Why circumstances don't matter..
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I was reading @etherealkissed88's post about why circumstances are neutral, and something really clicked. Iâm going to explain it using Lola and Athena as examplesâbecause as a Tam Kaur fan, I absolutely adore those two!
It's snowing today!
Lola: "Ugh, now I can't drive, I'm gonna freeze, what a horrible day! Everything is going to shambles!"
Athena: " OMG Itâs snowing!! Like Lorelai Gilmore saidâI smell snow! Magic is here! The whole city is so beautiful đ"
No text from SP?
Lola: "I knew it! I scared him off. I shouldn't have texted. He thinks I'm desperate."
Athena: "Eh, it's just network issue. I know he adores me and thinks the world of me. Weâre good."
Job Interview Result is Delayed!
Lola: "It's been three days, no email. I probably bombed it. Why did I even hope? They hated me."
Athena: "Three days? That means they're seriously considering me! They're probably checking references and getting approvals!"
Friends Didnât Invite Them?
Lola: "They went out without me? They must hate me. Iâm always excluded."
Athena: "Ah, maybe it was a quick plan. Iâm still loved and valuedâtheyâll include me next time."
Same snow. Same silence. Same delay. Same circumstances. But totally different reactions. Same event. Completely different stories.
Thatâs because circumstances are neutral. Theyâre not good or bad. They just... are.
They gain their meaning only based on the lens you use to look at them. And whatâs that lens made of?
Your assumptions. Your state. Your inner story.
So next time your 3D feels "off", ask: am I reacting to the past? Or choosing my now? Because taking current circumstances as permanent truth is like saying:
"I read todayâs news in yesterdayâs newspaper."
You canât. You literally can't. Because Itâs outdated.
Your perception creates your reality. Your mind is the scriptwriter. Circumstances? Just the props. So rewrite your circumstances. Shift the meaning.
And always remember: Youâre the only operant power in your reality.
So you have a desire, you affirmed, visualized, did any technique that made you feel fulfilled on the inside, but is the damn 3d showing you the opposite? What should you do?
You don't flinch. You crack your knuckles, roll your sleeves back, maybe stretch your neck a little.
You smirk. Because this? This is the moment youâve been training for. The glitch, the mess, the tension in the storyâthis is where your power shows up. This is your entrance cue.
You're not being punished. You're being set up.
This is my example, when my code throws an error, I donât panic. I crack my knuckles, squint at the logs like Iâm reading someoneâs lies, and say, "Not on my watch."
I debug that mess like a queen restoring her palace line by line, breaking curses and rewriting fate. And when it runs? Oh honey, it's not just code. It's proof that I bend logic to my will.
Imagine you're playing your favorite video game. Youâve made it through every level, every mini-boss, every ridiculous side quest. And nowâyouâre standing in front of the final boss. It's massive, dramatic, probably has five health bars and a glowing sword the size of a car. The odds donât look cute. You take a few hits. You might even drop to 10% health. But do you cry? Panic? Throw the controller?
Absolutely not.
Because deep down, something in you clicks. You're not scared, you're activated. You weren't built to breeze through. You were built to rise in spite of it. So you dodge, you strike, you time that perfect combo. And suddenly, you're not the underdog, you're the main event. Every move you make is electric. Every scar is a flex. You feel yourself leveling up mid-battle.
And when that boss finally crashes to the floor, dramatic music blaring, the victory screen glowing?
Oh honey, you didn't just win. You made the credits roll with your name in gold.
Or think of a room. Clothes everywhere, books off the shelf, sunlight trying to peek through dusty curtains. It looks like a messâbut thatâs just the moment before the makeover. You know whatâs coming. That aesthetic, glowing, peace-filled version of the space. You always knew.
So when the 3D throws shade, you don't break. You light up.
Because you're about to knock yourself out with how powerful you are.
This document is by Solar which was a subliminal maker but sadly her page got terminated:( She really helped me change the mindset and become the master manifestor I am so ALL CREDITS GOES TO HER! ( I did not make this at all Solar did! ) { I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING THIS, AND APPLY ALL THE INFORMATION STATED. LIKE FR. đ }
Suddenly those wallpaper quotes that go "what would Blair Waldorf do?" Seem to have more meaning!
The "Character Switch" Game: How to Shift Out of a Victim/Negative Mindset Instantly
Dearest Gentle Readers...
