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Why empaths love differently

🌙 Empaths crave deep and meaningful relationships.

🌙 They value trust and authenticity more than an average person.

🌙 Empaths don’t like small talk. They long for deep conversations and they want to be able to share their thoughts and feelings with their partner and that their partner shares their inner world with them.

🌙 Empaths have a calm and soft presence and are therefore often a magnet for toxic people and narcissists. Empaths are understanding and excellent listeners and they have to be careful not to be used for that by toxic people.

🌙 Empaths tend to attract people who want to be healed or saved instead of to be loved.

🌙 Empaths are a sponge for other people’s emotions and energies. They need a partner who has an aura and energy that isn’t draining for the empath.

🌙 Empaths are honest, very honest. They can’t fake things. They will honestly tell you how they feel and what’s on their mind. This deepens and tightens the relationship because the relationship will be pure and authentic.

🌙 They are givers. It’s in their nature to give more than they receive. They need to find a balance between giving and receiving in a relationship, so they do not give more love, affection and energy than they receive from their partner because that would make them feel drained and tired. They need love and energy in return.

🌙 Empaths need time alone to recharge themselves and cleanse themselves from all the energies they soak in. Their partner should understand their need for spending time alone.

🌙 Empaths tend to take things personally and they can feel hurt quickly.

🌙 Empaths absorb other people’s emotions and understand things without you directly telling them. They will feel it when there’s something the matter even though you didn’t say a word about it.

🌙 They need a relationship in which they can grow and develop.

🌙 Empaths need someone who understands and respects that they feel overloaded and tired often and not take their tiredness personally.

🌙 Empaths love with all their heart. They love with passion, with pureness, with authenticity. They will love all of you. Your flaws, your imperfections, all of you, without skipping a part. Because that’s who they are. Empaths are loving people with a spark in their heart that changes into a fire of passion once they fall in love with you.

Love with all your heart, empath. Chase the deepness and meaning you long for in a relationship until you find someone who makes it all feel natural. You’re a beautiful complicated puzzle piece who loves differently than most people. It’s a true gift, to be able to love with all your heart.

-The soft universe

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vnrgaard

7 years ago

Montgomery Thoughts

Why is everyone afraid to write an imagine of Montgomery now?

Just because someone writes an imagine of him doesn’t mean that person is supporting his behaviour nor his violence/brutality.

Whenever one of us is writing an imagine we have a different story in our mind and whenever someone writes an imagine of Monty he/she probably refers to a Monty who hasn’t hurt Tyler. These characters are all fictional and just because me or someone else is writing an imagine of Bryce, Monty or any other cruel person in other series out there doesn’t mean in any way that we agree with their behaviour or things they’ve done!

If I wrote an imagine of Monty I’d clearly have a different character in my mind with a different behaviour. If I wrote an imagine of Monty falling in love with a certain person then it would actually change the whole plot of the story and not lead to the situation with Tyler.

Once again, just because someone writes an imagine of Monty, Bryce or any other cruel person it doesnt mean that person is supporting their brutality/behaviour/violence! We all have different storys in our minds!