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1st House Rulers

The ruler of your first house is your rising sign. To see which house your 1st house ruler is in, you look at which house the planet associated with your rising sign is in. 

Ex.: Taurus Rising (Taurus is the 1st house ruler), Venus rules Taurus, your Venus is in the 3rd house: your 1st house ruler is in your 3rd house

Ruler of the 1st House in the 1st House

The manner in which you come across to others is very important to you. You are self-conscious and very body aware. Even if you don’t have any planets in Aries, you have some distinct Aries traits–you are reactive, a leader, and sometimes impulsive. You are self-motivated and self-interested. You live life believing that your fate is in your own hands, and you are likely to be quite proactive.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 2nd House

You have a strong value system, and you value security and longevity more than most people. Some may call you stubborn and fixed, as you do have a way of establishing routines and getting set in your ways. You may be focused on establishing yourself materially, but this position can also suggest a strong desire to lay down roots. Comfort and security motivate much of what you do, and you value things that last. Even if you don’t have planets in the sign of Taurus, you have some distinct Taurus traits.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 3rd House

Even if you don’t have planets in Gemini, your chart ruler in the third house gives you some distinct Gemini traits, such as versatility, curiosity, and communication skills. You may be fidgety, somewhat restless, and most certainly curious about the world around you. You are likely to be quite active, moving about close to home. You adopt a lighthearted approach to life, may be a “jack of all trades”, and are a “people watcher”. You delight in putting two and two together, and feel a stronger need than most people to engage in idle chit-chat with friends.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 4th House

Some might call you a homebody. You are someone who is very motivated by a need for security and roots. You may “take after” a parent quite strongly–perhaps following in his or her footsteps or resembling this parent. Even if you don’t have planets in Cancer, you display distinct traits of the sign. You may invest a lot of energy into building your “nest”.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 5th House

Even if you don’t have planets in Leo, you display distinct traits of the sign. You pour a lot of energy into hobbies, children, or creative endeavors. Having a good time is important to you! You need to express yourself creatively, thrive on attention, and you are likely very romantic and proud. There is some sort of eager excitement connected with being noticed and singled out. You enjoy attention and often look for it in order to feed your spirit.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 6th House

What you do as a vocation is more important to you than most. You may be a bit of a workaholic, as work occupies your thoughts. Others see you as a helpful and responsible person, and likely your reputation is well-deserved. You are very body-aware, and it is important that you have a healthy regimen of diet and/or physical activity. This builds your confidence. In many ways, you come across as unassuming and modest. You are always willing to offer helpful tips to others–and you have plenty of them!

Ruler of the 1st House in the 7th House

How you see yourself–and find yourself–is mirrored by a partner or close friend. You tend to define yourself in terms of how you relate with another person. Bouncing ideas off, or getting feedback from, another person feels almost like a necessity in order for you to take action or make decisions. Decisions are thus made indirectly, as a product of this feedback. You may find that you vacillate a lot as a result.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 8th House

You are a person who readily sees that there is more to any person or situation than meets the eye. You are somewhat reserved, not fond of “posing”, and you have a distinct disdain for all that is superficial. You have a mysterious, private, or sensual aura around you. You are not one to show off, and you seem to be content to be left alone–at least that’s what others seem to read. Psychology appeals to you, you are generally quite hard-working, and you may spend much of your time researching and “digging”. Sometimes this indicates an inheritance that transforms the life, or handling other people’s money.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 9th House

You are a generally outgoing person–an idealist and a dreamer. Usually ready for an adventure on the fly, you are a growth-oriented person and a born philosopher. Your opinions are strong, and you are generally ready and willing to let others know what you think! You may also be especially attracted to travel.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 10th House

You have a strong need for recognition that can be a driving force in your life. You are usually ready to take charge, and you are fond of structure. You readily take responsibility for yourself and for others. Some people with this position “hide” behind a position, such as a job, social standing, or reputation; or, they are especially fond of letting others know their position in life. Certainly, you come across as strong.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 11th House

You like to be on the same wavelength as others, and you tend to actively seek out similar, like-minded people to share times with. You are concerned about the welfare of others, and equality of people is an important concept in your life. People with this position are usually quite outgoing, sociable, and adventurous.

Ruler of the 1st House in the 12th House

While shy in youth, as you mature you tend to find ways of handling and masking your sensitivity. Your intuition is strong, and you naturally understand that there are hidden forces in life that influence the daily goings-on. You tend to always be seeking something higher–such as a greater meaning or understanding of life and your place or purpose in it. There is something mysterious and private to your aura. At times, you may feel a lot of anxiety. Although you are capable of being alone, sometimes loneliness consumes you and vague doubts and fears haunt you. You are a perceptive person, and managing your deep sensitivity is something that can be a lifelong task.

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lillith - ascendant

< 🖤Tends to get very sexualized even from a young age (common manifestation) & a common manifestation is that they were bullied for their unique nature (would depend on the orb)

Tends to be very physically attractive and this attracts a lot of jealousy especially from feminine energies who could try to bring the native down and tone down their nature there is also a manifestation of family members (or loved ones) critiquing their nature and how they “present” themselves

> 🖤 There is something unique and magnetic about them, it can be a literal feature, usually something stands out about these natives.

They tend to be very blunt and assertive! They know what they want and this can intimidate people. Women may attract men romantically who wanna “tone” them down a bit because they tend to be very sexually appealing to the eye of course this can go in general but it’s a very common manifestation for women with lilith - ascendant

Surprisingly they tend to be very insecure at younger ages until they realize their worth and that other people’s opinions do not matter, it’s common for them to be very anxious about their appearance to the world because there is a tendency to attract jealousy very often

>🖤 People tend to rant and say tabbo / unconventional things to these natives. They seem that they could “relate”. They tend to attract “weird” people.