Tired of spiraling, overthinking and getting triggered by the 3d or your negative thoughts? Try this game and watch how fast your mindset shifts. There's a reason why you're stuck in the same loop. Time to break out of it. Whenever you catch yourself doubting, reacting to the 3D or overthinking, simply switch to a character who would never stress about this. There's already a version of you who has everything you want. Time to step in that reality and start thinking like that version.
I have been through a negative mind cycle where I just worry, overthink and let the old story faze me but this has been helping me change my mindset and make affirming a.k.a thinking in my favor more casual, natural and more fun. I used to flip my thoughts and it's fine if you do but I don't like to give it energy nor agree with it. I have a different way of doing it now. I like to dismiss it and correct it instead of reacting or getting triggered. Think how that version of you who has everything you want would react to the old story or the 3d.
Let's start!
Let's do it in steps so it's easy to understand. This is perfect if you wanna affirm without making it feel like a chore. You should just be the version of you who has your desires. So how do we play this game? Here it is.
1. Catch yourself whenever you're thinking negative, doubting, reacting or thinking of the old story
Be aware when you're doing all of this and catch yourself just when you start to doubt, hear a murmur of the old story, react, spiral or have negative thoughts. Notice that you're running an old script. Always pause and catch yourself. You don't want that to be your story anymore? Okay, don't fight it, don't judge it, don't pay too much attention to it and then you just dismiss it and correct it.
It's literally an old story, last month's magazine, last season's clothing or imagine it's just a hater trying to get to you. But we don't have to give it an emotional reaction or give it energy or have to fight it. How do we do it then, Rian? Then pay attention to the next step which is when this switch game really starts.
2. PICK YOUR FAVORITE CHARACTER TO EMBODY who has the energy and mindset you need for this
Yes, I always talk about embodying and it is one of my favorite ways to respond or affirm because it gives me the mindset I need to be the version of myself who has what she wants. And it's fun so why not have fun while manifesting? It's gonna help you in the end to have this new habit. It's like training your mind to be like the version of you who has your desires and why pick characters? First, not just any characters. We need high-value characters whose mindset and energy will boost our own. Especially ones who are strong minded, powerful, fierce, confident, detached, unbothered, unfazed by anything and those who have high self concept. Those who think they are worthy of their desires. They will help us train our mindsets to be like theirs.
This is the fun part of it but the next step is even more fun!
Now pick your favorite character, a character who makes you feel confident, one you admire and a character who you think would be the best in manifesting.
Personally, I like to switch it up sometimes based on my mood but my three main ones are Chanel Oberlin, Wednesday and Blair Waldorf. Sometimes Hermione.
Examples: Elle Woods, Chanel Oberlin, Blair Waldorf, Wednesday Addams, Hermione Granger, Veronica Lodge, Cheryl Blossom, Maddy Perez, Regina George, Katherine Pierce and so on
So pick your character or even your favorite celebrity if you want and let's move on to the next step!
3. Respond as that Character
Think like this: "Would Chanel Oberlin worry about this thought/doubt/old story? What would Chanel do? What would Blair Waldorf do?" No. They'd dismiss it and move on like it's an irrelevant thing. Like it's Chanel #5 showing Chanel Oberlin an outdated magazine but she runs the trend. Like Chanel #5 is showing Chanel that her haters are saying that she's not rich. Like it's last season's trend or clothing for her.
She would literally scoff and say:
"Oh please, as if I don't already have everything I want."
"Oh, you think I'm not rich? That's adorable. Do you need me to buy you some glasses? Or maybe a clue?"
"Ugh. Irrelevant. I always win. Next thought!"
"The old story? Outdated. A total flop. The only story that matters is this one. The new story, the one where I'm on top, everything is effortless and where I already have it all."
"Oh please, this is so last season. I already have everything I want."
Every time you catch yourself entertaining the old story or the 3d or the doubts, switch. As if you're a player who can switch characters easily. Respond like how they would in your mind, don't be shy, be dramatic and theatrical if you want. Act and think like those characters. Put their shoes on.
I literally switch to whichever character I want and then I think like them and dismiss it like them. You could even do this as the version of you who has your desires. Enjoy and make it fun. You can do this for affirming naturally as well. Affirm it as a fact. You're that version already, for you, these thoughts, doubts and the old story are just like haters. How would Wonyoung or Jennie shut them down? No they won't waste their breath, they will just dismiss them and they stay unbothered.
Remember if you're that version of you who's rich or you are Chanel Oberlin or Blair Waldorf, how would they react if a hater says they're not rich? They would think that they are crazy and just laugh at them.
When you're slipping out of the wish fulfilled, ask yourself:
What would Chanel do?
