Something That Helped Me Deconstruct The Issues I Had With My Body Was Realizing That Society Wants Women

Something that helped me deconstruct the issues I had with my body was realizing that society wants women to hate their bodies because it makes them easier to control and manipulate. Tens of multi-billion-dollar industries depend on women’s self-hatred, telling women something new is wrong with them every week and selling them the solution to a problem that doesn’t exist. It’s an act of radical rebellion against capitalism to like or at least have a neutral relationship with your body no matter how much anyone else tries to tell you there’s something wrong with it. Your body literally does not need to be anything— not beautiful, not sexy— except for healthy, and keeping you alive.

It's so upsetting to see post after post about girls and women being unhappy with their appearances, mostly after facing judgement.

I'd like to remind you that your physical beauty, your appearance, is the least interesting, most boring thing about you.

How is your appearance going to help you get good grades? It won't, your knowledge will.

How is your appearance going to save the life of the victim of drowning? It won't, your knowledge will.

How is your appearance going to keep the conversation going? It won't. Your knowledge, interests, and personality will.

Saying you don't like yourself because your ugly is like saying you hate your birthday present because it got wrapped in ugly wrapping paper. It's on the inside that counts, that actually matters.

It's more than okay to be "ugly" or what society deems unattractive. Beauty is subjective anyway. You'll never win if you tried.

More Posts from Tenderspectres and Others

2 months ago

Matt: Male gametes. That’s what makes me male.

Michelle: No. No, your sperm don’t make you male.

Matt: Then what does?

Michelle: It’s a constellation.

Matt: In reality. In truth.

Michelle (confused): Whose truth are we talking about?

Matt: The same truth that says we’re sitting in this room right now, you and I.

Michelle: No. You’re not listening.

Matt: If I see a chicken laying eggs and I say that’s a female chicken laying eggs, did I assign female or am I just observing a physical reality that’s happening in the world?

Michelle: Does a chicken have gender identity? Does a chicken cry? Does a chicken commit suicide? Let’s frame it…

Matt: What’s that have to do with…

Michelle: Because you’re talking, you’re trying…

Matt: A chicken has sex, like any biological organism.

Michelle: A chicken has an assigned gender. But a chicken doesn’t have a gender identity.

Matt: So we “assign” female to chickens when they lay eggs? That’s a…

Michelle: We assume they’re female if they lay eggs.

==

It wasn’t so long ago that we were being told “NoBoDyS SaYiNg bIoLoGiCaL SeX IsNt rEaL”. Now they’re saying so out loud.

A licensed medical doctor and professor of pediatrics at Brown University who doesn’t think biological sex is observed or even real. Yet is allowed to advise, prescribe drugs to, and transition children based on the mental virus of postmodern social constructivism, and teach others the same.

https://vivo.brown.edu/display/mforcier

Michelle Forcier, MD, MPH has been in Rhode Island and at Hasbro Children’s Hospital since 2009. She is a Professor of Pediatrics, Assistant Dean of Medicine (Admissions) at The Warren Alpert Medical School of Brown University.

2 months ago

"You don't know me. I'm not the same person anymore."

"That's okay. I'll get to know you again."

1 month ago

a little about me

hi, i’m kesair! (KESS-eer)

basic stuff:

🌎 USA

🕓 21

♀ TRA -> radfem pipeline as of discovering radblr a few months ago

💕 biromantic, asexual, febfem

yeses and nos:

❌ pornography

❌ sex industry

❌ beauty industry

❌ religion

❌ kink/bdsm

✅ female separatism

✅ gender abolition

✅ pro choice

hobbies and personal stuff:

🌱 ecology major

🎮 video games (skyrim, TOTK, BG3, and more)

📕 reading + creative writing

🎲 dungeons and dragons

🌷 gardening (currently starting a garden on my apt balcony)

🎶 music (the neighbourhood, chase atlantic, susannah joffe, set it off)

“template” very much stolen from @lorynna


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2 months ago
[text From @fairymischief And @northcountrymaid]

[text from @fairymischief and @northcountrymaid]

2 months ago

tell me im yours while you're fucking me into the mattress

tell me im yours while you're kissing me with so much tongue i moan with how wet it sounds

tell me im yours while your hands grip my waist so tight that they leave bruises

tell me im yours while your teeth bite into my neck

tell me im yours while you tell me how pretty i am when i take your strap or fingers in so well

tell me im yours while i make all the broken sounds for you

tell me im yours while you blame me for how feral i make you

tell me im yours while i cum for you, so much, repeatedly

tell me im yours while i cry from all the stimulation

tell me im yours while you tell me that i can take it, bc i always do

tell me im yours while you kiss down my body, gently, softly, bc i deserve it, after being so good for you

tell me im yours while you gather me in your arms and press your lips to everywhere you can reach while i slowly catch back my breath

tell me im yours bc maybe i want to be.

2 months ago

Hii Radblr!

I have a server I think y’all would like!

We’re 16+ and do welcome rad leaning, or recovering libfems, and we’re GC.

We have a good verification system to ensure no TRAs or moids join, and we respond to submissions quickly.

We also have a ton of resources and literature, so if you’re not here to socialize you can enjoy these!

Here’s a sneak peak of the server down below:

Hii Radblr!
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2 months ago

Saying lesbians shouldn’t openly talk about being repulsed by penis is literally the modern version of “I’m ok with gay people as long as they keep it to themselves”

1 month ago

hey I'm sorry I stopped in the middle of that sentence my brain decided to flush its cache and I totally forgot what this conversation was

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