Even People Who Care About You And Want You To Be Safe May Disbelieve You At First. This Is Not Because

Even people who care about you and want you to be safe may disbelieve you at first. This is not because you are to blame or because your story is not true.

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You get punished twice — once for what happened, and again for how you react.

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You don’t owe anyone a perfect story.

Maybe you forgot the exact date. Maybe your memory skips or rewinds. Maybe you didn’t document it. Maybe you didn’t tell anyone right away. Maybe you still don’t know what words to use.

That doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. That doesn’t mean you’re lying. That doesn’t mean your story doesn’t count.

What happened is real. Even if it’s messy. Especially if it’s messy.

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