Resilience Is Not Sustainable We Are Not Supposed To Endure Life We Are Supposed To Live It

Time doesn’t heal you. You heal you.

why do i need to come out ? if you still think im straight then that’s on you

Tumblr is actually a nightclub and we all are the drunk girls in the bathroom being besties

due to not wanting to, i will not. thanks.

I hope one day you wake up not bearing that heavy feeling anymore.

“Eventually soulmates meet, for they have the same hiding place.”

— Robert Brault (via existential-celestial)

self care is also being honest with yourself about your negative habits and mistakes. it’s also taking ownership of your faults and growing from them. self care is diverting from a negative space to a positive one. creating light and balance. blooming. watering your own flowers. being gentle but honest with yourself.

so take care.

the vocabulary of loss is the dictionary

Last week, I learned that the English language has more euphemisms for death than any other language. I learned that the ancient Greeks had no word for the colour blue and that the Hawain alphabet has only twelve letters. I spent last week hollowing out a little place in my heart and filling it with worry. What does that say about us? Do we really go out of our way to avoid death like that? How did the Greeks describe the sea? Are twelve letters really enough? Does every language have a word for love? Every language should have a word for love. And compassion. And gentleness. And figs and snow and that soft sensitive part on the inside of one’s arm. We should have words for everything so that we don’t feel alone. We need very very very specific words for all of the different kinds of sad and even more specific words for the kinds of happy. What if we were able to talk about everything? I want to tell you how I feel and I want to be precise. Sometimes ‘good’ just isn’t enough and few understand what I mean when I say that I feel ’like lightning.’