Appreciate What U Have While U Have It

it’s okay to feel. it might be messy and confusing and rough and tiring but it’s so much worse to keep all that pain inside. you don’t need to tough it out all the time or internalise your struggles. let yourself work through your emotions. you deserve peace and you deserve support.

i feel like we, as a society, do not appreciate troy bolton’s solos when he was having an existential crisis enough and that has to change

whoever has my voodoo doll pls kiss it’s forehead i need it

the point of relationships of any kind is not for them to last forever. relationships aren’t a “failure” because they ended. it doesn’t mean the love was not enough!!! on the contrary!!!! it means the love was enough for you to know when to let go and set the other person free. it means you’re humble enough to understand when something isn’t working, when it is no longer healthy or functional. there is love in that. there is love in recognizing that the memories will remain and so will the lessons.

i think actually the key to successfully doing tumblr (and especially doing fandom on tumblr) is realising that your blog is your little house and you can post about whatever you like there. once you realise you are just living in and decorating your very own silly little online house you start focusing on what makes you happy rather than constantly performing for & compromising your tastes for & placing all your self worth on little scraps of clout, and you will be a lot happier for it

One day you’ll sit in the sun and things won’t feel so bad

yeah sex is cool but have u ever seen The Killers Live from Royal Albert Hall (2009)

if a cat trusts you so do i