Some manifestations could result into the native “sexualizing” theirselves often because they think that is all their worth, though it couldn’t be farther from the truth these natives tend to be very unique and have a lot of layers.

> 🖤 There could have been situations where they were granted the ability to use their charm and assertive nature to get out of situations that they could’ve gotten themselves into or not.

They can be “targeted” in a way. Authorities / Teachers anything could’ve seen them differently than everyone else, perhaps they got in trouble for things they didn’t do because it simply seems like they “did it”. Usually a lot of people tend to accuse these natives of stuff they didn’t do. Of course this is just a manifestation and it does not guarantee such things.

They tend to be very loyal to the people they love HOWEVER underdeveloped energies have the tendencies to be a bit malicious at times and could self sabotage. A lot however give loyalty to the wrong people, natives tend to be backstabbed / betrayed often (manifestation)

>🖤 Depending on how tight the orb is they could literally embody Lilith’s physical traits.

>🖤 As mentioned before they could seduce anyone if they were to try to. Women with this aspect could have a lot of men being obsessed with their physical appearance, they can use it a weapon.

>🖤 These natives when developed are one of the most loyal and honest people. A lot have trust issues or are seen as “difficult to open up” by others.

>🖤 These people are a lot more unpredictable than given credit before it can give off an Uranus energy of some sort. They do whatever they want and don’t like routine too much. A lot of people tend to obsess and question them a lot, there is no answer it’s their raw nature.

>They tend to be very creative in how they express themselves this could either shock / pull / repell / intrigue people.

>🖤 They could attract Scorpion or more Plutonian relationships / situations / people. (depending on orb) Conjuct and opposition could feel this more & are affected by it the most.

>🖤 Tends to obsess over anyone that sees them truthfully and somehow breaks their first layer, they have a lot of layers.

Tend to be vengeful in a way they do not care to wish “good” on someone they see as horrible or has caused harm on anything good or them. They don’t do second chances unless anything else in the chart indicates much warmer approach.

🖤> May encounter a lot of situations with people that have tried to make a sexual move on them, they could have some friends with benefits.

Can give off a “bitch” vibe thoughh they truly admire soft and pure intentioned people and actually hate people who can be vengeful as them, meaning they need good influence in their lives constantly. They hate deception in any way that’s a way to get these natives to loose respect and it’s over.

🖤> People tend to have very mixed / different opinions about them. They have a mixed reputation along with some lies around their reputation. They usually will have people having opinionated and fixed opinions on them. This could take a harsh toll on the native wondering what they did, and why they represent themselves a “certain way”. They tend to love their uniqueness and nature later on.

Truthfully this is an aspect that has its darker side since we are talking about Lilith but it can be very beneficial as it grants native with the gift of creativity and honest and sexually / physically attractive nature.

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🔑🔑 You might think Venus in the 2nd house synastry (or a lot of 2nd house overlays) would be very romantic, because it’s Venus. But that’s not always the case. There could be the sense that 2nd house wants to control the planet person via their assets. By treating them to a meal, buying them clothing, feeding them, providing cuddles and physical affection, they in return want to control the planet person more. They could both strive for a relationship that looks more like that of their grandparents from the past where they stayed together, because of shared resources. So it’s not really that person is territorial and possessive in a cutesy way, but more like they are bound to each other. This also brings longevity, whether is wanted or not. Sometimes this also indicates it’s hard for two people to break their connection off for good.

🔑🔑 Cancer Mercury is VERY much into their family’s history. They might try reaching their background, roots, where their relatives lived across the world. This people might like etymology as well. They also have hard time learning new things. It’s like they keep repeating or relearning things, hobbies they liked in early life and childhood. It becomes part of their value system. Like they read books about cars or visit car museums in childhood and they became hooked on it and are interested into it to this day.

🔑🔑 Mercury sign, house and aspects really show well your full sibling’s chart. If you have Aries Mercury in the 5th house at Libra degree square Neptune, square Uranus and square Jupiter. Your sibling has Aries, Leo, Pisces, Aquarius, Sagittarius placements. Or they could be prominent in their chart.

🔑🔑 If you’re Cancer Venus male your partners LOOVE to feed you. 😂 Like they might get offended if they offer you a croissant and you say “nah, I’m good”. Partners might actually turn a bit cold for a moment. 😅

🔑🔑 Cancer Mercury are very protective of their opinion and they are reactionary if you discard their perspective.

🔑🔑 I would like to argue that Cancer Venus people are really not that clingy. They ATTRACT emotional, clingy, needy people that want to feed them like a mother.

🔑🔑 Cancer Mars might eat to calm their anger down😂. Or their strong emotion.

🔑🔑 If you have Cancer Venus male you attract emotional, clingy women, however if you have Cancer Mars as well, women come off very strong to you. 😂😅

🔑🔑 If you are Aries Ascendant or ruler of the 1st house in the 1st house you might attract people that work less hard than you. Especially if you’re a female, you might be more ambitious than your person. 😅 Or you attract people that only LOOK independent, but they are really dependent on other people. So there will be a lot of situations where you will be alone.

🔑🔑 Aries Ascendant or Aries Moon individuals might need to tone down their know-it-all energy and ego. You need to learn that in order to get nurturing from people you need to understand their perspective and meet them half way. Otherwise you might left people thinking “this person is really smart and knows what they are saying, but I just don’t enjoy talking to them”. So this is how you end up alone again and go through periods where you feel like you are alone and on your own.

