straight people really hit the jackpot when they tricked y'all into believing they’re the most oppressed group ever when they came up with trans gay men and trans lesbians
I hate breeders!
I don't know why people get so defensive and morally superior when you point out the nature of human relationships is transactional. I'm not denying or diminishing your "love", I'm just pointing something out.
It’s sad that participating in a movement as simple as 4B, a movement that merely requires an inaction that will keep women safe, is considered difficult, unusual or extreme.
4B is the bare minimum and women doing anything less than 4B shouldn’t be considered feminists.
If you’re not doing 4B, you should be ashamed, not only are you hurting yourself by dating or marrying men, you’re hurting everyone else around you too.
If your boyfriend or husband becomes violent, it won’t only be you that has to deal with the violence, your family, potential children and potential pets may face it too.
Even in a best case scenario situation in which your boyfriend or husband never becomes violent and is kind to you, you’re being a horrible example to any girls looking up to you, you wouldn’t get blackout drunk in front of a child, would you? No, you wouldn’t. So don’t normalize dating oppressors or act as if heterosexual relationships are typically healthy either, most heterosexual relationships are toxic, and like I said previously, even if what we’re talking about here is a best case scenario and your man is decent, there is still an inherent power imbalance between men and women, meaning no heterosexual relationship can be considered healthy.
Now, repeat after me:
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which femicide is common worldwide, even in the most “progressive” countries. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which most murdered women and girls are murdered by a male family member, boyfriend, husband or son. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which men who murder women get a slap on the wrist and sometimes even walk free. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which people regularly and knowingly vote rapists and pedophiles into office. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which most rapists aren’t charged with rape. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world where women are forced to wear the hijab and refusal to comply means risking beatings and even death. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which millions of women and girls have had their genitals mutilated and were killed due to infection that came from the unclean equipment used to slice up their genitals. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which virginity testing is still a thing. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where abortion is banned, causing both maternal and infant mortality rates to climb exponentially. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world that wants to restrict or ban access to birth control. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world that wants to erase women and discourage us from talking about our oppression. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where baby girls are discarded in trash cans because they happened to be girls. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where over 99% of the people who sexually abuse children are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where over 97% of the people who sexually abuse animals are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where over 99% of poachers are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world where the majority of people who physically abuse or kill animals are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not unusual or extreme reaction to a world where terrorism, shootings, hate crimes, strangulations and arsons are typically committed by men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world currently going through a mass extinction event due to men polluting this planet and forcing women to reproduce, to the point this planet is becoming so overpopulated, we are running out of resources. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.
4B is an amazing, merciful movement, it’s the opposite of what men and anti-feminist women paint it out to be. 4B will undoubtedly save lives if enough women do it. Every baby not born is one less baby that will be an oppressor or victim. Every baby not born is one less baby that will contribute to climate change, meaning that neither babies or adults will have to suffer in the future due to a lack of resources.
Those most addicted to this physicality obsessed reality are panicking. They know that this world can only operate the way it does, a hedonistic free for all, when there’s a nonstop production of new bodies. Ask these people why they really love life, and the answer has nothing to do with family. It’s just a stand in to get their personal needs met, and release built up emotional tension. Otherwise, children would be revered. We all know that isn’t true, AT ALL.
Anti-child is what the vast majority of families are. They mistakenly believe hoarding bodies is what makes a family just as holding another person captive is “true love.” Once again, how are children typically treated by their parents, and communities? Why has every woman had uncomfortable encounters while underage, if there’s allegedly so many family oriented people around? I don’t know a single family who has actually excommunicated an abuser, and the community usually steps in to offer more support for the predator.
Freedom to do what you want, is code for no longer contributing to the world’s selfish schemes. It upsets the masses because humans are each other’s favorite resource, and more people are waking up to this fact. They need new vulnerable and moldable people to extract from. Look how agitated they’ve become because consumption at an excessive rate is no longer as accessible. They don’t really hate corporations, only the fact that they’re pricing their products too high. Just like their frustration that more people, especially women, are placing a higher value on themselves.
I adore children, and believe they can be raised in an actual loving environment. That will never be true for the family system, which is an extension of the heterosexual “relationship” dynamic, built upon submission and domination. Those most eager to have children can’t wait to begin projecting gendered expectations, and continuing cycles. Fresh out of the womb and they’re slapping gigantic bows onto their daughter’s heads, and claiming their sons are “ladies men.” Throw in the dysfunction at home due to mom and dad’s maladjusted marriage, and you end up with the average citizen. No self esteem to speak up, preoccupied with physicality, and eager to ravage others.
Been seeing some ignorant ass takes that assume that bp/sep women have done nothing for women.
I was a crisis line worker for a rape shelter. My job was to find and secure shelter spaces for homeless women, to coordinate appointments for women entering rehabilitation centers, to fundraise, to research legal records for violent male offenders, and to offer peer support and counselling over the phone for women - often for victims of male sexual abuse.
There was an incident where a lesbian woman contacted us seeking help, because she needed a place to stay temporarily, and the shelter was extremely hesitant to help her and gave her a difficult time because she wasn't directly a victim of male violence. Even though they had the means to help her.
~50% of the shelter's volunteers at that time were lesbians.
The woman who came to us was shocked and felt mishandled. I was disappointed as well and I had been advocating for her. She lost faith in the organization, which she had trusted because of its reputation. And I said, this is not sitting right with me. So I quit.
do not give me a love confession note man i will straight up roll that shit into a joint. i am not kidding. fuck your feelings for me i am smoking that shit