I feel like a significant amount of people on the dark romance side of Booktok are just weird.
Like you can’t even criticise a dark romance book without people saying “just don’t read dark romance books then” or “maybe dark romance isn’t for you”.
You can enjoy dark romance books but not enjoy every single one. I mean imagine if people from other sub-genres started saying stuff like this too.
“You didn’t like this romantasy book? Then don’t read romantasy”
It sounds silly, doesn’t it?
It feels like dark romance readers (and obviously I don’t mean all of them) are just incapable of thinking critically for more than two seconds. If someone is picking up a dark romance book to read then that means that they either enjoy dark romance or want to get into it.
Also, a thing that I’ve noticed that pisses me off so, so much is people making excuses for these men and being like “this FMC is such a bitch for not wanting to have sex with this guy after he’s been physically and mentally abusive towards her”.
And I hate the excuse of „well it’s dark romance”.
The MMC does not have to be abusive, he doesn’t have to rape the FMC, he doesn’t have to be misogynistic, for a book to be considered dark romance.
Dark romances are just romances that deal with dark topics, whilst also having romance in them.
I have a feeling you got everything you wanted
Feyre becoming High Lady of the NC
And you’re not wasting time stuck here like me
Tamlin being alone in the destroyed Spring Court
You’re just thinking it’s a small thing that happened
Her turning everyone against him by manipulation, destroying his court and thousands of his people dying and she refuses to take any accountability
The world ended when it happened to me
Aegon: *winks* Someone’s happy to see me
Aemond: It’s a gun
The way that Rhaenys randomly killing hundreds if not thousands of small folk (and God knows how many more she injured) was mentioned like once
Me on my way to touch some grass after being insane all day
Hotd AU where Luke gives Aemond his eye
*Comes back from Storms End*
Aemond: Mummy, I have a gift for you!
Alicent: Really? *smiles* I’m assuming that means that everything went well then
Aemond: Oh, it went better than expected *gives her a little box*
Alicent: I’m so proud of y- GREAT HEAVENS
Aemond: Mummy do you like it? 🥺
NO BECAUSE THIS IS HIS SON THAT HE COULDN’T PROTECT. HE WAS THERE FOR AEGON BUT COULDN’T PROTECT HIM BECAUSE WHAT PERSON CAN STOP THE DRAGONS FROM DANCING WHEN THE SOUND OF WAR DRUMS FILL THEIR EARS.