🔑🔑 Aries Ascendant also might do everything fast. They do things like homework in their studies or tasks at their job very quickly. 💪🏻

🔑🔑 If you have Scorpio/Aries IC your relatives are money hungry or entrepreneurs. 💸💵💰

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Synastry Notes 2

💝 lilith conjunct lilith - partners balance each other out & help each other express their darker sides in a healthy way.

💝 lilith conjunct sun - instant physical attraction but sun quickly becomes obsessed with lilith. you see this aspect in a lot of stalker cases.

💝 lilith conjunct moon - emotional intensity & volatility from both.

💝 lilith conjunct neptune - causes lilith to become absorbed by the illusion of love & neglect reality (aquarius lilith or pisces neptune)

💝 vertex conjunct 7th house - this aspect has powerful influence & suggests a fated rxship. (taurus asc or cap vertex).

💝 juno conjunct 7th house - marriage aspect. juno is marriage asteroid & 7H is marriage house. (capricorn juno or aquarius asc)

💝 juno conjunct jupiter - jupiter will bring out junos desire for commitment & marriage in a big way. if these people marry, they’ll likely have a large family. (leo jupiter or cancer juno).

💝 neptune opposite juno - illusion of a soulmate (aquarius neptune or aquarius juno

💝 vertex conjunct personal planets - fated rxship & partners will have a big impact on each others lives. (scorpio placements or aries/cancer/taurus vertex)

💝 saturn opposite jupiter - jupiter lacks physical stability, saturn grows tired of taking care of jupiter (sagittarius jupiter or capricorn saturn)

💝 saturn square jupiter - saturn views jupiter as impractical (virgo/pisces jupiter or libra/aries saturn)

💝 saturn square moon - emotional insecurities from moon creates discomfort (virgo/pisces moon, cancer/capricorn saturn)

💝 saturn conjunct the nodes - rxship unlikely to last (gemini/sagittarius saturn or gemini nodes)

💝 saturn conjunct/square nn - a rxship that doesn’t support your purpose (gemini/virgo/pisces nn or saturn)

💝 saturn conjunct venus/moon - difficulty sustaining longevity (gemini venus/moon or aries/taurus saturn)

💝 saturn conjunct moon/rising/7H - the biggest indicator of marriage & longevity. saturn will feel very devoted & responsible over planet. if this aspect goes both ways both partners will definitely be together forever. (gemini moon/asc, sag asc…. aries/cancer saturn, capricorn saturn) shya

💝 saturn conjunct 2H - indication of stability within rxship. saturn will provide the security that house needs.

💝 saturn conjunct 12H - depressing & burdening experience for house (cancer rising/gemini saturn)

💝 saturn conjunct mercury/nn - communication breaks you up no matter how much love you have for one another. (aries rising/virgo saturn/gemini nn/gemini saturn/ aries saturn/gemini mercury)

💝 saturn conjunct the nodes -karmic rxship (gemini nodes or sag saturn)

💝 chiron conjunct personal planets - karmic indicator. this person came into your life to help you heal, through activating your deepest insecurities & triggers. these rxships are the catalyst for healing. however, healing is not guaranteed during the rxship & may occur afterwards instead.

💝 chiron & venus synasty - creates a very painful but healing rxship. chiron is the doorway to one’s deepest wounds & insecurities. venus rules how one loves. venus will touch on the pain that chiron already holds. chiron will be faced with all the ways they did not receive adequate love either during childhood or a previous rxship & the impact of that absence; this can be immensely triggering for chiron but offers them an opportunity to heal this long-held pain.

💝 chiron conj venus - venus triggers chirons sense of inadequacy regarding love; chiron (subconsciously) feels they don’t deserve love, venus reminds them they don’t have enough value. of course, this is not true but it certainly feels to true to chiron. if chiron hasn’t confronted their wound, they’re likely to either lash out at venus/wanting to hurt venus or attempt to change/morph venus’ values to make them less hurtful. however if chiron has confronted their wound, the rxship can be an opportunity to grow & heal for them. regardless this relationship will probably be slightly painful for both, chiron due to the triggers & venus due to chirons reactions. (capricorn venus or taurus saturn)

💝 chiron trine venus - a feeling of “meant to be“ upon first meeting & a sense of healing bc for chiron it feels like venus provides the love they’ve always wanted, venus soothes the rough edges of their wound, at least at the beginning of the rxship. it may not always be truly fated. sometiems chiron leans on vebud to feel whole & chiron may start to believe they can’t live without venus. this aspect can also make partners feel tied to one another. (virgo/taurus venus or virgo/capricorn chiron)

💝 chiron sextile venus - aspect is much softer than the previous two. opportunity for chiron to heal or at least acknowledge their love-related issues. (scorpio/pisces venus or cancer/pisces venus)

💝 chiron opposite venus - extremely difficult aspect to overcome unless chiron is willing to do serious shadow work. venus will trigger cancers wound again & again in one way or another whether it be: the way venus expresses love, who venus chooses to love, or possibly other qualities like money & beauty. the bottom line is chiron is seeing what they feel they lack in venus, bringing all of chirons worst insecurities out. (cancer venus or libra chiron)

💝 chiron square venus - this aspect revolves more around a difference/conflict in view points regarding venusian qualities, it can manifest in different ways but bottom line is venus triggers all sorts of inadequacy in chiron, it may be: beauty (eg the way venus looks), money (eg way venus spends money), or love (eg the way venus “loves” doesnt satisfy chirons wants & needs which is very painful for chiron). the energy of this rxship can be v disconnected bc these two just can’t understand e other. typically chiron doesn’t know how to explain these triggers to venus (not that venus would necessarily understand) so the matter remains conflicted. if both partners are willing, the aspect can be resolved but it takes a lot of communication. this aspect isn’t necessarily bad but simply indicates that these two relational styles don’t match up. sometimes, both partners will stay together bc chiron feels the need to prove they’re good enough, despite the constant pain they endure by being around venus. other times, chiron feels the need to disconnect or flee. (libra/aries venus or leo/aquarius chiron)

Hiiiii, Can you talk about mars in the 7th house synastry? but with more details please ;D

Hi,

this one hits home haha. I'm the Mars person in the 7th house Synastry currently!

