Harika-67 - İsimsiz

Desires are like itches, the best thing to do is let it be and it will dissolve in its own time by itself. But it might be so strong you think scratching it (i.e. thinking or doing anything about it) is okay because it feels good and gives temporary relief. Then the itching and stinging grows stronger and bigger and makes you want to scratch even more. Eventually you realise scratching it only makes things worse instead of better and this will never end; desires never end, old ones just get replaced with new ones.

You realise that in order for it to disappear, you need to stop scratching it and stop thinking about it (i.e. let go of desiring). When you do, it begins to calm down and you begin to find peace with letting things be as they are. Then it quietly fades away and resolves on its own without any effort on your part. This is what surrender is.

I will not answer any more questions related to specific manifestations, just because the answer is always going to be the same. Take your attention off the problem, it no longer exists. Are you the person experiencing lack and problems or are you the infinite Self that can experience whatever it wants whenever? I promise you your question has already been answered in one of my asks, or anything in my masterpost.

i feel like i keep getting caught up in trying to do something.. like i’m TRYING to not label things, i’m TRYING to go within, i’m TRYING to do nothing which makes no sense bc how can that even be something you TRY to do… as you can probably see i’m a big overthinker and i just feel so lost

"I feel like I keep getting caught up.." "I'm a big overthinker and I just feel so lost"

Do you feel, or are you aware of the feeling? Effortlessly?

Do you overthink, or are you aware of thoughts? Effortlessly?

Do you feel lost, or are you simply aware of that feeling, effortlessly?

Are you TRYING, or are you aware of trying? Effortlessly.

Is there a person to feel, to overthink, to feel lost, to try, OR is there just the feeling and the thoughts, and AWARENESS?

Answer those questions for yourself. Go deeper than the surface level.

Can you please hype me up? I'm feeling so confused and unmotivated . I was so confused what to manifest ? Then I ended up founding my desire. I want to be a wizard. I want to go to different dimensions and change my name and appearance.

I always tell myself that I already have wizard powers and let go . I can do this and that. Its been 20 days now but nothing happened . I just want to run away from here and don't wanna study . I want to be a heroine of a drama. I'm crying right now . 😭

Your advice will be appreciated. ✨️

What do you want to hear from me? What do you mean aren't you already in Barbados? Did you accepted your desire as a fact? Do you really believe imagination is the real reality? What are you focused on, the 3d,time or the self? Are you really feeling fulfilled?

The fact that you are too much focused on the 3d, tbh you can't change the 3d, you can only change self, is your self fulfilled? whom are you identifying as, the inner man or outer man? It just takes 1 second to accept something, it doesn't take any physical effort to believe in your desire being already yours, why are accepting the 3d as the end, 3d is extremely malleable. Only change self, 3d would change on its own to reflect the self, persist and be brazenly impudent( never take no for an answer ). That's all i can say, be your own saviour

How do I act upon this knowledge? :(

Stop attaching yourself to ideas you dislike

You are free

Stop acting otherwise

You are a victim of your own imaginations so stop imagining the world is a certain way you dislike

Let the sorrow go.... it's not real... literally. Very literally. Extra mega literally. Just like a dream literally. The definition of literally

The fact is that you are so powerful that the world would not function without your wish.

Nothing can be without you thinking it is. You are the owner of the world, wipe those ugly concepts from your mind, forget them. Seriously. Do it already. It's all in the mind. All of it. Stop all actions. Know what you want and nothing else

How to notice self or just being?

Or like see things without labelling them and just observe

Can you pls kinda give example

Okay soo let's take this scenario.....

1. You are dreaming (while sleeping at night) but you don't know you are dreaming soo you take everything seriously. You take everything to be real.

2. You are dreaming, but then you suddenly realise....'oh wait i remember i went to sleep this all Must be a dream'.

You see Everything around you, you still engage with everything but this time you don't take it all seriously. You KNOW it's a dream soo you enjoy it. You see everything without any label coz you KNOW it's all just a projection of yourself. You know all the dream characters are just you at their core. Something bad happened, you watch it for as it is, a mere dream. You observe the dream, you don't bore yourself by doing nothing. You just Know it's all just a play and nothing is actually happening at all.

