You have to feel your best to perform your best. You can be the hardest fucking worker in the room but if you feel like shit inside, you’ll struggle to reach the levels you’re working hard for.
Get your heart right.
Get your environment right.
Get your mind right.
Then put in the work.
progress looks different on everyone
it’s the smallest habits. how you spend your mornings. how you talk to yourself. what you read. what you watch. who you share your energy with. who has access to you. that will change your life.
“I was your insomnia, I was your grief.”
— Anna Akhmatova, from The Complete Poems of Anna Akhmatova
"Do you still love him?" I know the answer.
"I did, once. I don't know, memory is a faulty thing and the past moves in circles. I don't think about some things for months, only to obsess over them for a week. Also, I don't think I know him now. I did once, and I loved him, loved who he was and who he could be. But I know he's a different person now, I am too."
-Ritika Jyala, excerpt from The Flesh I Burned
(read full excerpt here)
self care is also being honest with yourself about your negative habits and mistakes. it’s also taking ownership of your faults and growing from them. self care is diverting from a negative space to a positive one. creating light and balance. blooming. watering your own flowers. being gentle but honest with yourself.
so take care.
What do you think all writers have in common?
an overwhelming and insatiable longing for something more than this