I noticed it really varies based on the sign. So that that into account as well.

MARS IN THE 7TH HOUSE SYNASTRY

the Mars person could be more into the 7th house, or they just want things quicker, they could be very decisive already at the beginning

Mars person usually has another person talking into their ear, like a friend, a mother waiting for you to get married etc.

7th house acts even more decisive than usually, but they also give out mix signals, could flirt with Mars person a lot one day and then they brush it off like it's nothing and y'all just hanging

7th house often thinks Mars person moves too fast

Mars person could have manipulative tactics, they present themselves to 7th house like they have so much in common, but 7th house see through it and knows that those interests are not so genuine

both are incredibly strong and stubborn individuals

7th house might want things more slow burn or just slow moving, so that intimacy and real connection builds up

7th house could be non-committal, wanting to keep the options open

Mars person is really competitive and wants to win at all costs, Mars person wants to be the number one and one and only out of all 7th house's choices

Mars could also confess feelings first or propose a partnership

Mars person is also very time oriented, like "you will propose then, we will get married when I say so", it looks like Mars is the dominant in the partnership (to outsiders), when in reality both want a lot of equality, fairness and reciprocal energy

both love doing things for each other, a lot of small, thoughtful gifts, gestures, Mars person constantly tries to romance 7th house or flirt with them

some compliments would be really sweet, while other compliments could be a bit superfical at times (: Like you would think they are not genuine

both attached at each other' hip, always seen together

when one is missing, it's like "where is so and so?" people will always ask you about the other

you might become "one" when together, like one mind, one body, you will feel like you are having your minds glued together and thinking with one brain when in conversation with each other, I hope this makes sense

might be a bit of a runner and chaser dynamic

you are both non-confrontational most of the time, you try to avoid arguments and anything that would be deemed as "not perfect"

7th house might have been envious of Mars person or might have not liked them that much, there was something that irked them, even if they were just projecting, but they probably noticed that the person is really charming

they both dress in a similar manner, think, could have the same preferences for food, both have different argument style

7th house could be more experienced in partnerships than the Mars person, can be Mars person's first partnership

Was it detailed enough haha? I hope so :)

I hope you are doing well,

@astroismypassion

The 4th Wall 📰

Aries in the 4th house cusp:

Boxing ring

Everything on an instinctual level is felt with much force. There is a level of heat and passion boiling in the inner cauldron of your heart and no matter how watery your chart or how reserved you present yourself, deep down you are a force to be reckoned with and struggle with avoiding some sort of confrontation or even instigating it in some fashion especially with loved ones or when in a place you perceive as “home.” You can be demanding but also Independent. You want your love unions to be passionate and authentic but can lack a level of diplomacy and co-tactics when it comes down to actually working with your partner. Sex and some sort of drive are deep emotional needs for you and at your core you’re very much so confident and self aware of who you are.

Taurus in the 4th house cusp:

Camp fire

Often quiet and obstinate you carry yourself with a inner level of stability and calm. You hate loud and obnoxious energy no matter how much of a fun and outgoing soul you may be. To you reliability and security are FIRST and FOREMOST in life, anything lacking isn’t worth your true emotional involvement. Often you adore the mundane and more sensual aspects of life, be it waking up in the early morning to the smell of breakfast or the soft touches of your dogs wet nose on your cheeks. Intimacy as well as depth matter a great deal to you and no matter how detached of a chart you may have a part of you( a very big part of you) will always crave some sort of authentic and genuine level of closeness and touch. More than most touch starvation can be hard for you and you often need intimate contact both platonic and romantic in some way. Romantically you’re extremely patient and loyal to whom you choose to stay with. Often you value solitude with your lover and can grow very possessive over them once you let your guard down. Deep down you’re tremendously stable and mature.

Gemini in the 4th house cusp:

See-Saw

There’s always this scattered nature to you, as if your mind is nine places at once only stopping to jump to a 10th sphere of fascination. Deep down life is a come and go experience for you and you likely grew up in a communicative upbringing for better or worse, wether it was communicating with your probation officer, wether it was with your parents who valued more detached intimacy, whether it might’ve been learning to survive on your own through means of “communication” you often learned to talk as a means to cope and express. You need a level of mental connectivity in your life and often anything lacking that can push you away greatly. For you it’s about the spark, the ease of communicating with someone on and on without feeling or questioning in your mind wether or not you should laugh or not. At a deep level your anxious and ungrounded and can feel a bit intimidated by the more committed aspects of life. To you a lack of restraint or responsibility even if your mercury sits in the 10th can make you feel at ease. You tend to be very active when at home and for a lover they may feel a bit overwhelmed by your vast mental energy. You often need a best friend in a lover before you let them in emotionally and usually you get very attached to someone who you feel as though you can speak with easily without much strain.