She'd scoff at the 3D and say, "Ugh, this is old news. I already have what I want. Next!"
She'd flip her hair and say, "I'm Chanel Oberlin. Of course, I have everything I want. That's just how life works for me."
She'd laugh and say, "Doubts? Please. I don't entertain nonsense. I win, always."
What would Wednesday do?
She'd glare at doubt and say, "Pathetic. Reality bends to my will. It has no choice."
She'd tilt her head and say, "Fear? Doubt? I don't have such weaknesses. Reality is my obedient servant."
She'd give a bored look and say, "Reality is predictable. I decide what happens, and it happens. No suspense, no surprises."
What would Blair do?
She'd roll her eyes and say, "I always get what I want. It's not luck, it's just how the world works when you're me."
She'd glance at her reflection and say, "Of course it's already mine. A Waldorf never settles for anything less."
She'd smirk and say, "The old story? Please, as if that was ever my reality. I've always been the main character and the main character always gets what she wants."
What would Hermione do?
She'd raise an eyebrow and say, "Oh, you think I can't have what I want? Ten points from doubt. I already have it."
She'd give an exasperated sigh, "Honestly, have you learned nothing? If you keep acting like you don't have it, of course reality will reflect that. I have it. That's final."
She'd cross her arms and huff, "Oh, for heaven's sake, are you seriously still entertaining that nonsense? The old story is irrelevant. I already have what I want, end of discussion."
Some extra examples:
What would Elle Woods do?
She'd wink and say, "Manifesting isn't that hard. Like, have you met me? I always get what I want."
What would Veronica Lodge do?
She'd cross her arms and say, "I don't dwell on problems, I solve them. And I always get what I want."
What would Cheryl Blossom do?
She'd glare and say, "The old story? Burn it. I'm the author, and this is my fairytale."
What would Regina George do?
She'd flip her hair, roll her eyes, and say, "That's the ugliest thought I've ever heard. Stop trying to make doubt happen! It's not going to happen. I already have what I want."
What would Maddy Perez do?
She'd give you that look and say, "Oh, you think reality gets a say? That's cute. I already have everything. Period."
What would Jang Wonyoung do?
She'd smile sweetly, tilt her head, and say, "Oh? Youâre doubting? That's not my problem. Not my reality anymore. I already have everything, and I always will."
Anyway, the point is to pick your character, watch their best scenes on YouTube or their content then whenever you get a doubt, a negative thought or think of the old story, SWITCH TO THAT CHARACTER (switch like how you pick characters in a game or pass the baton to them), EMBODY AND THINK LIKE THEM.
Make sure to also do it when you affirm, switch to that character and affirm confidently, affirm as a fact and with certainty.
4. STAY IN CHARACTER
Keep playing the role to train your mind to always think in your favor. Literally walk, talk and act like this character if you want to be more confident like them. That's it.
Remember to ask yourself: What would my favorite character do?
Would Blair stalk the 3D for evidence? No. Would Chanel care what people think? Never. Would Wednesday ever be fazed by the old story? Absolutely not. Have fun, play the game, make it a habit and soon it won't be a game, it'll be your natural mindset.
Yours Truly,
Lady Rian Whistledown đ
never wait or forget to assume u are ALREADY the desired version of urself in the NOW. dont think/assume: "ill buy this AFTER i manifest $1000" or "they would be crushing on me WHEN i get my glow up".
there is only the present and your job is to always claim your desire as done in the NOW.
DO NOT think/visualize from (embody/assume) the state of âwaitingâ for it!
DO NOT identify w the version of you who is not already experiencing it!
when you think about a desire, immediately see the world/think as the one who has it already. if not, (if you immediately think of it as the person who is waiting for it), dont stress, just shift into the state/embody the one who has it NOW. you manifest who you choose to be so thoughts never matter because they are part of the 3d, therefore they are always neutral. there is only the present so if you thought âim waiting until i get my sp to do thisâ 5 seconds ago, it doesnt matter because your job is to be the one who has it NOW. if you think about that thought you had 5 seconds ago, you are thinking about it in the NOW. there is only the NOW/the PRESENT. focus on getting into the state of having it already in the present moment. dont focus on what you thought of / assumed in the âpastâ because it has no effect on you unless you assume it does.
