illogical, and very irrational. this can point to a karmic link between two people. it will feel very much like you were supposed to meet them, even if you’re not particularly spiritual. lilith will want to get close to the venus person instinctively. interactions will be sexy and intense. good sex indicator

venus square/opposite lilith:

a relationship that takes the forbidden fruit and poisons it. this could be a toxic relationship. sexual attraction could feel as strong as the conjunct, but these strong feelings erupt jealousy and inferiority in the venus person. mind games and manipulation are not uncommon, as well as the relationship actually being forbidden, on a worst case level this could be a mistress aspect. lilith will probably enjoy having this level of power over someone, and could stick around for the sex. in astrology lilith represents a lot of concepts, but the theme of being “too much” is common. venus may feel at times that lilith is too much to handle. they may also feel as though they need to prove themselves constantly to lilith and live in fear of losing liliths attention, again, this aspect produces a lot of illogical feeling of attraction. strong indicator for commitment issues. they could go to extremes in order to make points made. issues with telling both parties telling the truth, hidden lies eventually surfacing and causing imminent heart break.

mars conjunct/sextile/trine lilith :

SPICY hot attraction. the feeling as though you’re plummeting towards the sun at 400 mphs. out of all the lilith contacts this one produces the most raw magnetism. this contact is also the most confidence inspiring aspect for lilith. something about the mars person just makes you feel sexy. if lilith is taken this will not stop mars from pursuing. especially with the conjunct, lilith will be the challenge they want. the two are also likely respect each other’s drive and ambitions. they may have an almost taboo sex life, very experimental in nature, as well as frequent. could even be a possible nymphomanic aspect. goals the two set their eyes on will seem like easy prey with each other and produces a couple with an insane amount of endurance, but not stability. lilith may unintentionally encourage mars impulsive side and get them into trouble. the two could be partners in crime quite literally (especially if mars has negative uranus/pluto aspects natally but sun chiefly) a bonnie and clyde sort of duo that produces quite a bit of excitement but even the easy aspects make the arguments a bit more fiery. arguments could even be a bit of a foreplay for these two as this aspect is extremely sexual, makeup sex/breakup sex are very common.

mars square/opposite lilith:

an initially wildly, captivating encounter, that goes sour fast. the two may end up being sexually active quickly after meeting, but when these two aren’t having sex they’re likely fighting. whether that be arguing, actually physically fighting each other, these two simply tick each other off. mars may have to deal with working on a controlling tendency, even if they’re not a controlling person by nature the lilith person makes them feel this way. mars views lilith as a never ending challenge to conquer. strong feelings of obsession that go both ways. at its worst the two may react violently towards each other over in an impetuous manner. a love-hate relationship with lots of departures and hate sex. the mars person may have a lot of issues controlling their temper. beware

keep this in mind: LOTS of factors go into relationships, a full synastry/composite plus house placement examination is needed for a full idea of your particular situation. also look to the signs they play out in. so as i always say, none of these aspects will make or break a relationship. 💃🏼