Cancer in the 4th house cusp:

The dinner Table

In some ways you are private, in others you’re warm and welcoming depending on the way the wind blows. You like a level of mystery when it comes to your personal life but can also struggle with being to smothering to others due to your deep need to protect and care for others. At your core you’re a mother. Man or female the divine feminine energy runs deeply within you. Your mom has a great impact on your life and you often take after her in the looks department and in the tendencies department. Your mothers chart has a lot of you in it as well. You can be very moody and often try to hide this part of yourself as you yourself don’t always know how to handle these emotions. Family and sympathy a strong values for you and you’re often attracted to people who are strong but gentle hearted. Romantically you’re so sweet and put everything on the line for the lover albeit you hide them like no bodies business due to your intensely private nature. Deep down you’re as emotional as any crab but also with a level of compassion that many can only admire.

Leo In the 4th house cusp:

The carnival

Often a level of playfulness and childishness characterizes who you really are. You love to enjoy yourself and often find a means of stimulation no matter what the circumstance. You think of yourself quite a bit(which isn’t a bad thing) but it makes it pretty hard to roommate with you of course 😂. You often have a very diva-like persona and a very high sense of your worth in this World. For you the most important thing is feeling as though your interactions and your life choices are always a reflection of your true desires and self. It’s honestly not in your nature to pretend and it can be hard to be around a superficial lot. You put your heart and soul into all you do, which at times can cause you to feel slighted when the same level of enthusiasm is not returned at least one trillion fold. No matter how earthy your chart you have a level of flamboyance and impulsivity that is engrained deep in your heart. You can lack the ability to see past your own pains and woes at times which makes it hard for you to sympathize with others but In that regard you have a huge heart and tend to do anything and everything for those you love! Even if you might complain about it at a later date! Romantically you’re a simple one to please! You just crave a high level of devotion and to be the center of your lovers world and anything lacking in that intensity is not for you.

Virgo in the 4th house cusp:

The Ironing board

You’re a bit more on the soft and passive side deep down. Most people may be a bit taken a back by your reserved nature especially if your have a more fiery chart or even surprised by your lack of emotional readability even if you have a watery chart. You tend to be brutally analytical of your emotions and can be a

Very intense crier because of how much of what you feel that is ignored or pushed away as being childish or unnecessary as deemed by your own mind. In truth you’re very sensitive and have a tremendous soft side for everyone in the world no matter how detached you may seem to those who get to know you better. You make light of tragedies in your life and tend to deal with your trauma by dry humor or even just laughing it off. You don’t like to linger on sadness and aren’t one to speak on your own woes in life so people who are constantly preaching about their angst tend to make you uncomfortable. In a way you view emotions as a weakness so you tend to withhold a great deal of your emotions. A level of depth and mystery surrounds you and your family and you may come from a family that shares a pattern of addiction or OCD in some way. Cleanliness and perfection are themes you live by and you might unfairly hold yourself to unrealistically high standards. Despite high standards you’ve programmed yourself to meet you’re often limitless in your potential and capability and have likely already reached these outrageously high standards you’ve set for yourself which is often why no matter how welcoming and sweet you may be there is always a level of intimidation and awe people feel when in your presence even without knowing you, people already know you’re someone to respect. Romantically you hold back really opening up for quite some time. You need to know they can handle your pain, your rage, your hurt and sadness before you truly open up to them otherwise it’s a waste to you. Animals tend to adore you albeit dogs especially, all animals look to you as if you’re their mother and may act infantile or clingy when in your presence, children as well.

Libra in the 4th house cusp:

The Salon

There’s a huge difference between your sociability and actually “knowing” you. Most people may struggle to have a actual bond with you because of how neatly and politely you keep them at a distance. The deep part of you loves to keep things surface level out of a deep seated fear of “needing” others. You prefer to be alone as opposed to approaching things with a “partner in crime” mentality. Libra here doesn’t incline you as a person who’s highly co-dependent. On the contrary this placement can make someone highly intent on maintaining a level of objectivity and a lack of bias in their dealings with others. At your core you believe in respect and at a deep level you adore and value the opinions of others and freedom is speech! You often have strong beliefs and values spiritually and politically even if in a sense you prefer to keep you mouth shut on more controversial issues. To outsiders you have the perfect family, the easy life, the perfect smile, the easiest of lovers to be with. The reality of these statements is that you suffer internally from being “seen” as what surrounds you rather than what you “are” romantically you prefer a down to earth lover who has a strong desire to build and nurture your bond with one another-always digging to decode who you are and vice versa, for you love is like a puzzle you earnestly seek to solve.

Scorpio on the 4th house cusp:

Crime scene

Deep down at your core you carry a heavy weight, one that shrouds the sun and tenses the seas. You have a highly attuned 7th sense and see the world for its good, bad and ugly. A level of real-ness exist for you when it comes to the world as a whole as you tend to dance with the darkest sides of humanity more than the most. Scorpio here sadly can manifest as very malefic and dark childhood experience for most especially if Pluto is afflicted but once more this is not a common theme. Their is a certain level of darkness to you and those who may meet you may be a bit unnerved or immersed by how poetic and profound you intimate nature really is. You love to play with fire and find that investigation, crime, psychology, layers all of these things excite you more so because it invites a level of authenticity to the human experience-a min-ute moment in time to truly connect and immerse into the emotional sanctum of others without the mask and farces many is wear everyday. You might have a mental block or complex surrounding sex that creates a level of intensity and restriction to the act for you. Romantically you want someone for all they are, their weaknesses, their faults, their ups and downs and want the same in return. It’s hard for you to let go of lovers and if they fall in your 8th house this is doubled. You usually struggle with opening up which causes you problems in the more lighthearted stages of romances but as you get deeper into it and with a more patient partner you’re well worth the wait.