YOU DESIRE YOUR IDEAL BODY (as an example)
you go to the store and assume âwhen i get my ideal body, i will fit in all these clothesâ
you stop and realize that by accepting / identifying with this assumption, you are voluntary being in the state of not having your ideal body yet and therefore, waiting for it.
since youre educated on the law now, you know that your job is to assume/know its done now! so you decide not to accept that previous assumption that implied youre waiting. you instead decide to shift into the mindset of person who already has their desired body.
what would they think? what would they do? how would they act? how would people treat them? how would they see the world? BE that person in IMAGINATION. visualize, affirm, do inner convos, use whatever technique you want to experience it in imagination. do it to satisfy yourself without worrying about the 3d. remove the 3d from the equation and focus on feeling good as you experience having your desire.
you imagine doing exactly what you wanted: buying pretty clothes from the store because you already have your desired body; feeling confident and free in your body and having fun trying out clothes and paying for them. once you are satisfied from imagining yourself confidently buying your perfect clothes to match your perfect body, you walk out of the store satisfied because you know you already have your desired body since you just experienced it and fulfilled yourself.
you didnt need to buy clothes in the 3d, you didnt need to physically walk in the store with confidence. you dont need to take any action in the 3d. you just need to know its done and fulfilled in imagination. once you are fulfilled, you will notice that nothing in the 3d matters because you really do feel that its done.
later on, you continue to embody the version of you who has that desired body. you imagine walking in school with those pretty clothes on your perfect body while your friends compliment you; this makes you feel confident in your body. you continue to be satisfied with this feeling, with this knowing.
make it yours instantly. assume it done NOW! manifestation is not a process, its a choice. you always choose to BE some version of you in the now. if you are waiting, its simply because you are being the version of you who is waiting. notice how you are always BEING a version of you? so assume it NOW, not in the future. there is no time like the PRESENT.
kisses, janiđĽ
This means a lot, thank you @riansdiary !
I made this specifically for one of my best friends who is @sirenofthepacific because she loves Wednesday and deserves to be told this by Wednesday Addams herself!
â the whole point of law of assumption is that you already have it â
imagine that you manifested that desire a week or a month ago. whenever you think about that desire, you would go straight into the happy or calm state / assumption that it's yours already...because it is yours already.
lets say i want $500k right now. i would be planning which stores i want to go to and which clothes i want to buy. i would feel happy asf and i would feel that feeling of already having $500k. i dont care how or when it will manifest bc i already know its mine now. i would feel fulfilled with this already manifested desire which is now my reality.
"why is it that your reality already if it isnt in the 3d?"
reality = imagination. therefore if i imagine something and accept it as true, it is my reality no matter what the copy machine 3d shows me. whatever happens in imagination is what is really happening. imagination is my identity. i identify as the girl who has $500k. the 3d's job is only to copy and paste who i am in imagination (the real reality) so, imagination is the source/the reality. why would i care about it being in the 3d if i know by law that it will reflect? i would rather feel fulfilled as the source than wait for a copy machine to show me, god, what i desire. i would rather give it to myself.
if i already manifested that $500k a week ago, i would automatically be excited asf thinking about all the shit i already bought w that $$$ and thinking about what im going to buy. i would prob imagine going to the store and feeling that feeling of financial freedom. i would feel the happiness of looking at something in the store and immediately putting it in my cart with no issues bc I ALREADY MANIFESTED MY $500k
"feeling?"
feeling = knowing you have your desire
i would use whatever technique i want (visualization, affirming, scripting, etc). lets say i choose visualization: i would visualize walking to the store and feeling/knowing that i have all this money to spend. feeling doesnt mean emotions even though its fine that i naturally feel happy bc i know i have all this money. its also okay if i dont have any emotions or if i feel calm bc since i already have it, its normal to me to have $500k. do not force emotions. feeling does not equal emotions. i would then accept that visualization as true. i would decide/accept i have that $500k bc i just experienced the proof in the real reality, imagination. i would remind myself that whatever i assume/accept as true in imagination is reality, no matter whatever circumstances i see in the 3d.
"you got robbed of a huge sum of money. was that bad or good? well, let me ask you this: did it change the fact that your nature is being wealthy? no, it didnt. your identity, your I AM, is set in stone. its only your thoughts and your interpretation of your emotions and of the circumstances around you that distracts you from your Truth. whether you have millions in your bank account or literally 0 in savings, you ARE rich. you ARE wealthy. numbers do not define you. life does not define you."
i accepted that i have $500k already = i identify as the girl who has $500k. this is why the 3d never matters bc no matter what happens, i will always be the one who has it in imagination. "deny the senses" mean i shouldnt care about what the 3d shows me since imagination is the only reality. if my bank account shows me $0.50 instead of $500k, will i be sad and thinking that it didnt work? ofc not, i wouldnt give a fuck bc i still identify as the girl who already has $500k.
this is why knowing and fulfillment are important. i know i have $500k, i am fulfilled with that fact. whats important is the knowing: i know i have this desire because i just imagined it and imagination is the only true reality so imagining = experiencing.