Hope i could help you understand!

am i willing to live in a world with no problems?

i've seen someone say that they don't want to live an effortless life: no need of planning & having everything you need when you need it. they wanted to be the doer. the character doesn't do. it's not You, it's just a habit. when you know you are Self, then everything is harmonious and effortless. the Self does, it is under all the imaginary character - if the character isn't real, then it doesn't do, the Self does.

it's like an actor, Bob has to play a character called Mark, all the actors when acting call him Mark, but they know he's Bob. when Mark is there, Bob doesn't disappear! Bob is doing the performance of Mark.

I couldn't be who I wanted to be with the concept of non dualism, so I was going to switch back to law of assumption (even though the results would be the same) because I only looked into this concept because I was hopping on every method, trends and new views on life to change who I want to be.

But now I realise that knowing who I am is better than being who I want to be. I feel as if getting what this body wants would only bring this body temporary happiness and then go back to desiring and denying what I see with my eyes to pretend to be who I want to be (essentially, law of assumption). But knowing my true self, I would no longer desire, fear or be jealous and sad. I would only feel love and peace. I would be content knowing the truth about my self.

I'm really glad you decided to make this blog. I love everything you write. I have send an ask previously saying I understood non duality, but back then I was still speaking from the ego, who was desperate and losing fate in everything. I could read, but I didn't fully understood what was being said and missed the main thing people were teaching. Even now, I'm sure there's still things I need to learn, but I no longer feel stress and anxious. I feel more calm. I don't know where that puts me in the feeling scale, but I'm sure wherever I am at that I am heading in the right direction anyway. Thank you :)

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I'm sure there are plenty of people who did the same, went back to loa because they couldn't understand. And there will be more who will try nondualism to get something, fail because they don't understand how to do it through this concept (taking it for a method), call it bluff & re-try manifesting stuff. They will arrive at the same conclusions as you once more, restart.

Then they get the gist of it, and they feel peaceful, but still unfulfilled because now nondualism = peace of mind/acceptance of circumstances, but no success in change. The success in change isn't there because they again forget who they are and try to do through the character, try to use the limited mind, something that just isn't.

Peace alone is not the goal, although very sweet after a liftetime of doing and trying - there is power, love and freedom.

Your next step will be realizing there is nothing to learn in a dream. You'll find yourself having less and less thoughts, then none at all. Then, only if you want, you will be able to reinstall the mind, now of your choice, and change the dream. I noticed people who don't come from manifestation remain here, with the peace, that's nice and all, but why not use the power also? Though very loving and self-aware people indeed, least likely to hurt others :)

Even the process is very beautiful... but the very best is when your Self becomes the permanent background instead of Vanessa. Now you always return to Vanessa, later you'll forget to consider her ♡

Dream not of a character who wants and desires, there is nothing to long for — only things to be.

When they say "Live in your imagination" Does that mean you're just supposed to know that you have it in your 4D or is LITE supposed to feel like you have it in the 3D? Cause I want to manifest my height and it's a little hard to "act as if" I'm taller in the 3D when literally everyone is towering over me🫠

know u are your desired height in imagination. you don’t have to believe you’re taller in the 3d or act like you are. just know that your inner man is the height u wish to be and stay faithful to that. don’t let anything u see in ur 3d tell you you’re not ur desired height in your 4d

"I saw something unfavorable/something I dislike"

ponder this for a moment; who is deeming this illusory experience unfavorable? who is disliking it?

WHO is making these judgments, assigning all this meaning to blobs of intricate shapes and sensations felt through a human nervous system? who exactly is saying that the holograms birthed from consciousness are "bad", "unwanted", etc?

Ego.

"I had a bad experience" is just a thought. "I'm a person living in an external world where things just pop-up and happen spontaneously" is also just a thought.

you're **observing** these thoughts, **watching** a fake person invented by you dwell on them whilst inserting an equally fake narrative of opinionated perceptions deem things "good" or "bad".

you're not those thoughts, or the "person" thinking them. you are consciousness watching your very own creations. if you were ego and these thoughts, it wouldn't be possible to envision your body in third person or even watch the thoughts.

if ego "dislikes" something, recognize that the "bad" thing is and means nothing. it had no inherent meaning until that narrative was assigned to it.

does ego want to experience something different? just become aware of what ego wants. be aware of it already existing in full form. who cares about the "bad" thing? all of this is a dream anyways, you get to decide what's real or not.