tfw your mom tells about how her mom fucked her up and you’re like lol same
““I love you, but you just make me so sad.” She whispered quietly enough to not wake him. “And I so badly want to go back to the way things were, but every time I look at you now I feel little edges of my heart cracking apart.” She kisses his chest with the next words, “I love you, but I have to love myself now.””
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Abusive parents don’t ALWAYS seem abusive. Sometimes they can be sweet.
You need to remember that just because they were sweet once they aren’t good people.
They still hurt you. They still did awful things, said awful things.
Your abuse is no less valid because your abuser can seem nice from time to time.
Heartbreak is when you’re trying to move on but they keep popping up in your dreams and say the words you’d wish they’d say.
dreaming of you again (via sinfulxo)
Okay controversy will come from this, but don’t tell your kids that they are eating too much unless they have to restrict their intake for some medical reason.
A kid will go back to refil their dinner plate and I’ll hear parents say “don’t you think that’s enough dinner for tonight?” Or “you shouldn’t eat that much food.”
Telling your kid that they’ve had too much food, or they shouldn’t eat that much can contribute to an eating disorder later in life.
Kids don’t go to refill their plates for fun, they do it because they are still hungry. They’re growing people! They need lots of food!
“Real loss only occurs when you lose something that you love more than yourself.”
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“Fuck, I really thought you wanted me like I wanted you”
— do you even think about me
“I had a dream that we kissed last night. And suddenly, I prefer sleeping to reality.”
— Dreaming of You (h.c)
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