YES YES YES

YES YES YES

I'm a trans dude

For a lot of my childhood, I DESPISED makeup, dresses, and "girly" things. I think a big part of it was that I was a "big girl" (aka fat, but everyone seems to think that's some kind of slur against women and not just an adjective) and anytime I was outwardly feminine, the immediate reaction was to treat me like a "young lady", because everyone knows fat children are more mature! Why else would they be larger than their peers? Clearly, this physical change means they should no longer be treated as a child.

But fat rant aside;

I was constantly being told I was "becoming a woman," and I hated it. Pair that with an 8 year old's understanding of feminism (traditional femininity is only and always a tool of the patriarchy and women must be #girlbosses), and I ended up rejecting femininity completely for a solid 5 years or so

It wasn't until I started questioning my gender that I got back into makeup and "girly" clothes. I was finally doing it just for the sake of experimentation and fun, not because I had to be a woman.

Fast-forward 3 more years, and I'm an absolute effeminate fruitcake. I even do drag. Because no matter my expression, I know I'm not a woman, and I never will be.

I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before.  A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention.  After all, look how femme they are.

But to me, this makes perfect sense.  When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore.  It’s a job that you have.  As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore.  It’s not a requirement.  It’s just a fun hobby you can get into.  Or a little treat sometimes.

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10 months ago

I think im actually gonna start sobbing this is beautiful

My Best Friend/fiancé And I Have Been Together For Over 20 Years, We Both Love Studio Ghibli And I Wanted
My Best Friend/fiancé And I Have Been Together For Over 20 Years, We Both Love Studio Ghibli And I Wanted
My Best Friend/fiancé And I Have Been Together For Over 20 Years, We Both Love Studio Ghibli And I Wanted
My Best Friend/fiancé And I Have Been Together For Over 20 Years, We Both Love Studio Ghibli And I Wanted

my best friend/fiancé and i have been together for over 20 years, we both love Studio Ghibli and i wanted to make a few pieces to celebrate our upcoming queer platonic wedding 💕 (she’s pan/polyam and cis, i’m aro/ace and nonbinary)

if you’d like to donate and help two queer brown babes celebrate their special day, check out our gofundme  update: the gofundme was fully funded and we had an incredible wedding! thank you so much to everyone that made our special day possible!!!

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9 months ago
Someone Fetch Peepaw His Robe!!! Run Him A Bath!!!! Cook Him Dinner!!!
Someone Fetch Peepaw His Robe!!! Run Him A Bath!!!! Cook Him Dinner!!!

someone fetch peepaw his robe!!! run him a bath!!!! cook him dinner!!!

3 months ago

I want more female characters who are just so bad at comforting others. Not for lack of trying or caring, they just get so so awkward when someone's upset, and they try to repeat things they've heard even if it doesn't necessarily apply to the situation, or they accidentally say the wrong thing and make it worse. If someone cries they panic and throw every single comfort technique down at once and it only helps because it's such bizarre behaviour

1 year ago

prithee... I must say

medieval backstreet boys: you are… my friar

8 months ago

WOMEN ARE SO EPIC

An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.
An Assortment Of Figure Drawings From The Last Year Or So.

an assortment of figure drawings from the last year or so.

9 months ago

<3

hey dude im on Loves You island and all of your friends are here too. what time are u planning on getting here? we are gonna order pizza

8 months ago

The og malewife and girlboss

The Og Malewife And Girlboss
8 months ago

Yaay picrew!

I couldn't decide which hairstyle I liked better

Yaay Picrew!
Yaay Picrew!

@moreover-clover @aceing-on-the-cake

picrew chain!!!

Do your irl self and your favorite color in the background! Using this picrew

Picrew Chain!!!

And don't forget to tag some folks!

@the-worm-machine @tarnacop-machine @pagenysaxiphoner @sweet-mango-child @n3komachine @bobanchikn

8 months ago

me walking into the grocery store to buy everything bagels

Me Walking Into The Grocery Store To Buy Everything Bagels
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