"how do i know if im fulfilled?"
youve accepted the fact that its already yours. you dont care about the 3d and you dont get discouraged by it bc its already yours in imagination. you are not "trying" to get something that you already have. you naturally think thoughts/have beliefs that match with your state of having it.
to be fulfilled i simply decide i have it or visualize again for fun. since i already identified as the one who has $500k, any thoughts, doubts, circumstances that pass will not get any attention from me. i simply dont identify with them. i go back into imagination and remind myself of my real identity.
if you already have it, how would you feel, what would you do, what would you think, what type of person would you identify as? visualize/affirm/script/etc. the point is that you already have it.
ASSUME IT AND ITS DONE. WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THAT FULFILLED DESIRE, KNOW IT ALREADY HAPPENED. YOU ARE IMAGINING/AFFIRMING TO REMIND YOU THAT IT BEEN HAPPENED! THATS YOUR CURRENT REALITY! NOT THE 3D.
its not "going to happen". the moment u imagined it/decided it/accepted it as true, it ALREADY HAPPENED. thats part of understanding that imagination is the only true reality. imagination is so limitless: you do anything, anywhere, instantly.
there should not be any "when is it going to happen?" since you just experienced it...thinking like that means you arent fulfilled. simply fulfill yourself again bc returning to the state aka making it natural for you is how it shows up in the 3d, its not about how long youve stayed in the state.
make imagination your dream world by giving yourself exactly what you want. know thats the truth, identify as the one in imagiantion who has it (the real reality/the real you) and ignore/dont accept anything that tells you otherwise. stay true to imagination.
@etherealkissed88
something i've realised about manifestation & stuff is alot of us tend to "wait" for our desires which can get so stressful & tiring (especially on a time crunch) so why not js persist in the assumption you already have it & live w/ your desires in ur imagination? "But, isn't that faking it till you mak-" hold it right there! If anything, the imagination is more 'real' than the 3D because your dominant thoughts are the ones which materialise reality, not the other way round. So start making manifestation fun, why wait for your dr when you can js visualise you have it, write affirmation vaunts, write diary entries, live on end, etc (however u wanna do it) because not only does it 'elminate' the whole waiting process of manifestation (because at the end of the day, manifestation = instant), it is also inevitable that your desires will materialise so its like a 2-in-one!!
what i want you to take from this post? stop waiting for your desires & start persisting/living in the assumption that you have your desires (because that is infact TRUE)
divider creds:
iâm literally here to share my success story w the law cause OH MY GOSH??
so a little backstory, even though circumstances DO NOT MATTER AT ALL !
iâve been using the LOA for a couple years, but manifesting my sp back gave me so many doubts but TODAY we just got back into contact đđâ¤ď¸
we broke up due to stress and arguing, and were in no contact for about a month and a half. he told all his friends he was done with me, and even told my friends he didnât even wanna get back with me because he noticed how âgood his life was without meâ. but i said, FUCK THAT. this is MY REALITY. and i persisted, and affirmed through TEARS.
after some time, he began showing signs of liking me and his friends even came to me, asking questions if i still like him and he even asked my hmb if i still like him. he would literally always be where i was, staring at me 24/7 + blushing, and telling people how he missed me. and all that showed me how powerful i was, but i didnât stop at allllll. and thatâs what happened, heâs back
affirmation i used ;
âsp is so in love with me and so obsessed with me. were in the happiest relationship and he literally reached out apologizing for everything!â
then out of NOWHERE his brother texted me saying âYo, (sp name) wants to talk to youâ and i asked why, and he was like âJust text him.â so i agree, and i texted sp saying âhey, you wanted to talk?â and he said âHi, Yeah.â and sent me the apology iâve been affirming.
WHEN I SAY PERSIST I MEAN IT! THE 3D DOESNT MATTER AT ALL, NOBODY HAS FREE WILL IN YOUR REALITY!! đ I had so many doubts and I persisted through EVERYTHINGGG. Now my sp and I are talking, and we had the best conversation ever . Iâm on ft with him watching him on the game as iâm typing this
remember your constant thoughts manifest. for WEEKS i kept assuming he was going to break up with me, and we started a break and i kept assuming he was going to break up with me before it ended. and guess what happened? it was over. but, i didnât let it stop me. i fixed my thoughts, revised them and now weâre talking again. donât give up, everything is a manifestation and YOU CAN DO IT NO MATTER WHAT. the 3d is just a reflection!!