Sagittarius on the 4th house cusp:

The airport

Something is inviting to you about the world, you envy the seemingly untethered nature of the world around you. You’re easily distracted by life itself, and have an inner gravitation to the many philosophies of the world religious or not. You can’t help but want to learn and study and see everything and anything you can. You hate stagnate situations and even more so people who are to heavily materialistic. Having this ic offsets a lot of even the most earthiest people as it creates an inner almost soulful need to be completely and soulful disconnected from everything that is tied down to the world of the physical. At your heart you’re so fill of life-endlessly and wholeheartedly! Your home life was often full of its fair share of ups and downs but you always managed to find the shining light above it all. Your family may have been big or just very protective and loving. Often one of the parents was absent minded but a very soulful person. Unlike a sag moon most with this position have a profound level of intimacy imbedded in them, they live for those close moments because Sagittarius expands their inner need for nurture. Romantically they’re babies and enjoy a good cuisine and good love.

Capricorn on the 4th house cusp:

Wallstreet journal

A stark coldness exist on the outset with you but it’s mainly because your home life was one raised with seriousness and intensity. One or both of the parents where very frugal and often made sure to instill a fear of mediocrity in the child. Because of this as a person you’re very mature, the world weighs heavily on your shoulders but as you’ve aged that burden as gotten much lighter. These natives hold a huge reserve of loyalty and tenacity in their heart as they’re often the ones to work tirelessly on a dead cause only to revive it beyond what it even was before it had given out. These natives are not firm believes in handouts earthly or spiritual in nature unless they have a highly attuned 9th house. Often these natives struggle with battling moments of depression or emotional exhaustion that many wouldn’t even be able to tell especially if they have a more optimistic personality on the surface. They take commitment and bonds very seriously, very scarcely extending out that hand for continued intimacy. They often have a cold but long lasting bond with their family albeit one that is lacking in its warmth(which is not always the case) romantically these natives want someone who is willing to live life in a way they cannot, with freedom. They strongly crave someone who understands the seriousness of this world but who still finds a way to look beyond the mechanism of society, to take them down highway 49 in the dead of night and blast chancla in the car singing along without a care in the world.

Aquarius on the 4th house cusp:

The space ship

You’re often someone who views the world in a wide lens, a glass always half filled. To you the world is meant to be questioned, never taken as is. You enjoy the more detached and mental aspects of your surroundings especially at home and can be a bit harder to read once you’re in a place you feel comfy. You aren’t the type heavily tied to your roots which shows in your rather impersonal dealings with family(not any less lacking in warmth mind you :)) you tend to adore a close knit buddy system when it comes to intimacy and family life but due to this lack a practical and grounded tug towards home. In many ways you’re a drifter or a nomad constantly shifting from scene to scene never truly feeling like home is any one place. Your mind moves like clock work and you’re genius can really show when you’re in a place of comfort. Mentally you’re unlike any other and have a bountiful love for humanity and those feelings created and fostered through such interactions. Unlike Aquarius moods you’re not the type to alienate you’re emotions rather you’re more apt to keep your emotional issues away from home and much rather handle you’re emotions albeit rationally, fairly head on. Romantically it’s the brains not the brawns that entice you. A lover who is a bit of a casual rider in life whilst keeping a genuine lust to explore and transverse the human psyche as you do is the one for you.

Pisces on the 4th house cusp:

The lake

The winds are constantly sweeping you across your feet. In some ways you’re soft hearted, constantly putting yourself in everyone’s shoes but on the other hand you maintain a good distance from letting anyone really see what’s going on. You tend to play with the dark here and there which gives you a more mysterious, uncharted type of energy. In many ways you’re irroestiable but also fragile and innocent. Your heart is vast and full of many strings all leading to different repressed and often glossed over childhood upbringing. In most cases these are people who hold on to figments and pieces of memories altering them in a way that shadows and past hurt in their lives. They adore nature and the more simplistic or rather subtle parts of the world. Most times they are reclusive and hidden always preferring to be the forgotten soul who just so happened to pass right by you without a sound. Men and women here tend to have a rather up/down relationship with their family or parents be it to obsessive, to unpredictable, to unstable, to manipulative, to ambiguous, to close, to detached and so on. Most cases the family is extremely tight knit and close but may lack a actually fundamental stability that holds most things together because of Neptune. Most natives with this tend to attract animals who were once humans in their past life or whom have a highly keen spiritual awareness making pets a more trying experience for these natives due to the strong personalities. You tend to have a deep set emotionally connected spiritual side and can pick up small and even minuscule changes in vibrations or feelings in the air. Energy is your 2nd language and you find it incredibly hard especially in the young years to follow your intuition. On a deep level you’re spiritually powerful and have an ability to understand and heal many of the burdens people carry heavy on their heart. Romantically you need someone who can dance with you in the spirit world. Most of these natives end up with rather powerful people mainly because they need someone who can match their inner level of emotional intensity.

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Amor Asteroid (1221) and soulmates

The Amor asteroid in Astrology is connected to platonic love and compassion - similarly to Ceres it can represent unconditional love, one that doesn't need to have a reason to exist, one that would exist regardless of the circumstances, but in a romantic way, unlike Ceres which is normally connected to a mother-child type of relationship.

Amor can show intimacy, closeness, a relationship that doesn't have to be sexual, but one that carries a strong connection between the two people. Amor also shows how we deal with romantic rejection - whether it's aspected in anger (natal aspect to Mars), in isolation and loneliness(natal aspectto Uranus and/or Saturn), in victimhood(natal aspect to Neptune), in putting more focus on ourselves (natal aspect to Sun or Venus) or accepting it as a lesson, despite our ego being hurt (natal aspect to Jupiter). Natal aspects between Amor and Pluto, or the Moon can be a big sign of holding onto relationships(Moon) or them being life-changing, having big impact on us and our future relationships (Pluto).

