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Techniques for Hotwives: by my wife

I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.

@sadcucky2

She Wakes Up With Him

Your wife settled for you. Clearly, the safe route through life. Someone to love her and care for her no matter what. Even if she fucks other men she knows you will always love her. She knows you will never cheat on her and will always be there even when she decides to come home from her boyfriend’s house. 

Everyone was surprised you landed such a great catch. A woman clearly out of your league. Even you know it. You know you are sexually inadequate. That you can never satisfy her sexual needs. That is why it arouses you she fucks other men. They make her happy in a way you can’t, she shows up better in life, and at home. You want her to have everything. 

You want this. To be in bed alone while the sun comes up knowing your wife didn’t come home. That she stayed the night at her boyfriend’s and is getting fucked right now. Satisfying and animalistic need you can’t. She loves him because of this. Loves him for his strength and dominance, for how he makes her feel in his arms, the way he makes her smile and laugh.

Right now she doesn’t want to come home to you. She isn’t even thinking of you. She is so happy with his cock buried deep inside her. When he tells her he loves her. She looks in his eyes and say’s “God, I love you so much! I crave you all the time.” 

She can take this risk, enjoy the love of a man like this because of the safety net. You. She knows she can come back whenever she wants and you will give her anything, you will love her unconditionally. She will talk to you like a girlfriend, share the details and even let you cum on yourself while she does. It’s a perfect marriage, she knows it. Knows she is lucky to have a cuckold in her life. At the same time she can’t help but imagine what it will be like if she just stays with this man that makes her body and mind feel so much pleasure. This other man she has fallen so deeply in love with.

(I had an orgasm while writing this.)