Well said!
ę¨ STOP ALIGNING WITH NEGATIVE SHIT
I recently spoke about how a lot of you need to stop treating your new lives as desires. But we need to get into why you do that, itâs because you keep on aligning with negative shit expecting the world around you to change
like seriously?
STOP interacting with depressive shit. stop consuming negative media.
stop interacting with posts about how youâre ugly
about how youâre broke
about how you hate yourself and your life
about how you have no friends
about how youâre so alone
about how you hate yourself shitty family and you wish you had another
about how you hate your body
about how your failing your classes
about how you hate where you live and wish you could move
donât look at that shit and go ârealâ, because it isnât, get the fuck up out of the slums and be serious for a sec. that shit isnât ârelatableâ because youve scripted otherwise. youâre hot, rich, have amazing family and friends, school/work life is great and you love your life. get with the program, get with the new story.
you act so confused when you canât find it in yourself to shift or even manifest basic things when you go against the script more times than you can count. the 3d is nothing, you need to understand that, the second you align yourself with your new reality and let go of the old story, all those things stop being true.
if you are in the country that you desire whether itâs an existing country or a country you made from scratch: you donât actually hate where you live
if you have the face you scripted: you arenât actually ugly
if you have the body you scripted: you donât actually hate your body
if you have the family and friends you scripted about: you arenât actually lonely, you are so so so loved.
so let me ask you, do you actually have those things? or where you just making your script for no reason? what is the point of the script or the affirmations or anything if you donât even believe it?
I know it feels validating to join the club of misery. youâve dealt with so much and what better way to feel good than to find other people who have gone through the same things. I know it feels comforting to hear that you arenât alone in the things that you have been through. But you need to leave that in the past, let go of the person with the shitty life who relates to vent-posts about how they hate everything and everyone. Let that person who despises their life go. That isnât you anymore because you have scripted, decided, affirmed, visualised against that.
start correcting yourself, stopping yourself before you reblog/repost that depressing tiktok/tweet, before you save that shit into your ârelatableâ folder, before you like that post and think âthatâs so realâ. because guess what? congratulations, the second you thought about your desires it happened, whether that be a whole new life or maybe just a new face or even good grades, when you thought about it, thatâs what came to life. because youâre a god.
so no, you canât relate to any of this negative shit on social media. because you live a better life than that. YOU are better than that.
you arenât that person anymore so negative media shouldnât align with you.
LEAVE ALL THAT SHIT IN THE PAST, YOU ARE PERFECT AND YOURE LIVING THE GOOD LIFE BABYđ˝đ
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Hello dear! I'm using the translator, so forgive me if something goes wrong. I have known about Neville Goddard's law of assumption for many years, and have manifested simple things like a change of weather, a change of clothes, quality of life, etc. But what I really want is to review my life and wake up in a different reality like blushdior did and shared once. It turns out that what was supposed to be easy has become a nightmare, and now I'm thinking about giving up. Not because I don't believe in it, but because maybe a drastic change (like changing my name, my place of birth, my parents) It may not be possible as we think. People talk so much about reviving their lives, but how many of them have actually achieved it? My life is so frustrating that I thought about tearing it away, and I only didn't do it because I couldn't find the means for this. Anyway, I'm not here to play the victim, I want you to give me some advice! At this point I don't know if I should choose to live what I've always dreamed of or live what is possible, because I can't believe it anymore.
Hey, i hope you're good!
So your belief that waking up in a different reality, 180 degrees flipped may not be possible, and that's what is getting reflected in your reality.
There are so many people who had slept in trailers the previous nights and woke up in luxury mansions next morning, because they believed in it. If you feel like you're losing hope, it's okay, take a deep breath, I don't know if blushydior is the one who proposed this idea or someone else but they set a timer for few hours, to just cry and let it out, in my experience that helped, like for one hour, vent and cry, and then get back in persisting your desired reality.
I haven't entered the void so I cannot answer regarding that, but void or not, it all comes to you believing you have your desired reality already, it doesn't matter if you skip to finish the race, run, or walk, your goal is to finish the race right? So, it doesn't matter if you tap into the void, or visualize or affirm, it all comes to believing you have it already.
If you're looking for a method to tap into the void, I suggest you go for this:
https://www.tumblr.com/scentedpeachlandcreator/781835326832476160?source=share