“You Will Be Too Much For Some People. Those Aren’t Your People.”

Never trust a girl when you should have trusted a woman

Oddly, whilenive heard of Sylvia Plath I don't believe I've consciously read her work, something to address ...

The last time I was submissive with someone was a long time ago, a rather lovely French lady who I think just got me with her accent, her turn of phrase and oh my God the best pair of New Rock boots. It wasn't a long dynamic due to circumstances but lovely.

never met a "switch" i couldn't turn into a full-time drooly leaky sub 🤭

This is so beautiful

Damaged

I'm busy ... finally getting my mojo and finishing off journals, diaries and other lifestyle aids for my chosen clan - Gothic and Alternative - if that wasn't clear. Links and examples coming soon, so forgive me in the meantime for posting less relevant stuff, just getting my creative juices flowing and feeling a bit more confident as i step out ...

Oh these are just lush. Nudges partner and looks meaningfully at how many shopping days they have before Christmas

“Omg, I love these! They go up to size 6X AND they have pockets?! Wow!! But do you have anything longer?”

Sure do, no problem!!

“YES these are great!!! But what about.. longer?”

I gotcha!! Comin’ right up!

“Now that’s what I’m talkin’ about!! Well, these prints are really cool and all, but I gotta ask- do you have anything in a different material?”

Never fear, cotton is here!!!

"Finally! A cotton skirt with the same huge pockets! Dare to dream~" /scene 🖤witchvamp.com🖤

Now this is the blooming flower of femininity I treasure, no drama, it cups under my hand and knows it's place. It's sweetness? I'll wait till I crush it for nutrients lol

There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.

It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.

Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.

Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre

Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough

don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.

To the past me, with lots of hugs and self love that I should have had at the time

One of those days where standing up for yourself, having difficult conversations and being authentic is hard, but absolutely the right thing to do. Go me.