I just know that the dudes who make those "girls get 500 compliments a day vs. guy gets one compliment once and cherishes it for the rest of his life" memes put zero effort into their appearance. Like what exactly do you expect people to say? Wow nice plain ill-fitting hoodie, goes great with your basic-ass blue jeans and nondescript haircut. Got some real cool Grey Man vibes going on, you could seamlessly blend into any crowd ever without being seen at all.
Like nobody has any obligation to look any certain way, but you can't expect to be praised for doing something you're not even trying to do. I dress like I got tarred and feathered in a Tim Burton film costume department discard scrap pile, and someone saying they like my style is a biweekly occurrence.
Willoughby Tucker Forever ♡
sf vomit
reverse gatekeeping. I am on my knees begging people to engage with the source material
Do I have to do everything myself around here?
he’s got that previously neglected shelter dog rizz. he looks like he wants to quietly sit next to you on the couch while you watch TV
Autistic people sometimes struggle with apologizing, because they're never taught how to do it the right way.
When autistic people are taught how to apologize, they're often taught that the sincerity of the apology is determined by how well they can hide their disability.
Not enough eye contact = insincere apology
Struggling to phrase it = insincere apology
Wrong tone = insincere apology
Asking questions to figure out how to prevent doing it again = insincere apology (and "arguing" or "making excuses")
Meanwhile, neurotypical people can continue their patterns while still being considered sincere by these standards.
"You'd be a writer, if he didn't leave all his hell for you"
"Sayin' if you could, you'd leave it all..."
Dust Bowl - Ethel Cain (Demo)
I suppose Cain didn't realize 'all' included her too.
while you studied the blade i studied the forge so i could make you the very best blade in the world! love you baby
Vaticide .
Another quick EP of things I’ve made the past few months living in a new city. A few of these may sound familiar to some of you :))
It should now be out everywhere.
Apple / Spotify / Bandcamp / YouTube / go find it