Amor can also show the love that feels ideal to us - our true romantic desires, how and what we require to experience the highest form of love, to feel truly loved.

Here are the best Amor aspects to have in Synastry (in my opinion):

Amor conjunct the other person's Sun or Ascendant, Amor in the other person's 1st House

The Sun/Ascendant/1st House person has the qualities that the Amor person can idolize romantially, it can show direct attachment and romantic feelings that can evolve fast. The Amor person may fall in love with the Sun/AS person's presence, their being. They can romanticize them, view them through rose-colored glasses (at times it can be quite Neptunian). The Sun/AS person will feel truly confident, appreciated, worthy and valid. They can view each other as their ideal lover, as someone who directly represents the qualities in the person they have always wanted to love.

Amor conjunct the other person's Moon

This can give a feeling that it was "meant to be". It can be very selfless, quite sacrificial at times as if even hurting the other person the slightest causes great pain to yourself too. The Moon person will feel like their true self is finally loved by someone, as if someone worships the part of themselves that they can't seem to always love themselves.

Amor conjunct the other person's Venus

This is one of the straight-out-of-a-fairytale aspects. It can show a very romantic love, a love in which both people, the Amor person specifically, are willing to do whatever it takes to please the other person romantically. It can show a growing love, one that builds up both people, one that allows them to live out their romantic desires. It can feel that the relationship was meant to be - even if other aspects in the synastry chart are bad, they are likely to come back to this relationship.

Amor conjunct the other person's Descendant/opposite their Ascendant or Amor in the other person's 7th House

The relationship will feel very reflective - they are likely to act on it or develop feelings for each other at the same time. This can signify a very strong union, a union that carries love for each other that can't go away regardless of the circumstances. In many cases, it can be said that this is the type of relationship where both people are ready to take a bullet for each other. It can be selfless, the other person will be a priority, they will be an important part of your life you have to think about before making any decision. It is often seen in long-term relationships.

Amor conjunct the other person's Psyche

This can show a love that is very emotional - very profound. It is not physical, not just emotional - it seems to come from a very different place. In this aspect, you are in love with the other person's being, their soul. The relationship can feel romantically transformative, as if all journeys have finally led to this. The relationship will bring out both people's intuition, especially when it's connected to the other person - it can give a telepathic-like connection. The relationship may feel like the place in which the Psychic person finally allows themselves to be loved. They may learn more about themselves due to the relationship. It can also show that while the relationship can be their greatest strength, it can also feel like their greatest weakness, due to the dependency on the other person.

A square or an opposition can also be felt strongly, but it will have the ability to make the relationship a bit more complicated - there may be one-sided attachment, one person giving everything they can while the other may be more apathetic or passive, it can show a strong love that also brings out the Amor person's insecurities, makes them question their worth, it can make them neglect themselves due to the focus over the other person.

If you want to find out more about your romantic life or relationship, I do both transit synastry chart readings and composite chart readings. If interested, message me here or by email (yourastromami@gmail.com) xx

Could u do Mars in the 9th House Synastry Culture pls?

Hello, bb

This mars synastry was probably the most requested; the asks' energy was very intense (ง︡'-'︠)ง Idk what it is, but I been doing this like three times because Tumblr did not save it correctly -.-

Mars in the 9th house Synastry Culture

♐ Both, the mars person and house person, feel free

♐They prefer to grow on philosophical views rather than other things.

♐ They would love to travel and to learn together.

♐ The mars partner feels excited and happy around the house person.

♐ The mars person may discuss their views on life with the house person as a flirty method.

♐ They may start as something light, such as friends with benefits.

♐ The mars person may pressure the house person.

♐ They may hang out or travel together very often.

♐ Sex is a mix of sexual pleasure, a new experience, and a spiritual awakening.

♐ The mars person tries to evoke new spiritual experiences in the house person.

♐ The house person may feel that the Mars person is pushy with their beliefs in the beginning. The house person could feel confused but still attracted to the mars person.

♐The house person could feel like the Mars person imposes their views on them too much.

♐ They could meet in college, during a trip, in a spiritual place, or in a free place?

♐The mars person would encourage the house person to expand through learning, spirituality, visiting other places, and living to the maximum.

♐If the house person is a woman, she would find the mars person like HOT very quickly. If the man is the house person, they might be shyer with accepting their feelings. Nonetheless, the mars person tend to be the first to make the move.

♐ travel dates, "Have you tried this?- no!- Ok, so let's go", smiles, having lots of laughs and then good screams, random debates about what do you think of [insert topic], direct questions, outdoor s3x, very experimental intimacy, hiking, sex under the moonlight and later talking about deep philosophies, physical and spending time as their love language.

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I’ve noticed Moon in Aries individuals at least once in life have gone through a phase of repression and resentment thus isolating themselves a bit, could’ve struggle with explosive emotions.

Libra risings are one of the most helpful individuals, they love to be convenient even though Virgo risings get the reputation of being helpful, I believe Libra risings never hesitate to help anyone in need <3.

Gemini placements may like getting their nails done or at least want their nails perfect / cut perfectly. (Gemini rules hand)

Gemini placements are prone to being more stressed as it rules the nervous system.

Virgo placements / stellium are most likely to isolate themselves instead of seeking for guidance from others when they’re not in their best.

Venus in 6th / 6th house placements/ Venus in Virgo love baths / showers and just love the feeling of being “clean”, some may struggle with routine if they don’t feel clean.

Mercuries in 8th tend to have very intrusive thoughts and could make them a bit awkward in real life socializing.

Moon square uranus individuals tend to have an attitude towards their mothers. The mother could have also always been on the phone / used technology a lot.

Gemini placements especially Mercuries from what I’ve noticed are always doing a lot at once and so much thoughts go through them they could forget some things.

Leo Venuses are bold usually but when they have a crush they turn a little shy, usually they’ll show you if they want you. I’ve also noticed Leo venuses have a lot of love languages, they’re so generous! They’re very adaptable.

Sagittarius mercuries / Moons have a very beautiful and happy way of communicating from what I’ve seen reading through their texts or listening to them usually brights up people’s mood.

Mercuries in 9th house is a very big know it all placement in my opinion, people with this placement are very savy and knowledgeable and will not let you forget that they’re hella intelligent.

Ironically, I’ve met too many Cancer placements who don’t want a lot of kids or don’t want any at all. (Mars & Especially Venus) Either that or they’ve been wanting kids since young age. This is because Cancer placements truly know how it’s like to have a “family” (Cancer rules 4th house☀️)

Scorpio placements have always been some gossip in a point of their lives. I’ve noticed people always have something to say about these individuals. They could have been accused rumored about in places like schools, etc.

Aquarius risings tend to attract a lot of connections a lot, I’m implying they tend to make a lot of online friends (Rules Uranus = Technology) And for Aquarius moons the same thing but more emotional connections rather than just regular online friends.

Leo risings this is a theory so I may be right or wrong but since it’s descendant it’s in Aquarius they could’ve attracted some romance online?? Maybe some flings / long distance haha pls lmk🥳)

Leo placements look amazing when they take pictures outside especially when the Sun is shining on them, I don’t have to explain much, they’re ruled by the Sun.

Air placements can be the biggest internet trolls in my opinion, they can sometimes (Especially Gemini & Aquarius) argue for no reason online because they get some joy for teasing people😀

(Or any Major Pisces placement) Pisces moons / Risings may be luckier in a way and experience a lot of transformations somewhat like Scorpio do.. This is kind of a theory, but fish represents fertility & happiness & intelligence. It’s no wonder most people with Pisces placements tend to be very intelligent.

I’ve met a lot of Pisces mercuries who like interacting with fun and unique people, it’s just an observation but they don’t like small talk at all.

I’ve met a lot of Aries rising women with short cut bangs and wavyish hair like the amount I’ve met with that combination is crazy & Omg and their noses are beautiful🥳. (And some freckles there and there)

Libra placements may get along with Sagittarian energy well, I’ve realized both of these energies love uplifting people:)

If Gemini placements are paired with Leo or Libra they may like to make their texts / writing style fancy.

One way you can distinguish a Libra rising is by their smile and maybe existen dimples☀️

One way you can distinguish a Scorpio rising is by looking into their eyes and seeing how deep watery and mesmerizing they are, you tend to get lost in their eyes.

Cancer women placement may like showing off their breast / cleaveage a bit.

Pisces placements may love candles / nice odor around. (Pisces placements love sniffing things)

Pisces risings tend to care a lot about aesthetic just how Venusian placements do.

Every Single Capricorn placement women I’ve met had a big bootey, is there an explanation behind this? Not really just wanted to note it.

Capricorn placements love deep things just like Scorpio placements do, they just “understand” each other.

I’ve noted a lot Of Libras and Virgos are drawn to each other.

Since Saturn rules Ink and Venus is Aesthetic. Saturn - Venus individuals may like drawings / sketches prominently or tattos

Pisces placements tend to have bigger teeth from what I’ve noticed. (Prominently the front two)

Capricorn Venuses are in it for the long run so a breakup could really mess with a Capricorn venus more than given credit for, they tend to have a lot of trust issues after a separation.

Aries energy can sometimes be confused for Scorpio energy (both intense)

People tend to look up to Sun in 11th individuals to cheer them up. They tend to have a lot of friends.

Mercury in 10th individuals tend to guide the public eye with information / knowledge. Makes me think of a newspaper person writer.

1st house stellium people tend to go to crisis regarding to who they really are and they tend to camouflage in situations.

Jupiter in Sagittarius individuals tend to be very humorous and tend to be liked easily & travel tends to be prominent to them.

Jupiter in Virgo individuals tend to get stressed easily / a lot tend to complain about school / education. (Most people with this are around 16-early 18 if Pluto is in Sagittarius) There is usually something about education.

Water venuses may love the aesthetic of water or the ocean / beach.

Your placements can tell you the way you manifest especially Jupiter. Jupiter in Sagittarius & Pisces individuals and generally Pisces and Sagittarius placement individuals have a luckier time manifesting. Look at your dominant as well 🪐

Venus Dominant = Money, Love, Luxury

Sun Dominant = Happiness, Self confidence, Creativity

Mercury Dominant= Intelligence, Communication, More memories

Pluto Dominant= Rebirth (Getting rid of negative energy around you, powers, anything you desire

Mars Dominant= Passion, Motivation, Power

Moon Dominant= Wisdom, Intuition, emotional wellbeing

Neptune Dominant= Any dreams can come true, Spiritual guidance, Unexpected Abudance

Saturn Dominant= Stability, Authority & Power, Material desires

Uranus Dominant= Revolution, anything you desire (manifestation is good in Uranus), Psychic insights

Jupiter Dominants= Abundance, Happiness, Wisdom, Money.

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